Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=WebConnect;2707241]How do I meet up with you guys?

I will be staying at the Nutibara for the next 2 weeks.[/QUOTE]George left for Guatape. I am not shy but I usually don't meet up with random guys from here. I am easy to spot because I do not make an earnest effort to hide my identity in the fotos I post. Or as MoonPie put it, "it's the hair".

With that said, everytime so far I have hooked-up with someone from here, they turned out to be stand-up guys. Use this sight's Private Messaging for organizing such activities and I believe you have to be a paid member in order to do that. Ostee Out.

Be careful what you ask for. Also, IDK WTF is going on compared to some of the longer term, subject matter experts with boots on the ground here for many years. I've got a little more than one year contact time here and have not been to 90% of the venues dicussed in these threads.

Basically, I suck and am a huge disappointment in person, jajajajajajaa.

[QUOTE=WebConnect;2707241]How do I meet up with you guys?

I will be staying at the Nutibara for the next 2 weeks.[/QUOTE]How's the street scene looking? I'm waiting on my passport to get renewed right now.

And some say USA Men are not self-aware! Hahahahah.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2707285]

Basically, I suck and am a huge disappointment in person, jajajajajajaa.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mtndew704;2707293]How's the street scene looking? I'm waiting on my passport to get renewed right now.[/QUOTE]In the afternoon, Vera cruz in el centro was packed with pro's the usual scene. Last night Parque lleras in Poblado was also packed, of course your going to pay the gringo mark up. 200 k media hora 300 k or even 400 k an hora or what ever price they think they will get away with and their basically vera cruz working girls anyways. Save some money catch them in el cetro the following day. The casa scene is kinda lacking of course its pretty much always been hit or miss with them anyways, but now its less casas and less chance of finding a diamond in the rough with the exception of club de amigas sexy on carrera 45 d#57-67, which I would have done all my casa action in if I would have know ahead. They definetly had a large variety of all types. All other scenes such as FB and SA someone else will have to answer that.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2707232]Non-pros are actually quite easy to get and bang; you just have to be forthright, get straight to the point and move on if not fruitful. However, after you get into the panties if you have not paid in cash you would have to pay in dealing with the baggage. For me that's more expensive than paying a pro.[/QUOTE]I would include a plug for honesty to the non-pros because they get lied to a lot. We all do. I don't mean brutally honest as in, "I want you to be me Colombians sex-slave for three days" although that could be fun, but like Turded said, be plain and clear and respectful and you will be surprised how fast that greases the wheels on track.

[QUOTE=Mtndew704;2707293]How's the street scene looking? I'm waiting on my passport to get renewed right now.[/QUOTE]The street scene is the same. Best time is late afternoon when the local guys finish work at stop in the area for a beer and to dump a load before going home after a hard days work.

[QUOTE=Lefeu;2706872]I am surprised how naive some people are. Assuming one speaks decent Spanish and is close to the girl's age, there is still the question that the girl asks: what's in it for me? And given that most of us don't live here, what is the outlook for a long term relationship.

I believe this culture does not support one night stand in general, the encounters between boys and girls are therefore predicated on a long term relationship, with the final outcome being marriage. Therefore for some of us, the P4P route is the safest and easiest.[/QUOTE]You can have a lot of causual sex, 1 NS as you wish in Colombia; my Colombian female friend. I mean, if I wanted to. One also stated " Peter, in Colombia it very difficult to be faithful (Peter, en Colombia es muy dificil estar fiel).

They expect you to want to have sex-if not; there is something wrong with you. Colombian and Brazilian girls even more; they are simple very horny; they lack the anxiety of physical touch which is so typical for Northern cultures; US, GB, Germany, Nordic countries, Netherlands, Japan etc.

You can get laid as you wish, not maybe by the most beautiful babes you wish, but descent looking girls or with MILFs or neighbors, the problem is that we seldom use this opportunity for free sex. After have logged in at the hotel or apartment; we hit the casas, Parque Lleras; we don't act rationale. I could have gotten a lot more sex, one problem was; much of it is for free, but it's not exciting, it's seldom an adventure; P4P is forbidden, especially at home; so we waste $$$ on services we could have gotten for free.

I have had female friends that as soon as we where alone wanted to have sex, and it is just not one time.

I notice this at home; latina girls are much more open than the nordic girls, who suffer from constant anxiety when it comes to pleasure; if they have sex, they must argue if it was right or wrong from different moral points of views, its exhausting. Colombian girls just want to enjoy life; they have little time so when they have the opportunity to have a good time; they just have fun. And they spread that to their children, so even if living in a nordic climate and culture; they are still much more emotionally positive.

At the same time; they have no anxiety of touch; but they are very hygienical; I have female friends that came to my apartment on their way to / from Laureles, just to take a shower, they like to take a shower 2-3-4 times a day.

But yes, there are also a lot of conservative persons, they would never have sex easily or sell sex.

And even if one get easy sex; they can feel you are a couple; just after practically saying so; they lack a filter, we have a strong a "intermediate filter"; people become "knowned", not unknowned nor friends and stay so; they just skip that part, sometimes!

Anyway, thanks for your reports; it's great with cultural differences; we have things in our culture, strict work on rational grounds, highly organised, high productivity; high salaries, things that are hard to achieve even if you try hard, for many it is still so in Colombia, so our countries sometimes seems like paradise for young ambitious females struggluling to get along.

[QUOTE=Orion4;2706523]Hey all,

Is everyone here mostly trying to hook up with prostitutes? That's what it reads like. I'm wondering why not try to hook up with non-prostitutes (I. E. , not pay)? Never paid for sex before, so not sure how I'd feel about trying that.[/QUOTE]No, we're not only going after pros, but if you're limited in time it's the easiest thing. Many of us also date regular girls, but sex day one not assured and for me the 2-3 date rule still usually applies for the majority. Plus if you date the regular girls the overall cost is higher (want gifts, wined, dined, get jealous quickly, etc.). If your trip is only 4-7 days you're going to waste a lot of time and money with non-pros. Plus the non-pros often lose interest pretty quickly if you're only going to be there for a week. If you LIVE in Medellin that's a completely different story.

The second thing is that Colombians go out in groups, so if you go to the dance clubs, which I used to when I first started coming 10-11 years ago it's still harder than the US to get close to many of the girls (guys and girls cock block you). You may find a girl at the bank, gym, or coffee shop, but it will still take some time to set up a couple dates and get some action.

I've found Brazil to be much easier for just random one night stand sex if that's what your into.

Just my 2 cents.

[QUOTE=AmoMedellin;2707433]You can have a lot of causual sex, 1 NS as you wish in Colombia; my Colombian female friend. I mean, if I wanted to. One also stated " Peter, in Colombia it very difficult to be faithful (Peter, en Colombia es muy dificil estar fiel)...[/QUOTE]I think it depends on social classes and both of you could be right with the right context.

My personal experience is the hygiene of the girls I have been dealing with is not that good in general if compared to Thai girls. These are just some of my experiences so don't generalize it. I had met girls that don't shower after sex. I have also met girl who claim to live in a nice neighborhood, and shower several times a day, or had shower before coming to my place. But I found out none of those were true when we met. It was just advertising. I asked an experienced buddy and he said he always forced the girl to shower in his apartment.

[QUOTE=CeeJay1;2707337]...and their basically vera cruz working girls anyways. Save some money catch them in el cetro the following day..[/QUOTE]Maybe they are similar quality, but only some work in El Centro. My personal experience is that the hotter ones or one not even that hot won't come down in price when contacted afterward. In fact, some may not even respond to a 200 mil offer during daytime. One has to take this case by case.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2706198]This new girl standing next to the tranny. I had not seen before. Bigger than me but I found her attractive. I was horny because of missing out on the face fuck I had "planned". I asked her three times if she was trans and she said no. I tried to cop a feel under her skirt but there were two Policia less than ten yards away facing us. The three of us went to the Love Motel and did some tussi and then my tranny friend left. The drug haters will point to the tussi as an "I told you so" example,[/QUOTE]I will not point to the tussi. I will point to everyone before saying that those trannies are not your friends as you are even still calling them after this episode of letting you go with someone they knew was not a female.

Rule of thumb is that they travel in packs. You are not going to see 9 trannies hanging around and 1 female. The one that you think is a female is going to be a dude too. Now sometimes you will see a group of females and 1 tranny friend. But it does not work the other way around.

[QUOTE=Orion4;2706523]Hey all,

New here. I read through some of the pages, but obviously not all of them.

Is everyone here mostly trying to hook up with prostitutes? That's what it reads like. I'm wondering why not try to hook up with non-prostitutes (I. E. , not pay)? Never paid for sex before, so not sure how I'd feel about trying that.[/QUOTE]You absolutely can hook up with non-hookers in Colombia. If you can do it in the USA, you can likely to it in Colombia. I did it when I first started this hobby a quarter-century ago (in Colombia, Brasil, et al). Unfortunately, I'm not a young stud anymore, so it's not happening unless I want to service 50 year old chicas.

The thing is, you can't necessary rely on hooking up with non-pros. So you likely will want to have pay-for-play chicas as a backup. This makes sense if you're in town just a week or two and you want to fuck at least once every day. Now, if you're in town for an extended period of time, going after non-pros makes more sense. Though I would still do some prepagos as backups.

And obviously, language ability will make a huge difference. A prostitute doesn't care if you speak Spanish (she might not even want to talk with you! A non-pro, it's makes a big difference. Even then though, if you look like a young George Clooney, you could still get laid w / o Spanish.

[QUOTE=AmoMedellin;2707433]You can have a lot of causual sex, 1 NS as you wish in Colombia; my Colombian female friend. I mean, if I wanted to. One also stated " Peter, in Colombia it very difficult to be faithful (Peter, en Colombia es muy dificil estar fiel).

They expect you to want to have sex-if not; there is something wrong with you. Colombian and Brazilian girls even more; they are simple very horny; they lack the anxiety of physical touch which is so typical for Northern cultures; US, GB, Germany, Nordic countries, Netherlands, Japan etc.

You can get laid as you wish, not maybe by the most beautiful babes you wish, but descent looking girls or with MILFs or neighbors, the problem is that we seldom use this opportunity for free sex. After have logged in at the hotel or apartment; we hit the casas, Parque Lleras; we don't act rationale. I could have gotten a lot more sex, one problem was; much of it is for free, but it's not exciting, it's seldom an adventure; P4P is forbidden, especially at home; so we waste $$$ on services we could have gotten for free.

I have had female friends that as soon as we where alone wanted to have sex, and it is just not one time.

I notice this at home; latina girls are much more open than the nordic girls, who suffer from constant anxiety when it comes to pleasure; if they have sex, they must argue if it was right or wrong from different moral points of views, its exhausting. Colombian girls just want to enjoy life; they have little time so when they have the opportunity to have a good time; they just have fun. And they spread that to their children, so even if living in a nordic climate and culture; they are still much more emotionally positive.

At the same time; they have no anxiety of touch; but they are very hygienical; I have female friends that came to my apartment on their way to / from Laureles, just to take a shower, they like to take a shower 2-3-4 times a day.

But yes, there are also a lot of conservative persons, they would never have sex easily or sell sex.

And even if one get easy sex; they can feel you are a couple; just after practically saying so; they lack a filter, we have a strong a "intermediate filter"; people become "knowned", not unknowned nor friends and stay so; they just skip that part, sometimes!

Anyway, thanks for your reports; it's great with cultural differences; we have things in our culture, strict work on rational grounds, highly organised, high productivity; high salaries, things that are hard to achieve even if you try hard, for many it is still so in Colombia, so our countries sometimes seems like paradise for young ambitious females struggluling to get along.[/QUOTE]I think the cultural differences affecting interpersonal relationships between North and South America are vastly understated. I would go as far to say that the majority of friction, misunderstandings, and less than ideal outcomes when participating in Play for Play, are due to cultural differences and misunderstandings, and not by any direct malfeasance from the participants.

And you point about their excellent hygiene was spot-on. My average girlfriend back in the states had a much higher pussy funk factor than these chicas.

Ostee Out!

[QUOTE=Combo;2707585]You absolutely can hook up with non-hookers in Colombia. [/QUOTE]UNless your looking for a long term partner, I am not sure what the advantages would be. I can think of several disadadvantages. Care to enlighten me?

[QUOTE=JustTK;2707600]UNless your looking for a long term partner, I am not sure what the advantages would be. I can think of several disadadvantages. Care to enlighten me?[/QUOTE]I used to frequent Latinamerican cupid and Colombian Cupid all the time. I am talking about starting back about fifteen years ago. The advantages to it then were that it is more fun to be with a girl that is not only there for the money. I have a firm belief that there are a lot of women who like the idea of having sex with a man they do not have to worry about seeing again and when they do they have no inhibitions. I have had a little experpience with non-pros with my exeriences on the cupids who I put in this category but not in Colombia.

I had the best luck with Latinamerican cupid in Mexico City. I had a date every night and some day ones also. I took one chica out and then ejust about everyday she came by on her lunch break from work and had a nooner with me. Out of the two weeks I scored with 5 chicas and had dates with 10. Gorgeous women. There is a treasure chest of women on those sights if you work it to find out what their angle is and what you can get away with. I spend a lot of time on there chatting with a lot of chicas months before making the trip to Mexico City. The variety of expectations of those women on those sights runs the gamut - from those who are marriage minded, to those who you can just have a good time with, to semi-pros to outright hardcore pros. Had an amazing time but I was younger and fit then. Much of my luck with Colombianas are was those who really turn out to be semi-pros (it always costs you something).

But having read this forum for years I have to say that of all the people who post regularly Mr Enternational mentions being with non-pros more than any other poster by far. I do not think that he has ever come out and said how he meets these chicas. I think sometimes at least he helps them out with some bills so maybe you can call some of them semi-pro. I notice that for this one of his favorite shopping areas seems to be Barranquilla.

What experience I have had with semi-pros was actually one chica that used to see in Cartagena on a regular basis and I take her shopping and spend like 100 k COP on her, then there was a chica from Barranquilla that I took to Cartagena for a weekend. She was gorgeous but turned into a headache halfway into the weekend and after that I never looked back. P4 P is just so much simpler.