Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=MojoBandit;2675122]In the past there has been discussion about how FB chicas and others are constantly late or do not show up. Some say that it is just part of the culture in Medellin while others have argued that this is not true. [/QUOTE]In the Bogota thread, I talk about 80% no shows rates for my Seeking dates. It took me a month in Bogota of regular, non-pro dating to realize that when a girl says.

"Hey, lets have coffee this evening. " it means nothing. I've had so many girls match me on Tinder, ask me for my WhatsApp, ask when we can meet, and then give me radio silence.

After a month of pursuing normal pussy, (I banged 6 civvies in just over a month) I gave up. It just wasn't worth the bother. And I turned to the dark side of mongering. And I love it.

Having travelling to many different parts of the world, and lived on 3 continents, I am a firm believer that there is a strong correlation between how successful a country is, and how punctual it's general population are. People in the Western world value their and other people's time, so understand the need to be reliable and on time; developing countries on the other hand.

[QUOTE=MojoBandit;2675122]In the past there has been discussion about how FB chicas and others are constantly late or do not show up.[/QUOTE]I used to find Colombians pretty reliable as far as showing up. During this trip I have realized that has gone to total shit. And I am even talking about normal chicks that I already knew.

One story out of at least 20 since I have been here the past 3 weeks. Lawyer chick that I mess with (or did as I have blocked her now) told me to come to her house. She lives far. When I get there at noon her brother tells me she was just standing right where you are 1 minute ago. I have no idea where she went. I call and call and call and message while standing in the burning sun but no answer.

I go back to my place. She sends a message talking about she is at the bank right around the corner from where I am staying. I said I guess that means you are coming here when you leave there since I have already wasted 35 K and 2 hours going to your house. No answer until the next day. Looks like from now on I will be spending more time in Brazil where this kind of BS is not happening.

The culture and especially the chicas here are living and breathing proof of Einstein's Special Theory of Relativity. That is, the rate at which time passes depends on your frame of reference. I am serious as a heart attack on this.

Furthermore, to assume that how the culture here in Medellin relates to time is somehow inferior to the way we use time in other parts of the world, especially and including the United States, would be a misstep in my opinion.

Bad for business? Perhaps, but I will not concede that point.

In fact, I could argue, but I won't at this "time" that the rest of the world should follow Medellin's example, instead of the other way around. This is one of the main reasons we say, "Medellin is Magic."

Some recent gratuitous fotos from the last 24 hours.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2674825]I don't think she played me as much as she really was going for the boyfriend angle. I told her I did not need another girlfriend, but I am usually available for a working girl who delivers. This is also another good example of why I love my Top Ten List of girls. Dependable, affectionate, predictable, on-time performers who I know I can trust.[/QUOTE]I am not sure it was the BF angle. I met a Mexican girl from seeking in Mexico City, and it was one of the best sexual nights of my life, I was looking forward to seeing her again. I came back and was there four days. I was looking forward to meeting her, but I got cancellations from her on days 1 and day 2. She was doing the Lucy thing of pulling back the football at the last minute and on day 3, I was done.

On day 4, she finally sees me, comes over, and I literally spent like an hour with her, and the sex was a shell of what it was. I told her I had to leave the country but in reality, I had a different girl I wanted to see.

She texted me later and said, "I am sorry this weekend did not end up like either of us wanted." I did not respond. I wanted to text, "Woman, you got exactly what you wanted. I flew in here and we were on your crazy ass schedule the whole time. Who the fuck do you think you are jerking me around like this?" but I texted nothing. I look at sugaring as an investment and my time is more valuable than money. If I invest my time in you, and you cannot show up, I am out. I can make more money. I cannot make more time.

Now I realize that I was being shit tested, and I think you were too. "Is he going to love me and care about me no matter how I behave? Because I want a man who is going to stand by me on my worst days. " They are sabotaging a relationship before it begins because they know they are going to fuck up in the future. These women want a simp or a guy who is going to discipline them when they are bad and they can claim victim status. Whatever the reason, I am out.

The women who respect my time and money always got the most of both out of me, but it is amazing how few women get that.

Has anyone been to Chica Boom sports bar? I've searched the thread and can't find anything. But their posts have started showing up on my FB thread. Kinda reminded me of the thailand bar photos that would appear on my thread a few years ago, which got me interested. Just curious if anyone has any positive or negative thoughts.

I'm case it's useful. Here's a map from the forosprepagos forum of places to go to in Medellin, it's pretty detailed and mostly legible even if your Spanish is poor. [URL]https://goo.gl/maps/SpRCnsHFLumHWvCt9[/URL].

[QUOTE=FudiMaar;2675137]Having travelling to many different parts of the world, and lived on 3 continents, I am a firm believer that there is a strong correlation between how successful a country is, and how punctual it's general population are. People in the Western world value their and other people's time, so understand the need to be reliable and on time; developing countries on the other hand.[/QUOTE]Nah, you are reading it wrong. Colombians are friendly people and they will talk to strangers more often than other people. When it actually comes to showing up, they at first often get cold feet, but that is the same everywhere. When I am arranging meets, if the woman does not text and confirm that day, I assume they will no-show. It is always a good idea to have a backup plan for no shows.

When I have met Colombian women and developed a friendship with them, they are as reliable as anywhere.

The reason Colombia has not done well economically despite its abundant resources is not the work ethic of its people. Last night, I video chatted with my gal, and her daughter was doing home work. She is a teenager, and she was exhausted. She goes to school all day and does 3 hours of homework night after night. Her studies are just as demanding as mine were at that age.

Colombia is poor because the government corruption is horrific. Those officials just steal the country blind.

[QUOTE=FlagRunner77;2675218]Has anyone been to Chica Boom sports bar? I've searched the thread and can't find anything. But their posts have started showing up on my FB thread. Kinda reminded me of the thailand bar photos that would appear on my thread a few years ago, which got me interested. Just curious if anyone has any positive or negative thoughts.[/QUOTE]I've never been there, but I read reviews on various sites. Most reviews are very bad. Watered down drinks and padded tabs. Appears the waitresses try to get the customers to buy shots for them. 25 mil per shot. IMO, the waitresses are not attractive in the photos on the internet. Several reviewers said they were charged for drinks they didn't order. Customers were told the tab must be over 500 mil to pay with a credit card. Sounds like a place to avoid.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2675174]The culture and especially the chicas here are living and breathing proof of Einstein's Special Theory of Relativity. That is, the rate at which time passes depends on your frame of reference. I am serious as a heart attack on this.

Furthermore, to assume that how the culture here in Medellin relates to time is somehow inferior to the way we use time in other parts of the world, especially and including the United States, would be a misstep in my opinion.

Bad for business? Perhaps, but I will not concede that point.

In fact, I could argue, but I won't at this "time" that the rest of the world should follow Medellin's example, instead of the other way around. This is one of the main reasons we say, "Medellin is Magic..[/QUOTE]Not sure what you are driving at here, but if it's about the myth of "Colombian time," IE. Being late is perfectly normal or even expected, "so laid back, tranquillo," I'm always ready to correct it. "Colombian time" only applies to your time, not theirs. Just leave a Colombian waiting and watch your phone blow up in less than a minute. When talking about the girls the same typically applies when they show up early. They want immediate attention.

I see that Patrick's Irish Pub in Poblado has something going on for St. Patrick's Day. Are there any other options to celebrate the holiday in Medellin tonight?

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2675408]...Colombia is poor because the government corruption is horrific. Those officials just steal the country blind.[/QUOTE]I thought it was because they don't have a study desk in their homes. Something we take for granted is not easy to find in average home in South America. They also have way too many holidays compared to US. LOL.

The problem I see is that highly skilled workers are not easy to find like in US. You can find them and it is much cheaper but it is like finding diamond in the rough when compared to US.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2675471]I thought it was because they don't have a study desk in their homes.[/QUOTE]Illuminating, nugget, kernel.

And is really wouldn't be so hard or expensive to fix. Thank you.

I will be in Medellin next week arriving in 22nd, looking for pointers for chica friendly place to stay. Any one want to hangout for beer or coffee.

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[QUOTE=Nounce;2675471]I thought it was because they don't have a study desk in their homes. Something we take for granted is not easy to find in average home in South America. They also have way too many holidays compared to US. LOL...[/QUOTE]When I was young, we did not have a study desk at my place. Yet, my dad was tough about doing my homework, and checking grade reports. The man never went to school in his life but he can read numbers and identify good / bad grades. Luckily, by the time I reached high school, my dad had managed to get us a study table for the entire family.

I think also that Latin culture, unlike other cultures, does not emphasize education much.