My unconventional experience
[QUOTE=Mongoose312;2839074]I've been in the Sukhumvit area for a few weeks now and aside from mongering my primary hobby has been people watching.
In places like Terminal 21 and Benchakitti park one sees several Thai female, Frarang male couples. In Pattaya I would immediately assume that the relationship represents a sex tourist and sex worker on an ST / LT or week long procurement but here I wonder how many of these situations are more conventional non or semi-transactional arrangements?
Many of the Thai women are stunning but sometimes a somewhat plain girl will appear on the arm of a man who would clearly shoot higher if he was spending.
Many farangs here are young, good looking long term expats and it's hard to see them choosing sex workers when they probably could get a civilian.
What do experienced Bangkok board members think of this? What is the breakdown of these parings as far as paid relationships or less transactional romances? 50/50 ? 40/60 ?
The sheer number of couples makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong as all I seem to be able to get is the transactional ST / LT which is unfulfilling to me. I don't really feel like a stud walking around with a girl on my arm who I'm paying for and I feel like there must be some secret sauce that some of these guys are using when I observe the real, genuine chemistry they have with their beautiful dates. I know the point of this site is P4 P but does anyone here have experience in Bangkok with civilians or semi-civilians (if there is such a thing)?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have been in this forum for sometime but I have not posted a report thus far. Well, this post somehow connected with my latest experience (s), maybe you might have seen me in Terminal 21. LOL. Firstly, I have no Farang looks, average south east asian brown skinned guy from the SF Bay Area, The Silicon Valley as many people call it or know. My work makes me travel to Asia and Europe, while in Asia I try and keep aside a couple of days or more for personal use (in BKK). I have been doing this since 2010 . I almost always stay at the Hyatt Erawan or The Intercontinental and my only place (s) to venture out were the Spasso's bar (for those of you who know it) and the Mixx bar. Outside of that I had a +66 contact who sent me an exclusive WhatsApp menu of just arrived Eastern European ladies. So my 2-4 days BKK trip was alway pretty well packed.
After COVID, I heard Spasso's closed its 'The after 10 pm gig', so I started looking for similar options elsewhere. Unfortunately, I did not find a similar place anywhere in any of the 5 Star Hotels in BKK. I am all ears if I should know something.
I personally don't enjoy the GoGo bars or any of the Soi 11 bars, I seem of enjoy a bit of exclusivity in this area, so my hunt usually revolves around it. I learned last year that Tinder is a place to find potentially exclusive local girls. I spend some time on it and I ended up scheduling few girls. Most of them quoted me 10 k baht to spend the night / day with me. I met a girl 24 years old in July last year, she had a great professional job, very well educated with great English language skills, sounded pretty exclusive to me. She said she doesn't do this but would meet with me to give it a try, I took that with a grain of salt off course. All said and done, I have to admit, I probably had the best sex with her relative to anything I had before. She ended up staying with me the entire 2-3 days I was there. I offered her some 35 k baht, I can't remember. I wasn't carrying cash, so I asked her if I could PayPal her, she suggested I could use Wise.
I saw her again in few weeks while I flying back. We wandered around Terminal 21, various Sois there and also Thong Lor. After that, I came home and been in contact with her ever since on Line. We decided that we should spend more time in BKK together, so we did. I ended up going to BKK for few weeks. As far as the money part, I don't even know how much I have paid so far, may be several hundred of thousands of baht, but I don't really care much because I am looking at this relative to what it would cost me in EU or elsewhere to monger, roughly 2-3 k USD for 18 hours with an escorts, so this is much better deal for me, I am not a FKK frequenter BTW but would rather use escort services like - [URL]https://www.aphrodite-agency.com/en[/URL] in EU. I had / have a good time for sure in BKK and I am still in touch and enjoy the remote GF experience!