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[QUOTE=Orion4;2717627]I'm in Bogota rn and don't have much of a sex drive so not planning on exploring much. Going to Cartage and Medellin next where I hope will revive some of that drive.[/QUOTE]I am the exact opposite. I lose my sex drive in places like Cartage when they tell me those high ass prices. I would rather use my sex drive in a cheaper place like Bogota.
[QUOTE=SlangTeng;2717832]This was the most recent post I could find of Hampton Inn. Anybody know if there is a guest fee etc? I could use a short time motel if needed I guess. My homeboy has a Hilton hook up but only other option is Hilton garden which is way south on the outskirts of Cali in ciudad Jardin. I hit up a chick I met back in 2019 from Dr Amor (unfortunately lost contact w the Chica I preferred from previous visit) & it seems like she'the rather leave the clinica out of the picture and come to my hotel / Airbnb.[/QUOTE]I have no Idea how much it would cost but I live near the Hilton Garden Inn and I paid 50 K to go to the airport during rush hour.
50 is abpot 10 to 12 bucks now. I never paid more than 25 K to go anywhere in the city.
Hope this helps.
Trip.
[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2717922]I have no Idea how much it would cost but I live near the Hilton Garden Inn and I paid 50 K to go to the airport during rush hour.
50 is abpot 10 to 12 bucks now. I never paid more than 25 K to go anywhere in the city.
Hope this helps.
Trip.[/QUOTE]Oh nice, getting around Cali seems inexpensive. Seems nearby Deluxe and Katmandu massage. I rly only found 1 or 2 hotels in the thread that seem to be chica friendly. I'm still between Cali and DR for Nov 10-21. Excited to post my first report regardless of destination. Unsure if I'll be able to sub to get PMs because the site's wallet has been blacklisted by Coinbase. I checked forum to see how others have subbed recently and it seemed to either be an Indian site (scam possibilities) and Binance (banned in US. Can VPN from here but binance may ban your wallet).
I actually did make another stop last time I was in Cali. Much lower quality girls. Establishment was semi sketchy. Seemed to be a "strip club" . Me and my buddy ordered a bottle of buchanans and we both took forever in our respective rooms. I'the have to get the name but maybe caras Linda's based off what the front looks like on google maps street view. Inside everything was fine haha but when we pulled up, late night, it looked like a good place to get robbed (we had no problems).
I have a childhood friend who came to US at age 8 who returned to live in Cali maybe 2018. Going to DR probably interests him a lot more than me and another buddy coming to Cali. Going to continue to read the forum and decide on a place w the best logistics. Cali is cool because I already have a connection there and DR would be new. I just want to enjoy some curvy women, good food, and an outdoor activity or two.
Slang.
[QUOTE=SlangTeng;2718011]Oh nice, getting around Cali seems inexpensive. Seems nearby Deluxe and Katmandu massage. I rly only found 1 or 2 hotels in the thread that seem to be chica friendly. I'm still between Cali and DR for Nov 10-21. Excited to post my first report regardless of destination. Unsure if I'll be able to sub to get PMs because the site's wallet has been blacklisted by Coinbase. I checked forum to see how others have subbed recently and it seemed to either be an Indian site (scam possibilities) and Binance (banned in US. Can VPN from here but binance may ban your wallet).
I actually did make another stop last time I was in Cali. Much lower quality girls. Establishment was semi sketchy. Seemed to be a "strip club" . Me and my buddy ordered a bottle of buchanans and we both took forever in our respective rooms. I'the have to get the name but maybe caras Linda's based off what the front looks like on google maps street view. Inside everything was fine haha but when we pulled up, late night, it looked like a good place to get robbed (we had no problems).
I have a childhood friend who came to US at age 8 who returned to live in Cali maybe 2018. Going to DR probably interests him a lot more than me and another buddy coming to Cali. Going to continue to read the forum and decide on a place w the best logistics. Cali is cool because I already have a connection there and DR would be new. I just want to enjoy some curvy women, good food, and an outdoor activity or two.
Slang.[/QUOTE]Just Go to the Dr bro.
Hope this Helps.
Trip.
I understand mileage may vary. But I saw there were women quoting men 100 USD. That's what turned me off from Costa Rica as an option. I have to imagine sosua is a sight to see though. I guess I can have my number and be firm on navigating that price. I liked that I already had a WhatsApp number of a chica ready to come thru & she's alrdy shared a friend of hers contact. I suppose it wouldn't be too difficult to get sumn going in DR and could always solo trip to Cali next year. I don't see myself hopping on a plane to pay 100 USD. Wouldn't make sense for me. I've seen a lot of your posts and know you have experience in both areas. I know I like Cali. But you think I'll like DR more? Dr Amor the women aren't walking around, hot and sweaty, the place is clean & outfits and makeup on point. You walk in and get to choose what you want w no worry of locking up your belongings or being drugged. I had never even heard of leche papi until I started reading the forum. I'the be willing to navigate all that if price point is similar with more to choose from.
[QUOTE=Orion4;2717183]Was in Cali from July 1 (after midnight arrival) until July 4 morning.
I'll preface this and say that this is my first time paying for sex and I was pretty nervous
I wasn't particular attracted to anyone there but a couple were fuckable. Picked this one dirty blonde girl. I was nervous af, but managed to get it up. Finished after 30 min and she asked if I wanted to eat her and said hell no LOL (I hate eating pussy and I'm not going down on a prostitute). Then she kept talking nonstop and I had to tell her to stop talking. At that time I was really turned off and just asked her if she can try to get me hard again. She tried for 2 minutes and gave up so we ended it early. She went back to her colleagues and they asked her "how was he" wtf?
Went out that night with my friend (female) and her female friends to a salsa club and then to a private party with a bunch of caleas and Brazilian grad students. Got wasted and the rest of the night is too personal and not relevant here.
I was very hangover and nauseous in the morning and decided to get a massage.
I don't think I can do much of this mongering thing. I felt very uncomfortable when the girls got up and lined themselves IP.
And I had to choose which one to fuck in front of the other girls (feels really degrading and cringey for the others). I thought it'the be a bit more discreet than that. At Dr. Amor I had to choose in front of the other girls but I think it might have been because I told the owner that I forget all their names and she took me to the girls sitting on the couch and asked me to point to the one I wanted (lmfao). Saramar was a little better but still not comfortable with the whole lineup thing.[/QUOTE]I have friends that seem to operate like you. Not many guys can operate comfortably in a casa. Maybe you might work better with a personal hook up. A chick to come and meet you in your room in a more private settings. This works wonders for them.
Something will can have sex in a doorless closet with a proud of onlookers staring at them. But not everybody can operate like Mr. E. As he said maybe eventually your confidence will move to other arenas.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2717886]I am the exact opposite. I lose my sex drive in places like Cartage when they tell me those high ass prices. I would rather use my sex drive in a cheaper place like Bogota.[/QUOTE]Overprice pussy It's like two guys kissing. Complete turn offs.
I have a lot of ex-pat friends I have met throughout my mongering career. I have learned that ex-pat guys operate on a different time schedule. With the exception of Mr. Gogo most guys do not move with the conscience of being on time.
Currently I'm in the mall waiting on Trip to arrive. We agreed at 2 o'clock. Knowing how ex-pats move I asked him to repeat the rendezvous time which he did. It gave us 2 1/2 hours of preparation time. Trip is ex military like myself however is easy to become a victim of his tardiness.
Normally with my ex pat friends I tell them I will see them around or go directly to their houses. I understand that ex pat and frequent travelers operate on different time schedules. My time is limited however Trip lives here. He's worse than a first time Tinder chica.
What makes matters worse is the only reason why I continue waiting on him is to give him the items he asked me to bring to him from the states. Other than that I would be back in my room puffing on Some Cali medication dancing to my own time schedule. I wish he was a chica so as soon as he arrived I could cancel the appointment For disrespecting my time.
Yo Trip for now on tell people you were in the Navy Air Force or the Marines!
Hi all,
Just looking for advice. I arrive in Cali in September. In Colombia for a month. Need to meet girls in Cali for a few days. Then go to Medellin Bogota etc. Any advice to meet 2-3 good girls for overnights for 3 days when I'm there?
[QUOTE=SlangTeng;2718125]I understand mileage may vary. But I saw there were women quoting men 100 USD. That's what turned me off from Costa Rica as an option. I have to imagine sosua is a sight to see though. I guess I can have my number and be firm on navigating that price. I liked that I already had a WhatsApp number of a chica ready to come thru & she's alrdy shared a friend of hers contact. I suppose it wouldn't be too difficult to get sumn going in DR and could always solo trip to Cali next year. I don't see myself hopping on a plane to pay 100 USD. Wouldn't make sense for me. I've seen a lot of your posts and know you have experience in both areas. I know I like Cali. But you think I'll like DR more? Dr Amor the women aren't walking around, hot and sweaty, the place is clean & outfits and makeup on point. You walk in and get to choose what you want w no worry of locking up your belongings or being drugged. I had never even heard of leche papi until I started reading the forum. I'the be willing to navigate all that if price point is similar with more to choose from.[/QUOTE]The reason I suggested the DR is because Cali is for a certain kind of Monger, a Patient one, One willing to learn the culture understand basic human nature etc.
Like I said Cali Lacks the all important H's that most american mongers want, No Hip-Hop not Hennessey and no Hoe Stroll. If you're not a fan of bodacious women you probably won't like Cali, If you can't and won't speak a word of Spanish you won't like Cali.
If you are a Casa guy and pay probably some of the cheapest prices in the world for the level of Talent then Cali is your city. One other downside is the relative lack of nightlife. There's salsa but nothing else. This is a day time city. There's a lot of non mongering touristy things to do but the nightlife is severely lacking.
I'm not trying to disuade you from coming to Cali I just didn't realize how much impact my posts have made, all I'm saying is a lot of guys like the idea of cheap pussy but they are willing to pay more to have a place where they can watch women and drink henny all day. You can defenitely do that in the DR.
I'd say that if you know what you're doing it's possible to get pussy for 15 to 20 dollars more in the DR.
Hope this Helps.
Trip.
[QUOTE=GrownMan1;2718158]I have a lot of ex-pat friends I have met throughout my mongering career. I have learned that ex-pat guys operate on a different time schedule. With the exception of Mr. Gogo most guys do not move with the conscience of being on time.
Currently I'm in the mall waiting on Trip to arrive. We agreed at 2 o'clock. Knowing how ex-pats move I asked him to repeat the rendezvous time which he did. It gave us 2 1/2 hours of preparation time. Trip is ex military like myself however is easy to become a victim of his tardiness.
Normally with my ex pat friends I tell them I will see them around or go directly to their houses. I understand that ex pat and frequent travelers operate on different time schedules. My time is limited however Trip lives here. He's worse than a first time Tinder chica.
What makes matters worse is the only reason why I continue waiting on him is to give him the items he asked me to bring to him from the states. Other than that I would be back in my room puffing on Some Cali medication dancing to my own time schedule. I wish he was a chica so as soon as he arrived I could cancel the appointment For disrespecting my time.
Yo Trip for now on tell people you were in the Navy Air Force or the Marines![/QUOTE]My bad I had a colombian chick in the states call me in crisis (at least she thought it was a crisis).
I'll be on time from now on.
Trip.
[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2718253]The reason I suggested the DR is because Cali is for a certain kind of Monger, a Patient one, One willing to learn the culture understand basic human nature etc.
Like I said Cali Lacks the all important H's that most american mongers want, No Hip-Hop not Hennessey and no Hoe Stroll. If you're not a fan of bodacious women you probably won't like Cali, If you can't and won't speak a word of Spanish you won't like Cali.
If you are a Casa guy and pay probably some of the cheapest prices in the world for the level of Talent then Cali is your city. One other downside is the relative lack of nightlife. There's salsa but nothing else. This is a day time city. There's a lot of non mongering touristy things to do but the nightlife is severely lacking.
I'm not trying to disuade you from coming to Cali I just didn't realize how much impact my posts have made, all I'm saying is a lot of guys like the idea of cheap pussy but they are willing to pay more to have a place where they can watch women and drink henny all day. You can definitely do that in the DR.
I'd say that if you know what you're doing it's possible to get pussy for 15 to 20 dollars more in the DR.
Hope this Helps.
Trip.[/QUOTE]Your posts in both here and DR forum have been great to read. I'm almost a "fan" of you and Grownman1. I've never really seen a hoe stroll (may be close to what some south Florida strip clubs are like on a weekend). Don't drink Hennessy (I mean I would but I don't seek it out). I like hip hop but don't leave my backyard to experience things I can experience in my own backyard. I'm not fluent in Spanish by any means but I wouldn't say I'm a beginner. I live in America but the number 1 language in my county is Spanish. I have coworkers who don't speak very much English. I wouldn't be able to experience Cali too well on my own though. But I have a friend who lives there and is fluent (he was born there). I'm not great at salsa but been taking classes w my girlfriend for the last 6 months or so. I'm certainly still a beginner. It takes a decent amount of time to get past basic salsa.
All that being said, Gornwman had left some advice in the DR forum in the sub (CR / DR / Colombia). He said "go to both" LOL. He said go experience the new one and then return to the one you've already been to. I believe he hit the nail on the head. I'll go to both. But I do believe I'll start with DR.
[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2718253]The reason I suggested the DR is because Cali is for a certain kind of Monger, a Patient one, One willing to learn the culture understand basic human nature etc.
Like I said Cali Lacks the all important H's that most american mongers want, No Hip-Hop not Hennessey and no Hoe Stroll. If you're not a fan of bodacious women you probably won't like Cali, If you can't and won't speak a word of Spanish you won't like Cali. .[/QUOTE]Just a side note, but the H's that you mention aren't things I, nor most of my monger friends look for. Just saying that it's pretty hard to pin down the definition of an 'American' monger. We're all shapes and sizes LOL.
Outside of that I would agree that in Cali one will have a tough time if they don't speak some Spanish and add that the overall dirtier and sketchier town will not be to the liking of many.
[QUOTE=Chicago85;2718585]Just a side note, but the H's that you mention aren't things I, nor most of my monger friends look for. Just saying that it's pretty hard to pin down the definition of an 'American' monger. We're all shapes and sizes LOL.
Outside of that I would agree that in Cali one will have a tough time if they don't speak some Spanish and add that the overall dirtier and sketchier town will not be to the liking of many.[/QUOTE]It's hard to explain but I met over 45 guys here. I love Cali but there's some big downsides. Cali is primarily a daytime city, A lot of the casas close down at night .They service the local afterwork crowd. All the clubs are salsa clubs there's bars but there's no bars where you can expect to meet an expat or fellow monger like that. They don't play US sports on the TV's in the bars. In theory a chica will overnight with you but they don't generally even consider that a monger would want that.
On the flip side they aren't good at faking that they like you or are into what you're into. There's a few expats here but it's like African expats they get into relationships with locals and don't try to hang out or meet new expats. There's a group that I occasionally see at the Chipichape Mall food court but they're digital nomads not retirees so they are generally busy.
99% of mongers that I meet want me to point them to some girl of their dreams then they forget that I'm alive until the girl leaves then they call me back and want to drink beers with me while I babysit them until their next session. I'm actually not a big drinker I'll tell any Monger anything that want to know about Cali and I'm friendly but not your friend. Just like these hoes are.
What I mean is I'm an active retiree and like I said this town can be boring so I like doing non mongering stuff In my experience generally Mongers want to talk to other gringos and girl watch until they meet a chica they like then the run off to fuck her. I. e. They want a hoe stroll. There's obviously an actually street meat stroll but most dudes don't want to go to Plaza Caicedo or Centro They want an upscale stroll where women pretend they're not hooking when they actually are I. E. A Parque Llreas or a Clock Tower or a El Conde, a Pedro Clisante or a wlaking street in Asia. There's nothing like that in Cali.
I like Cali because it's dirt cheap I can't pick up as easily as I could in the DR (I'm working on that) but I can fuck dozens of entry level service workers. Like Grown Man says I like to fuck the help.
And it took me several months before I was able to get this far, most don't have the patience especially not for a week or less vacation so as much as I want everyone to come to Cali I have to admit Cali is not good for everyone. I'm willing to help point anyone toward the pussy that they want but I'm not willing to be a personal mascot for bored mongers who can't find pussy after midnight on a random Monday night.
That's another thing Cali isn't a 24 hour party city it's possible to get a Tinder app girl to come to your hotel at 3 am but the vast majority won't especially if you insist on staying in the North because most of the pussy is in the south.
Hope this Helps.
Trip.
[QUOTE=TripleDarknes;2719076]It's hard to explain but I met over 45 guys here. I love Cali but there's some big downsides. Cali is primarily a daytime city, A lot of the casas close down at night .They service the local afterwork crowd. All the clubs are salsa clubs there's bars but there's no bars where you can expect to meet an expat or fellow monger like that. They don't play US sports on the TV's in the bars. In theory a chica will overnight with you but they don't generally even consider that a monger would want that. .[/QUOTE]Very much agree with everything. One thing that I noted is it's pretty dead socially after 5:30/6 pm and before 9 am. At least in the Versailles and downtown area. There aren't really lounges or sports bars to grab a drink. I know many people live further south and more affluent folks in the far south. Guess they high tail it after work. The economic challenges of Covid and higher unemployment may also be preventing some folks from going out much socially.