That's the weirdness of Cali
[QUOTE=GrownMan1;2592565]Yes I am learning quickly thanks to your help. Because this place is not the Sue, Medellin, or Cartagena; I have to be careful. Many of these girls are actually looking for young boyfriends. I have been taught to use the term "amigos con derecho". It means friends with benefits so I've been told. A few chicas excepted my position. I explain to them that unless they can meet my family; I cannot consider being in a serious relationship.
Because I'm dealing with a lot of non-pros, I do not want to be in a situation where I'm going on dates with plans of future investments. I always tell guys know what type of relationship you want and control the understanding with your chica. Initially my friend and I were only planning to be there for three days. I don't want to waste my time Entertaining and dating all day for 3 days in hopes of maybe getting sex. No one Chica it's worth all that wasted time.
What I'm apprehensive about is that many of these young girls are non-pros. When I was young I was looking for someone around my age because attractiveness was all that matters. In the DR is understood that he's going to want to have sex with you but you're also going to get paid. That verbal or nonverbal understanding it makes it easier to deal with chicas much younger than you. That's why the DR is such a popular place for mongers.
As you have schooled me and I am observing Sex tourism is at a low stage in this area of the country. I like chicas (18-28) and I have money. It doesn't matter to many of these younger chicas. I'm trying to avoid as much flakiness as possible.[/QUOTE]I had the same problem. The way around it is to invite them over "for dinner" you could / should insinuate that you expect them too cook. They'll get the message and you'll get a homecooked meal out of it anyway.
Actually they are generally down to fuck the issue is Cali non pros aren't nearly as thristy for money as Dominicanas are. If chicks come to the crib they'll fuck but they'll fuck a couple of times then if you don't call them they won't call you. Some non pros even forget to ask for money (other than taxi fare) but they will rectify that on the second visit.
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Trip's guide to avoiding Flakes in Cali
In Cali it's non pro city. The number 1 app to get to non flaking Pros and Non Pros is to use Latin American / Colombian Cupid. It's even better than Tinder, Bumble works too. Another overlooked resource is Facebook and IG IG is especially effective because there's nothing to get banned for, Just follow certain hashtags and friend and DM the chicks you like. NEVER TELL THEM HOW LONG YOU"RE IN TOWN FOR if you're in town for two days leave it vague but insinuate that you will be in town for two years.
Try to get an airbnb house apartahotel or apartastudio. You want and need an inviting place without nosy security guards if you can help it Most upscale apartment blocks have Guards at the gate standard but actual houses usually do not. Use that to your advantage and understand that guards could mess up your game by being to quick to keep a girl out of your place.
Always invite them to you're place, even if you do the meet in a coffee shop make sure it's a block away from your house. They're either coming or they're not Pipeline pipeline pipeline. You cannot message too many chicks use this time to vet and vibe with them, two weeks out is acceptable but don't tell them exactly when you touch down give yourself a day to do additional vetting before the meet. Besides cooking another gambit is to say that you want her to teach you how to dance Salsa. Universally if a woman comes to your house she knows you expect sex so again have her help you cook and after the meal invite her to your bedroom. Cali girls will fuck they just expect to be lead. Obviously let her leave if she's not willing to Fuck gentlemen. That's pretty much all it is to it.
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Concur about generally virgin terroritory
[QUOTE=JohnnyWalker55;2593768]Totally on the mark tall man. Nothing wrong with botero filled with gringos, but I've noticed a total difference in GFE / connections with calenas as compared to the mde chicks. They are used to foreigners and don't bat an eye when you say you're from europe / the states, and the seasoned pros / inexperienced 19 yearolds are a lot more mechanical as they assume you're in MDE for a short time to fuck them and their friends, as opposed to Cali where theyre shocked your there especially if you speak good spanish and assume you're there for a long time. i went to a casa with 3 20 year olds in the nice part of granada north of DR amor (best casa ive ever been to btw) yesterday and paid 60k for an hour, i was wiped after 30 min of round one and she was begging for round two even though it was like 4pm, said i was the first client of the day and i tend to believe her! took off the rubber for bbbj to get me going again.
Also barely any vennies outside of the main plaza, all local chicks who often wouldn't dare ask more than 30 k.
You get the "unique stranger" factor here like nowhere else!! and im sure you guys know the mulattas have proportions of jessica rabbit like nowhere else, not even in rio have i seen girls with bodies like these![/QUOTE]That's what it is Cali is NOT a tourist town there's not super overpriced accomodations like in Medellin. And the difference from the DR is that the average Calena doesn't know a chica who got a new iphone 11 from her western union novio. That's not to say there's none but Calenas aren't gamed up like even Santo Domingo non Pros are.
A funny story I had a GF in Santo Domingo her Math Professor from College that she did hair for had a sister that she was trying to hook up with an gringo because she was "stupid" meaning unlikely to get a decent job. Same GF hung out with me in Paco's and some of the fellas begged her to hook them up with her friends. She said these were "good girls" and one of the veteran mongers who had better spanish than mine's texted one of the friends with "How Much?" texts she told my GF that she was going to overcharge him for being rude.
That being said you can't tell the story of the casa without telling us where to find it.
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