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I stayed in Northwinds in Cebu on a walkin for 1, 200 pesos more or less and next to the top Phillipine cuisine restaurant in CEBU. The room was fabulous but no free breakfast. Girl friendly. The street has many Korean signs. [url]http://www.cebunorthwinds.com/[/url]

Cebu is much better place generally plus for this hobby for me than Manila and Cagayan de Oro as far as the 3 cities I visited.

Manila is just one huge traffic jam, constant negotiations and "watch your back" atmosphere, and often big headache. The funny thing about the Cagayan dates were that the girls always invited their family members (brothers / sisters / mothers / cousins) to our date because either the girl was too shy or very young, so I asked them if I am getting married with them (JOKE) or if it was just Phillipine custom to invite family to the date. In Cebu I met a young girl who had strict parents for a quick lunch date with dessert, then my second date was the BOMB.

Airphilexpress and Cebupacific offer competitive rates to many local cities but no free lunch. Phillipine Airlines has great food but higher price. I could not compare with Davao, Buculan or General Santos (my future targets for DIA dates).

(Don't have to read if you know these facts already) Realize that when you make a DIA appointment with a Manila girl you have to tell her an hour earlier than the real meeting time because everyone in Manila is notoriously late (1 to 1. 5 hours) due to traffic or Phillipines ideas of time / plans. In Cebu one date was 30 minutes late and the other was pretty much on time (10 minutes) You have to be clear where you meet her because there are many wide malls in CEBU. Ayala has the most romantic setup but easy to get lost inside the complex so try to meet girls in the "Outside Starbucks" (NOT inside) or Jolibees. SM Cebu is also nice with movie theater but maybe more crowded.

In Manila, on average, my date was always 1. 2 hours late in our dates and I was usually 15-30 minutes late. I was unable to meet some DIA girls (they blamed me for the mixup) when I went one mall and they waited in another mall. The taxi drivers expect you to pay a tip if you can not give them exact change, if they (the drivers) get lost (surprised:?) , or if you have a girl with you. The DIA girls usually will ask you to pay their transportation costs in addition to dinner / date costs.

If you use a pay phone to a cell phone starting with 63- dial zero or 0 instead of 63. For the number of coins used and always asking for change in the phillippines it is better to just get a 1 week cell phone at the airport or just a text message sender / receiver device. Always explain what you are wearing and ask what they will wear so you don't have to look for them for 2 hours.

Girls love it when you are speaking their Tagalog language (Salamat = thank you) (Pasensya na = Sorry) (Ikaw ay matalino / maganda / mabait. You are smart / pretty / nice) When you are waiting for your extremely late date, make conversation with any hot people eating or just passing by like a lost tourist asking for directions and you can either stand-up your date (if they are sexy and hot enough) or just get their number and email to connnect again If you are contacting the DIA girls for dates start asking for their number and YM 2 weeks before you come because many of them "have to think about it" or do not check their internet frequently enough. I missed the chance to connect with many girls because they did not give me their number or YM before I visited. This is my 2 pesos.

By Agence France-Presse, Updated: 7/21/2011.

Philippines police said Thursday they had arrested a 78-year-old Australian man and were preparing to charge him with sexually abusing local girls who lived at his home.

Police raided the man's home late Wednesday after an investigation prompted by suspicions he was abusing as many as seven girls staying with him, said Timmar Alam, a police official on the central island of Cebu.

"When we arrived at the house, we saw the four girls in the living room but another girl was in the kitchen and she ran off and escaped," he added.

The four girls, aged between 14 and 15, were turned over to state social workers and will undergo a medical examination to look for evidence of abuse, Alam said.

The man, who was detained at the local police station, had lived in the Cebu island for about 10 years but it was only a few months ago that rumours about him began circulating, the police chief said.

The suspect denied the accusations, said Alam.

"He said they (the girls) just went to his house and he befriended them and their parents. He said he helped them and paid for their education," he added.

Police acted after a tip-off that the children had started living with the Australian in June.

Police said they would file criminal charges against him on Friday, including for trafficking and child sex offences.

If convicted he could face 25 years to life in jail, said Alam.

An Australian embassy spokesman declined to comment saying it was up to Canberra to release a statement on the matter.

1 sounds like a setup as it happened so quick since june.

2 still any one taking in **** kids are idiots.

3 if your 60+ stick to 30+ as the girls will want to keep you.

i seen older guys walking around with **** kids in public and i think wtf so i am glad the police are moving in on these types of guys. remember this country is run on jelousy keep within laws and ethics.

[quote=frenzy3;1178864]i seen older guys walking around with **** kids in public and i think wtf so i am glad the police are moving in on these types of guys. remember this country is run on jelousy keep within laws and ethics.[/quote]so what are you saying? all guys with **** kids are paedophiles? so i guess when i took my regular gf's kids to ayalla to buy them a birthday cake, you would categorise me as the same? i certainly hope not and to make sweeping generalisations like this is very shortsighted

[QUOTE=Frenzy3;1178864]3 if your 60+ stick to 30+ as the girls will want to keep you.[/QUOTE]I seldom post but was in the Philippines last October. I stuck with DIA women over thirty with the oldest being 48. They treat their men well and most understand the roles of a tourist and guide. Actually I guess I will have to post my experiences. Some were well preserved, and some. Opppps I have to meet my foreigner friend. But they tend to understand the game.

Yes, last trip I took my chica and her two younger sisters a couple of times to Ayala Mall to eat lunch and then bought them some movie tickets. The sisters are 13 and 16 years old.

[quote=mortman;1178883]so what are you saying? all guys with **** kids are paedophiles? so i guess when i took my regular gf's kids to ayalla to buy them a birthday cake, you would categorise me as the same? i certainly hope not and to make sweeping generalisations like this is very shortsighted[/quote]do not assume. you said your gf is 18 these girls i see look 12 to 14 they look nothing like 18. i like 18 and i will have a gf 18 but when i look 60+ i will stop walking arround with a 18 gf (advoid the attention). i am telling what i would do and what i know about how the older girls are less likely to leave. who do you think dobbed the guy in. think about it.

[quote=david_33;1178889]yes, last trip i took my chica and her two younger sisters a couple of times to ayala mall to eat lunch and then bought them some movie tickets. the sisters are 13 and 16 years old.[/quote]do you care what people think when see you with **** girls? this guy was living with **** and he is not alone, there are more like him here. normally the police do nothing until a parent calls [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url], when they wanted more peso. i would say this guy will pay his way out of it but i would not bet money on it. this sounds like a change in the way the government wants to keep the aid flowing.

like i said these are my views ymmv.

[quote=frenzy3;1178902]do not assume. you said your gf is 18 these girls i see look 12 to 14 they look nothing like 18. i like 18 and i will have a gf 18 but when i look 60+ i will stop walking arround with a 18 gf (advoid the attention). i am telling what i would do and what i know about how the older girls are less likely to leave. who do you think dobbed the guy in. think about it.[/quote]

i am assuming nothing, i am merely basing my comments on what you said in your post. in fact you are the one that is assuming that every guy with a young girl is a paedophile. just for the record my regular gf is in her 30's and not 18 as you have assumed. you actually stated in your post and i quote.[quote=frenzy3;1178902]i seen older guys walking around with **** kids in public and i think wtf[/quote]

that is a very broad sweeping and short sighted assumption of yours and a pretty silly statement to make imho. what about all the ex pats that live in the philippines with young teenage daughters (and i know a few)? what about me when i am out with my gf's kids and she has gone off to do some shopping whilst i buy them some something to eat? there are countless situations where guys may be publicly in the presence of children in the most innocent of circumstances. i know for sure if you if you made this remark to one of my friends who is stepfather to a couple of teenage kids, you might just find yourself waking up in the intensive care unit of the local hospital.

i'm with mortman here. my asawa is in her early thirties, and has two children from a prior marriage. i'm out with the kids sometimes, while she's shopping elsewhere, and it would appall me to think that someone would misconstrue that relationship. be very careful of the assumptions and subsequent judgments that you make, since in many cases they would be wholly inaccurate. ****s are a societal cancer that should be exised, but i find it doubtful that most who fall within this category would parade their illicit relationships openly and in public lest they call unwanted attention to themselves.

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[quote=mortman;1178883]so what are you saying? all guys with **** kids are paedophiles? so i guess when i took my regular gf's kids to ayalla to buy them a birthday cake, you would categorise me as the same? i certainly hope not and to make sweeping generalisations like this is very shortsighted[/quote]sadly this kind of sweeping paranoia of assumption that an older person with kids must be a paedo has overtaken western society.

a woman in england recently was trying to take photos of her 5 year old kids on a slide in a park. a suspicious busybody called the police and the next moment the police are checking the mothers sd card to ensure there are no strange pics.

The type of look I am talking about are the girls you saw when daisy took you to her home (you said you could not take them back the way they looked) , so is ok when you see girls with dirty feet and clothes looking 12-14 with a much older guy. As for me remember I live close to these locals I know these girls family so I know what goes on. I know more about the way of life here than you ever will know staying at the Waterfront. As for being out with minors in public I will warn I know of local guys who see this and what they would do to you if they could, they are drug addicted and do assume the worst. You are not in UK or USA you are in asia.

I keep repeating this is my opinion as I would not walk around cebu with a minor (unless their mother was with me which will not be for a long time).

[QUOTE=Mortman; 1174590]Daisy made no secret why she was visiting and I felt just a little uncomfortable having the whole neighbourhood knowing I was there to find an 18 year old girl to fuck but it was too late by now and in any case the locals seemed completely unfazed as though this was a perfectly natural and understandable request from a foreign man. Within minutes I had two young girls, one 18 and one 19 parading shyly in front of me. The problem was that they looked like slum girls and even though they were both more than willing to come back with me, they would have looked completely alien dressed the way they were and going to a place like the Waterfront.

Once word got out that some rich foreigner was looking for a girl, I had other teenage girls turn up, like sharks circling their prey ready to move in for the kill and offering to keep me company. I began to feel uncomfortable with all the attention focused on me and I told Daisy we would return another time when her kids were not with us, as I did not want to expose them any longer to this kind of situation. To be honest I never expected Daisy to behave with such lack of discretion and I just expected her to be more discreet and diplomatic, I was of course sorely disappointed. The young girls that had come to greet me, seemed disappointed that I was leaving empty handed but I just felt it was the right thing to do at that time.

It was a remarkable but brief experience, showing the real underbelly of Cebu City and a place I would never have ventured, had I not had Daisy to guide me. Once out of the alleyays and back out onto the main street, it took us no more than 15 minutes to walk to Starbucks outside Ayalla.[/QUOTE]So you saw that side of it first hand, I seen guys who take the 12-14 from these ares and think nothing of it.

But when I say it is wrong you defend them.

[QUOTE=Frenzy3; 1178970]So you saw that side of it first hand, I seen guys who take the 12-14 from these ares and think nothing of it.

But when I say it is wrong you defend them.[/QUOTE]I am beginning to think you are completely delusional rather than just a person with silly ideas. Tell me where do I defend guys taking 12-14 year old girls out of the slums? Have you been reading the same posts that everyone else on this forum reads? The girls that I talked about on my visit to the slum area were young single mothers and I only made an observation.

This all from the same guy that brags about living in slums and with squatters. If thats the kind of life you find attractive then good luck to you. Your view that I do not understand what a life of poverty is like just because I stay at the Waterfront is misplaced. You do not know my background and again you are the one making assumptions not me.

If I am not mistaken (my search function is not working at the moment) you are the same guy that brags about illegally taking a gun out with you on the streets of Cebu and you talk about how the local Pinoy gangs are scared of you. I am still not not sure whether you just live in a fantasy world or you lack common sense. Either way you are not worthy of any further responses from me and you will be the second only person ever to make it onto my blocked list.

[QUOTE=Frenzy3; 1178965]. As for me remember I live close to these locals I know these girls family so I know what goes on. I know more about the way of life here than you ever will know staying at the Waterfront. As for being out with minors in public I will warn I know of local guys who see this and what they would do to you if they could, they are drug addicted and do assume the worst. You are not in UK or USA you are in asia.[/QUOTE]In a recent innocuous post that I made, you made the response that I was your hero.

So having read your most recent and very impressive post "du bist mein Held auch". A superHeld. Monsieur Le Braneur.