First of all, I appreciate the Feedback, I really do
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2525615]I am totally lost. Do you know this chick or not? You were talking about buying pets together and shit and now it is she may be scared to hook up with you as if you have never met each other. And weren't you the one first ghosting her because you were too busy with other chicks?
That is why I do not notify anyone I am coming to town. I pop up and say I am here and if they want to get together we can get together. All that planning and anticipation and shit is for the birds. Just go with the flow once boots are on the ground.[/QUOTE]Obviously You Haven't Read All My Posts. Don't expect you to pay close attention as some have, but the answers are all there. I have said at least twice I avoid planning whenever possible. And I admitted to being guilty of over planning in this instance. I didn't ghost her, I did as you suggested and came to town without telling her. Then when I told her I was here, she stood me up, twice. She's not even in Medellin. I have known her for almost two years, and spent about six months with her on my first trip here in 2019. I met her in a non -pro setting like I have talked about many times, by walking up to who I thought was a regular girl and try to make a connection. When I left here the first time it was supposed to be for three weeks, COVID hit, ten months later I am back. Before I left we were planning on living together. I never thought Cat Girl was a hooker, can't prove she wasn't.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2525558]No one expects the Spanish Inquisition.[/QUOTE]I get that a lot, that I seem to have been here longer. This is my second trip. I met a mongerer who had been to Medellin at least ten times and divorced his wife so he could keep coming. He took me under his wing the first week I was here. After four weeks he told me there was nothing more he could teach me. Also, as I have said before, I have mongered on 6 continents, and gotten laid on all seven, which has to confer some experience. I maxed out my visa and extension first trip so I must've been here six months, right? I have time dyslexia. The system works. Girls 1-3 still fuck for "free" and I defined free before. With Cat Girl out of the picture, some of the other girls are vying for Numero Uno. I've also wrote about at least 3 girls to whom I gave money during the COVID crisis, who avoided me this trip, and I have listed a Disclaimer at least twice that I don't recommend anyone prepay. But my dollar cost averaging overall is below what the going rate is per girl.
I am honest to a fault, including admitting my mistakes if others might learn from them. I appreciate the feedback. Some of it I probably needed to hear. But I wouldn't change a thing in the last couple of years of my life. Any inconsistencies which by the way you did NOT find, are purely unintentional and probably drug related, jajajaja.
No regrets. Check that. Only regret is that I didn't start sooner. GI Jane on her way over now. Soft Swirl was here all day. Cat Girl as you mentioned Mr. E has been burning up my WhatsApp and telephone all day but I have not said a word. Also, so there is no misunderstanding, I am a sarcastic, attention whoring, asshole, jaja. Ostee Out.
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Not very common to see a chica with a body this good
And no tattoos. Take my word for it, none.
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I broke the rules For COVID
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2525656]So where is she? She may not be a hooker, but she sure can pick a paymaster. Hookers are not the only ones accepting free money. If you send me some I will definitely accept it. One more example that sending money does not get you a damn thing except lighter pockets. All the chicks that have asked me to send money (pro, non-pro, whatever) I have always told them no. And guess what. The next time I see them we still fuck. Yeah yeah it is in the budget and all that. You have to practice saying no. The more you do it, the easier it gets. But if it makes you all warm and fuzzy inside just keep sending it. But don't expect anything from it except a warm and fuzzy feeling. I have enjoyed all of your reports and pictures though. You still had a great time and that is what counts. Like you said, no regrets.[/QUOTE]This was not about warm and fuzzies. And trust me I say No ten times more than Yes but I've seen mongerers who can't. You have to be consistent and not just deny the big shit. Whenever a chica tries to pull a fast one, and they always do, I say No. "Can I use your phone to call an Uber?" after I tipped for a taxi, Hell No. "Will you pay for my orthodontist visit as a tip?" Hell No. "Can I take the partial bag of Tussy home for free?" Sometimes, but this time Hell No, jaja.
When I left the country just before COVID, I told my GF that I would be back before the next rent check was due, in 3 weeks, permanently. We both were on the same page. Then COVID hit. Who here dreamed 10 months or however long it has been we'd still be dealing with this shite? I thought I was making a 2-3 month commitment at most when I started supporting Cat Girl in absentia at the beginning of this mess. She lost her job due to COVID. I never paid a peso to any girl after she left the room on 6 other continents before COVID.
Now, add to that, the money is less than pennies on the dollar to me. Unnoticeable and inconsequential except for the time it takes to hit the send button. I had to remind myself of the real value that is there to the receivers but I was happy to be in the position to do it. As far as how my sending money effects the mongering checks and balances or supply and demand or whatever you want to call it, I say none. Every man for himself in this game. By that I mean each man is left to his own devices. My devices have always been different, I am hard wired that way. I am honest to a fault and have never knowingly stabbed anyone in the back. Right now, I like where I am sitting and am open to all possibilities. I agree, as I said both times I did it, planning in this game is usually futile. The one comment that indirectly made me pause and think, was that a girl does not have to be selling sex to be pay for play. She can sell a dream, a fantasy, a lifestyle, whatever she thinks will pay.
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Same consensus from my short research
[QUOTE=Paulie97;2520961]These drugging networks are pretty sophisticated and run by criminal gangs. They go where the fish are biting, which can include El Pablado and lower level middle class areas. They especially want to find people carrying credit cards so they can run up charges or hit ATMs. There's plenty of articles around about this.
You're wrong about this one, but that's okay. We all are wrong sometimes, is how we learn. Wink.[/QUOTE]I don't know if there is a 'wrong' or 'right'. But from the research I've done over the last two days, it seems that yes, organized groups are targeting 'better' areas localized with more tourists. Although that doesn't make me feel the 'bad' areas are safer. Obviously the best method is to perfectly not let yourself be a target (cliche tourist / naive etc.).
I do worry about Scopolamine and how actually one can avoid the being drugged. My cards have a capped daily / weekly limit and pretty stringent fraud protection.
I'll be arriving and I think I'll be choosing an airbnb near centro with no doorman (the building / apartment looks nice). My concern here is, if I bring girls over I have never met, how risky is it to get drugged?