The Cmdr could not have said it better myself!
[QUOTE=LittleBigMan;3054821]To each his own? Funny Logic?
" if the guy is a boyfriend who just happens to be absent, then the lady is off limits to me " " but if the guy is just an idiot sending money, then no problem seeing the lady " LOL![/QUOTE]One hundred precent with you [B]LittleBigMan[/B]. Makes no sense to me either. But as you said, to each their own!
Some individuals just need to understand we don't need their opinions constantly repeated. Everyone has different styles. Posted up in Pattaya with zero problems with [I]Thai Girls[/I]. Transactional Relationships are not complicated unless you try to over think them. Things don't get complicated with a sex worker until you try to make a human connection.
Observations from The Cmdr
[QUOTE=Explorer8939;3054839]There was one lady who claimed her German boyfriend was just a customer, no problem if we fucked. She even had a Thai boyfriend. And then she moved to Germany and married the guy.[/QUOTE]You should be happy for both of them. And happy that you got the chance to fuck the bride.
[B]ROTFLMAO![/B]
The Cmdr View on Latin America vs Pattaya, Thailand
[QUOTE]One clear note to a reader on my generally negative view of Pattaya as a repeat destination is that it lacks, opposite to Latin America, [u]romance, passion, enigma, intrigue all well played like in a theatre[/u] there, but not in Pattaya.[/QUOTE]Having spend 10 straight years in Latin America I interpret as the following:
[B]Romance[/B] (fake), [B]passion[/B] (no where to be found), [B]enigma[/B] (WTF? [B]intrigue[/B] (about how the ripoff game is going to be played yet again by another chica), [U]all well played like in a theatre[/U] (like a hanging curve ball that you set up on and knock out of the park repeatedly).
[B]Prostitutes in Latin America are hustlers with a poor work ethic[/B] They would rater con you out of your money than put work in. They want something for nothing. I find Pattaya to be completely different in that respect.
[QUOTE]As for me, with my love of Latinas and the simple math the Thai proposal may just not work moving forward.[/QUOTE]Good, if you found what you want then you should pursue it. Why would anyone be a [B]International Trick[/B] in a place they did not like the [B]International Trickin[/B] activities.
I like the bodies of Latin American chicas. What I do not like is their mental software. I have been able to find plenty of Thai Girls with Latin American style bodies that have far superior mental software. Like 10 times better!
I don't see Latin America as being a place to fuck with when it comes to the chicas long term. That has been a very different case for me here in Pattaya, Thailand. I can speak Spanish (some would say fluently). I cannot speak Thai and yet experiences here in Thailand have been far better.
[B]To each their own![/B]
The Cmdr's observation about sponsors
Concerning the comments about sponsors:
[B]A girl having a sponsor has never prevented me from getting pussy from her![/B]
What another grown man does with his money does not concern me. I continue to wonder why I am constantly reading comments about the issue. No one becomes a [I]Sponsor[/I] without knowing what they are getting into. Individuals who choose to be [I]Sponsors[/I] do not affect me financially nor my efforts go get pussy. I sponsor girls all the time. I put my dick into their mouth or pussy. I cum. I pay them. They leave. If I repeat then I have become a sponsor [B]Cmdr style[/B].
[B]My objective is to nut![/B]
The Cmdr makes some observations
Let me start by saying that [B]I really appreciated your report[/B]. I have never been to Hua Hin. But your report makes even more enticing and plan to go as soon as I can tear myself away from my current obsessions where I am currently posted up.
[QUOTE=CherchezFemme;3055631]Long story short: a table of 4 guys walked in. 1 of them decided he liked "my" girl and spent the next 90 minutes flirting long-distance with her: making faces, gestures and sending his number over through her friend. Wonderland has at least 100 girls and LBs, and he chose to spend his entire time in the venue flirting with a girl sitting with a customer. [b]I will forever be surprised how PATHETIC THIRSTY AND SIMPY men can be[/b].
[u]Of course this made my competitiveness rise up which made me anxious which ruined my evening until I finally got her back to my place[/u]. I don't like the fact I let a scarcity mindset take hold of me, even if it was for only 90 minutes. The fact is there is a scarcity of cute girls in HH but really fuck him for being so desperate. And to hell with the girl: she was loving the attention and refused to leave early. As she became drunker her defenses lowered and she admitted she really likes her job (compared to car sales in BKK) and loves the attention. She loves being a ho.[/QUOTE][B]Outstanding report[/B]! I've had the same thing happen to me while out with girls in Pattaya. Other guys think the can [I]out do you[/I] some how. My girls ALWAYS shut the guys down. They simply do not play that. Because I don't flirt with other girls when I am with them. In turn they don't tolerate other girls flirting with me and will get in another girls face that hits on me in a minute. Trust me it happens all the time in the venues that I frequent.
[QUOTE=CherchezFemme;3055631][b]I will forever be surprised how PATHETIC THIRSTY AND SIMPY men can be[/b].[/QUOTE]He lost so that just put everything into perspective. It was not on you to compete. It was on the girl that you were spending money on to shut him down. She decided not to. I would have invited him over to the table and put them both on the spot.
[QUOTE=CherchezFemme;3055631]LI was irritated at him and irritated at myself for giving a shit. I guess I really wanted company that night, not just sex.[/QUOTE]Don't be too hard on yourself. You got what you wanted. You got what the SIMP wanted. She wound up in your room.
[B]Nothing wrong with stepping up and being a real man! [/B]