It is what you like that matters
[QUOTE=JoshAllen;2886808]Hey all,
First time trip to Bangkok + wherever x 3 wks coming up soon. I am in the process of reviewing the last 500 pages because why not? I really do find it fascinating, although the COVID period was a slog.
One thing I'm not clear about is spending time with the ladies for things other than sex.
TL; DR: Why do people do it? I'm not implying they shouldn't. I am curious why though.
For example, I saw one rare mention of going out to dinner with TF girls (as opposed to the very direct "Here for ST, what's your LINE?" approach). Basically going on a date. I got the impression it was to build some rapport which I guess makes the intimate time later more fulfilling? I am not totally sure. Down side being there aren't any guarantees I guess. Anyways, do any of you do this? If so can you expand on that a bit? What has been your experience? I assume you are still hoping for sex. How do you play your cards? I guess a part of me feels I'll be more satisfied forming some sort of connection, if ever so brief. But maybe that's naive.
Or "holiday girlfriends". I mean it's obviously going to end. So is it just a value issue? Less work finding women, less money, more efficient? Or is it the enjoyment of a young lady's company? I feel like it would be a slippery slope for me. It seems like I could fall for a young, attractive, sweet girl pretty easily spending a lot of quality time with her. Then what? It would suck to have to sober up to reality again as I know would be absolutely necessary. So if you do holiday girlfriends, what do you like and not like about it?
And as far as LT goes, why do people do it? Is it just for more sex, more shots, and more value? Or are there other intangibles? Enjoying time hanging out? Is it weird at all to hang with someone you barely know, then in the morning be like "Ok, seeya" ? If anybody has a lot of LT experience and thoughts about why they like it, I'd be very interested to hear about that.
This whole scene is totally new to me, so I am trying to wrap my head around these things. Mainly I've been a CAMP monger (rub and tug and bye bye) in the States.
A hearty thanks to all the contributors. I have a huge outline of references from the numerous informative posts that grabbed my eye. Essentially there are more options than I know what to do with.
Cheers.[/QUOTE]Reasons to take a girl out to eat. First, you just bar fined her but you are also hungry so you stop on the way and grab a bite to eat before going back to your room. Second you are tired of eating alone. This can happen if you are there long enough. The best reason for taking a Thai girl out to eat is that they are a local and know the cheapest and best places to eat. Food is cheap in Thailand so the cost is minimal. Be warned that feeding a Thai girl can delay the beginning of sex since they may want to let the food settle before letting you stick your cock in their mouth.
Long time or short time is just a personal preference. Some guys like to have the option of waking up in the morning and having another round. Some guys are one and done and like to sleep alone.
As far as holiday girlfriends that is another personal preference. Some guys like banging the same chick and having her available when needed. Some guys just want to rack up the body count and have no desire to repeat. Of course if you are traveling around Thailand a holiday girlfriend can be of value since some places fuckable women are in short supply. Also they speak the language and can be somewhat helpful.
The important thing is be open minded and discover what you like. Try short time and if you find a girl that is great in bed and you want to repeat then take her long time. And yes the danger of attachment is always there. You just have to manage it.
Good luck.
Fiwfans. A meh experience
I was in Bangkok for a couple of days and booked two incalls after some research on Fiwfans. This lead me to several Telegram channels of agencies where they post everyday who is on the roster. Then, super easy to book via Line in literally two messages.
Meet with Bubble from TSG Sideline agency.
Booked for 90 min, 2200 Baht + 400 CIM extra, 2 shots. Money first. Shower together.
That was the girl from the photo but not that cute. Slim petite body. Little English. Sweet girl.
Service was OK, kissing allowed but only for 10's then turned her head, she worked hard to please me but a bit too scripted for my liking. She also used tissues to constantly wipe the saliva she left on my body. Pretty strange. The BJ skill was good, no deepthroat though, allowed some facefuck and the CIM was long and she kept sucking long after. Sex in all the positions I wanted.
Got also a nice long massage between rounds while she modestly claimed that she wasn't good at it.
Meet with Ingfah from Madam88888 agency.
Booked for 90 min, 2800 Baht + 400 CIM extra, 2 shots. Money first. Shower together.
Photos pretty accurate with amazing big natural rack. More than descent English. But the positives stop here. This has to be one of the worse experience I had in my 10 years +. She didn't smile once, was pretty cold and directive. She was not willing to work, complained that she can't suck for too long after 5 minutes. Didn't want to lick my balls. Didn't allow titfuck. At some point I lost my erection and I knew it won't come back. The mood was gone and she wasn't doing anything about it. So after 30 min, I stopped everything and told her that I am going to leave and will pay only for the 30 min. She didn't take it well, blaming me (of course), wanted to argue with me but I know it is best to just remain calm and not get into their mind games. When I went to the shower, I'm pretty sure that she insulted me in Thai When I came back, she gave me back the money for the time not spent and the extra, said more bad things while I was getting dressed. But I just had a smirk on my face and did not respond which I think annoyed her even more Left without a word and wrote to the agency which just reply "I am sorry for you".
I don't think I will use incall service again. I usually don't and prefer outcalls. I am not into the bar / agogo scene). Girls are usually too used to their scenario and routine.
Two day short trip at BKK
Thanks for Senior's help on many information. I arrived BKK 30 minutes after midnight and immigration took 40 minutes. As others told I went all the way low level to exchange but found it was closed. Came back to arrival level and exchanged there. But later found near Phrom Phong station better price like 2. 5TH per 1 $. You get high rate for 100 or 50's though.
Day-1.
Started late after brunch and stop by Snow White. Already sorted out from website and went there and picked. Picked 24-year-old but I could say 27 or more but very good service and massage also good. Utilized whole hour. The next encounter is from TF. It is a time consuming but choose 21-year-old and she agreed for a quick video call. She is on time and waiting for me at lobby. I am happy to see (not much difference from her photos). Once inside a room took shower separately and started. Then she said very quick BJ only and no DFK. I was upset but continued anyway. I don't see any connection and finished the deed.
Then I went to Authentic Thai massage and two hour package for foot and facial. I felt so good and almost midnight went to bed straight.
Day-2.
Previous day bad experience with TF I wanted try MP again and choose HoneyBee. I am glad I did and had a fantastic time with 24-year-old Thai girl. She went above and spent little over hour. I tipped her and came back to room for rest. Then went to Robin Hood bar and had few drinks went again to HoneyBee and tried another one I saw in the morning. They have three shops near by and you can choose from any shops. She is young and cute. Gave a decent massage and great BBBJ and finished in cover. Same routine shower, massage, main event then shower. I am exhausted by evening. I was walking around Sukhumvit road between Soi-22 to Soi-26. Went again to Authentic Thai massage for 90 minutes deep Thai massage and done for the day.
Want to try Cowboys and Nana next time and don't want to spend any more time with TF.