Working both sides of the street . . .
Both Gogobarlover and Robbaf make good points here, and bring to mind a somewhat similar situation I recently encountered elsewhere.
Has anybody had girls (you've bought lady drinks for) blatantly trying to work two separate customers at once?
I was in a place about a month ago (in Thailand), and I bought this gal a drink. I was not going to bar fine her, I just was sitting and talking to her. She kept getting up to go "take care of customer." At first it wasn't a problem; I could see her waiting on new customers that had just walked in (though I wondered "Why aren't the 4 girls sitting near the entrance on bar stools and with no customers waiting on these guys?)
Well, I was seated in a couch (and sitting at a lower eye-level because of that.) This "take care of customer" business kept going on, and at one point she was away for an excessive period of time . . . about 10 minutes. I sit up in the couch, my eyes go above bar level, and I see my girl is sitting at the far end of the bar with some other guy!
Up to this point, I'd been giving off indications that I was not going to bar fine her, and was going to leave after I finished my current drink. But now I'm pissed off at this girl, and decided to teach her a lesson. She came back over to me all smiles and sat down and continued to chat me up. She politely asked me if I was ready to go home soon? I told her I thought I'd stay a while longer, and needed another drink. And I told her to get herself another drink too. The look on her face was to die for! This guy on the other end of the bar was probably one of her regulars, and was ready to bar fine her, and she had probably told him I was about to leave and once I was gone she could go with him! And now I've just ordered another round of drinks for the both of us!
It was around 12:30 am, and this bar closes at 2:00. She got up to get the drinks, and told the guy I had just gotten another drink for me and her. He leaves and walks around on the street in front, wandering back and forth waiting for her to come get him. She keeps looking nervously outside, watching for him. In the meantime, she keeps inquiring if I'm going to leave soon? She keeps looking for any excuse to get up and go somewhere . . . a customer walks in that she must serve, to which I reply "Let one of those girls with no customer up front take care of him; you stay here with me . . ."
A little later, Mr. Regular returns to the bar and goes back to the other side where he was sitting before (mostly out of my view unless I make an effort to sit up.) She is real antsy to get up and go over to him. I tell her again to let one of the other girls take care of the customer. And I ordered us another round of drinks. ;-)
In a few minutes, she says she needs to go to the toilet. I let her go, and (of course) she makes an stop at Mr. Regular for a few minutes before coming over to me. Soon Mr. Regular gets up and walks out, and this time he did not loiter on the street out front.
We sat there together, and I told the girl that she was wrong to be accepting drinks from me, then trying to go sit with other guys too. And she clearly understood the message. But I don't think she "got it" though . . . I think she would try this stunt again. The bar approached closing time, I finished my drink, paid the tab, gave the girl a reasonable tip, and left.
Now, I know that these girls are trying to take care of their families, and just doing it the best way they know how. And I wouldn't normally interfere in a girl's efforts to earn a living. But this girl clearly crossed the line. There are right ways and wrong ways to take care of customers.
A few days later I was back, and had a talk with the bar owner (without mentioning names.) Actually, girls accepting drinks but wandering is (or at least was) a problem at this place. He talked to the Thai wife immediately, and she huddled a bunch of girls and talked to them right after.
I was on the other side of the fence at this bar another time too. I (unknowingly) bought a different girl a drink, later to find out that she had already accepted a drink from some other guy. I never would have done that if she had told me. And (again,) why was she up serving me and taking care of me when she had accepted a drink from another customer?
Hey Greg: What's up with the PM's?
Dear Mr. London, A while back, you were encouraging me to become a "Paid" member so that you can PM me. So on May 4, 1944, I signed-up and paid the fee. However, You still didn't send me any messages. My inbox is still on zero. Nobody has shared any helpful info with me. Here is my latest Question for everyone: How about this for an IDEAL living situation. It would be a way to have a wife, or GF and still not get bored. #1. You marry a woman who is at least Bi-Curious, or bisexual. #2. You hire one or two housemaids who are lesbians, or bisexual. #3. You make an agreement with your wife that she does not need to do any cooking or cleaning, so that both of you can concentrate on being KIND to each other. #4. 2 to 3 times a week, you invite the lesbian housemaids into your bedroom, where you and the "Help" pin your wife to the bed and give her multiple-orgasms using your tongue or fingers and drive her crazy to the point where she is squealing and giggling from the unbearable sensitivity of her clitoris. Your purpose would be to show your wife that you have a lot of fun "Pleasing" her, but at the same time, there would be the AWESOME fact that you would also have multiple girls in your bed and some of them would be all over your cute wife, driving her to immense satisfaction! The key point in the whole process, would be that you don't do anything physical to anyone but your wife, unless, of course, your wife asks you for some help in restraining the other girls so that she can offer some "Payback"... I. E. Rasberries, tickling, etc.