"Good Luck and Move On" - Will It Keep Working?
[QUOTE=11Bravo;2770408]The [B]FIRST[/B] 7000 k [S]...[/S] OK, new, and didn't do Professor Kingsfield's [U]reading[/U] assignment to find out prices. Yes, Thermae MIGHT carry a premium, but given the going quote of a LT agogo lady is 5 K, plus 1 K bar fine, perhaps not SO out of line for a TRUE LT. Like you said, you were tired, wanted to get back to the room to enjoy, and DID enjoy. So, OK for a FIRST time, but learn from your mistakes before the 2nd time. BUT, and that's a [B]BIG BUT[/B][S]...[/S] a number of mistakes, perhaps MORE than you realize, on that 2nd time.
1. Taking her for a massage might, in your eyes, be being nice, but a waste of [I]together[/I] time, and really labeling you a mark. Granted, you are paying for her time, not necessarily sex, so how you want to use it is up to you, but for what? Especially since she told you she has a day job. I have pulled a few of those and an EARLY morning wake up, I understand though I don't enjoy. So [B]ALWAYS[/B] ask what her departure time will be. Some girls define LT as "until you fall asleep". Realize the limitations of someone who has a day job especially if she a)has to work the next day, and b)is coming from a day's work.
2. The phone goes away when she's with you. With me, 1st time is a yellow card, 2nd time RED. Complacency is always a danger with repeat [U]business[/U] and best to cut it short if it appears.
3. She gets dressed and wants to leave. HERE'S where the mistakes really start to compound. Fine, I NEVER keep a girl prisoner; when she wants to leave, up to her. But I DON'T ask her about a discount. I simply hand her [B]MY[/B] ST price. When, NOT if, she complains, I point out the early departure, the 1 shot, etc., etc. And I HAVE done it. One NEVER spoke to me again. In the bar, I was definitely wearing a cloak of invisibility. No problem, I wouldn't pull her again anyway (but it was funny, and me laughing I'm sure didn't help improve things).
And NOW, another POTENTIAL consequence, and I speak from personal EXPERIENCE: she tells her friends that you'll pay 7 k for ST, 1 shot. Believe me, they share intel. You can overcome it, but it does take a lot of work and explaining as when you offer less, the girl thinks you're disrespecting her. I explained I had paid in advance (DUMB DUMB DUMB DUMB, but every lesson has to be relearned eventually), and she had changed LT to ST. If she doubted me, she could ask any number of my other [I]acquaintances[/I] there. So be prepared for some additional blowback.
You started off well, asking menu, settling on price BEFORE leaving the bar. If you were communicating by Line, I'd have reconfirmed the parameters of the meet BEFORE confirming the 2nd meet, especially for someone with a day job just off of work.
And FORGET the romantic bit. It's [B]BUSINESS[/B], you shouldn't be trying to woo her, she should be convincing you to sign her. You can have fun, and a GFE, just remember it's a pseudo-GFE, you don't have to put up with her crap. I never force a girl to do something she doesn't want to do, but if she's agreed to something and then reneges, then, if it's an act, that's a no repeat, if it's a change in departure, that's a pay cut.
Those outside the 5 standard deviation paydays never phase me. She can quote any price she likes. Now MY price for HER [I]experience[/I] that night is up to ME. If we can come to an agreement, fine. If not, I just smile, tell her "good luck" and move on. They are very astute and catch on quickly if you're not a newbie (though it can be fun to tell her it's your 1st time here, you just arrived today, and watch her eyes spin around like slot machine wheels, then watch them slowly stop spinning as she figures out you're just joking). Like you say, many other [I]opportunities[/I] available.[/QUOTE]Thanks 11 Bravo and a few others for also calling out Striker and his 7 k 1 shot fiasco. Your segment before you added my quote shows that you and I are really in agreement. Regarding the post-quote response, I appreciate your self confidence, and I. Like you. Am also fully prepared to walk if a girl actually asks for an egregious amount. I didn't really mean that I was worried about getting a single exorbitant quotation from a BKK WG (thanks, I can handle myself just as you can.). But if 99 out of every 100 start quoting the same with similar expectations, can you continue to move on in the future? I mean this is starting to get out of control. The Thai economy is hardly roaring ahead, and legit wages are hardly on the rise. Why are WG prices on the verge of doubling just after the covid blackout years? Something has changed, and if it doesn't reverse course soon, we'll all be better off getting on trans-pacific flights to Las Vegas for a better bargain. (Yeah, I know that's an exaggeration.) But you get my point that TH may not stay a bargain much longer. Or do you have a different perspective that can ease my mind? I'm not poor, but I don't want to start paying through the roof for just a quick pop or 4 hours of "LT. " Hope all the BKK newcomers (I'm not one, have been going there for decades) can do their research, and I pledge that I'll try to avoid DUMB repeat mistakes.
Similar to many LTs, he got two pops and Thermae is not a shop
[QUOTE=EihTooms;2770470]Considering the hotter Thermae girls command 3,000+ for Short Times likely using up 1-2 hours of their time, I don't see getting 6+ hours of their time for 7,000 baht as a bad deal.
However, that is assuming you got what you wanted in the deal, including the "etc etc" part in the below quote:
And that is where the Devil in the Details comes up in that "etc etc" part for me. Granted, my experiences wearing a condom during sex are few relative to the thousands of girls and sex sessions I've had. But her complaint about so much cum, so much cum and racing to the toilet to deal with it, twice, just doesn't jive with what I thought was the purpose of a condom.
Did we miss an important Devilish Detail in that "etc etc" part?
Haha. No matter. You are not required to answer anything asked here, of course. And, as I said, the only thing that matters is that you got what you wanted in the deal..[/QUOTE]Yes, for the second session where the girl cut the time with him short and he only got one pop, the customer had every reason and standing to just give her a generous 2,500 - 3,000 baht and put her out the door with no further discussion.
But for the first session that I responded to above:
- he had her from 20:45 until 3 am. Awake. That is 6+ hours. How is that less of a LT than the fellow who takes a girl at 12 Midnight and she bails at 7 am - 8 am after 2-3 hours of that time was likely spent sleeping?
- 7,000 baht is 2-3 times the going ST rate with better than average lookers at Thermae. He had her, awake, for 2-3 times the length of typical ST and got 2 pops with her.
- Many gogo bar barfines are 1,000 baht now, depending on the night or hour. Many of the better lookers will often hold at 3,000 baht for a 1-2 hour ST and not budge. Unless your first encounter at the first bar you enter is THE girl for you and she agrees to all of your requirements at the door without a single LD being purchased, you can easily add another 2,000 baht to the hunt, totalling 6,000 baht. And you'll be getting a 1-2 hour ST for that 6,000 baht.
- Unless I am mistaken about which Field Report was being referred to, somebody characterized the girls at Thermae as "shop" girls. I am not sure what that means. That they have regular day jobs at a mall shop somewhere? That the girl in question once worked in a massage shop? Not sure. But I just wanted to mention for those who have never been there that Thermae is not a shop. It is a casual bar with relatively low cost drinks where FLs hang out to meet potential customers. No LDs, no barfine, no massage tables or floor mats, everyone remains fully clothed on the premises.
Place in Thailand with the highest selection of hottest girls?
I once saw a youtube video of a place in Thailand where there were 100's of girls sitting in bleacher type of seating and you would call the girl down to sit with you. This was very high end girls with the hottest and most expensive girls at the top floor I believe. The girls mostly sat around most of the time by themselves.
Does anyone know if a place like this in Thailand still exists? Could you tell me the name.
Thanks.
In regards to my field reports
Wow, I must say I didn't expect my field reports to generate such passionate responses. I arrived in Pattaya last night so I haven't had a chance to read through the responses until now.
Thank you everyone who either gave positive or negative feedback. This is my first time solo in Thailand so I have a lot to experience and a lot to learn as well. Those of you who have either been coming here for decades or live here full time know the ins and outs of the hobby. There are many unspoken rules or protocols that us outsiders and newbies can't fully grasp until we've also had a few engagements with the ladies of this amazing country.
If I were easily offended, some of the comments would have put me off from posting anymore on this forum. Good thing I'm not. At the end of the day, my money is mine to spend however I please. If I agree on a transaction with a lady, and we both come to an agreement, then all is good. As others have said, my data point is most likely an outlier. Or it may not be. There are probably hundreds of transactions between mongers and ladies in Bangkok every night that don't get posted on ISG. I wouldn't expect many of the Japanese or Koreans to be reading FRs on ISG. China is starting to relax restrictions, so the red wave may be coming sooner than you think to Thailand. The pent up demand may drive prices further up. The market dictates the prices, so if you are lamenting that there is upwards price pressure there really isn't much to be done about it. Like the stock market, you can chose to ride it out or bail, it's out of our control. I can take constructive feedback and change my behavior, but because of all the other mongers that either don't know or don't read ISG, there will be very little effect.
My experience so far:
-Massage girls give the best service and for the best price, though it's mechanical and routine. Don't expect GFE or PSE.
-Go go bar girls are the hottest and wear the least clothing, so you can fully analyze their body before takeout, but the bar fine, lady drinks, and ST / LT fee could add up to quite a bit. They can either be enjoying their time dancing or seem like they are bored out of their minds and wanting to just go home and sleep.
-Freelance girls are the most unpredictable. You may find a gem in the rough but it may take many attempts or you may never be successful. Prices are also all over the place and can put a major dent in your wallet. Girls in classy or more conservative clothing may be hiding baby damage or flabby bellies. Buyer beware.
I will post more soon, and I'll happily accept any feedback on how I can improve on how I hobby.
P.S. The bar fines in pattaya shocked me, but I'll post more on that in the pattaya forum.
Variable Calculation Methods
Thanks TT and EihTooms for your feedback. There are a lot of different angles coming over the wire in this Bangkok thread, so it's tough to keep everything straight. And we all may have some different favorite spots that work differently for different bros.
Just 2 things I'll mention from my perspective:
Striker mentioned at Thermae; 'Of the ones were willing to go LT, I got quoted anywhere from 7000 to 10000. Some wanted to leave at 04:00 and other were willing to stay until 07:00. After I got the price, These girls are all Freelancers, with day jobs, so they can set their own price and conditions. Seven unsuccessful attempts later, I finally found one that met all my requirements. 7000 LT, braces, 152 cm, 46 kg, looks to be in her early 20's but is actually 30". -- This one doesn't sound like she's too special, and 7-10 k is a lot, even for 6 hours /2 pops, if it's just an average FL. I understand EihTooms math, but we have to admit that the definition of LT is changing from what it was in the past.
Striker's Ai sounds like one I picked up on Soi 4 on August. She was mid 30's, very attractive (2-3 extra pounds now, but still delightful), unlimited access (which was effectively 3 pops) over 9 hours (2 am-11 am) with a nice 6 hour sleep in the middle. I gave her $3 k and we were both happy. I may have upped it to 4 k for the same girl if she were 5 years younger, but nowhere near 7-10 k. To me, that's premium price, premium girl, and no counting the clock. (But I may need to adjust my expectation.) Like Ai, this girl was trying to get me for more dates that week. I knew I'd given her too much even at 3 k. (I didn't follow up, but I'm going to contact her this month.).
TT, I can't speak for you, but I don't recall paying 3 k at Nana in 2018-19 for ST. I recall it as 1500-2500ST and 3-4 k (maybe 3-5) LT. I'll be happy if both of you are right and I'm being too alarmist. I'll put it to the stress test in another week or so, and I'll try to keep tight accounting practices for reporting purposes.