I really appreciate that comment
[QUOTE=LuvChicas;2670465]Oste amigo, "keep on fishing! Cut the bait (*****)". You don't want to put yourself in that position again with a known thief! Just my 2 cents worth opinion. Luvchicas.[/QUOTE]Perhaps I did not carry over enough info from the previous posts about Caribe. The main reason I had an ongoing affair with Caribe was, best sex ever. Delivered early on time for daily morning wood.
She is the only girl who ever got me to tap out in the middle of sex and at the same time she would have none of it. I was never into Domination and Submission before her but she knew how to get me to do things in bed I did not want to do, never did before, and by the end of the session be happy that I did it. Until the theft I was thinking about possibly putting her in at Number Ten or even expanding my list a couple of slots to include her, but not now.
Does it make sense? No. Am I demonstrating rationale thinking? Of course not. Whenever my little head does my thinking for my big head, I have to accept consequences such as these. I have no regrets. Already in her mind it's as if nothing bad ever happened.
As long as I have Catgirl at the Numero Uno position on my Top Ten List as my True Love, then I can handle "come what may" (Shakespeare) with the other chicas. I have no death wish, but if I die tomorrow I die a happy man, so true, with no regrets. Ostee Out.
I found your observations interesting
[QUOTE=Recondite;2670468]Throughout my trip I've had some interesting conversations with some of the girls I've seen that have given me some perspective / ideas about how Paisas see interpersonal and sexual relationships. There are definitely different tiers of relationships they have with men.[/QUOTE]Four interesting categories that certainly had the ring of truth.
The Open Relationship with your Latina esposa caught my eye because that's what I have with my Numero Uno Novia Catgirl here, a pure Paisa. Unlike your experience, I have met many chicas here who expect their men and husbands to have affairs on the side. There is even a saying here that roughly translates to, "You can have a wife and girlfriends, just don't do it up front". That means do not fool around in ways that would cause embarrassment to your wife, her family and friends. Sort of, "Don't ask, don't tell". There is also another expression in Medellin that translates to, "When your wife cheats on you, she probably cheats with another woman. "
Both of these aphorisms I have experienced with Catgirl. The less than stellar days like the one I had recently with Caribe cause me to stop, pause and think, is it all worth it? I am really in love with Catgirl. We have known each other for over three years and been a couple for two years, and she is the sole reason I came to Medellin. The presumption is that she would be willing to settle down one-on-one with me and I am not sure that is the case. She seems to love her funky freedom as much as I do. Time will tell.
I agree your categories exit, but I don't compartmentalize the chicas as much. I see the chicas here on a continuum with the extremes at both ends. Pure hardcore Pay 4 Play at one end, and the real, regular loving chica on the other end. Amazingly, they all seem to love sex.
I have also never encountered a relationship culture close to the one here in Medellin anywhere else in the word, another notable point.
As you also pointed out, knowing Spanish makes a huge difference at whatever level you choose to engage these chicas.
Who is the hot tour guide
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[QUOTE=Nclpimp;2670563]That bangs? I interested in perhpas doing comuna 13 o guatape and then banging after. Pm me if you prefer.[/QUOTE]I'd be interested as well. Please PM me. Thank you in advance.
Get robbed by the polices
So I was staying at laurels area near street 70. I pick a good spot where two cameras ahead of me and near my hotel. I saw one of the camera should be watched by the police I thought I will be safe. After I finish my cigar. Probably mixed with tiny bit of marijuana I didn't feel anything. I were still standing there using my phone for another few minutes. Then 2 motorcycle cops approach me. Asked me what country I am from. In a harsh way. I told them I thought it was candy. The cop talk to me harshly laughed. And The other guy seems serious as shit but he says we can solve it the other way. And he says cameras are watching. Lets go to another places. Then we dozen steps and I only have few 50 k bills and few 2 k bills. I gave them 1 50 k. And the police wanted 2 50 k. I gave them what they want and the cop leaves. Like. I was smelling real weed at the street 70. The busiest street at laurels. Nobody fucking care. Wtf. I later ask someone. They says it is legal. The cops just lied to me. What happen if I don't give them money? Will they harm me? Or lock me up for 24 hours Then release me?