Thai unreliability and thainess
[QUOTE=CIMguy;2608600]That does make some sense. I am fine with it happening once. If it happens twice, I won't deal with it unless I have a history with the person. One girl was at a friend's birthday, so she messaged to say she would be late. What I didn't like was me messaging two hours later and her saying she was waiting for a taxi and two hours later she never shows up. So she lied about waiting for a taxi.
I was supposed to meet a girl last night and she messaged 20 minutes before the date saying she had her period. OK, that happens, but just 20 minutes before the date? LOL, seems unlikely. But I will certainly give her and the taxi girl another chance because they are beautiful. But I'm not going to have a bunch of evenings blown up dealing with that sort of person. I am also working and only have some nights free.[/QUOTE]Thai girls are unreliable, totally.
Like all Thai's they live in the moment, and they react and decide what to do in the moment.
Once you accept that, and live the same way, it all makes some sense.
Also, you have to consider Thai'ness.
Thais will do and say anything to avoid losing face, being embarrassed or proven wrong.
If they can't do what you want, they will still say yes in some way, and then often just not do it, IE the taxi.
You can then blow them off if you wish, but the next Thai girl will likely be the same.
But, if you accept it, and just try again next time, then often that or the third time works a charm.
To me this is why TF girls contacted online and made dates with are such a let down.
You can never be sure they will turn up as other things and events can get in the way.
It's why I always picked up girls in the here and now moment, in a bar, or a massage.
Leaving with them, as if you're in their face and space, they focus on you, and stay focused.
Using even LINE to catch up is fraught with danger of no shows, sleep ins, whatever's.
Messaged by significant other
So this happened last night. I got a Line message from someone requesting that I add them. It looked like some professional guy in the little pic, so I thought it was the realtor I gave my Line ID to. I add him and open it to find that it is not the realtor. I look at a couple of the pics and I can see it's some guy with the girl I met at sweetie's bar and hung out with a few times (no sex). I was planning to see her when I got back to Patong. I knew she had an ex-boyfriend, so I was pretty put off to be messaged by some girl's ex, especially with my line of work and family situation.
So I sent the girl I met a quick message asking what was up and letting her know I would need to drop her. She tells me it's her boyfriend and it's because she gave him her old phone and the Line IDs were still on it. I am now thinking she is BSing me because 1) she told me she was seeing a woman and didn't have a boyfriend, and 2) why would he need to add my ID by phone number if my ID was already on her phone. So I point out those two things and say I have to block her, but then she says the guy in the picture is actually her GF and she is a tomboy. And that the phone sent an add request to her entire list of friends and customers. I didn't know what to believe at that point, so I just blocked them both. I figured it was safer that way, though I think I believe her after the messages and a closer inspection of his pics. She kept saying, "I promise you it's OK."
I think I was a little on edge with the Thai girl thing because I'm 99% sure one girl was recording our conversation the other day. She acted like it was an accident, but.