Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=Blakman;2501605]I am not sure if I did it to myself. Can you believe she is trying to text me saying she really wanted to have a good time with me. She might be trying to get me to threaten her. Extort more money from me..[/QUOTE]You were in a no win situation, and I have been in a few similar situations and am not going to bust your chops. My only advice would of been to de-fuse the situation before the cops were called, but without Spanish speaking skills, I can see how it would of been difficult. Also, I remember an instance when a Chica said she was going to call the Police, and I turned the tables on her by telling her that I would be calling the Police, and informing them that she had tried to rob me, unless she immediately left. Sorry about what happened, it's a total learning curve with these Chicas and you can learn to spot the red flags, and nobody is immune from problems here, and you should not be embarrassed about what happened to you, something similar to that could happen to me at any time, and it's good you posted what happened so others can learn from it.

Where were you staying? You didnt provide her Full name and contact details?Tinder seems like a gamble to me when compared to Facebook where a lot of these girls guys can verify for you including here in this forum.

[QUOTE=Blakman;2501605]I am not sure if I did it to myself. Can you believe she is trying to text me saying she really wanted to have a good time with me. She might be trying to get me to threaten her. Extort more money from me.

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[QUOTE=SeekingHead;2501575]For the overseas women I met up with, both were early 30's from eastern europe,
Because of SA, I doubt I will ever get married again due to the easy supply of women in their 20's. It's way cheaper than being married & much less drama. The only cavet would be if I found a smoking hot early 30's girl who is a solid 9 or above & is content with being a good submissive housewife, dedicating herself to yoga & taking care of the household.[/QUOTE]You might as well get this one out of your mind.

Its ridiculous.

The moment she has her citizenship you will lose your power and will be scrambling.

If she's a 8 or less its possible.

A 9 or higher hotness, early 30's, is the most desirable woman in 1st world countries with men over 30's with money that will worship her, she will get hit on constantly.

She will quickly figure that out, her options and they will be through the roof.

Unless.

1. you are rich and can keep her in a high lifestyle so you stick out from the average guy in USA, Canada or Europe.

You will need to give her an allowance to keep her happy (shopping, traveling, and doing nothing makes hot chicks wet).

(Sorry yoga and cooking for you won't keep a 9 plus knockout happy for the long-term).

2. you keep her in her home country so you keep the power.

If you only have average income LMAO this will end with your tears.

Stick with reality.

[QUOTE=MarquisdeSade1;2501552]You sound really confused, go to BKK and show me a bldg that won't let you bring in guests 24/7 unlike all the girl unfriendly ones I hear about in MDE.

Your last few posts about Asia and mongering economics show you know don't know much about either.[/QUOTE]You're right, one of us is confused jajajaja. And the points are not about mongering economics, but economics in a free market.

One advantage of being a Centro rat is you know where you stand. If anybody wants money for no sex they put a knife or screwdriver to your neck, none of this tricky stuff. You take a girl to a hotel and you play then pay, simple. See you at Ground Zero.

[QUOTE=Blakman;2501599]I think the long term with 8 was good, wasnt a bust. We saw each other this trip and still keep in contact. This was a bust for sure. Do you know the ***** text me and said I really was hoping to have a good time with you. Gimmie my money back then talk to me LOL.[/QUOTE]

It's all good Blakman. Lesson learned, keep it simple and keep it moving. When a girl pushes back and plays games, whether or not she is an 8 or whatever other number, cut your losses and kick her to the curb. As soon as the police are involved, we lose. The girls know this. I always clarify the deal and any girl who doesn't accept it gets a friendly smile and a goodbye from me. I think you made the best of an unnecessarily bad situation by paying them to leave. Next time you won't probably have drugs around girls you don't know well.

[QUOTE=Blakman;2501591]I dearly paid for this decision. Everybody will love and be warned about this story. Slapshot is going to have a big laugh and Spider rider is going to say told you so. After I let her in she says she's going to sleep and head to work. I said no sex no pay. She said okay. 2 pm comes she ask for money I say no. She ask to go outside smoke weed. Then she talks to security about police. I tell security I will settle this. I get change to give her money to go. Policia arrives. They allow her to hide the previous money I gave. They find tussi and weed in her purse. I am like she is the bad person, I am the victim. She says that I forced her to buy drugs. But it seems like they are coaching her what to say. They ask to come to a solution. I decide to give her the balance. She says no. They want to get in my apartment. I see where its heading but I am hoping honesty prevail. In the apartment the have 4 blunts and tussi spread out on my kitchen table. I tell them not mines not mines. They press on getting to a solution. She request the full money though I paid half already and she did nothing for 2nd half. Or else go down to station. Officer says pay the money and we will deal with her. I reluctantly pay the money. They then try to let her leave while drugs on my table. I say no no no no. Take the drugs they not mines. She then trys to translate to me to pay the officers. I stay far from her. I open up the door and direct them to leave cause problem has been resolved with my payment. They pick up the weed and tussi and ask if I want to do anything to keep the drugs. I say I don't do drugs. Lets leave. When they walk down the stairs. They tell me Colombia has very bad girls be very careful. They left out bad cops as well. So that's the whole story and nothing but the truth LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blakman;2501591]I dearly paid for this decision. Everybody will love and be warned about this story. Slapshot is going to have a big laugh and Spider rider is going to say told you so. After I let her in she says she's going to sleep and head to work. I said no sex no pay. She said okay. 2 pm comes she ask for money I say no. She ask to go outside smoke weed. Then she talks to security about police. I tell security I will settle this. I get change to give her money to go. Policia arrives. They allow her to hide the previous money I gave. They find tussi and weed in her purse. I am like she is the bad person, I am the victim. She says that I forced her to buy drugs. But it seems like they are coaching her what to say. They ask to come to a solution. I decide to give her the balance. She says no. They want to get in my apartment. I see where its heading but I am hoping honesty prevail. In the apartment the have 4 blunts and tussi spread out on my kitchen table. I tell them not mines not mines. They press on getting to a solution. She request the full money though I paid half already and she did nothing for 2nd half. Or else go down to station. Officer says pay the money and we will deal with her. I reluctantly pay the money. They then try to let her leave while drugs on my table. I say no no no no. Take the drugs they not mines. She then trys to translate to me to pay the officers. I stay far from her. I open up the door and direct them to leave cause problem has been resolved with my payment. They pick up the weed and tussi and ask if I want to do anything to keep the drugs. I say I don't do drugs. Lets leave. When they walk down the stairs. They tell me Colombia has very bad girls be very careful. They left out bad cops as well. So that's the whole story and nothing but the truth LOL.[/QUOTE]Stupid girl. If she was acting as a lady she would have won a lot more in the future than she won by calling the cops. Are Colombians so stupid?

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2501623]It's all good Blakman. Lesson learned, keep it simple and keep it moving. When a girl pushes back and plays games, whether or not she is an 8 or whatever other number, cut your losses and kick her to the curb. As soon as the police are involved, we lose. The girls know this. I always clarify the deal and any girl who doesn't accept it gets a friendly smile and a goodbye from me. I think you made the best of an unnecessarily bad situation by paying them to leave. Next time you won't probably have drugs around girls you don't know well.[/QUOTE]This is so true. Once a girl starts playing games, immediately cut things off. Some guys (usually beginners in this hobby) think if they're just nice and go with the flow, the chica will change course and give them a great experience. Of course, they think this even more if the chica is really georgous.

I'm always "nice" to chicas, but once I see warning signs that they're scheming something, I block them, meaning no more contact whatsoever (no matter how attractive they might be). There are plenty of other hot-looking women right around the corner.

I really recommend guys "test fuck" girls for short-time in a love motel before inviting them over to your apartment. It's no guarantee, but you can get a sense of how they act. Also, it's good to have some contact info for the girl (such as her Facebook page or the casa she works at). If she knows you have no way to track or report her, she's more likely to try to pull something. No guarantee, but improves your odds.

[QUOTE=Bookie77;2501625]Stupid girl. If she was acting as a lady she would have won a lot more in the future than she won by calling the cops. Are Colombians so stupid?[/QUOTE]1. Paisa hood-rats are incapable of "acting as a lady" or extrapolate how actions in the present could benefit them in the future Do not have these in your bag of expectations. You will be wrong just about every time. I have talked to some of them about it. They know the difference between a "lady" and a a "puta". They choose the later for whatever reasons motivate them.

2. NOT all Colombian women (and Venezolanas in Colombia) women are Paisa hood-rats. If you can recognize the different sub-cultures and up-bringing you'll be far better off in pay-for-play, and especially extended time arrangements and dating. Medellin is the best city in Colombia, but has the most dangerous, flaky, and "sharky" women. Keep this in mind. Learn the neighborhoods. For examples if a girl tells you they are from Manrique, Doce de October, among others. , you're likely dealing with a hood-rat without hope for the future, fully engaged in leveraging the present. Doesn't mean a deal-breaker, but you're more aware of who you're dealing with. There are other cities to visit and play in. But, they're all a substantial step or 2 down from Medellin in most aspects. Baranquilla women are generally wonderful, But its very hot and otherwise boring there.

I currently have a live-in Venezolana, 4 years in Medellin. Could not be sweeter, gracious, and free of drama. Her 1/2 sister, a stunner from Caratagena has similar personality and behavior. I love them both.
Problem is, there's another Venezolana back in town after the quarantine, terrifically cute, sexy , and sweet as a puppy. We haven't lined up a visit outside the apartment yet. She keeps offering to come over.

[QUOTE=Combo;2501636]This is so true. Once a girl starts playing games, immediately cut things off. Some guys (usually beginners in this hobby) think if they're just nice and go with the flow, the chica will change course and give them a great experience. Of course, they think this even more if the chica is really georgous.

I'm always "nice" to chicas, but once I see warning signs that they're scheming something, I block them, meaning no more contact whatsoever (no matter how attractive they might be). There are plenty of other hot-looking women right around the corner.

I really recommend guys "test fuck" girls for short-time in a love motel before inviting them over to your apartment. It's no guarantee, but you can get a sense of how they act. Also, it's good to have some contact info for the girl (such as her Facebook page or the casa she works at). If she knows you have no way to track or report her, she's more likely to try to pull something. No guarantee, but improves your odds.[/QUOTE]Be yourself, if you're "nice" be nice. But it gets you no dividends, don't fool yourself.

I concur about the hotels, but even a 1-hour timed visit in your properly secured apartment will suffice.
Also, you if they'll "go out " with you, and they seem uncomfortable and not doing their fair share of trying to smile and have a little fun together, thats a sign of potential trouble

[QUOTE=Blakman;2501527]Let me try renege and get her stuff out the apartment and out of the building. I accomplish both but when she notice I was trying to put the bag in the taxi. She wasnt having it. I made couple offers for her to go but. Didn't happen. I knew I was wrong [b]so I allowed her back in the apartment[/b]. [/QUOTE]It was at this moment that you knew you had fucked up. The whole issue is getting a chick out of the house. Once you do that you do not let them back in. Most of the time I do not even pay a chick until we are outside.

Integrity got the best of me.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2501644]It was at this moment that you knew you had fucked up. The whole issue is getting a chick out of the house. Once you do that you do not let them back in. Most of the time I do not even pay a chick until we are outside.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=SpiderRider;2501638]1. Paisa hood-rats are incapable of "acting as a lady" or extrapolate how actions in the present could benefit them in the future Do not have these in your bag of expectations. You will be wrong just about every time. I have talked to some of them about it. They know the difference between a "lady" and a a "puta". They choose the later for whatever reasons motivate them.[/QUOTE]It is this kind of shit that goes down more often than not in the Dominican Republic. It seems those hoes do all in their power to NOT have you as a repeat customer.

[QUOTE=Bookie77;2501625]Stupid girl. If she was acting as a lady she would have won a lot more in the future than she won by calling the cops. Are Colombians so stupid?[/QUOTE]I'm not sure "acting like a lady" is foremost on the mind of most prostitutes.

There are 40 million people in Colombia, perhaps it's best if you meet a few before passing judgement on all of them.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2501644]It was at this moment that you knew you had fucked up. The whole issue is getting a chick out of the house. Once you do that you do not let them back in. Most of the time I do not even pay a chick until we are outside.[/QUOTE]I do not disagree with you that he fucked up at the point he let her back in his apartment, but I am fairly sure he fucked up before that, I am fairly sure that some BMs had already told him that he should not be trying to make a long term deal with a chica when he had not already spent sufficient time getting to know her. The same advice that comes up every time someone brings up either a long term deal or taking a prepago on a trip etc. Board members who have had the experience say time and time again to gradually spend more time. First a session, then a couple of TLNs, then maybe a weekend, etc.