Comments Sought on & Seeking arrangements
I travel to Bogota on a fairy regular basis and ave typically been using Tinder and getting mixed results. Lots of dates / interest and a shot-ton of messaging / chat, but not so much in terms of getting them into bed. A few, one was great, but for the most part it is a huge amount of effort that is not commensurate with the results.
I have gone out to a few of the clubs, like Paisa and such, also to mixed results. All of them get into bed, but some are better than others and a lot of times they are sort of mechanical and not that into it, which holds little interest for me, plus the whole process of negotiating price and getting them to leave with you puts me off.
A few posters here have mentioned using Seeking Arrangements and I wanted to get more details on how well that works before I shell out $$ to join. Looking at the pics / profiles on there, there are a lot of young, beautiful girls willing to go out with you and spend time in exchange for being spoiled. Some seem sort of relationship focused while others are a little more obviously ready to be physical, so I imagine their expectations will run the gambit.
My questions are as follows:
1. What percentage, if any, of these are fake profiles?
2. I assume that regardless of which girl you talk to, that sooner or later, they understand that the goal is to become physical, whether they require time up front / chemistry first or not. Right?
3. Do girls there typically want some sort of shopping, dinner, pamper arrangement when you meet them, some sort of periodic allowance, or some sort of arrangement on a per trip / visit basis? I'm going to guess that it varies from girl to girl, but some insight from guys that have used it would be helpful.
Thanks in advance, getting back into the hobby a bit more after a long time off (you can see some of my posts from early 200's when I was traveling through SA for an extended period). Browsing the girls on that site are going to get me back to Colombia sooner rather than later if I can get the right chica to enjoy it with.
My $0.02 on SeekingArrangement
So I've sprouted for a SA account in Oct and more recently mid-Dec. Before I share my experiences I think it's worthwhile to also share a bit about myself. I'm a mid-30's non-Caucasian middle class, Spanish speaking male who's been playing in Colombia for 10 years and more recently living here for longer periods of time. I only spend a night in Bogota on average every month and while I am easy-going I'm definitely not a push-over. In short I can't stand bullshit and call them on it.
That said SA takes a lot of work to weed through the crap. I'd say the 8's-10's are on there expecting big money 500 mil+ for a few hours but they start out even higher like iPhones or shopping. My response is good f-ing luck as we're not on the same planet. The 6's-8's who are in the mid-20's can make it worthwhile and here's my experiences:
1) 22 yr old who isn't my build per-say (I prefer the tall slim volleyball types) but was fun chatting at dinner where she ended rubbing my chest and stroking me under the table at the JW. We didn't discuss any $ and ended upstairs where she gave some great head and an enthusiastic ride for a few hours. I gave her 200 mil and an Uber home.
2) 27 yr old who again not my build per-say but was fun chatting with. Dinner and drinks but only wanted to be wined and dined that night. No sex but no money either. I have a feeling though the next time would be straight to bed with no money expected as she made it clear she was only on the site because her boyfriend isn't paying enough attention to her.
3) 21 yr old who's a 7.5 - body could use a bit of toning at the gym. 250 mil straight to bed. Ended up spending 3 hrs together and a true GFE. Would I call again. Prob. If nothing more interesting pans out.
I've collected a few more whatsapp #'s of those who expect 200-300 mil for a few hours but it's clear they're pros while I was hoping for a more exclusive non-pro mistress type arrangement.
Would I spend more time / money on SA. Probably not as I think I can spend the same amount of time hunting in Santa Fe or Chapinero where I know it's 60 k (or less). That said unicorns may exist and that 9. 5 who wants to be only with you and expects 200 mil for the night is out there.