[QUOTE=Ptgbac;2683397]What does FB means?[/QUOTE]Facebook, internet site.
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[QUOTE=Ptgbac;2683397]What does FB means?[/QUOTE]Facebook, internet site.
[QUOTE=FlagRunner77;2683415]Hi. I'm reluctantly asking this question, but I've searched the forums for various key words and can't find what I'm looking for.
If you've seen my previous posts, you'll now I'm visiting soon. My trip was booked far in advance, and there were some false starts, but I'm visiting in May. I've been cultivating a FB list which is fine, but I realize I can't realistically start utilizing that until I'm on the ground, and I'm taking everything with a pinch of salt until then.
My main question. I'm an overweight gringo (not morbidly but 5'7' and 200 lbs), late 30's. I'll have minimal Spanish (but I'm spending an hour per day trying to learn as much conversational Spanish as I can, so hopefully basic conversations will be possible). Relatively experienced monger elsewhere (Mexico, Germany, Thailand). Realistically, what are my chances with chicas in Medellin? Am I going to find myself restricted / poor service? I'm ok with restrictions based on my appearance, it is my fault. If I need to lower my standards for acceptable service, I will. But it would be good to get a heads up so I'm not disappointed when I arrive and I can plan accordingly. I don't need 9's or 10's. I'd be happy with 6-7's.[/QUOTE]You should be fine. Most of us aren't gracing the cover of GQ when we're not playing in Medellin. As long as you're presenting yourself well and treating the girls right, they'll treat you right.
[QUOTE=FunLuvr;2683476]Facebook, internet site.[/QUOTE]Also.
Do you think it's more easy to score non pros there? Compared to Brazil?
[QUOTE=FlagRunner77;2683415]Hi. I'm reluctantly asking this question, but I've searched the forums for various key words and can't find what I'm looking for.
If you've seen my previous posts, you'll now I'm visiting soon. My trip was booked far in advance, and there were some false starts, but I'm visiting in May. I've been cultivating a FB list which is fine, but I realize I can't realistically start utilizing that until I'm on the ground, and I'm taking everything with a pinch of salt until then.
My main question. I'm an overweight gringo (not morbidly but 5'7' and 200 lbs), late 30's. I'll have minimal Spanish (but I'm spending an hour per day trying to learn as much conversational Spanish as I can, so hopefully basic conversations will be possible). Relatively experienced monger elsewhere (Mexico, Germany, Thailand). Realistically, what are my chances with chicas in Medellin? Am I going to find myself restricted / poor service? I'm ok with restrictions based on my appearance, it is my fault. If I need to lower my standards for acceptable service, I will. But it would be good to get a heads up so I'm not disappointed when I arrive and I can plan accordingly..[/QUOTE]Relatively experienced monger with a strange lack of self confidence? Something doesn't add up. Assuming you're playing it straight, you'll be fine but something doesn't add up in your post. From your experience one would assume you know that first and foremost it's about the money the chicas walk home with, then the money, then comes money, followed by money. Then tips (money) and maybe some regalos (money as gifts). And it's not like you weigh 500 pounds but that guy would get laid, too. I am not implying you should expect to pay anything more than fair market value. Perhaps I should mention I am not a Facebook guy so maybe I am missing something but I don't think so. Good luck and don't worry about it. Are you sure you are experienced?
I'm over 300 lbs (offensive lineman type body) but I don't hide it on my facebook. It's a 3rd world country, it's not like they're swimming in fat guys there, so most say they like it LOL, and I believe them. It's all in the way you carry yourself and your confidence.
I just got back from an extended stay where I banged 70 chicas mostly 7, 8 and 9's, average price of 150 mil cop + taxi. 80% of them were fantastic and very GFE and only 1 girl the whole trip made any kind of fat comment to me. It was a tranny that I kicked out of my room LOL. I'll get around to telling that story and the rest of my stories soon.
Y'all want to see some data?
38 Facebook girls.
9 Centro (often multiple in one afternoon).
4 from Colombian Cupid (3 free but they all expected me to spend real money on them).
3 Casa (2 New Life, 1 Eros).
3 Parque Lleras (1 was an all star who I repeated with often, 2 fucked like Parque girls. Like they weren't interested. Texted with several others I never wound up seeing).
3 strippers (1 in the club, 2 takeout that were both outstanding).
1 Tinder girl (several dates but only hooked up with one, paid of course and she was very average).
1 Organic Street girl.
In my short stint in Bogota:
6 SW in Santa Fe.
2 Strippers (Pussy House, both the same night).
70 unique girls (I'm sure I forgot to write down one or two in there).
79 total encounters.
$3,022 spent.
$38.25 average.
How many chicas are here today? 8 to 10. Sounds good. But Catch 22: all are reserved.
Based on a favorable mention of Casa Cuba by a BM on this thread, I recently decided to check out the talent available there. On entering, the physical set-up seemed promising- comparable to Zandalay and New Life, and more upscale than say Dulce Compania or Amigas Sexy (but with similar pricing). On my first visit, just before noon on a Thursday, only three chicas were presented, but I was told that another 7 were "ocupado". Since for left-overs, the threesome were relatively more attractive than the average chica at other casas (albeit, still below my admittedly quite picky threshold for "doable"), I decided to try again around opening time (10:30 AM) on another day.
The following Tuesday I returned as early as 10:20, before the daily curtain raising . To my surprise there were already about six, middle-aged local guys already waiting in the reception area and by 10:30 another 3 or so had arrived. 100% of all the talent was reserved ahead of time from the get-go. The maitre'd of sorts told me that the best time (on a typical day) to find chicas available for a first-time audition, would be around 1:30 to 2:00 PM. However, my annual 3 month winter sojourn in Medellin came to an end before I had a chance to visit again (I'm writing this from HomeTown USA). That said, my difficulty in finding chicas free for inspection suggests that the line-up may include some gems (at least by the lowly standard of the casas as a whole).
Looking ahead to my next foray to PaisaPussyLand, I'm curious if any other BMs have had an opportunity to view/sample the Casa Cuba lineup more or less in its entirety, and, if so, their impressions on its quality relative to the competition (and the best time of day to give the place another try).
[QUOTE=DirtyDJ;2683561]I'm over 300 lbs (offensive lineman type body) but I don't hide it on my facebook. It's a 3rd world country, it's not like they're swimming in fat guys there, so most say they like it LOL, and I believe them. It's all in the way you carry yourself and your confidence.
Y'all want to see some data?
79 total encounters.
$3,022 spent.
$38.25 average.[/QUOTE]And I do not impress easily. Have to ask, What is "Organic" street girl? She needed a bath? Was a vegetarian? "Don't Panic, she's Organic"? Jajaja.
Great stuff. Love your attitude. I have found in my travels that the poorer the country, the more that fat on a body might be considered a status symbol. Makes sense, shows at least you're not starving to death. Looks have nothing to do with success in the P4P game unless you apply the "All other things considered equal" rule, and that is purely a hypothetical.
Incredible you tried all those different venues. I am guessing one of your life tenets might be "variety is the spice of life". You have superior organizational skills for the before and after, obviously. A rarity.
I would love to monger like you but I am stuck in a rut of a stream of gorgeous girls delivering themselves and their non-pro friends to my hotel (sarcasm) when in Medellin. But really, if I approached it from the "grass is always greener" viewpoint, I would try and model some of my behaviors after your examples. Tip of my hat and a golf clap.
I often quote to my unenlightened friends back here in Pussy Prison that it works out to about $40 per encounter in Medellin. Yours was a great confirmation of that. Nice to see a mongerer who knows how to take advantage of a good thang. Keep On Keepin' On my Brother in Hijinx.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2683477] As long as you're presenting yourself well and treating the girls right, they'll treat you right.[/QUOTE]Some guys don't know how to present themselves, or worse, don't care. From the stories I have been told by the sex workers (SW), that does not go unnoticed by them. But the sex workers are not so stupid to bite the hand that feeds them, for the most part. And probably the same guy who doesn't care he has three inch nose hairs and bad breath isn't going to notice the difference in a SW who is having a little fun on the job, instead of throwing up in the back of her mouth and swallowing it. Maybe the wet mudhole fuckers have it best for simplicity but then I wonder, at what point do you even need a wet hole or warm body? If I felt like that, I would simply stay home, jerk off, and save a bunch of time and money. To each his own.
Jaja, amazing how much more free time I have to post here when I am not spending most of my waking hours having sex, jajajaja. I prefer the sex days.
Few random gratuitous fotos from my most recent trip. I try not to repeat fotos but I don't look back. The urban landscape is Ground Zero, surprisingly beautiful, perhaps contrary to the mental image painted by some for how "seedy" and dangerous it is.
[QUOTE=PVMonger;2683569]I have found that most Latin American chicas like guys that are overweight. In fact, there was a recent article on-line that I read that confirmed it.
IMHO it comes from the fact that most Latin Americans are relatively poor and anyone who is overweight is seen as someone who can provide food.[/QUOTE]Well granted, us full figured fellas probably don't get the same mileage the athletic types do. I think I can count on the fingers of one hand when a girl seemed to have an issue with my size. Which unfortunately is at the high end of the spectrum right now. I am sure they would prefer someone 20 years younger and 100 pounds lighter but. You know the drill. Those guys are paying customers like you and given their druthers the girls wouldn't be fucking them either if it weren't for money. I usually get asked to come back regardless because I am clean, generous, respectful and amiable. I know some of you guys are going the GF route here and obviously that's a bit different. I like to think of myself as cuddly and studly.
[QUOTE=PVMonger;2683569]I have found that most Latin American chicas like guys that are overweight. In fact, there was a recent article on-line that I read that confirmed it.
IMHO it comes from the fact that most Latin Americans are relatively poor and anyone who is overweight is seen as someone who can provide food.[/QUOTE]Hmmm, based off my own personal experiences I can't find much truth to this. And trust me I am no slender guy. Hookers in general will have fun with any dude who is paying them, but I don't think "regular" attractive Latin American women are going after fat middle aged men because they are attracted to his obesity LOL.
Dear colleagues,
I am contemplating exploring the Ayahuasca thing. As I understand, it would be better to do it in some reputable, safe, and not-too-touristy place (I do wish for it to be somewhat authentic). Would you kindly share your experiences and guidance?
[QUOTE=FRobertson;2683676]Dear colleagues,
I am contemplating exploring the Ayahuasca thing. As I understand, it would be better to do it in some reputable, safe, and not-too-touristy place (I do wish for it to be somewhat authentic). Would you kindly share your experiences and guidance?[/QUOTE]Ayahuasca, the dude who I sat next to on the Greyhound bus was reallly into it, and we talked about it a lot, for over an hour. He was into all this spiritual awakening stuff. Never heard of it around here or near Medellin but that could be my knowledge gap. Here's why I won't try it.
After talking to the dude in detail about it, and even though I never tried it, Tussi or 2 CB or pink cocaine or the good stuff they make in Colombia sounded to me and to the guy like the preferable option. And I was not trying to do a sales job on the guy. I won't go into details but everything from the logistics, to the effects, lack of side effects, and especially including outcome, tipped the scales in favor of my obviously biased choice. I am not recommending any specific action for anyone else other than relating my own experience.
As always, stories about recreational drugs are purely fictional and are for entertainment purposes only. I am simply doing research for a fictional book I am writing about Medellin. I do not condone the use of illicit drugs and would never buy, sell, transport or use any illegal substances in any countries of the world.
[QUOTE=DirtyDJ;2683561]I just got back from an extended stay where I banged 70 chicas mostly 7, 8 and 9's, average price of 150 mil cop + taxi. 80% of them were fantastic and very GFE[/QUOTE]Very interesting write up, appreciate it. I'm curious, how long were you there? Also, did you do hotel or Airbnb and did you have any issues with places being non-girl friendly?
[QUOTE=DirtyDJ;2683561]I'm over 300 lbs (offensive lineman type body) but I don't hide it on my facebook. It's a 3rd world country, it's not like they're swimming in fat guys there, so most say they like it LOL, and I believe them. It's all in the way you carry yourself and your confidence.
I just got back from an extended stay where I banged 70 chicas mostly 7, 8 and 9's, average price of 150 mil cop + taxi. 80% of them were fantastic and very GFE and only 1 girl the whole trip made any kind of fat comment to me. It was a tranny that I kicked out of my room LOL..[/QUOTE]What you reporting is incredible.
Not how many girls you did, nor what you were paying them, but that 80% of them were fantastic and very GFE. To have this kind of experience with almost all the Chicas you went with, and being in the 7-9 range defies logic, yet I've heard some similar stories where the Chicas here have no problem being with bigger guys weight wise.
[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2683628]And I do not impress easily. Have to ask, What is "Organic" street girl? She needed a bath? Was a vegetarian? "Don't Panic, she's Organic"? Jajaja.
Great stuff. Love your attitude. I have found in my travels that the poorer the country, the more that fat on a body might be considered a status symbol. Makes sense, shows at least you're not starving to death. Looks have nothing to do with success in the P4P game unless you apply the "All other things considered equal" rule, and that is purely a hypothetical.
Incredible you tried all those different venues. I am guessing one of your life tenets might be "variety is the spice of life". You have superior organizational skills for the before and after, obviously. A rarity.
I would love to monger like you but I am stuck in a rut of a stream of gorgeous girls delivering themselves and their non-pro friends to my hotel (sarcasm) when in Medellin. But really, if I approached it from the "grass is always greener" viewpoint, I would try and model some of my behaviors after your examples. Tip of my hat and a golf clap.
I often quote to my unenlightened friends back here in Pussy Prison that it works out to about $40 per encounter in Medellin. Yours was a great confirmation of that. Nice to see a mongerer who knows how to take advantage of a good thang. Keep On Keepin' On my Brother in Hijinx.[/QUOTE]Well that means a lot coming from you Godfather. Your reports were integral in my trip planning, especially when it came to Centro. Hopefully, we can grab a beer on my next trip at one of those small bars across from the ladies.
Organic is a term I use for non P4 P girls LOL. Maybe you could term it as Cold Approach instead. I "met" her organically, which is to say I approached her like you would a normal girl on the street and not in a sex work situation. Of course she was a sex worker as well, it seemed like they all were if given the chance. It reminds me of half the real estate agents in the US. Most have another job and aren't active but if you bring them business they'll say "Uhh sure I'll sell your house". That's women in Medellin with sex work LOL. Reading between the lines, I think this particular girl did erotic massages off mileroticos (one of the avenues I never got around to trying) but she was very GFE with me and I saw her multiple times. I just used organic here for the purposes of showing how I found the girl. I met several girls "organically" in Jumbo or the mall or on La70 etc but couldn't quite seal the deal in the time I had. Lots of flaking.
[QUOTE=ILikeButts;2683703]Very interesting write up, appreciate it. I'm curious, how long were you there? Also, did you do hotel or Airbnb and did you have any issues with places being non-girl friendly?[/QUOTE]6 weeks. All Airbnb and never had any issues. I actually had last second remorse because of traveling alone with no doorman and I almost canceled my 1st Poblado apartment but everything worked out great. 55-60 girls in my place with only a few issues. I did have a threesome but it was in a studio apartment where I could see everything. Another time, a fb girl was drunk and on her period and lying about it and wanting the full donation. It's a funny story I'll tell on here some day. 2 trannies also made it inside before they were revealed LOL. One left peacefully but the other put up more resistance, but eventually did leave. My next trip, I'll try to do a better job of meeting girls in public before bringing them inside.