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[QUOTE=Born Loser 5]The power english language holds amoung people in Asian society is magical..everything is forgotten about your background..the moment you speak english :)[/QUOTE]As a rich P4P guy, I want a lady who speaks as little of my home language as possible. That's one reason I cum to LOS. Don't care to listen to women's chatter, let alone life stories, as I have with night ladies in Canada. Will bring duct tape if necessary! LOL!
[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]Thais are faced with pressure to compete regionally and globally and simply can't. For example, the Vietnamese (with a similar climate and culture), but having survived decades of war, kick the shit out of the Thais on all levels.[/QUOTE]Not in P4P, that's for sure.
There the Thai kick all other Asian cuntry's butts bigtime.
[QUOTE=Giotto]The girls stop working and agree to a monthly budget which is usually much lower than their usual income from the bar. They "give it a chance", 15 - 20 k a month is enough (still a lot compared to the income levels here in Thailand), instead of 50 k - 75 k they had before (depending on their looks, behavior, success with customers). [/QUOTE]Had a girl in BKK earlier this year, she got 100K+ in a month & kept working, and we both knew it & were both accepting of that. She knew I took other P4P ladies, no problem. Seemed quite content with her 100K, obviously. Would be happy to hook up with her again next trip. Good looks, say 8 out of 10, likewise with attitude and service.
[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]1. But, I decided to just let her run with the lie, because she said it with such amazing conviction, that I'm sure it is exactly how she remembered it and what's worse it was so convincing that I started to doubt my own belief in the truth - LOL.
2. Anyway, all of this contributes to the that "fuzzy fringe"..... OK, now I'm just waiting for some wag to make a joke about the "fuzzy fringe" - ah there - hopefully I've pre-empted it. :D[/QUOTE]
1. You started to doubt, no doubt because at your age, post 50,
Alzheimeir's has set in, and she was telling the truth!
2. Evidently ISG is the only thing keeping you sane in LOS, and why you haven't left there long ago, giving you a connection with the real world.
Re #2 be sure to send Jackson an extra something with your next contribution. And in light of #1, make a note now to remind yourself to do so.
LOL!
This guy Fred Reed is an asshat and can't write worth shit.
[QUOTE=Dickhead]This guy Fred Reed is an asshat and can't write worth shit.[/QUOTE]
I couldn't possibly fail to disagree with you not less.
[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]But, seriously, unless you've branched out into the general population, now that you've been in Pattaya awhile, the term "Daddy" doesn't really apply in a P4P scenario. It really only works in a situation with an older guy and a young, non-P4P girl, often in a business (or in my case) educational environment.
The first time I ever encountered this was 11 years ago when I first moved here and was working for a Thai company. After awhile, a girl in the office asked if they could call my mate, who was 54 at the time, "Daddy". He was a real old Thai hand, having been here since the 70s. He was quite excited about this and gave me the low-down on what "Daddy" really meant. I've since discovered for myself that he was quite right. It may sound slightly unsavory to outsiders. But, it carries a certain cache with women, if they can call you "Daddy" and the added element is that you then call them "Baby". I suppose it's all very childish. But, it works for me. ;)[/QUOTE]Last year I was surprised to have one of my regular P4P girls call me Daddy. It left me wondering what she meant, that I was old enough to be her father, or providing for her {& her family} in a way that a father would {even though any monies she recieved from me were earned}. That this term as used by her had any sexual connotation makes no sense, as fathers do not normally have sex with those who call them such. Nevertheless we often engaged in sex acts, but usually not extremely lewd. LOL
Unlike your male "mate" who was "quite excited" at the prospect of a "girl in the office" wanting to call him "Daddy", my feeling with the P4P TG was quite the opposite! Also unlike your story, she did not request to call me that. If I recall it was said in a joking way, like she would sometimes say "I love you" in the middle of a BJ.
[QUOTE=Retired Army]OTH is absolutely spot-on with this post. It's not easy to break into Thai culture and meet really decent non-P4P Thai woman; but, it's much more satisfying once you do. I was able to do it after a couple of years and I have never regreted the decision. Bar girls get very boring quickly.
RA[/QUOTE]Maybe for you & OTH they get boring.
For me P4P ladies equals sex, sex & more sex which equals never boring.
But being stuck with one woman all the time might mean boring sex, besides numerous other negatives, including this "relationship" thing OTH worships & can't stop yapping about. He must have a really low sex drive & watch loads of chick flicks!
[QUOTE=Dickhead]This guy Fred Reed is an asshat and can't write worth shit.[/QUOTE]
I think Dickhead might be a closet feminist.
[QUOTE=Dinghy]dyev - "dyevochka" - the Russian word for "girl"[/QUOTE]
Ah yes, I have heard this word on "The Rosetta Stone" Russian 101, but the abbreviation was a bit too much for a mere Thai monger.
[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]Good one.
But, seriously, unless you've branched out into the general population, now that you've been in Pattaya awhile, the term "Daddy" doesn't really apply in a P4P scenario. It really only works in a situation with an older guy and a young, non-P4P girl, often in a business (or in my case) educational environment.
The first time I ever encountered this was 11 years ago when I first moved here and was working for a Thai company. After awhile, a girl in the office asked if they could call my mate, who was 54 at the time, "Daddy". He was a real old Thai hand, having been here since the 70s. He was quite excited about this and gave me the low-down on what "Daddy" really meant. I've since discovered for myself that he was quite right. It may sound slightly unsavory to outsiders. But, it carries a certain cache with women, if they can call you "Daddy" and the added element is that you then call them "Baby". I suppose it's all very childish. But, it works for me. ;)[/QUOTE]
OTH,
Are you referring to english words "daddy" and "baby" or are you translating from Thai "Phor" (or perhaps "Pa-pa") to "daddy".
Now "baby" strictly is "tharok" (or "dek tharok" or "dek orn") in Thai but I doubt that this word would be used? "luuk" (child/daugther) maybe?
Anyway my main point is that "daddy" sounds a bit strange in English (to me) where "phor" or "pa-pa" (or "pa" Chinese style) sounds quite natural in Thai.
I usually get called "loong" Mick (Uncle Mick) by younger girls or their children.
[QUOTE=Fon Tok]Lately, while out getting a little on the side, I've run into more than a couple of boring "starfish. " As I'm not a regular monger, and I have to be somewhat discrete with my occasional plying, sometimes I end up in places I have not been before, or my preferred girl is not working that day so I often follow the.sans advice.
I know it's not easy being a sex worker servicing middle aged farang and Japanese, but these girls make more in an hour or two than a lot of women make in a week.
My question is: What's with these girls who basically do nothing once they get their kit off? You think being sex workers they'd put a little effort into it for a tip maybe (or a repeat performance)? How do they get their jobs if they're almost useless at what they do? ot?[/QuOTE]
Ask Giotto, he employs some of them.
[quote=petemcc]ask giotto, he employs some of them.[/quote]
do i detect some sour grapes here? if this is the case, possibly some pre-sports bar "sex-ercising" should me mandatory for the fresh young lassies from isaan!
fortunately, not all thai women are starfishes, or many of us would not bother chasing them with our shrinking wallets readily in hand.
but for the old cowboys out there in isg land, a limp warm body with a couple pair of wet lips might be just enough to crack a smile once in awhile!
So... came back to BKK after being gone for 10 whole days and walked into the TGF's apartment (which pretty much I paid for everything inside that place) where we stay and low and behold there were three bridal magazines sitting on the new work desk I just bought 10 days ago.....
Wonder what all this could mean? ;) So much for her conversations about how she doesn't want marriage.
Now in Hua Hin after two days in BKK... so so so so so nice to get away from the damn city....
[QUOTE=Petemcc]Ask Giotto, he employs some of them.[/QUOTE]
Whole new stable right now.... and from the show they were putting on Sat night I'd say there are very few starfish around right now.