Maybe ignorance is bliss?
I guess the 20 something hottie makes the 50 something dude feel young again, even he is aware that something is amiss. Why not make the most of it anyway, with love and lust sometimes comes heartbreak - all part of the cycle no?
As far as being stabbed, I agree wholeheartedly. If you play around with other dude's girlfriends, and it don't matter which country you're in, you're eventually going to come across some psycho fuck waiting to shiv you.
Best thing is to always lie like a motherfucker. Use a separate phone with an untraceable (*well, for the non professional CIA anyway, sure AG could hunt your ass down if he wanted to!) sim card. In China, you can buy them on the street. Second, don't let them know where you work or live, have a variable routine, take them to places by surprise, and keep an eye out for tails. Also, never go to their place. That's prime stabbing turf.
Most of all, stay safe out there. I've heard of chicks stabbing dudes too, so it ain't just the boyfriend you gotta watch out for.
At least it's not Thailand, where you can get a rusty blade castration free of charge with your latest freebie.
Random question for those who are Mandarin literate
was on a trip to the mainland with my so recently, and she accidentally let me in on something new (for me anyway) - she regretted pointing it out to me afterwards lol
there were pink neon signs with these words all over the friggin place, obviously didn't venture inside to check things out. about all i could manage was a peek inside from the doorway - and even then, got a little scolding.
so is this the chinese translation of bbs? i recognize all of the characters but don't understand what it means all strung together (imagine there's a little bit of slang). if i translate literally, means "finished person usage product" which makes absolutely no sense. if i try to translate it into something that makes sense, i'm guessing (1) sex toys or (2) place for happy ending (though if so, sort of implies that the girl is a product)