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[QUOTE=JohnnyWalker55;2553067]I'm youngish (under 35) and see where you're coming from. The mongering life is the way to go. Get a senior membership so we can DM bro.
Cheers.
JW.[/QUOTE]Mongering life has its obvious advantages. However, married life has advantages as well, the advantage is greater advancement at work. Mongering and chasing women take up a lot of time which could be devoted to working harder at your job and moving up the ranks.
[QUOTE=NilAdmirari;2553116]Question # 1: One BM recently asked about home visits by chicas during curfew hours. Depending on their appetite for risk, I've found some ladies willing to travel to and from my apartment during curfew hours; others not. FYI, the official fine for violating the curfew (and the other restrictions) is a whopping 900 thousand pesos and change. (Spanish readers can check this link: [URL]https://colombia.as.com/colombia/2021/04/10/actualidad/1618084470_476287.html[/URL]#text=La%20 or
den%20 de%20 comparendo%20 es, comportamiento%20 contrario%20 a%20 la%20 convivencia. &text=La%20 multa%20 tipo%204%20 equivale, total%20 de%201.161. 856%20 pesos).
During WhatsApp texting to set up visits, I've made sure that the invited lady really feels comfortable venturing out during the forbidden hours. Of my core stable of four chicas, three have visited during the curfews, while just one has demurred (a Venezuelan with cdula issues). I've had some second thoughts as to whether it's right for me to allow them to risk the fine, but horniness and lust has trumped any moral imperative.[/QUOTE]I don't know how the "fine system" works in Colombia, yet a lot of people don't even have bank accounts in Colombia, let alone Chicas carrying say 200,000 Pesos on them to bribe someone. I'm going to have to assume that if the Police are going to fine someone they enter it in their database / record for the persons Cedula, and don't know how they handle this for foreigners. The fine amount is roughly the Country's monthly minimum salary and seems out of proportion, and I see the Government having a hard time collecting the fines in that a lot of people don't have a months salary of savings let alone bank accounts.
Hopefully things will get better with no more lockdowns and the issue your grappling with will disappear. And when you think about it, the girls willing to see you must be very desperate and it's sad that they have to take the risks associated with visiting you.
[QUOTE=BlackCrystal;2552948]Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."
Best,
And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.[/QUOTE]Don't bother with anything on SA or Facebook until a couple of days before you arrive.
1st message: Hi, you look beautiful. I will be in Medellin (again) in 2 days. I hope we have the chance to meet up.
That's all. Quick and easy, the less said the better.
Then, once there-let people no you are there and ready.
I would start with casas and strip clubs if possible. Or the Mansion.
Messaging more than a few days before arrival is just wasting time.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2553191]Mongering life has its obvious advantages. However, married life has advantages as well, the advantage is greater advancement at work. Mongering and chasing women take up a lot of time which could be devoted to working harder at your job and moving up the ranks.[/QUOTE]Yea, totally, at least for me mongering has helped a lot with work as i don't need to set up dinner dates etc. to try and get "lucky" with non-pros as often. gotta love pros. and surfer, I was already married and divorced, maybe have kids in the later years but yes, kid in a candy store (with the candy being 20 why / o vennies!
It seems as if even the locals don't know how the new decrees work, but for those of you on the ground / recently here, how was / is total confinement?
It seems as if all 6 major regions are working in tandem now with restrictions, with curfew being 8 pm-5-am mond-wed / thurs and total lockdown from thurs-Sunday until at least may 2nd.
Total lockdown being literal confinement in the apartment? Not even able to catch a cab to visit a mileroticos or prepagos girl? If so, that's going to fucking suck for my upcoming trip hahahha.
I'm thinking a good alibi would be to carry a backpack and plane ticket, if you get pulled over you're just "going to the airport".
I can work around the curfews and get the love making in during the day.
Cheers.
JW.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2553191]Mongering life has its obvious advantages. However, married life has advantages as well, the advantage is greater advancement at work. Mongering and chasing women take up a lot of time which could be devoted to working harder at your job and moving up the ranks.[/QUOTE]No wonder I was so successful!
[QUOTE=NilAdmirari;2553116]Question #3. Yesterday RiceRocket99 shared information on Pico why cdula regulations, and reported having no problem (on his designated days) using a xerox of his passport to gain entry to grocery stores and banks. For what it's worth, over the past couple of weeks, I have been in and out of Exito Laureles why Exito Setenta on a number of occasions, and have also visited a couple of major shopping centers (UniCentro), usually on my assigned Pico why cdula day and with a copy of my passport in my back pocket--and not once have I been asked to show any ID to gain entrance. Nonetheless, if your errand requires a taxi rather than a walk around the corner, you're probably well advised to stick to your designated shopping day.
In respect to shopping during the Friday-Sunday 24 hour / day lockdown, here's a roughly translated quote in El Tiempo from the governor of Antioquia, Luis Fernando Surez: "On whether you can enter supermarkets to stock up, Surez clarified that these large stores will not be able to open and will only be able to provide services through a mobile application or homes."[/QUOTE]Every time I have gone into the Laureles Exito or the Exito in Molinos CC, the security person checks my ID before allowing me to enter. There is no check when entering the shopping centers because restaurants and some other establishments are not subject to pico y cedula. Even the little D1 stores check ID's. I have seen them turn away locals who did not have the proper number.
The Laureles Exito has been open for customers to shop the past two weekends during the lockdown.
Yes, that is so true. I'm still amazed how many girls here in their 20's don't even have a basic bank account. Don't even talk about credit cards, virtually non-existent because I think there is no defined system like credit history or credit score like the States. And those that have a bank account (usually savings, for some reason checking account not as common), won't have much in it. One time a girl showed me she had like 50 mil pesos in her savings. I had to do a bancolombia transfer so she would have enough to help me buy some party favors.
[QUOTE=Surfer500;2553195]I don't know how the "fine system" works in Colombia, yet a lot of people don't even have bank accounts in Colombia, let alone Chicas carrying say 200,000 Pesos on them to bribe someone. I'm going to have to assume that if the Police are going to fine someone they enter it in their database / record for the persons Cedula, and don't know how they handle this for foreigners. The fine amount is roughly the Country's monthly minimum salary and seems out of proportion, and I see the Government having a hard time collecting the fines in that a lot of people don't have a months salary of savings let alone bank accounts.
Hopefully things will get better with no more lockdowns and the issue your grappling with will disappear. And when you think about it, the girls willing to see you must be very desperate and it's sad that they have to take the risks associated with visiting you.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BlackCrystal;2552948]Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."
Best,
And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JustIncognito;2553201]Don't bother with anything on SA or Facebook until a couple of days before you arrive.
1st message: Hi, you look beautiful. I will be in Medellin (again) in 2 days. I hope we have the chance to meet up.
That's all. Quick and easy, the less said the better.
Then, once there-let people no you are there and ready.
I would start with casas and strip clubs if possible. Or the Mansion.
Messaging more than a few days before arrival is just wasting time.[/QUOTE]With all due respect your advice is obviously well intended and thoughtful but I have say that as far as Facebook goes, you have to keep in mind that BlackCrystal is completely new to the scene. Its not like three days before I go to Colombia I just search "prepago" and a magic list appears. If a person wants to be having sex with the hottest chicas in Medellin than waiting until the last minute to start finding contacts is not a good strategy unless someone is spoon feeding them to you. It is best not to actually contact the chicas and set up citas until a few days before going down, but it took me about a month to get a list of twenty "hot" chicas together on Facebook that I knew would respond.
[QUOTE=RiceRocket99;2553269]Yes, that is so true. I'm still amazed how many girls here in their 20's don't even have a basic bank account. Don't even talk about credit cards, virtually non-existent because I think there is no defined system like credit history or credit score like the States. And those that have a bank account (usually savings, for some reason checking account not as common), won't have much in it. One time a girl showed me she had like 50 mil pesos in her savings. I had to do a bancolombia transfer so she would have enough to help me buy some party favors.[/QUOTE]Actually they do have a defined credit history and rating system in Colombia, however you have to be registered thru your Cedula to be part of it, and once registered you will be tracked and a credit score will be generated on you. If you have ever been in a store where someone is purchasing something with a credit card they will always ask, "cuantos quotas", meaning how many payments do you want to make for your purchase. I know that might sound pretty strange, because in the USA you can decide when you get your credit card bill what you want to do, but you will hear this question every time when someone uses a credit card to purchase something in Colombia.
[QUOTE=RacShack;2553099]Run forest run, gross horrible to zero customer service, please stay away, not sure where your from but jet blue is amazing! Good luck travel safe![/QUOTE]I have a flight with spirit end of may; I will let you know haw it went.
[QUOTE=BigButtDetecto;2553289]I have a flight with spirit end of may; I will let you know haw it went.[/QUOTE]I've had nothing but good results with Spirit especially with their Colombia service. I was on a JetBlue flight from Miami to New Orleans that was an absolute nightmare plane was about 20 years old.
Brief notes. Since Monday centro was boring. Slim pickings compared to the Thursday before weekend lockdown. Lots of girls refusing oral sin condon compared to last week where there so many hotties up for anything. Strip clubs quiet even my favourite avenida de grill, left after 1 drink. Amazing session in Zandaly, an English speaking Colombian cracked open a fresh bottle of rum for me, drinks for me, the girl and the session just over 100.000 wow. The most underrated Casa in Medellin, no I have not been to all of them but that lady Catalina (Mamasan), staff and guests are so friendly to gringos with terrible Spanish.
First time at Dulce Campana really good line up, amazing session. Oral sin condon as standard as reported. Back of house admin lady Isabelle speaks English but I used my weak Spanish with the front of house Mamasan (What do they call them in Spanish?) Definitely returning.
I have already posted about this but I will mention it again. Some but not all shops have numbers for Pico why cedula, I open any document on my phone, like today my drivers licence and I zoom right into whatever number is required out of and I have never ever been asked for anything more. I think when they see an obvious gringo they cannot be bothered like today when they guy wanted to see my receipt leaving jumbo I was just waved by, I get this feeling a lot of the time.
Exito and D1 have been open on the weekend.
[QUOTE=JohnnyO;2553311]Brief notes. Since Monday centro was boring. Slim pickings compared to the Thursday before weekend lockdown. Lots of girls refusing oral sin condon compared to last week where there so many hotties up for anything. Strip clubs quiet even my favourite avenida de grill, left after 1 drink. Amazing session in Zandaly, an English speaking Colombian cracked open a fresh bottle of rum for me, drinks for me, the girl and the session just over 100.000 wow. The most underrated Casa in Medellin, no I have not been to all of them but that lady Catalina (Mamasan), staff and guests are so friendly to gringos with terrible Spanish.
First time at Dulce Campana really good line up, amazing session. Oral sin condon as standard as reported. Back of house admin lady Isabelle speaks English but I used my weak Spanish with the front of house Mamasan (What do they call them in Spanish?) Definitely returning.[/QUOTE]Girls refusing oral sin condom, wow, oh well.
I remember before the pandemic asking a Venezuelan how much more to bareback her just out of curiosity, and she told me it would be an expensive upcharge, and when I asked how much, she said 5.000 Pesos, yet I just couldn't do it as it was going to force me out of retirement to pay for the upcharge. LOL.
As far as lots of girls refusing to oral sin condom, I find it a bit peculiar given the hard times were in. Maybe it's the way you brought it up, and did you make an offer to pay more for it and where the girls still then opposed to it?
You said your Spanish skills are weak, so that may of been part of the problem which is not a reflection on you.
I personally willl not go with a girl who doesn't provide this service, and handle it differently with the new SW's I go with as I typically just ask if they are going to blow me without a condom, and the best answer you can get in Spanish is "of course", and when I get this answer, which is always music to my ears however seems like, "hey you stupid fuck", we always blow guys without a condom, which makes sense to me, especially for the locals.
Regardless, as long as the long weekend lockdowns continue, my bet is every single girl who earlier said no to the BBBJ will do it with no upcharge on Thursday if pressed to do so, along with a lot of bare-back specials being available.
[QUOTE=Surfer500;2553280] "cuantos quotas", meaning how many payments do you want to make for your purchase.[/QUOTE]I think this is common in Latin America. Some payment devices have this built-in. One need to choose sin cuota or input 1.
Well it's time to go back to paradise. Not looking forward to the toque de queda but it will not affect me that much because I don't go out. Once in a while but that's OK too. I know why they are doing it (curfew) and it's all good with me. If anyone is there during this time, hit me up for some food. Monday-Thursday will be the only time that we can go to the restaurants.