East China - Shanghai

[QUOTE=Emzchi; 1226095]Is it used by Chinese girls or by foreigner in China?

Some Chinese site?

Thnaks.[/QUOTE]Used by everyone worldwide, just try it.

[QUOTE=Mike921;1226363]Used by everyone worldwide, just try it.[/QUOTE]Thanks. Something mostly used in China?

I'm trying BADOO, but not so used and VPN is necessary.

[QUOTE=Pokerstar77;1226063]If your Chinese isn't that good I recommend yihongyuan18 dot info for you, it's a site with the most pictures. If you can't type Chinese or pinyin you might want to try the webcam function. QQ contacts are numbers so you need to add the qq number to your contact list first. Once there you might want to exchange phone numbers since it'll be easier.[/QUOTE]Can you provide a link to this that works. I can not find it.

[QUOTE=Emzchi; 1226369]Thanks. Something mostly used in China?

I'm trying BADOO, but not so used and VPN is necessary.[/QUOTE]Again, worldwide, sort by country, what's the 20 questions all about? It's free, so just try it. Jeeeeeeeeez!

[QUOTE=Beijing4987;1226379]Can you provide a link to this that works. I can not find it.[/QUOTE]Yes, it's offline now. As with the girls here, availability comes and goes.

Another source is guizubb dot com, has intel on some of the popo action as well.

[QUOTE=Mike921;1226395]Again, worldwide, sort by country, what's the 20 question all about? It's free, so just try it. Jeeeeeeeeez![/QUOTE]Of course I'm trying it. I was only asking if there are sites MOSTLY used by Chinese or China residents.

[QUOTE=Pokerstar77; 1226055]B*tch, please. You obviously are talking nonsense. I think kids nowadays call it trolling.

I hooked up with a QQ contact a few days ago. I can speak mandarin and as others on the forum have stated I visited her in her apartment, hell, it safes money on hotel costs. Picture was real. Student from Heilongjiang. 23 years old. Short hair, about 5"7 tall, perky tits, not so great ass compared to European standards if you know what I'm saying. No BBBJ sadly, no anal either, buuuut for 400 a pop and a tight puss I ain't complaining. As the action went along DFK wasn't a problem.

You, my friend, are either the most unluckiest guy since Straus Kahn or gay without even realizing it yourself. Never heard of a man voluntary licking an asshole for an hour before.[/QUOTE]I still harbor a lingering suspicion that Smirnoff is a Girl With A Grudge. More of a trill than a troll? Regardless, I'm unlikely to respond to any more of his / her wisdom.

[QUOTE=Emzchi; 1226078]I'd like to know if there are sites where it's possible to date with Chinese (not working) girls or foreigners.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]You can also try dateinasia dot com. But be prepared to get married.

[QUOTE=Ringer5;1226455]I still harbor a lingering suspicion that Smirnoff is a Girl With A Grudge. More of a trill than a troll? Regardless, I'm unlikely to respond to any more of his / her wisdom.[/QUOTE]-it- is probably a fat ex-pat's wife who lost her hubby to a spa girl!

In other news, I saw several BBS open as usual in Jinqiao today.

All is right with the world.

[QUOTE=Fritobugger;1226506]All is right with the world.[/QUOTE]Long time lurker, first time poster agreeing, I just dropped by the BBSes near Changshou and they are also open but only at half mast so to speak. The gates were open halfway and they were being a bit more conservative in showing themselves. Maybe that or its too chilly out.

Anyways maybe looking to pick up something at Manhattan's later tonite, will update if I brave the cold.

Having mongered for 15 years all over Asia and some of Latin America, there is dramatically less English spoken on Mainland China in the P4P scene than elsewhere. Especially compared to Thailand, Cambodia, and naturally the Philippines and Singapore. That said, speaking not a word of English you can get what you are after, once you are on location, in everyplace from Pink BBSs to Saunas to the bars. Once in the bedroom, not much spoken communication is necessary, right?

The biggest hurdle for the non-Chinese speaker will be getting to where you want to go via taxi. Even in Beijing trying to get drivers to take me to well-known hotels was often difficult. I needed to have addresses written in Chinese (don't expect that you can get in the cab and say 'Weston Hotel' or 'Ritz Hotel') and hopefully with a map.

Obscure mongering spots like some of the saunas require lots of time and a business card. Or if you have the phone number, call the place and then hand the phone to the driver – he'll eventually work it out. Collect business cards.

I bought a couple of iPhone translations apps: 'Jibbigo' ($5, on sale from $25) and the $0. 99 'English to Chinese Book'. Both are totally worthless for anytime beyond very basic communication like 'where is the toilet' or 'take me to my hotel' Both of which are more quickly handled through gestures or handing the driver an address. I would think for mongering that the most helpful would be a basic audio dictionary – something that has lots of individual words spoken in Chinese. That way you can look up the word for 'Big' and then look up the word for 'Breasts' and get that point across. (or you could just make the two hand gesture for big tata's).

The other approach is to use Google Translate to print out a few phrases or sentences that you expect to use: e. G."I want a slim girl. 18-22 years old, who will do oral sex without condom. Regular sex with condom" Just don't let the paper fall out of your wallet when you are having dinner with your Chinese customer!

Conclusion – not speaking the local language is a bigger hassle China than elsewhere, but it is not a large barrier. The one issue is that you need to know how to communicate where you want to go to taxi drivers, they are more clueless than you might imagine. This is doubly true if you are looking for BBSs which may move around and are harder to find. So either have a Chinese speaker with you or allow (lots) of extra time. For this reason and because I was especially interested in BBSs I hired a local guide for Shanghai. (See posts from April / May of 2011 for details)

[QUOTE=Waldeck2;1226020]Wait a day, try it again. If you think the Chinese guys are going to be without pussy for an extended period of time, you don't understand China.[/QUOTE]Went to one of the sauna places during the day yesterday and there were very few open rooms. When I came out every room was filled and the hallway lined with Chinese men smoking cigarettes and waiting for a room to open up. Wow!

[QUOTE=Beijing4987;1226379]Can you provide a link to this that works. I can not find it.[/QUOTE]Seems like the site is down as I tried it myself. Try aishedes dot com if you're. This one should still be up.

[QUOTE=Ringer5;1226455]I still harbor a lingering suspicion that Smirnoff is a Girl With A Grudge. More of a trill than a troll? Regardless, I'm unlikely to respond to any more of his / her wisdom.[/QUOTE]Hahaha, Ringer5, my man, I think you got a good point there. Reading your comment has made me realize it's counter-productive to responding to either trills or trolls on this forum or any other forum.

What me annoys me is the fact that nowadays many forums on various subjects are being more and more polluted by misinformation and comments boarding on the edge of insult to (my) intellect. A shame really, buuuut it's something we need to get accustomed to, right?