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[QUOTE=Nordico;2169179]"Who cares. " I don't care, but it still looks ridiculous to me (could be a cultural thing). Doesn't even need to be a man twice her age. Walking hand in hand is for young people who are desperately in love. I hope you guys don't fall in love with the girls in Pattaya or you end up buying a herd of water buffaloes.

"I think you are a younger man. " Well, I feel young, but I was born in the 60's.

Why am I "looking at old man and not looking at young women?" There must be something wrong with my eyes, because I see them both and many other things at the same time.

"Because they do look the same to me and I don't want take the wrong one home. " This is a good excuse to walk hand in hand with your rental girlfriend.[/QUOTE]I don't get the "desperately in love" thing. I think it merely establishes for any potentially interested third parties that we are a romantically involved couple, on a date and not just friends, neighbors or co-workers out for a stroll. Otherwise one or both of you might get hit on with one in-your-face unsolicited hello from an interested third party every 10 minutes.

Which is why doing it is more often the girl's idea than the man's in my opinion. See the wallet comment below. Lol

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2169186]I don't get the "desperately in love" thing. I think it merely establishes for any potentially interested third parties that we are a romantically involved couple, on a date and not just friends, neighbors or co-workers out for a stroll. Otherwise one or both of you might get hit on with one in-your-face unsolicited hello from an interested third party every 10 minutes.

Which is why doing it is more often the girl's idea than the man's in my opinion. See the wallet comment below. Lol[/QUOTE]Ha ha. Not quite establishing a romantic involvement. LOL Maybe a sexual one. However I basically agree.

25 years ago, many Thai girls would not like to hold a Farang's hand. They were shy and it looked too obvious they were hookers. Thai girls walked hand in hand with each other and even Thai guys could walk hand in hand no big deal. Thai guys can share a double bed no big deal even they are not gay and nothing sexual will happen. LOL Two Farang guys, no way! It is just a cultural thing. I have slept in a double bed with a Thai girl (not girlfriend) like brother and sister with no sexual involvement also. Usually this means you know each other very well though.

So, I hit it off online (dating app) w a Thai girl to the point she sent me pretty sexy pics and we even got each other off once via video chat. I was eager to meet her a few months later, when I arrived. Hired a car and driver and picked her up at a public place, we had coffee, then went for lunch and then a long walk and talk by the seaside.

The strange thing was that when we were in the car she held my hand, even played with the hair on my calves in a cute, affectionate way (curious about these hairy farang). I was being very cautious, no intention to fuck her on the first date but sure, assumed it would happen.

When we dropped her close to her house (she didn't yet want me to see her house), I tried to hug her and she recoiled. Texted me later that it was very inappropriate to do that in public! I was dumbstruck: my driver had surely seen her caressing my legs and us holding hands in the car, but not even a hug in public?

This was only two years ago, and she was 29 w an eight year old kid. Long story short she ended up meeting some toothless butterfly Swede in Pattaya and I found out and told her to fuck off. Probably didn't help that I was married and she knoew I wouldn't change that situation for her!

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2169178]When I walk around town I leave it to the girl to take my hand, indicate she wants to walk holding hands or not, up to her. 90%+ of the time they transfer whatever they were carrying in the hand on my side to the other hand in order to free it up and reach over to take my hand in theirs. I can't see myself jerking my hand away, recoiling in horror or waving off the attempt because of how it might look to anyone else.

Of course, I will go ahead and initiate it after I have been with a girl 2-3 times and she has made it clear doing it is very much her preference.

So you'd have to ask the girls why they want to be seen walking hand in hand with a man at least twice their age but far more often closer to three times their age.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Chacal60;2169605]So, I hit it off online (dating app) w a Thai girl to the point she sent me pretty sexy pics and we even got each other off once via video chat. I was eager to meet her a few months later, when I arrived. Hired a car and driver and picked her up at a public place, we had coffee, then went for lunch and then a long walk and talk by the seaside.

The strange thing was that when we were in the car she held my hand, even played with the hair on my calves in a cute, affectionate way (curious about these hairy farang). I was being very cautious, no intention to fuck her on the first date but sure, assumed it would happen.

When we dropped her close to her house (she didn't yet want me to see her house), I tried to hug her and she recoiled. Texted me later that it was very inappropriate to do that in public! I was dumbstruck: my driver had surely seen her caressing my legs and us holding hands in the car, but not even a hug in public?

This was only two years ago, and she was 29 w an eight year old kid. Long story short she ended up meeting some toothless butterfly Swede in Pattaya and I found out and told her to fuck off. Probably didn't help that I was married and she knoew I wouldn't change that situation for her![/QUOTE]You know, it's a funny thing about women in general and especially Thai women I believe in that they are actually telegraphing the very weakness they know they are most prone to fall victim to by what they warn men against doing. Can't tell you how often the Thai dating site girl who goes on and on in her profile that she is not here for fun, not here to be our "holiday girlfriend", wants to save herself for that one special serious longterm relationship and so on is quite often the absolute easiest one to get into my room and naked on my bed on the very first meeting, even a midday coffee meeting!

It seems they know very well how easy they are to bed down and therefore try their best to convince you not to go there with them precisely because they know how easily they would fall if you tried. Like it has happened to them time and time again, they know how they are and the only way they might be able to keep up that prim and proper front is if the guy they just met doesn't even try because she has so sternly warned him not to. LOL.

So here is this 29 year old single mom since she was 21 lecturing you on how prim and proper she is about hugging in public yet she meets some toothless monger in Pattaya of all places and flies right into that flame without hesitation. LOL.

[QUOTE=Chacal60;2169605]So, I hit it off online (dating app) w a Thai girl to the point she sent me pretty sexy pics and we even got each other off once via video chat. I was eager to meet her a few months later, when I arrived. Hired a car and driver and picked her up at a public place, we had coffee, then went for lunch and then a long walk and talk by the seaside.

The strange thing was that when we were in the car she held my hand, even played with the hair on my calves in a cute, affectionate way (curious about these hairy farang). I was being very cautious, no intention to fuck her on the first date but sure, assumed it would happen.

When we dropped her close to her house (she didn't yet want me to see her house), I tried to hug her and she recoiled. Texted me later that it was very inappropriate to do that in public! I was dumbstruck: my driver had surely seen her caressing my legs and us holding hands in the car, but not even a hug in public?

This was only two years ago, and she was 29 w an eight year old kid. Long story short she ended up meeting some toothless butterfly Swede in Pattaya and I found out and told her to fuck off. Probably didn't help that I was married and she knoew I wouldn't change that situation for her![/QUOTE]It is totally normal for a Thai girl not to want to hug in public. Your driver seeing you is nothing but she did not want the neighbours to all start gossiping that she is a hooker.

Thai girl with Farang can be assumed to be a hooker. 80%+ of time that will be correct. Not always.

I similarly are reticent to be seen misbehaving with Thai girls where I live. Other Thais do not know how to mind their own business.

Pattaya is a special place where wayward behaviour becomes the norm. She does not care what she is seen doing in Pattaya perhaps. Many Thais like Pattaya because they feel free not to be proper and let their hair down.

Thanks for sharing this. Was thinking a lot about this. Would be really nice, for many reasons, to have a work that required business trips to a nice, friendly and warm place. What kind of automotive jobs is good for traveling here? What kind of companies or positions to work in? (you can just hint what company, there aren't to many manufacturers or suppliers I guess).

[QUOTE=RobJones;2108655]I'm assuming the supervisor at home is the wife? My work is in the automotive industry and fortunately for me there are a lot of factories around Pattaya and Bangkok so I have a good reason to go even though my position doesn't need me top go LOL. Unfortunately my wife would not allow me to go if it involved a friend in any circumstances because she knows there will be trouble afoot.

Good luck.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Andersson25;2181270]Thanks for sharing this. Was thinking a lot about this. Would be really nice, for many reasons, to have a work that required business trips to a nice, friendly and warm place. What kind of automotive jobs is good for traveling here? What kind of companies or positions to work in? (you can just hint what company, there aren't to many manufacturers or suppliers I guess).[/QUOTE]Hi.

Sorry for the late answer as I don't usually come to this chat. My position is in new car sales and manufactors will have trips to variius locations O / S. For example some of my colleagues have been to Vegas and Paris and Thailand is one of them as well due to a lot os SUVs and Utility vehicles being manufactored there. I tell my wife that I qualified and I'm off for 7 to 8 days with her blessing and I don't have be aware of time zones etc.

I'm gettingvaway this time for only 6 due to changing companies and I have told her I need to go to another majir city here for product training so I have to be on my game regarding time zones etc. If the desire is there you can find a way.

I hooe this helps.

Rob.

This is the most bizarre scene I can recall from all of Anthony Bourdain's many travels. Check out how he checks out the Thai honey in his "dreams" hehehe. RIP Tony!

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOIVI3U5B4Y[/URL]

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Translated from Thai language, these forms are available in Pattaya to ALL newbies from Isaan. They are handed out as soon as the girls arrive in Sin City. This is how the Thai girls view foreigners. (Known as the White Book). Thai bar girls commandments.

1. When looking for customers, it is very important to ensure you pick your customer correctly. Thailand have many people who don’t have a lot of money.

2. You have customer, forget all, not worry if he is very ugly, over weight, smells very bad. Always tell your customer that he makes you happy and he is handsome. Important to remember that he has paid the bar, the rest is easy.

3. If customer go home, it’s not the end of your work with them. Get his e-mail address’s and keep in contact with him. This is easy for you to get the customer again when he comes back. If you have contact with him, you can request money from the Farang when he be home. Most Farang have a soft heart. A good way to ask for money is to say you have a sick buffalo. Failing that your mother/father been sick or been pregnant is the best way to ask for money.

4. Farangs are soft, tears from the eyes can make them easy softer. It is important to be able to cry on queue. This will give you a chance getting more presents or money from the Farang. Thai girls need to be a pro and producing crocodile tears on command.

5. Your customer stay longer then 2 nights, you request he take you out for shopping. Gold is an excellent item to get. Makes your customer happy you wear it while he is in Thailand. As soon as he leaves you can sell it at the gold shop.

6. If you working in the bar, and local ex-pats are there, speak in your local dialect. Many Farangs can speak Thai which it make not easy for us. Important that the Thai local and Thai regional dialects remain just for Thai people.

7. Your customer leaving Thailand, go with him to the airport. Many times he will have thousands of baht left over. The Farang be happy to give it to you as he can’t use in his country. When you say good bye, start to cry and ask him for email addresses.

8. You can better have Asian customers. They understand our love to gamble and that we have many sisters and brothers at home who need food. They generally pay more then a Farang do. (Japanese/Korean’s pay very well). –

9. When you leave your customer, ask for Taxi money. Even when you live next door. This help you for another 200-300 baht easily. The Farang complains about your taxi paying, remember the cry on command. This will be your ticket for more money. Explain it is dangerous to walk and you live far away.

10. If you not make money in your chosen city, it’s time to move. Pattaya, Bangkok and Phuket are choices to find the Walking ATM’s, Farangs with money.
[/QUOTE]This is so funny. Guess some white knight or pimp wrote this up for all the girls now it's their playbook.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2244871]This is so funny. Guess some white knight or pimp wrote this up for all the girls now it's their playbook.[/QUOTE]Wow! This is unbelievable. Can't believe somebody actually put this in writing.

Natty, clear your PM's please.

[QUOTE=Syzygies;2169631]It is totally normal for a Thai girl not to want to hug in public. Your driver seeing you is nothing but she did not want the neighbours to all start gossiping that she is a hooker.

Thai girl with Farang can be assumed to be a hooker. 80%+ of time that will be correct. Not always.

I similarly are reticent to be seen misbehaving with Thai girls where I live. Other Thais do not know how to mind their own business.

Pattaya is a special place where wayward behaviour becomes the norm. She does not care what she is seen doing in Pattaya perhaps. Many Thais like Pattaya because they feel free not to be proper and let their hair down.[/QUOTE]Just my opinion but, when nightfalls comes to Bangkok, Thailands' rules on affection in public can be thrown out the window. I met two women who have 'let their hair down". One was named 'Jit'. We were out one night after drinks and dinner. We crossed some bridge near Ploen Chit (or was it Chit Lom?) where she actually grabbed my dick and started stroking it outside my pants. It was a bit after midnight and there was no one hardly in the area. Met another who went by 'Supanya'. She and I left Spice Bar after drinks and getting plastered, We frenched kissed in the taxi all the way to my place. These two women have self-respecting jobs. One works for an embassy, the other works for a travel agency. I tell ya, when nightfall comes to Bangkok, some of these so-called "self-respecting women" REALLY show their true form.

[QUOTE=MeatMan;2245416]Just my opinion but, when nightfalls comes to Bangkok, Thailands' rules on affection in public can be thrown out the window. I met two women who have 'let their hair down". One was named 'Jit'. We were out one night after drinks and dinner. We crossed some bridge near Ploen Chit (or was it Chit Lom?) where she actually grabbed my dick and started stroking it outside my pants. It was a bit after midnight and there was no one hardly in the area. Met another who went by 'Supanya'. She and I left Spice Bar after drinks and getting plastered, We frenched kissed in the taxi all the way to my place. These two women have self-respecting jobs. One works for an embassy, the other works for a travel agency. I tell ya, when nightfall comes to Bangkok, some of these so-called "self-respecting women" REALLY show their true form.[/QUOTE]However, they do these things in semi "private" under cover of darkness or in a taxi, not for their co workers or neighbours to see what they are doing. Thais can change from prim and proper to raunchy, especially after consuming a few drinks. Alcohol can transform Thai girls to completely different character.

25 years ago, Thai women dressed modestly and behaved very modestly in public, with Pattaya being the wayward place. Things are clearly changing with modern dress being quite sexy to show off the figure. You will still find plenty of Thai girls act rather shyly out on the street though.

Also many Thai girls are shy to take their clothes off with you watching them with lights on. Some are known to undress in the toilet, or wrap a towel around them before taking off bra and panties. They were trained to do this from childhood.

Agree, they still like to respect the world around them. On TF the girls don't seem to mind if you are married as long as the wife isn't Thai. My semi-regular girl from CM will always overnight with me in Bangkok but never wants to leave the room for fear of being judged. My minibar and room service bill is always high when I see her.

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[QUOTE=Syzygies;2245587]However, they do these things in semi "private" under cover of darkness or in a taxi, not for their co workers or neighbours to see what they are doing. Thais can change from prim and proper to raunchy, especially after consuming a few drinks. Alcohol can transform Thai girls to completely different character.

25 years ago, Thai women dressed modestly and behaved very modestly in public, with Pattaya being the wayward place. Things are clearly changing with modern dress being quite sexy to show off the figure. You will still find plenty of Thai girls act rather shyly out on the street though.

Also many Thai girls are shy to take their clothes off with you watching them with lights on. Some are known to undress in the toilet, or wrap a towel around them before taking off bra and panties. They were trained to do this from childhood.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=Chacal60;2245605]Agree, they still like to respect the world around them. On TF the girls don't seem to mind if you are married as long as the wife isn't Thai. My semi-regular girl from CM will always overnight with me in Bangkok but never wants to leave the room for fear of being judged. My minibar and room service bill is always high when I see her.

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.[/QUOTE]I have found the main concern with Thai girls (dating site or regular, non P4P girls) about your wife being Thai or not is fear that the wife will show up unexpectedly and incite violence. Once I assure them she lives in another part of Bangkok, never comes around without my inviting her over and in fact we almost never see each other for any reason, the new Thai girl relaxes and becomes indifferent about the issue.