Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=Paulie97;2749836]This "open widow of time" for arrival might be true for parties that last through an evening, as it often is in many cultures including the US. But this claim that it's "cultural" for Latin American women to show up for appointments an hour or two late is a myth that is slow to die in forums like this as it goes full circle every month or two. It's very easy to disprove with a simple experiment, leave the girl waiting past the appointed time and watch your phone blow up with frantic messages within 60 seconds. LOL No it's only "Colombia time" when it's your time wasted, but as someone else noted traffic can be a issue so some leeway of about 30 minutes is reasonable.

P.S. Last trip for whatever reason I had several show up early, and a few when I wasn't ready yet. They had to wait.[/QUOTE]Most of these women deal with gringos so they know that time can be an issue. Hence your phone blowing up. But I do think that the culture there, especially for social events, is more relaxed about time than most of us are used to. Whatever the reason, it is what it is, and if we are in this game, we need to reach a level of comfort unique to each of us. I think it makes for better experience to not get too worked up about it, but go with the flow and have ways to enjoy the time, even during waiting time. I just think the idea of "teaching them a lesson" or trying to change their behavior is a losing battle in the short term. But, to repeat, I think a lot of them are aware that it is a bigger issue with gringos. So over time the more experienced ones may get better at it. So if she shows up on time or early, a good chance she is well experienced with gringos.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2750002]I have a date with this girl in Brzail in her club at 5 PM. She was on time.[/QUOTE]Maybe she knew you meant business and she had better be on time after you called her an asshole.

[QUOTE=Incrociatore;2749811]...In Sao Paulo is hard to find hot girls for cheap, but I met a few. The same girls you meet at Scandallo take less than half the money if you manage to meet them in a different context. ....[/QUOTE]You can find them in Clinicas or other cheaper places if you spend enough time scouting those places. I found 3 in a month and I don't have a lot time during the day so I went mostly during weekend.

The problem with El Centron is BBBJ takes work and some luck with new girls if I can only go during weekend and only has one chance. lol. I know it is not just me because my wingman has similar problem. Occasionally, I saw other gringo approached the same girl with translator and was turned down.

I guess half an hour is 30-40 K cop + 7-8 K COP for roach motel but how much is una hora?

[QUOTE=Zeos1;2750007]I just think the idea of "teaching them a lesson" or trying to change their behavior is a losing battle in the short term.[/QUOTE]Not at all a losing battle if you plan to see them again, unless you want the same thing to happen over and over. You got to train them. Just gave a chick the 3rd degree about that the other day. She won't be late again.

Those are all valid points. If you factor them into how you move life becomes complicated. I like to keep it simple. Show up on time, or don't show up. I already covered the exceptions I tolerate.

[QUOTE=Villainy;2749978]This gets discussed periodically. There is the carrot or the stick approach.

Carrot approach: Tell her that if she arrives within 30 minutes of the appointed time she gets a 20 mil propina but if she is 31 minutes late, no propina. (Make it higher if that matters that much to you).

Stick approach: Tell her if she is 30 minutes late the date is cancelled and you will make other plans.

Some girls really have no sense of time, others are semi-pros and don't take cabs that much and have no sense of judging the traffic especially around morning or late afternoons sprawls.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Zeos1;2750007]I just think the idea of "teaching them a lesson" or trying to change their behavior is a losing battle in the short term.[/QUOTE]Not at all a losing battle if you plan to see them again, unless you want the same thing to happen over and over. You got to train them. Just gave a chick the 3rd degree about that the other day. She won't be late again.

Hi everyone, can you suggest a not so expensive hotel closer to energy, I am planning to book 2 rooms, one for personal and other for bringing girls over. I will be working remote and don't want to bring girl to the same room as my work set up. Love motel could you an option but I don't want to deal with logistics and dealing with flaky girls.

Any mid range hotel with chic friendly would be a nice set up for 2nd room. Also how are hostels like Masaya?

[QUOTE=QualitySmut;2749969]Where are you guys finding girls on FB. Is there some group? Do you just search for girls from the city? Any details on the process would be appreciated. I like your style and would like to try it out.[/QUOTE]Facebook is only a good source for Medellin. You won't have much success using it for other Colombian cities.

Go to the "Links to Reports of Distinction" thread and search for "Facebook. " You'll find some step-by-step instructions on how to get started.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2750019]Maybe she knew you meant business and she had better be on time after you called her an asshole.[/QUOTE]I didn't know that. LOL. I knew this chick very well by that time.

[QUOTE=RemotePC;2750053]Hi everyone, can you suggest a not so expensive hotel closer to energy, I am planning to book 2 rooms, one for personal and other for bringing girls over. I will be working remote and don't want to bring girl to the same room as my work set up. Love motel could you an option but I don't want to deal with logistics and dealing with flaky girls.

Any mid range hotel with chic friendly would be a nice set up for 2nd room. Also how are hostels like Masaya?[/QUOTE]You can just book San Peter Apartments. It is one bed room. Or rent an airbnb with 2 bedroom.

[QUOTE=SouthernOcean;2749925]Could someone fill me in on the weather there. Coming first week of November. I know it's usually 60 to about 70 degrees but what about the rain.[/QUOTE]The weather can be totally unpredictable. Very simply put, it can rain anytime.

There may not be a cloud in the sky, but ten minutes later it can be raining.

So some rules of the road for you. Never ever leave where your staying without an umbrella, and two, wherever your staying, always make sure every window is shut. Especially if your in an apartment because if you leave any windows open you may return to wet floors and furnishings which can be a nightmare to deal with.

Most people who come to Medellin for the first time learn all this the hard way by getting totally drenched from head to foot, and sometimes trying to dry out where they are staying.

Also, it's a good idea to bring at least two pairs of shoes with you.

Sometimes it can rain so hard the streets and sidewalks will overflow, and your shoes will become totally saturated. It's one thing to dry clothes out, but shoes are another matter.

This was a good question you asked.

I had the misfortune of seeing Jenni Munoz today. She propositioned a trio and I liked the girl she sent pictures of so we agreed. She initially asked for 400 k each but I negotiated down to 600 k including taxi, OWO, kisses with tongue, and for the girls to have sex with each other. I didn't trust the girls in my apartment so told them to go to a motel near me. We went to the love motel but the younger girl (Mariana Sosa in FB) did not have a cedula on her so they didn't let her in. The girl had a picture of her cedula but the motel didn't accept that. This was strike 1 and I should have followed my better judgement and broke it off there. I decided that the girls look ok and that I can keep an eye on them so I brought them to my apartment. Inside the girls wanted to rush to take a shower and go to the bedroom. This was strike 2 and I again should have sent them away. Once they washed up, Jenni tried to get wet using a vibrator while I tried to kiss both of them. They gave peaks but nothing more. I could smell that Jenni was high. She made up some BS excuse about not being willing to do OWO on me and the Mariana gave me CBJ. Jenni then rode me while Mariana sucked my nipple. I ended up coming like this since I love getting my nipple sucked and I was holding in two days of leche. Jenni said we are done since I came and I told them that it isn't time yet so to give me a massage. She said they would after a shower. They take a shower and give me perhaps the worst massage of my life and I have gotten some pretty shitty massages. After a couple of minutes I just want them to leave. I give her 500 k and say that this is for the whole mess. She refuses and wants the extra 100 k. At this point I just fucking hope I never have to see them again and give them the 100 k and kick them the fuck out. It was an expensive lesson learned and I hope to never deal with this again. The only positive is that I didn't end up paying for the motel so I saved 100 k there. I ended up blocking her on Whatsapp and FB afterwards. She has 2. 8 k friends so chances are that someone here may have the misfortune of dealing with her and hopefully can avoid it. Fuck, I should have just gone to centro and I would have had a better experience for a much lower price. The girls are young (22 and 18 I think) but a complete pissing of pesos.

What a pain in the ass. I'm sorry you had to go through that crap bro. I've seen reviews of facebook girls on here and other websites. It might be work vetting potential dates based on reviews. I hope the rest of your trip goes well.

[QUOTE=DandyMan51;2750555]I had the misfortune of seeing Jenni Munoz today. She propositioned a trio and I liked the girl she sent pictures of so we agreed. She initially asked for 400 k each but I negotiated down to 600 k including taxi, OWO, kisses with tongue, and for the girls to have sex with each other. I didn't trust the girls in my apartment so told them to go to a motel near me. We went to the love motel but the younger girl (Mariana Sosa in FB) did not have a cedula on her so they didn't let her in. The girl had a picture of her cedula but the motel didn't accept that. This was strike 1 and I should have followed my better judgement and broke it off there. I decided that the girls look ok and that I can keep an eye on them so I brought them to my apartment. Inside the girls wanted to rush to take a shower and go to the bedroom. This was strike 2 and I again should have sent them away. Once they washed up, Jenni tried to get wet using a vibrator while I tried to kiss both of them. They gave peaks but nothing more. I could smell that Jenni was high. She made up some BS excuse about not being willing to do OWO on me and the Mariana gave me CBJ. Jenni then rode me while Mariana sucked my nipple. I ended up coming like this since I love getting my nipple sucked and I was holding in two days of leche. Jenni said we are done since I came and I told them that it isn't time yet so to give me a massage. She said they would after a shower. They take a shower and give me perhaps the worst massage of my life and I have gotten some pretty shitty massages. After a couple of minutes I just want them to leave. I give her 500 k and say that this is for the whole mess. She refuses and wants the extra 100 k. At this point I just fucking hope I never have to see them again and give them the 100 k and kick them the fuck out. It was an expensive lesson learned and I hope to never deal with this again.[/QUOTE]

Good advice for sure, the rain is seasonal but as you said it can happen anytime. Mostly it starts around 4 PM and last anywhere from a few minutes, to hours. You get used to it.

[QUOTE=Surfer500;2750355]The weather can be totally unpredictable. Very simply put, it can rain anytime.

There may not be a cloud in the sky, but ten minutes later it can be raining.

So some rules of the road for you. Never ever leave where your staying without an umbrella, and two, wherever your staying, always make sure every window is shut. Especially if your in an apartment because if you leave any windows open you may return to wet floors and furnishings which can be a nightmare to deal with.

Most people who come to Medellin for the first time learn all this the hard way by getting totally drenched from head to foot, and sometimes trying to dry out where they are staying.

Also, it's a good idea to bring at least two pairs of shoes with you.

Sometimes it can rain so hard the streets and sidewalks will overflow, and your shoes will become totally saturated. It's one thing to dry clothes out, but shoes are another matter..[/QUOTE]