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[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]You like that huh... then you should love this one...
SHE bought me Gold :D
A gold wedding band :( and expects me to wear it... But she swears she does not want to get married even though there are bridal magazines all over the apartment. :([/QUOTE]
May I suggest a double wedding at LL in a few weeks.
You and Miss ***, standing next to me and Miss T. we will be married by the Buddhist priests, then everyone in the pool.
You can buy me gold any day Tansak, you noti boy.;)
PS. The hilarious thing about her buying you gold, is she bought it with THE MONEY YOU GIVE HER. Next thing you know, she will buy herself a nice little 3 carat diamond, to wear on her wedding finger.
ROFLMAO
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[QUOTE=1Ball]...
PS. The hilarious thing about her buying you gold, is she bought it with THE MONEY YOU GIVE HER. Next thing you know, she will buy herself a nice little 3 carat diamond, to wear on her wedding finger.
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[/QUOTE]Mr. VP,
No, that's the diamond I gave to her long time ago. She will buy Thai gold - she can sell that better after the wedding :) !
Giotto
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[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]I've known more than a few BGs who have had gold bought for them by punters.
Few regular TGs wear much gold, unless they're of the farmer's daughter variety. You won't find middle class and above TGs wearing those gaudy gold chains etc. It's considered tacky and low-class.[/QUOTE]
Yes my current GF only has a tiny gold chain to hang her ruby pendant. Fortunately she is not into gold in general.
My previous GF was into gold. But asking for gold was just the same as asking for money. She never held onto the gold for long.
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[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]Funny... but in reverse... when they stop drinking and eating at expensive places and decide to walk instead of taxi, study their english lessons instead of watch TV, and wear flip flops or such instead of high heels and say things like, we should save the money for our future is when you know it is time to head for the hills..... Especially when you find yourself sitting on some plastic seats at folding table eating somtam with her family or going to their home and having the monks and others putting yellow string around your wrists... it's time to monger in manila for a while...
But they never stop enjoying the chocolate from overseas.....
You want to learn what not to do... follow me and you'll learn a lot ;)[/QUOTE]
My GF was an incredibly frugal girl when I first met her. Didn't seem to ask for anything. Now its all going bad. Wants presents often. Seems to get more and more expensive.
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[QUOTE=Giotto]No, that's the diamond I gave to her long time ago. [/QUOTE]
Ah... so that came from you huh.... wondered where that came from :)
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Thai girls from different regions can have distinctive looks of the region at times. Sometimes it can be wrong.
I just met a Thai girl outside of Thailand and claimed that she had a definite "Khon Kaen" look. Lucky guess. I was spot on.
On the other hand I once took a Songkhla (southern) girl to the Issaan and all the locals were upset when she refused to speak Issaan dialect as she apparently looked very Issan. Maybe too many of her ancestors were Issaan.
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[QUOTE=Mick Licker]Thai girls from different regions can have distinctive looks of the region at times. Sometimes it can be wrong.
I just met a Thai girl outside of Thailand and claimed that she had a definite "Khon Kaen" look. Lucky guess. I was spot on.
On the other hand I once took a Songkhla (southern) girl to the Issaan and all the locals were upset when she refused to speak Issaan dialect as she apparently looked very Issan. Maybe too many of her ancestors were Issaan.[/QUOTE]
There are a lot of Isaan people working in the South and have been for a long time. So, there's a good chance that your girl might have had some mixed genes in there, somewhere. The South is at best, a polyglot of mixed races with Indian, Malay, Thai, Chinese, Isaan etc. all having "got their dicks in" as a mate from London so crudely, but accurately puts it. As a result, though Southern girls can be some of the most beautiful around, although the Thais don't like them because they're dark and they speak Southern Thai which is considered very abrupt, loud, brash and rude.
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[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]Funny... but in reverse... when they stop drinking and eating at expensive places and decide to walk instead of taxi, study their english lessons instead of watch TV, and wear flip flops or such instead of high heels and say things like, we should save the money for our future is when you know it is time to head for the hills..... Especially when you find yourself sitting on some plastic seats at folding table eating somtam with her family or going to their home and having the monks and others putting yellow string around your wrists... it's time to monger in manila for a while...
But they never stop enjoying the chocolate from overseas.....
You want to learn what not to do... follow me and you'll learn a lot ;)[/QUOTE]
It's no different wherever the girl comes from, or whether she's a poor farm-girl or a HiSo 'dek noo' from Bangkok.
I think that the farm-girls have relatively modest expectations, centering on gold (of course), building a new home for her family, a motorcycle or two for her 'brothers' and perhaps a pickup truck for Dad.
In contrast, a slightly more upper-crust girl will have wildly extravagant desires:
1/ Diamonds etc.
2/ anything Prada, Dolce Cabbana, Armani
3/ travel outside of Thailand and probably, outside of Asia
In recent weeks, my GF, because she's been hanging with a richer crowd, lately, has decided she wants to go to The Maldives for a holiday and shopping in Paris and Milan - the later, because I was there in the summer with my students. So, she thinks it can't be that expensive to go there (getting there isn't expensive. It's the staying and living there that'll kill you).
In the face of this, one has to take a firm stance and hope for the best, or start shopping for a new girl.
So, Tansak, you should count your lucky stars. ;)
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[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]...In recent weeks, my GF, because she's been hanging with a richer crowd, lately, has decided she wants to go to The Maldives for a holiday and shopping in Paris and Milan...[/QUOTE]
Duh ... Do ya think it might be time to put your head back on and get back to good old p4p? :)
Just minutes ago, I waved bye bye to my two little threesome puppies after a lovely hour of hot sex, and all they wanted was 500 baht each and a mini chocolate bar.
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It's just gold...
[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]...In contrast, a slightly more upper-crust girl will have wildly extravagant desires:1/ Diamonds etc. 2/ anything Prada, Dolce Cabbana, Armani 3/ travel outside of Thailand and probably, outside of Asia[/QUOTE]
Methinks that a poor Isaan farm girl might be a relative bargain and much easier to keep happy (and horny) than your preferred Hi-So types!
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[QUOTE=Daddy07]Duh ... Do ya think it might be time to put your head back on and get back to good old p4p? :)
Just minutes ago, I waved bye bye to my two little threesome puppies after a lovely hour of hot sex, and all they wanted was 500 baht each and a mini chocolate bar.[/QUOTE]
Nah. I was only actually saying this in very general terms and somewhat, tongue in cheak... In my case, the GF isn't being serious. It was more of a flight of fancy on her part, inspired by her new friends, and we both had a bit of a joke about it. But, for a few girls in the upper strata (not the majority, by any means, despite what some may think), the demands are serious and one is expected to fulfill them. These girls are generally not with Farang, anyway. So, it's not a problem any of us are likely to face. Rich Thai guys, on the other hand are the ones who really have to deal with it. However, I find that many of the richest girls I know are actually relatively modest to the point of being somewhat cheap. It's the upwardly mobile middle-class girls that Farang have to watch out for.
BTW, Daddy...You and others have predicted my return to P4P. But, it's simply not going to happen, if for no other reason than...(do I have to say this, AGAIN?, YAWN!), I find the girls ugly! Sorry. I just can't help it. I'm sitting at home alone tonight and was contemplating heading over to Cowboy. But, the idea of wasting money on drinks while looking at, what I think are sub-standard girls, just turns me off. If it works for you, then more power to you. It's great that you're having the time of your life. But, you already know that they don't do a thing for me, anymore. I get lambasted for it, time and again. But, it's simply a matter of taste, and there's nothing I can do about it. I got bored with them a long time ago, to the point that I find many of them somewhat repulsive, and that's not about to change.
I would rather just wait for my Gig, who's coming over for a couple of nights this week. Now, she's a real hottie from Northern Thailand, the source of the best looking women in the country (IMO).
I don't want to get into another of these types of discussions. The usual suspects will raise their troglodyte heads and rip into me just for the sake of it. There'll likely be some wank who says..."This is a board about mongering and P4P. If you don't like it, why are you here?" etc. etc....
Someone will pipe in that, "to each his own". More mud-slinging will occur...blah,blah,blah...
You do your thing with your little cuties, as you say, and let me enjoy my little tastes of forbidden fruit.
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[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]I would rather just wait for my Gig, who's coming over for a couple of nights this week. Now, she's a real hottie from Northern Thailand, the source of the best looking women in the country (IMO).[/QUOTE]
The big problem with the women from Northern Thailand is smoking. It's endemic. And, whilst many of the girls up there are pretty when they are 20, due to the unavoidable effects of the chemicals in cigarette smoke on delicate female skin (combined with a few months of hot sun every year), most of them have faces the texture of a workman's boot long before they reach 30.
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[QUOTE=Terry Terrier]The big problem with the women from Northern Thailand is smoking. It's endemic. And, whilst many of the girls up there are pretty when they are 20, due to the unavoidable effects of the chemicals in cigarette smoke on delicate female skin (combined with a few months of hot sun every year), most of them have faces the texture of a workman's boot long before they reach 30.[/QUOTE]
Really? I guess I've been lucky then. I've never met one who smokes, (and I've met many) nor would I date one who does.
"The face like an old boot" and worse, syndrome can apply to most P4P girls. While some might be cute when they're 19, 20, they often look years beyond their age only a few years later. Most have absolutely atrocious skin under all that paint they wear, from working in less-than-healthy environments. It was pointed out to me years ago by a much "Older" Thai Hand that the thing that separated bargirls' appearance from that of regular TGs, more than any other was their skin, describing bargirls' skin as "waxy and vampire-like" after being on the game for awhile. In contrast, he observed that regular TGs can be noted for their freshness and healthy glow. In my experience, what he said has proven to be basically true.
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[QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]...You do your thing with your little cuties, as you say, and let me enjoy my little tastes of forbidden fruit.[/QUOTE]
Oh, I wouldn’t dream of trying to drag you back into the ugly, sleazy world of Pattaya p4p, OTH.
Besides, I’m intrigued by your present situation, and await all the fascinating future reports of your upcoming tour of Paris, Milan, the Isle of Capri, Monaco, and the rest of high society Europe with the GF. I’m sure you can do it fairly cheaply if only you stay away from high priced champagne, haute cuisine, high fashion clothing, and the five star hotels. Will she be satisfied with a bit less than the best? :)
Seriously now, I too find myself once again with yet another golden opportunity to sample life with a good Thai girl. For several months now, I’ve been admiring from afar a tiny, delicate and stunningly beautiful young lady as she walks past my house on her way to work at the local neighborhood restaurant. When I often go there to eat, I’ve done nothing more than smile and be perfectly polite to her, though I admit to having many secret thoughts of stripping her naked and ravaging her lovely young body with my mouth.
Recently, to my complete surprise, my next door neighbor, a gay man, confided to me that this girl has been asking about me incessantly; where am I from, whether I live alone, have a wife, a girlfriend, etc. The next time I saw her I noticed that she was paying particularly close attention to me; looking in my direction, smiling provocatively, and making herself available at my table to chit chat. I suggested that she might like to go to America to visit one day. She replied without hesitation: “I go with you.” I then asked her if she might help me to learn Thai language if I helped her with English, and she eagerly agreed.
Our first ‘date’ consisted of a one hour Thai-English language lesson at my place, followed by a short jaunt on my motorbike to Jomtien beach for some Thai food at an outside stall complex. She told me that she lives down the street from me with her widowed auntie and family. She’s 21 years old, and, (get this!), has never had a boyfriend, not even a date; never been kissed, not even held hands; and now she wants ME to be her boyfriend. In short, this little Thai girl is as pure and innocent as the driven snow, a virgin, and totally inexperienced in matters of male-female relationships and sex.
Well, I don’t mind telling you, it scared the shit out of me! I told her that I’m way too old for her; that I see many ladies -- bar ladies; and it would not be fair to her if I were her boyfriend. She merely nodded and smiled sweetly. Now she calls me every day to ask what I’m doing, and wants to see me. I promised to take her to the beach tomorrow.
And, I have promised myself that I am never going to lay a hand on this pristine baby, but be only a perfect gentleman with her at all times from now on. As much as I would love to fuck the snot out of her, the mere thought of breaking her innocent baby heart makes me sick to my filthy perverted stomach. No, no, no, a thousand times no, I will not do it. I will not try to do it. I cannot do it. I won’t. It’s not right.
P4p for me now; p4p for me tomorrow; p4p for me forever!
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[QUOTE=Daddy07]And, I have promised myself that I am never going to lay a hand on this pristine baby, but be only a perfect gentleman with her at all times from now on. As much as I would love to fuck the snot out of her, the mere thought of breaking her innocent baby heart makes me sick to my filthy perverted stomach. No, no, no, a thousand times no, I will not do it. I will not try to do it. I cannot do it. I won’t. It’s not right.
P4p for me now; p4p for me tomorrow; p4p for me forever![/QUOTE]
I agree with you. It wouldn't be fair. What would you possibly have in common? I would bet that she's quite immature. If some TG was calling me everyday, I'd go nuts.
Stick with what you want.
BTW, while your first paragraph is meant to be funny, I still detect some derision in your tone. Why fault me for my choice of having a GF? As it is, I will probably travel with her somewhere because it would be a pleasure. She is a very fun girl. Remember Daddy, you're not even a year in, here...I've been where you are a thousand times. Most of us (not all) who have done what you're doing move on. Some don't because like you, they don't want any sort of committment or entanglement. Both scenarios are valid.