Day Five
After Patricia left and I climbed into bed all I could think of is how satisfied I was in the first four days and the next two days will be anticlimactic. My wife and I discussed how I needed to spend time with my 12 year old stepson since I am the only father he knows.
My wife left about 11:00 am to head home and pay for her electric, gas and other services. She would then come back at 7:00 with my stepson after he got home from school. So I had about 8 hours to enjoy the fruits of Colombia.
I decided to take a walk along the beach and the usual culprits were there trying to extract money from me. I was surprised that Tony was not there this day, which was OK by me. I walked on past Hollywood Beach for about two miles and headed back. On the way back, Momma Rosa spotted me and prepared a fruit plate. I gave her 10K just because she always is fun to talk to and she needs the money. After I finished, I headed back down the beach towards the apartment where I needed a dip in the pool. Before I left the beach, a younger massage girl carrying her supplies in her small bucket asked if I wanted a massage. After my walk, my legs were hurting, so I thought why not. The massage girls are from the poorer area of Cartagena and will provide a good hard massage. She was a very dark skinned girl of about 20 years old and was rather tall about 5'8" and thin. Back in the apartment, she had me take a shower while she prepared the bed with towels. I came out and laid on my stomach. She started with my head, working from the top, then down the side to my ears and then to the neck. I do not remember her massaging my back because I was looking forward to her getting to my aching legs and feet. She did not disappoint. Those strong hands worked my legs and feet for almost 10 minutes and as she moved up my leg, she would lightly touch my balls and my ass crack. She turned me over and started with my feet and worked her way up my legs. Once again, she would brush my balls and cock as she moved to my torso. Once she got to my face, she would lean forward to let her tits brush my stomach. She rubbed my temples and face and I was just totally relaxed. As I lay there with my eyes half closed with relaxation, she took off her clothes. That thin body actually looked great with natural pointy tits and a full bush of curly pubic hair. She took out some oil and poured it on my chest. She then climbed on top of me and started to move up and down my body gliding from one end to another and all the while my cock was getting stroked by her body. I would have been satisfied with this alone, but then she provided me a great BBJ. I blew into her mouth and she let it drip back down all over me. She then used both hands to stroke me until I was done releasing my milk. She got dressed and ran to get a cloth to wash me. She then grabbed my clothes and proceeded to dress me. All of this and she asked me for 50K. I had never had a massage from one of the girls from the beach and this was a great experience after my long walk.
I took a quick taxi to the McDonalds to get a Quarterpounder, fries and a diet coke. This is the first time I have eaten at McDonalds for about a year and it tasted great. After I ate, I decided to walk back to the apartment. By the time I got there, it was about 4:30 and it was fishin' time. I sat outside of Playa Mar to talk with an ex-pat who lived there and we solved the world's problems in that half hour time. So many girls were walking past, but I kept my eye open for Claudia since this would be my last chance. About five minutes later, off in the distance, I thought I spotted her. Slowly up the street comes my favorite and she looked up and saw me. About 50 yards away she gave me a wave, but stayed on the opposite side of the street. When she was close enough I gave a casual wave for her to come over to where I was sitting. I needed to be discreet so my wife's friends would not notice. The gentleman I was with talked to her for a few minutes while I casually walked to my apartment. She soon followed and I got a call from the reception desk if Claudia could come up. I kinda said " Uh yeah" and in two minutes we were greeting each other like I just came home from the war.
Our time together this time was just as memorable as the other times, but I knew this would be the last time with her. She was unaware that I would be "papi" for the next day and a half while I entertained my stepson. As she kissed me goodbye and headed out the door, my heart sank knowing I would not be able to kiss those full lips or grab that great ass one more time. Also, in my mind, I am still not certain if my wife will get her visa.
I love my wife for her beauty, vitality, sense of humor, and charm, but there will always be those cultural differences which conflict with everything I know. That is I work hard and be frugal if I am short of cash. For her, if she has 50K in her pocket at the end of the night, it was not a good night. She showed up at 7:30 and we headed to the cinema to watch some 3-D movie in Spanish. I forget the name of it, but it is playing at the local theater here in my hometown. I used this time to grab a nice nap and the only time I awoke was when I felt a hand on my left leg. I then realized my wife was on my right. Next to me was a cute woman about 25 on a date with some loser looking guy. She was attractive and I am not sure if he put her up to it when they saw me napping. It did keep me awake and I gave a quick smile to my molester. When the movie was over I got a better look of her before we all left. As I got up my neighbor decided to get one last feel and she grabbed my cock while her boyfriend was not looking. As she left she was smiling and laughing as they walked down the stairs. Her boyfriend looked a little annoyed, so perhaps she turned the tables on him and I was an innocent victim.
The rest of the night was a few whiskies with my wife while my stepson watched TV.
Day Six
Today will be one with no sex except with my wife in the morning while my stepson slept. After breakfast we headed on the bus to the Comcel office to buy a Wifi device for my stepson. By 10:00 my wife decided to go get her hair done and run some errands. She told me she would be back by 3:30. My stepson looked at me as she was leaving and let out a cheer "let's go find some Chicas". He takes after me after all. The rest of the day was spent at the pool. An evening Mexican meal of fajitas and burritos finished off a fine family day, but the food would be my wake-up call in the middle of the night.
My wife and I went to the casino and we played until the last 20K left my pocket. Our friend Patricia stopped by and greeted us with a kiss and a hug. After a few minutes of talk, she headed back over to LDV. My wife can spend hours at he casino talking to her friends and LaPerla is casual in that they do not rush you into losing your money. They take your money slowly.
For those looking to get involved with a Colombian woman, understand they love their country. Many may be poor, but they are happy and they will make you feel like you are the only person in the world. They will make their family the highest priority and expect you to pay for dinner for her family and the occasional hospital bill. I have even paid for my sister-in-law's funeral this past March. I visited her hometown of Monteria a few years ago and she invited the entire neighborhood for food, rum, beer, and music. It lasted until 7:00 in the morning when a bus appeared and everyone piled into the bus and headed to a beach midway back to Cartagena. If you ever experience this, do not be surprised when the bus pulls up to an ATM and everyone on the bus looks at you. This happened to me and it made me feel pretty bad and I was angry with my wife, but she looked at me and explained that the $250. 00 we spent the night before and that day at the beach for 25 people would be forgotten in about a week, but this day will be remembered by 25 people for the rest of their lives.
This is the logic of my wife and why I still love her and will continue to work with her to bring her back home. I let off much pent up sexual energy and was not sure where my marriage was heading. Language issues made it difficult to fully trust each other, but once you sit down and realize you both want the same thing, everything becomes clear in your head.
Those that have never left the secure life they hide behind in their office, big rig, or any other 8 – 5 job, my life may not make much sense. I have enjoyed the company of many young ladies this past week and I have made a few of them friends of mine. I let one young lady Alex steal my heart, but realize she will be successful in life in whatever she decides to do and I will be long forgotten. I got reacquainted with an old friend in Sandra and she provided me with an ear for me to tell her my perceived marital problems. I met a sweet young girl in Carolina with her braces filled smile that made me feel young again. I had my head and heart turned inside out by an energetic and stimulating woman in Claudia.
To some, my posts may seem long and self serving, but if you get out and smile, talk and understand these outstanding young ladies of Colombia, you will feel the need to write your thoughts and feelings in long prose like I have done. If you come here to just drink, screw as many girls as you can and do not remember anything about them, then your memories will run into one forgotten pool.
The real shame is many of these girls will return to their homes and you will never see them again. Some of these ladies will be broken and some will have memories of the gringo that made her feel like a queen for one night. For me, I try to make each one to feel important and not broken. What happens next for me and my wife is not certain, but it is clearer where we are headed.
I wish you all the best and hope you enjoy Cartagena as much as I have over the past seven years and as much as I will continue to enjoy in the future.
Welcome to my world and realize, I figured out this week my wife and stepson are important to me and I do not want it any differently.
Back Home
My wife has gotten her new appointment date at the embassy in October and if everything goes well, they will come home in November when my stepson is finished with his school year.
I got an email from Claudia today and she wanted to thank me the time we spent together. She told me she was sorry that she did not get to say goodbye to me and understands I want to have my wife in my life. She asked me to keep a small piece of my heart available for her so she can be my friend. You can't beat that.
