Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=Surfer500;2729168]I agree with the concept that love=money in Colombia.

Basically we are in the "pay-pool", and it can be very cheap indeed.[/QUOTE]Love equals money or money equals love. I don't mean on a superficial level. The chicas really feel it. To them, we are rich beyond their dreams and they feel, if you love me, why wouldn't you give me money? Once I truly incorporated and accepted the concept, my relationships with all my chicas blossomed and became clear.

Like you mentioned, surprisingly, it can have little to do with the actual dollar amount. The chicas have an innate and accurate sense of their worth, in pesos and dollars, referenced to what the guy who they are with can afford to pay, and they adjust their expectations accordingly. As long as they feel the guy who they are with is giving something proportionate to what he can actually afford, they are happy.

My downfall, is my chicas see how much I spend on the pink shit, and that unfortunately sets the bar quite a bit higher, but that "problem" is of my own doing and I can only blame myself for that predicament, not them. What can I say when they observe, "But you spent X-million pesos this week on. . . ? " I tell them I worked long and hard to spend my money the way I choose, but if we are talking love, that is obviously a selfish retort and does not fly well.

The flip-side to this is that the mongerer has to buy-in to the same concept and not feel like they are being "used" or taken advantage of when they pay. Then, you can have a truly loving relationship with these chicas, if so desired.

All this only matters if guys want or are trying to actually develop meaningful and fulfilling relationships with the chicas. For the mongerers who are one-and-done, wet-mudhole fuckers, who see Pay 4 Play as a binary transaction without shades of gray, this concept is basically meaningless and not useful to them. I can appreciate that and keeping it simple. That is simply not me. Maybe I should trend a little more in that direction, because my life in Medellin often appears complicated and out-of-control to some, but I love it that way and I am very, very happy!

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2729075]Not sure how many guys are aware of that dual functionality, the bombillos are also Blue Tooth speakers.[/QUOTE]True, forgot about that completely. I was pleasantly surprised when discovered it, the one you recommended seems to even have some kind of rough light change sync with music (or I might be imagining things jaja). I wish it had a better bass though but for the price it's still great all-in-one piece of equipment. I usually use it for longer sessions (1 h+).

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2728957]Chat them up a bit or just break the ice and their game face melts away almost every time. I often see a personality transformation for the better once we are in the room. Think of it of from their perspective for a moment. They need to keep their guard up.

My wingman was the same way. He wouldn't approach a chica if she didn't like the expression on her face. I agree, probably from a marketing perspective some chicas could do better. But if I think about all the fine chocha I would've missed out on by applying that rule, well, let's just say I don't follow that rule.

If you otherwise like their looks and body, approach them and see if their expression quickly changes. You can always walk away.[/QUOTE]Thanks, that makes sense. I thought about it more later and realised they can see literally thousands of people walking by and ogling them daily (some presumably pestering), so it is no surprise they adopt some kind of detached / brave face.

First time and looking for some guidance, I suppose we have all been here, any pro that want to show me the ropes.

[QUOTE=AdamWl;2729264]True, forgot about that completely. I was pleasantly surprised when discovered it, the one you recommended seems to even have some kind of rough light change sync with music (or I might be imagining things jaja). I wish it had a better bass though but for the price it's still great all-in-one piece of equipment. I usually use it for longer sessions (1 h+).[/QUOTE]The effect on the chicas is nothing short of amazing. I posted this once already, and perhaps it falls under the topic of "unbelievable". I was at my favorite Ground Zero love motel after a short-circuited session with Sugar Baby because she wouldn't let me bareback her.

My bombilla is on in my dark room, including music, door half-open, I was on the bed staring at the ceiling, I am sure I was high-as-fuck, plotting my next move.

Before I know it, I look up and there are five maids standing at my partially open door, mesmerized. One of the maids was off-duty and I ended up fucking her right then and there with the full-knowledge of the other girls. I swear it was the bombilla, like moths to a flame, jajajajaja. She had a homely little face but her chest and the rest of her body was spectacular. I will look for the foto, quick-like.

Like Surfer-Dude said, I think I am going thru pussy and moreso, love withdrawal, already. I almost have the longest post of my life ready to go up later, documenting my last day. I think posting is helping me adjust. Excuse the self-indulgence but some of you might find my final day entertaining.

I have a chronic brain injury called PBA, which can make me very emotionally labile. I can cry at the drop of a hat right now thinking about the chicas on my List and the love of my life, Catgirl. I am not depressed, I am happy, it's an organic brain injury, not mental illness like you are thinking, jajajajaa. Posting feels therapeutic to me when I get like this.

Found the foto, easily. Obvio, that's the bombillo lighting on her chest, jjajajajaja. She had two extra freckles on her right nipple, considered a sign of sexual potency in a lot of cultures. For a guy who is not into boobs much, I had a run of chicas with exceptional chests this trip that was uncanny.

"Be like me" and delete everything every few days or so, jajajajaja. You won't miss it.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2729226]I don't think so unless you think I am talking about you.[/QUOTE]Thats the way it reads to me. No one else was mentioned. :)

[QUOTE=Tomcat88;2729244]I was bored and horny Sunday so went hunting online. Found 20-year-old Chantal on Mileroticos who was offering an hour for 60 mil.

Backtracked and caught taxi home for 9.6 mil.[/QUOTE]Much to the surpirse of many, that's how it nearly always ends up. They are humans too, just trying to get by in life. Great that you understand that too.

[QUOTE=Tomcat88;2729244]I was bored and horny Sunday so went hunting online.

Tipped 20 mil and extra 10 mil for attitude. [/QUOTE]All sessions should be so smooth and satisfying. Especially on the spur of the moment, like you did.

I have no idea what TK was referencing in his response to you, par for the course.

[QUOTE=RiceRocket99;2728591]I haven't heard of a gringo getting robbed or scoped in Manrique or Aranjuez, but Poblado and Laureles you hear those stories on the weekly. Thieves don't go to the barrios to rob gringos! [/QUOTE]Agree 100%, especially as to Poblado. I've stayed in both, saw a few gringos in Laurels but Poblado was overrun them. I always laugh when I hear some recommend Poblado because it is "safer. ".

[QUOTE=AdamWl;2729045]Don't know where are you from but it's a good idea to check power sockets compatibility. Copies of documents. Zipped wallet, preferably attached to the belt / jeans. Probably best to leave the jewellery at home. Burner phone. Downloaded files for offline google translate and maps. Libido. Comfy sneakers if you're into walking a lot. Light rain jacket or buy an umbrella locally. Long trousers / jeans unless you don't mind being identified as gringo from afar.

I wouldn't worry too much about the particular snacks, it's the gesture and the sharing that counts really and just treating the girls like human beings. Snacks are not obligatory either and I'm sure plenty of members monger successfully here without them. Just a nice touch and bit of bonding that can return dividends on the next visit.

Bombillos can be purchased locally, if needed (also not obligatory, hard to imagine you'll need more than one on a short trip, if that).

Don't know about gifts, one needs to be careful not to go over the top and appear supplicating. So with right delivery it can be fine but I just wouldn't worry to much about it on your first trip. Not necessary if you ask me.

What you will need or not depends largely on your mongering style / itinerary really.

Don't see Bluetooth speaker on the screenshot, this has been the biggest improvement in sessions for me here.

I don't know how's your Spanish, I was glad I knew the numbers and couple basic phrases before landing.[/QUOTE]I appreciate the through response. This is my first trip to Colombia, but not my first trip internationally. I have limited Spanish skills, but certainly more than none. I'm also familiar with translate and offline maps. I'm from the states, so I don't believe power adapters are necessary. All great advice for someone completely green.

I've always had drinks available in my room, but not snacks. I've also never provided gifts in the past either. However, I'm looking for any edge I can get for something other than mechanical service. I've learned that money alone can't do that. If trying to establish a connection in other ways might work, I'm willing to try. Just trying to find info about what people find works for their purposes and what doesn't.

I'd rather buy a light and pack it with me from the states than waste time purchasing one in country. I do have a bluetooth speaker on my list. Notice I've got a few different tabs in the spreadsheet in the screenshot. You did mention dick pills, which definitely should be added to my list. I need to RTFF about if these are easily accessible in country, or if I should bring my own.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2729153]I am also going to be in Medellin for my first trip in the first week of September. I guess September must be newbie month. It's my first time in Colombia but I have been traveling to Guadalajara for the past year so I feel comfortable in a country that speaks Spanish even though I only speak some Spanish. That has always been my biggest concern about Colombia. But I have made some effort to learn more Spanish and now it is not the case that I don't speak any Spanish. And for Colombia, there is also local slang that you can learn.

I would minimize toiletries if space is an issue in your suitcase because you can buy whatever you need from the local drugstore or supermarket. Bringing mouthwash is a bad idea because it is liquid and may leak and mouthwash should be easy to buy in Medellin. The local drugstore and supermarket should have most of the items that you would find in your local stores. But bringing your condoms and your favorite lube is a good idea. Almost all decent hotels will provide soap, shampoo, small toiletries. This is based not on my experience in Medellin but my experiences traveling to other countries.

I do bring some gifts from home. Some guys think it is not necessary and it isn't but girls do appreciate the small gifts along with the money. It feel that makes them remember me a little bit more than the guy who just pays them money but I could be wrong.[/QUOTE]Space isn't a concern as far as packing goes. I'm not worried about packing a liquid. I fly 20+ round trips per year, and I've never had an issue with liquids in my checked bag. I'm always bringing some sort of drink home with me because I'm too cheap to leave it in the hotel. I agree about soap and shampoo in a normal hotel environment. However, my experience in Costa Rica and Tijuana indicates that they may not be replenished throughout my stay in more hobby centric places. Not enough of a concern to pack them, but something to note.

What sorts of small gifts have you brought with you and feel like got the girls excited?

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2729075]Not sure how many guys are aware of that dual functionality, the bombillos are also Blue Tooth speakers.[/QUOTE]I was thinking about buying a single function light here in the states and bringing it with me. My concern is that the bombillo speaker might not be much better than my phone speaker. I don't need to shake the walls or anything, but a bit more volume would be helpful. Amazon does have the light speaker combos as well.

Hi everyone! I've really tried and searched and went on myself. But still the question remains to them: how do you finde before humans the nice, hot and lovely Medellin chicas who are willing to meet and have sex or just dinner for money or no money? I've tried Facebook ahead myself but it's very complicated to find Medellin girls who are real and not fake webcam profiles or just webcam girls who are not interested in physical meetings.

I do speak Spanish so it's not a problem for me to communicate.

But what would you a soon to visit mid 30 handsome Caucasian recommend to get in contact with girls beforehand and where to start? I've really tried but it's very unsatisfying. Thanks for all suggestions! And anyone up for a real meeting and a drink to teach the young padawan the way of the force in September?

[QUOTE=JackTaggart;2728617]Combo works! Amazon had everything pretty cheap. In my lab controlled.... Ahem solo environment. I was able to get AM and PM samples to test the progress every day. After about 3 weeks it has been a noticeably consistent increase in fluid. Now I just need a lab assistant when I get back to Colombia to validate everything. I will need about 20-30 peers to review my study to be sure.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the update and details, very interesting! The original poster had said the pygeum was optional, did your stack include it or not? Any side effects you noticed, besides bigger loads LOL? Good luck with validating your research with the chicas!