Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=Recondite;2736798]It still surprises me what some of the women I've met in Medellin and fuck for free were ok with. I'm married and in an open relationship and they know that. I am also clear that I have other amigas and have told a couple I can't see you today because I'm spending time with another amiga. The number one thing I've heard from paisas over and over again is that they hate being lied to by men. So I've found there is very little to lose and much to gain from being honest. Colombian men have set the bar so low that just being honest and not being a pig makes you look like a "caballero". Perversely I think the fact that I'm seeing other women can sometimes make a chica become competitive and more interested. One of the sexiest things I was ever told by a paisa was "Yo se que tu estas mirando otras chicas why esta bien. Solo quiero ser la mejor entre ellas" (I know that you are seeing other women and its fine. I just want to be the best one among them).[/QUOTE]It's quite the "norm" here, and not surprising what you've encountered with the Paisa's, meaning them not having a problem that your banging other women, because they are also banging other guys as well.

Being honest is most definitely the way to go with them, and what I have found in my experience here, which works for me personally, unless I encounter a very jealous type of woman is, "don't ask don't tell' it just keeps things very clean in a sense.

Medellin is the best ever I already spent three times I wish I will again with her.

[QUOTE=InsolentSpike;2736852]Hello Everyone.

I have been to Medellin twice already and have decided not to go anywhere else LOL. I love the Botero scene and don't see any other reason to stop going!

I am thinking of visiting late December until the new year!

Just wanted to ask the experts if there are still plenty of girls working at that time?

I am sure Christmas Day will be empty as well as new year but just wondering if all the girls go back home for the holidays like they do in Zone Norte Tijuana?!

I hope to still catch plenty of girls around the major holidays.

Thanks![/QUOTE]I have been in Medellin during the easter holiday, was a few girls but mostly dead. No chicas at all on Raudal.

[QUOTE=Recondite;2736798]It still surprises me what some of the women I've met in Medellin and fuck for free were ok with. ....[/QUOTE]I guess it depends different situations, and in current context, are they in love with you? A girl sent me a message asking me not to see other women and I found that hot too.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2736782]Yeah, you have to commit to one girl within five seconds of meeting her or it is not real. Jesus, Nounce, drink much last night?[/QUOTE]I guess that is only possible if the girl falls in love within 5 seconds of meeting MB and at least I am not talking about commitment.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2736782] Nounce, drink much last night?[/QUOTE]You are looking at the only glass of Malbec I had last night

This is my 1st post, 30 years old black, been here for about 3 months, I inject my junk with Trimix. Anyway I got the casas and mile site down pack. But Osteoknot or anybody who can help I don't Spanish but I have desire pick up all types of chicks I'm attracted to just out and about. My main goal is el natural sexo Bb. I want to get some expertise advice on how to go about that not knowing Spanish, I'm skinny look younger, and $ isn't necessarily An issue. 3 year lurker on this site a bit introverted but anyways peace out.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2729689]I know what you meant and I feel you were just using the word "desperate' as a figure of speech. But dude, you are so far ahead of the game compared to the average first timer. Mid 30's, good-looking, Caucasian, and fluent in Spanish? If you're blonde haired and blue eyed then fuck you and the horse you rode in on, jajajajaja.

Come on. Medellin is your oyster and you are the pearl. I get it, you have niche' tastes but even so.

Not saying you won't find yourself a nice wingman, but don't expect a lot of sympathy here, jajaja. Most of us remember what is was like for us when we first arrived, and we had to grind it out the best we could. Best of luck, you don't need much.

Oh, to answer your question more directly, pick any chica that attracts you and go up and start talking to her, anywhere, anytime. A nice pool is chicas who are at work, then they won't be as desperate for money. They won't be offended. Government workers, waitresses, policewomen, store clerks, bartenders, any gainful employment. You have a majority chance that she will engage, then go out with you for dinner, then fuck you that night. Tell them you are new in town and you would like someone to show you around, go to Park Avri, recommend a good restaurant, blah, blah, you can recite Mary had a Little Lamb and they will still want to go out with you.

Leave fear of failure at home. If a chica doesn't respond the way you like, forget about her, totally and immediately move on to the next one. Dating here is like shooting fish in a barrel. If she says she's married that is not an automatic "no" , she might still want to fuck but is just making you aware. Then it depends on your scruples. Personally, I avoid the potential complications of fucking married women, but that's your call.

If you are walking out in public and you literally see a single chica on the sidewalk you must have, introduce yourself and ask her, "Quieres ser mi novia por 2 horas if?" or does she wants to be your girlfriend for _ hours (fill in the number). If she say yes, act immediately if possible to reduce the chance you will get flaked if she wants to meet you somewhere else later. You're welcome.

My prototype chica is working student, single, one-kid delivered by Cesarean-section, with mom at home. That chica has an income but will still be highly motivated to raise the standard of living for her kid. She has some intelligence and goals in life. Her pussy hasn't been stretched out from childbirth, and she has built in child-care. But that's just me. Ostee Out.[/QUOTE]1st, post I'm a long time lurker, made a another post but it may have been in the wrong place. 30 yr old brown skinned African-American, skinny, I think I'm decent looking and I inject Ed drugs in my penis. I got the mile site and casas down to a tee that's not my issue. I've been here for 3 months also with 3 more to go. Not really a fayboo guy my goal is SEXO natural Bb. But the chicks aren't really down for obvious reasons. I want to pick up chicks I find just out and about but I don't speak Spanish. You the King on here I want your or anybody else expertise on how I could go about this I think look still look young my style is more "hip-hop" but I can clean up. What's your take? Peace.

[QUOTE=InsolentSpike;2736852]..........I am thinking of visiting late December until the new year! Just wanted to ask the experts if there are still plenty of girls working at that time?....[/QUOTE]

I'm told, that overall, things remain pretty dead from Christmas through El Da de Los Reyes Magos (Three Kings Day or Day of the Epiphany), which in 2023 falls on January 06, but, if I'm not mistaken, will be celebrated as a government holiday in Colombia, on Monday, January 09. But perhaps the El Centro hands would know if, with the influx of Venezuelan chicas to Plaza Botero in recent years (many, if not most, of them here without their families), whether the happy hunting grounds twixt the Veracruz church and Raudal remains reasonably populated with desirable WG game throughout the holiday season.

[QUOTE=InsolentSpike;2736852]...I have been to Medellin twice already and have decided not to go anywhere else LOL...[/QUOTE]I suggest you visit other places before making such a drastic decision. Already, if you have read this forum long enough, you would have realized that Brazil is a strong competitor to Medellin. I can think of many other locations but the point is that you need to experience other places before deciding to stick to one specific place.

I am not a centro kind of guy. I primarily focus on FB and referrals from my FB girls. That said, I have been to MDE between Christmas and New Year's day. Many of the chicas, if they can afford it, will go out of town with their family to a finca. And even if they are in town, you can pretty much forget New Year's Eve and New Year's day (although I have had chicas see me on the afternoon of New Year's eve before they went to be with their families).

As a Medellin "regular" I manage to do OK because I have a long list of chicas and the chicas who are in town will slip away from the family to see me for a bit. But it is quieter. I will yield to the centro guys on this, but I would assume that because the centro girls don't earn a lot of money and many are vennies, there should be some activity, even during those days. Just not the same quantity.

Now, once January 1 is over, things are back to normal in my experience. There are bills to be paid and chicas need money. I never have an issue with chicas post-January 1.

[QUOTE=InsolentSpike;2736852]Hello Everyone.

I have been to Medellin twice already and have decided not to go anywhere else LOL. I love the Botero scene and don't see any other reason to stop going!

I am thinking of visiting late December until the new year!

Just wanted to ask the experts if there are still plenty of girls working at that time?

I am sure Christmas Day will be empty as well as new year but just wondering if all the girls go back home for the holidays like they do in Zone Norte Tijuana?!

I hope to still catch plenty of girls around the major holidays.

Thanks![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Villainy;2736401]Jajajajaja Now that is a funny little quip.[/QUOTE]That's what she said.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2736932]I guess that is only possible if the girl falls in love within 5 seconds of meeting MB and at least I am not talking about commitment.

You are looking at the only glass of Malbec I had last night[/QUOTE]Nounce I just tried to send you a PM and it says you need to delete messages because your mailbox is at maximim allowable space.

[QUOTE=Lefeu;2736965]I suggest you visit other places before making such a drastic decision. Already, if you have read this forum long enough, you would have realized that Brazil is a strong competitor to Medellin. I can think of many other locations but the point is that you need to experience other places before deciding to stick to one specific place.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice Lefeu!

I have never really looked into Brazil. I will start reading up on Brazil and see what I find!

I wanted to try Thailand but I can't sleep on my flights regardless at the time of day they are so Colombia works for me since its a 7 hour flight from SoCal for me.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=Nounce;2736932]You are looking at the only glass of Malbec I had last night[/QUOTE]So what where you eating for dinner, as whatever the meat was, it looked pretty good and a good pairing with a Malbec. It you had that dinner in Medellin, what was the name of the place and and how was the food. Food comes up at times here, and besides pussy I'm always on the look out for a place with good food either for delivery or in a restaurant.

Fuck I have to get back to Medellin. Heading to Bogota but one of my friends who's coming to Colombia for the first time ask me to bring him here, so got to leave BOG to be wing man for few days in Mde. It's only fair since Medellin is newb friendly and IMO just the right place to get baptized in what we do. So quick question is that construction still going on in Llera?