[QUOTE=StinkySquid;2757180]I am probably the grumpiest failure of a monger around. And my first week of Thailand (as a free man) is coming to a close. And I have much to complain.
First of all, I had fancied the idea of going to these BJ bars, Lolitas and Kasalong, an I made sure I stayed very close by. But these were completely dead let down. They aren't even trying. I mean at Lolitas they were supposed to wear cute schoolgirl uniforms, but like I said, they aren't even trying. There is some older hags sitting around. Kasalong, I gave it an attempt anyway. The seasoned attendant (the only one showing any interest to serve) did her routine, but also, I felt without any real effort, as time went on, it didn't do it for me. When time was up, I decided I wouldn't force it and wouldn't pay another round of this.
Overall the freelancer scene around the Nana Hotel did not impress me. The very few who I might find pretty seem to have a horrible attitude, looking bored, messing with their cellphones. Back from my youth, Thai girls had a special allure to me, but as my life moved on, I see in many of them the faces of elderly Chinese women who I worked with professionally, it's hard to unsee that. Thai women look a lot younger than they are on the surface, up to a point. So many of the freelancers there I am sure are scratching their 40's. But then the young appearance is false, and it's hard to unsee the elderly Chinese colleagues in their faces. Since I like curves, it's another thing missing here. Those who do have them seem very tall and I don't like that, especially since I abhor even the slightest risk of ending up with a tranny after my one incident in Bogota.
I had no interest to sit down in any of those bars with the old dudes. I walked around inside the Nana Plaza, and I guess I should have done a go-go bar once. Probably will do that still while here. But I have no interest in drinking beer and be pushed to drink more. Today in the early afternoon I walked all the way from Nana to Silom and Patpong, and Patpong was a very sad sight. Seemed totally dead. Of course it may have been too early in the day, but I remember 10 years ago in the early afternoon there was still something going on. Now it looks like half of the places are closed altogether. I don't even recognize any of it any more.
Yesterday I was at Aya for a Nuru. And I guess that was alright. I came out smiling. So I had read about all the Nuru places. How Chrome Bar is essentially closed and you have to pick someone from Wood Bar (oh, yes, there too I found nothing appetizing sitting on that balcony so I didn't go in. Doki Doki and Aya was on my short list. Since the girl I wanted from Doki wasn't on the roster of the day, I decided for Aya. Actually I read one dude saying the Doki or the other way more expensive place starting with D also (can't remember) were using lots of Nuru gel and that the lack of friction was actually detrimental. Another dude was complaining that Aya wasn't using enough of the gel. So I thought, that should be good. Went to Aya and took Kate because she has more curves (a little chubby belly which I don't mind, especially with that belly button piercing). She was nice, I like falling in love a bit with my girl, like Trantra, you know, where you go in with the heart. She was open to that. She isn't a massage professional (she learned it from a friend who I guess initiated her in the art) but I can say that the standard of practice in Thailand is certainly far superior that of Brazil, therefore, even just some casually inducted girl will do a better job than in South America. So I quite enjoyed the pressure she applied, and the thought of being ridden up and down my back with that girl's pussy was quite a nice thought to behold. Couldn't wait to turn around though and have her do the same on my front side, all the way up over my face. I didn't even mind that she wasn't shaved. DFK was so-so, but she didn't turn away, which was nice. I took a long time, so much that our time of 60 minutes ran out. So I ended up buying another 1500 over on top of the 3000 I had paid (lesson here: next time I take 90 min right from the start, cheaper that way). I did it because we had good chemistry. I helped with my hand while she was slurping with her mouth and looked at me quite in a nice way from down there. And finally I came. She caught the first squirt or 3 large ones, and she made me think she gulped that first one down. Nice touch. Then we had time left, showered again and she was doing more massage which was pleasant. I would see her again I think. Like I said, I went out smiling.
So it wasn't all bad. And maybe I still get into the groove.
But the world's grumpiest failure of a monger will go on grumping a bit. I can't wait to get home to South America. Because I like them more there. Not just the curves and all, but also even the attitude. One thing that I notice a lot, and did not at all expect, and really I find it upsetting, is that they are quite discriminatory of age here. I don't look that old, and I don't look that bad, yet I feel like because of my age showing in my hair color, the younger ones don't even try to get my attention (I mean the freelancers). And on the ThaiFriendly site, even though its all full of freelancers there, I have a similar suspicion. In Colombia and Brazil I feel much less of that.
Having just come from India, where this age issue is even worse, I was nevertheless thinking that actually India could be better, even cheaper, for mongering, with the only problem being that the "red light districts" don't have nice accommodation, which is the biggest turn off there. Not even a room they have. But as far as attractiveness of girls, actually I was surprised to find myself wishing for a moment to be back there. Or have the girls from there in the atmosphere of here, with less crowds (the crowds of dudes over there are a turn off, that's better here. The old geezers here are mostly not part-taking in the action, instead they just sit and drink beer.).
What I find alarming and a possible sign of the entire scene collapsing soon is the fact that there are so many couples and even families to be seen around here. The pessimist grump in me sees that the good old days are over, and soon Bangkok will be just a place of wistful memories of old long gone times, with families touring around like the Mulain Rouge in Paris or New Orleans, maybe ordering a drink called "Blow Jog" but girls all getting virtual attention on Only Fans. Oh, and what's it with the hair dye here? I remember 20 years ago, when I was here not as a free man, I was so smitten by their long black hair, held together by crocodile clips, I loved that. And I could see their faces. Now they are all running around with masks, these stupid masks! And even 10 years ago I had noticed these stupid hair cuts they started to use, like imported from China or Japan. God, I hate these stupid hair cuts with the stupid fringes, and then all colored brown or blond. This is odious!
So there you have it. Mr. Grump is not impressed. Next is Pattaya.[/QUOTE]As a long-term resident, I can say there is a lot of truth to your report. Ageism has become an issue here as venues like Thermae are filled with young Asian punters whom the gals find quite attractive. The.
Preferred aesthetic amongst the gals is now cute young boyish almost feminine Asian dudes. And they're also willing to pay more and tend to accept what they're given which are the trump cards. When I moved here over 20 years ago it was the 50 and 60 something Western guys who had the best looking gals. Mainly because they were the ones who had the money and also because most had the swagger which was attractive to the women back then as it was a contrast to the local lads. Most younger Western guys I know here don't participate in the P4 P seen it all and instead have what I would consider less than attractive local girlfriends who drag them around by their short and curlies.
Honestly, I found many of the gals online to be much more accommodating in that they are used to older local punters. But for the tourist and for those who don't at least speak some of the language it's really not a good option is it requires a lot of research and time.
I haven't been to South America but your sentiment is echoed amongst the many dudes I know who have. Asia is becoming the realm of the Asian punter. Western guys are only a small part of the market now. And I don't see that changing.
