Stupid shit in Medellin

[QUOTE=Nounce;2801835]I think the problem is you and some that share your view associate money spent and wealth with the women, and being able to date these women seem to make you superior. Guys like that raving about how much they spent, how hot the girls are but the reports always lack substance.[/QUOTE]Sorry, Nounce, I did not know who was pursuing her for months after I met her. What was shocking to me was how many not so attractive women were pursued by men of wealth, fame, and power. It was actually a friend who said "Every decent looking woman has been pursued by a famous athlete. ".

[QUOTE=Nounce;2801835]IFrom my point of view, I think it is shallow. If you look at the top 10 billionaires, do most of them date or marry the most beautiful women?.[/QUOTE]I do not know or care. What I think is you have the image of billionaires getting whomever they want. I have seen the opposite. I have been stunned at how underconfident some are.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2801835]Why do you keep disparaging the centro hookers?[/QUOTE]I am not. I am disparaging the men who are trying to equate them with hotties who are GF / wife material. I said on average sexually speaking the Santa Fe / El Centro type were better sexually than the seeking types. Of course, if a seeking type was lousy in bed, I would not repeat.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2801835]About buying drinks. You will never see me buying drinks for the 10 that everybody wants to buy drink for because I have no interest to be like everybody.[/QUOTE]Then the only 10 you are going to meet is a hooker who would fuck anyone for money, and I think you are taking this too literally. When I say everyone wants to buy her a drink, what I mean is guys are coming onto her day and night. How do you sell yourself such that she thinks of you as a worthy suitor? Saying you do not care is bullshit Nounce. Every guy in the world wants a 10 who thinks they are the shit. Your saying you do not want to compete is just fear based on rejection that probably stems from a previous painful relationship. Go ahead and get pissed at me, but I know what I am talking about.

Money can buy you looks; it can buy great sex. What it cannot buy is true desire; that comes from personality and later character. Of course, women are going to be attracted to confident men, and be desirable towards them. Thing about confidence is whether or not that confidence truly reflects ability and character and when you have guys like JJBee and Viliany, eventually the women are going to see their confidence is based on narcissism and dump them.

What you do not get about narcissists is their confidence game. With fellow men, they try to get them to feel as they are in some special, misunderstood group, and it is attractive. Who does not want to feel part of a special group? Thing is once you get sucked in they have you, and you will do anything to prove you belong to their special group, and you obviously have been sucked in by guys like these two and their language.

The one good thing about the mentally ill like these two is their lack of originality. What is their shaming technique? People in the group are laughing at you. JJbee just used it. We swingers are laughing at you guys and your vanilla sex lives. Is that is what is going on? Or are swingers hiding their lifestyles, married people fucking everything that moves, from society?

My confidence and hold on reality means the narcissistic jedi mind tricks do not work. The same goes with Miami Boy but not you. JJBee comes forward with the most disgusting marriage I have ever heard of and then tries to redefine what a GF is and you swallow it whole.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]Here's the problem when you just get your information from Paulie, it's almost guaranteed to be 100% wrong.[/QUOTE]That is lie #1.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]Technically you never said your old lady's daughter was a 10.[/QUOTE]And you are admitting lie #2.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]You really shouldn't make sexual comparisons between a 14 year old girl and her mother.[/QUOTE]Saying a woman is tall and slim like her mother has nothing to do with sex. Lie #3.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]She was sophisticated enough to attend the Oscar's every year[/QUOTE]Tickets to the Oscars are $750 apiece. That has zero to do with being sophisticated. Lie #4.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]Shortly before I met her she was Personal Assistant to one of the elitest of the elite A-List actors. Then her boss caught her dipping into his cocaine.[/QUOTE]On what planet is a lying, law breaking, disgraced, cocaine snorting, fired personal assistant peon fit to be first lady of a country? Lie #5.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]If you can only measure your value in dollars, you have no value..[/QUOTE]You claimed I was making $5000 a month. Lie #6. Then you made value based judgments on salary. Lie #7.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]If There are no "estrato 4" or "estrato 6" girls. Paulie or you made some comment about my girl being from Manrique or Bello and I pointed out that she lived within an estrato 4 sector of Envigado.[/QUOTE]This one gets a double point bonus. You make a statement and then lie about it in the next paragraph. That is 8 and 9.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]If TI'm not limited to 2 dimensional thinking. I recognize that sex is just a biological function.[/QUOTE]Lie #10. Sex has huge emotional and societal implications.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]If Of course, someone like you with debilitating insecurity issues, could never fuck in front of 50 people, or kick back[/QUOTE]That is lie #11. I do not have insecurity issues and do not get off like you do on getting attention. If you are married and care more about how you look fucking someone on stage than your wife's physical and emotional needs, you have no clue what the duties of a husband are.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]and chat with the guys while their 4 wives are busy giving your girl a birthday present (1 eating her, 1 on each breast and 1 making out with her while she fingered 2 of them). People in the swinger lifestyle laugh at people having vanilla sex. You talk about having a harem, but freak out over any of them knowing you had other women? Shit, my wife would go to the bathroom at a swingers club and come out with someone for me to fuck. I'd come home for work and she would tell me she found a unicorn and asked if she could invite her over (to swingers, a unicorn is a single, bisexual woman).[/QUOTE]Lie #13 is this whole fucked up think you call "marriage". I am shocked, shocked it did not last. / sarc.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801588]We do this because there are a few people, like yourself, who insists on altering reality to fit their tiny view of the world. I call her "girlfriend", which should be sufficient. What you call her is up to you..[/QUOTE]Lie #14 is you have a girlfriend.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566] You made $30,000 last year and when you were working you made $5,000 per month?[/QUOTE]$5000 a month is what I said my woman will make when she comes to the USA. That you did not understand that just means you are stupid not lying. Saying I make $5000 a month is a lie but I already counted it.

I am going to call my making $30,000 a lie because you are trying to say that is all I had. To make $30,000 in the market, you have to put money, usually much more to work. Again, it is possible that you are so stupid and have never invested in the market in your life, but I am going to give you a break and call you a liar instead of stupid. So that is lie #15.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801894]I'm not intimidated by women, regardless of their position, wealth, class, or power.[/QUOTE]Sorry, you already said the photos of the women I post are meant to intimidate. Lie #16.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801894]Her beauty is meaningless. [/QUOTE]Lie #17. No explanation needed.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801894]Unless you want to live as a submissive, a slave to a woman, it's the woman who has to be worthy of you. As you said elsewhere, when she's pregnant and shortly after giving birth, she's mostly helpless. [/QUOTE]Lie #18. You are confusing the courtship phase and commitment phase of relationships.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566]I can't stand guys doing better than me? Nobody is doing better than me. And I'm not doing better than anyone else.[/QUOTE]Lie #19. This is bullshit that makes no sense in an attempt to be profound.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566]When I go out to eat, I am eating for me. I'm not looking at what everyone else is eating and wondering if they are eating better. When I get in my car, it's just my car. Nobody else's car is on my mind. I don't care if someone has a better car. I don't care if someone has better clothes, lives in a better place.

When I'm with a woman it's the same thing.[/QUOTE]This is the same one as women do not intimidate me. Sorry, you already admitted that other people's women intimidate you and now you are saying you do not care again. Lie #20.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566]Whether your woman is so beautiful she'd give Michelangelo an erection, or she's a typical middle aged Colombian woman doesn't matter.[/QUOTE]Repeat lie of beauty does not matter. #21.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566]If you remember, you posted some pictures of girls in your harem. The first was attractive, by Colombian standards, nothing spectacular. She was (if I remember correctly) wearing a one piece bathing suit and had a sash like a beauty contestant. The picture was standing in dirt with what looked like a bar in the background. I believe you claimed she was a Miss Colombia runner-up.[/QUOTE]We will go with faulty memory versus lie. She was not a member of my harem. She was Miss Cartagena. The pageant was in El Centro and her name was in lights in one of the photos, and I never said she was a great beauty, but anyone with a title like that is going to be sought after.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566] The second photo showed 2 girls facing a beach. Not a world class beach, the type of beach poor Mexicans and Colombians go to.[/QUOTE]Rate on that hotel now is $444 a night. Again, I will go with stupid versus lie. I got it at a great discount during Covid when you were scared shitless in your mom's basement.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566]There are only a few people on ISG claiming they are getting better girls than everyone else.[/QUOTE]Lie #22. No explanation needed.

3 posts, 22 lies, and two dumb as shit comments. And I am the one insecure? Your posts just prove you are a stupid, lying narcissist.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2801566]There are only a few people on ISG claiming they are getting better girls than everyone else. and I'm not one of them.[/QUOTE]I am tempted to say this is the ONLY example of a true statement you wrote but IMO it is just fake humility in an attempt to bullshit.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2801677]It doesn't matter where he met her or what she did for living before. What matters is what happens after. Is the relationship exclusive and genuine? Do they see themselves together in 5 years, 10 years, or for the rest of their lives? And it is totally fine for a man to take care of his girlfriend, wife, or his family, don't you think? You probably won't understand, because you fuck your $35 hookers, whom your call "girlfriends". BTW, what's up with this trend of calling hookers "girlfriends"? Some of you guys are being delusional, they are not your girlfriends, take the money or any benefits they got from you out of the equation and see how long this "relationship" will last. Don't tell me BS about dating or a genuine relationship with a girl who could be your granddaughter, I'm not buying it.[/QUOTE]It doesn't matter whether or not you buy it, and not only because you're irrelevant. I've got some time to explain it. I'll start with Elvis.

Elvis has a woman who is around 20 years younger than him, maybe more. He's convinced that she loves him, so convinced he's talking about marrying her and taking on the responsibility of raising her daughter. As long as he's convinced that she loves him, that his relationship is real, then he has a relationship. It doesn't matter if she's just using him, or if she secretly is disgusted by him. As long as she keeps him convinced of her love, it's all sunshine and rainbows.

Elvis's only mistake is trying to convince everyone of the perfection of his woman and his relationship. If he spent half the time on her as he spends trying to convince himself everyone is jealous of him, it would last forever.

Do you grasp that? As long as 2 people are each willing to put forth the effort to convince each other that they are happy together, they have a relationship. Whenever 1 or both stop putting forth the effort it crumbles and falls apart. That's the only significant thing.

If a girl young enough to be my granddaughter (in a world where a childless man can have a granddaughter) continues to convince me that she enjoys my company and is eager to be with me, while I convince her that I'm satisfied with her company, then it works.

That's all that matters. Nothing I do, nothing she does, requires your approval.

I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.

[QUOTE=IguanaSix;2802103]I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.[/QUOTE]What would you suggest? Should we call a vote to have admins ban a couple guys?

[QUOTE=IguanaSix;2802103]I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.[/QUOTE]You did notice the name of the forum, yes? You were expecting an intellectual discussion of the bio-diversity in Colombia by region?

Assuming you are at least semi-literate you would probably recognize this paraphrase: [B]Abandon all hope of normalcy, ye who enter here[/B].

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2802151]What would you suggest? Should we call a vote to have admins ban a couple guys?[/QUOTE]I think the "stupid shit in medellíand" forum is serving its purpose. It's a place to keep all this shit so it doesn't flood the real medellin forum. This is exactly what it was created for.

[QUOTE=Villainy;2802181]You did notice the name of the forum, yes? .[/QUOTE]This sub-forum is supposed to be about Stupid Stuff in Medellin. Example 1) This restaurant I know that leaves their condiments out at night and do not put in the refrigerator at night or ever. Example 2) I told a street girl that is she comes to Botero tomorrow that I wanted to be with her again. She asked for taxi money.

But instead guys write novels about why the other guy is stupid and we should all care for some reason. This has nothing to do with Medellin or what happens in Medellin.

I have never see so many guys trying to beat the hell out of a dead horse over and over and over again. Then do it again weeks or months later. The only positive thing I can say is at least you guys are not quitters.

[QUOTE=LoveItHere69;2802291]This sub-forum is supposed to be about Stupid Stuff in Medellin. Example 1) This restaurant I know that leaves their condiments out at night and do not put in the refrigerator at night or ever. Example 2) I told a street girl that is she comes to Botero tomorrow that I wanted to be with her again. She asked for taxi money.

But instead guys write novels about why the other guy is stupid and we should all care for some reason. This has nothing to do with Medellin or what happens in Medellin.

I have never see so many guys trying to beat the hell out of a dead horse over and over and over again. Then do it again weeks or months later. The only positive thing I can say is at least you guys are not quitters.[/QUOTE]Nope. This thread was created to move the bickering out of the Medellin thread. Same thing with the Stupid Shit in Bogota thread.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2798700]Those mfs who frequent El Centro to experience the culture and not for the hookers, why don't you travel to Somalia then? .[/QUOTE]Africa is my fave continent. But Somalia presents a language problem to me. I have to stick to those countries where English can get me understood.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2798793] Just like Jamie Foxx said about Jennifer Lopez. "J-Lo? I remember when it was Hey Ho!

If Shakira was a chick you knew growing up, you would not put that much value on her pussy. She would just be Shakira from down the street to you.
[/QUOTE]Haha. Plus you would have probably fkd her already anyway.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2799610]I was watching some youtube videos the other day of a cow going from farm to table. It looked really horrible and gross. I do not see why anyone would want to eat meat, but boy do I love me a ribeye steak.[/QUOTE]Can we choose better analogies please?

[QUOTE=JustTK;2803030]Africa is my fave continent. But Somalia presents a language problem to me. I have to stick to those countries where English can get me understood.[/QUOTE]Madagascar looks like a cool place to monger. They speak French instead of Spanish. I think the money is similar in value to Colombian money. They have a forum on here with lots of guys posting that they monger in a place called nosy be. I think its cheaper even than Colombia. Guys report getting BBFS for like 15 k.

[QUOTE=Gabacho;2803076]Madagascar looks like a cool place to monger. They speak French instead of Spanish. I think the money is similar in value to Colombian money. They have a forum on here with lots of guys posting that they monger in a place called nosy be. I think its cheaper even than Colombia. Guys report getting BBFS for like 15 k.[/QUOTE]Yeah, Nosy Be is the main tourist beach area of Madagascar. I never went mongering there myself. I went for scuba diving and chasing lemurs w an ex-GF. I can see how it could fit that bill though. Must be very low key though. At least when I was there, it was very quiet as a tourist destination, mostly French expats. Food was terrible, so that's another thing in common w Colombia.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2801677]Is the relationship exclusive and genuine?[/QUOTE]But, but JJBee's relationships are not exclusive and real while mine are exclusive but not real. LOL. I want to post positively for a change. First off, MB when I mentioned a guy being worthy of a 10, I made the analogy of the woman with a line of guys out to buy her a drink, and did you see how practically every guy ran away from her? So we should not even start with the game of getting a 10. It looks like most guys are too chicken shit to even get up to the plate. As I have gotten older, I have learned to give myself pats on the back for things that are nothing. So pat yourself on the back MB for just getting up to bat. It seems like nothing but it is.

I am reading this book about the evolution of desire, [URL]https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01J16LJQ2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o04?ie=UTF8&psc=1[/URL], and it tries to answer the age old question of what do women want, and they have a novel approach: they actually ask the women. LOL.

And what was listed was #1 is resources, #2 is social status which is affiliated with education, #3 is age, All these cueseconomic resources, social status, and older ageadd up to one thing: the ability to possess resources. But the possession of resources is not enough. Women also need men who possess traits that are likely to lead to the sustained acquisition of resources over time.

Listed next then is ambition and industriousness, dependability and stability, then intelligence, compatibility, and then finally, LOL, looks.

Then there were the deal breakers: Most deal breakers, however, are simply the inverses of the qualities that women desirelacking resources, drive, ambition, or status; lacking intelligence; being undependable or emotionally unstable; being small, weak, or feminine in appearance; being unhealthy or asymmetrical; being mean or cruel; and lacking love specifically for the woman doing the mate selecting.

Unlike the Covid crap, this is real, actual science. Now granted this is what women want in a partner not a one night stand but MB when I was your age, I though I was what women really wanted, but did not feel it. Also, I just did not do a good job of projecting confidence. Granted, I had an ex-wife keeping my ego down. I thought she was as good as I could get but obviously I could and did get way better.

This blonde was the first hooker / stripper type that I could have had as a SB. Deal with her is that I felt like it was too transactional. I just kept her on a P4 P leash and recommend you do that with those types of women.

The first real sugar baby is the red head in the black dress. Her friends called her Angie Everhart and she does have a striking resemblance to said super model. We were together for years and most of the time she was a 9 but she had a period where she had a BF trainer who pushed her to a 10 IMO. She was a wonderful conversationalist. Great personality. Best head ever. Good not great in the sack. Smart and athletic enough to get a big 12 scholarship.

We had good times together and great sex, but I felt she was way out of my league. After my divorce, I asked her hypothetically if she would be interested in dating me, and she told me yes but only if I gave up my other women which I refused to do. Even though I felt she was out of my league, the reality was the opposite.

Why did I feel that way? Because in my 20's, I was beaten up. Back then, all I had to offer women was my potential. Only way you are going to get decent women then without resources is looks and relationships based on looks do not last long.

So my lack of confidence was being beat up not just by the women but also the better looking and confident men but as you see here, when you go down the list you have to get to #8, intelligence, before JJBee checks a box. Does he act like that? Fuck no. There have been so many times the guys I meet who are uber confident are narcissists.

MB, I could make a case we are neck and neck on what women want, or you are even ahead, but I would get a woman over you solely on the basis of confidence. You think you have what women want and you do, but you do not know it and feel it. That is the difference but how do you get the confidence? Compliment yourself on the little things and that rack up successes. When I interview a sugar baby prospect, I focus on whether or not she meets what I want and if she does, then I will see if I can meet her needs. That way it may not feel like rejection if things do not work. Again, with some women, a billion is not enough but even with the 10's, you have to see if she is long term material.

Other reason I bring up Angie is she dated a male 10. She did what you wanted and showed up with him in a high end Ferrari at some club and everyone stared at her, and she loved it. Well, it turns out he got his money conning people and was put in jail. She had to fight off other women with a stick and after they broke up said, "I will never date a man better looking than me. " When I asked why, she said when you have a male 10, he really is never yours. It turns out he was fucking everything in site behind her back.

IMO unless you are the attention loving narcissists like JJBee and V who live to be the the center of attention the juice on said appearances is not worth the long term squeeze. People are going to try to knock you down and with appearance the joy goes down and people's expectations of you go up. And what got me with Angie was the thing you are most proud of is how you look and not what you have done? Do I really want that for a long term GF?