Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]Yup, I got that one for sure, responsibility even when you get shafted... or trying to work out differences after problems... Sucks...

And yup there sure are arseholes out there, myself included :D Just ask 1Ball[/QUOTE]

The world is full of shafters and shaftees, but its not always totally clear cut. So I prefer not to judge someone when I don't really know what happened.

I have long given up giving any girl false hopes. I always admit I have a GF if they close enough that they would want to know and even before that. It takes a lot for me to dump a girl but in the end it has to happen if the reasons are strong enough.

We do not support every ex-GF we ever had.

But leaving her with nothing is clearly arsehole behaviour. But there are a lot of pepole who want to be the shafter rather than the shaftee. Some of us "nice guys" are destined to be the shaftees.

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]
And yup there sure are arseholes out there, myself included :D Just ask 1Ball[/QUOTE]
No arseholes, Tansak, just assholes.

Not so. A girl in a bar or MP, yes, needs to fuck anybody walking through the door. Now I understand that we all consider ourselves decent, clean and respect paying individuals etc. etc.. (the usual bla bla bla)

Fact is though that these girls are there for a reason. 1.) they dumb as shit and 2.) they are lazy. How these girls can fuck everyday the sleaziest dirtiest buggers coming through the door escapes me.

Plus... the whole hooker scene is a doggy dog world. It's highly predatory and abusive and its 100% abt money.

Tansak surely feels somewhat emotional tied to this issue, but hey, if the girls don’t rip of their clients, guys surely take advantage of the weak nature of the girl. Only normal... we are animals after all.

JB



[QUOTE=Mick Licker]....They don't have to fuck just anybody...[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jungle Bluebird]Fact is though that these girls are there for a reason. 1.) they dumb as shit and 2.) they are lazy.[/quote]

No, they are not dumb and certainly not lazy - they are working class people. They are poor, with no power, and thus must toil.

[quote]How these girls can fuck everyday the sleaziest dirtiest buggers coming through the door escapes me.[/quote]

It is no different from cooking or cleaning floors all day, or working in a factory. In fact it is much more pleasant, as of course the vast majority of punters are clean and reasonable people.

[quote]Plus... the whole hooker scene is a doggy dog world. It's highly predatory and abusive and its 100% abt money.[/quote]

You just described every job, and our entire miserable capitalist world, JB. (Btw, the aphorism is a 'dog-eat-dog' world, not doggy-dog).

[QUOTE=Opebo]...our entire miserable capitalist world,...[/QUOTE]
Pardon my straying from the purpose of this thread, but I just can't let this one go by without comment ...

Opebo, my friend, there is a wonderful place in this world where the economy is planned and run by super smart people just like you who understand exactly what each individual in society needs and deserves, and who should do what and where for his living. That place is Cuba. No miserable capitalism there.

And, if you were a citizen there, you probably wouldn't be getting laid because you, like almost every one else, (except the exhalted leaders, of course), couldn't afford the cost.

I think we're allowed some leeway for give-and-take on an 'opinions and advice' thread, so I will indulge:

[QUOTE=Daddy07]...you, like almost every one else, (except the exhalted leaders, of course), couldn't afford the cost.[/QUOTE]

I can't afford it much now, daddeo! And I can assure you the exhalted leaders of our capitalist society (the owning class) can afford a lot more than I. I think perhaps you have accepted some propaganda that masks the hierarchical nature of our system.

[QUOTE=Opebo]...I think perhaps you have accepted some propaganda that masks the hierarchical nature of our system.[/QUOTE]
The nature of existence is hierarchical, and my consciousness has been self trained to accept only reason. Were it not for a mostly freemarket system in Thailand, I repeat: you wouldn't be getting laid by its sex workers.

i for one like my job and i like to work. i consider it creative and money is merely the yardstick of my success.

however, even cleaning floors I consider better than having some dirty old dick stuck in their face. truth is, as you well know, most working girls have been victims of abuse from early on. they do anything for money.

and as you probably also well know the smile and easy going nature of Thai pros only hides all the shit experiences underneath.

keep an eye open for the cigarette burn marks on their back, the scars from self inflicted abuse etc..

Mind you - I am guilty just as anyone taking advantage of the ample supply of sweet hearts in this country. Figure though, they only have themselves to blame.

JB


[QUOTE=Opebo]...You just described every job, and our entire miserable capitalist world... [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jungle Bluebird]truth is, as you well know, most working girls have been victims of abuse from early on. they do anything for money.[/QUOTE]

Huh? Where is this well known? And where does the association between being sexually abused at an early age and doing anything for money come from?

ok, you got me there.. :-)

forgot to to add the break..

JB


[QUOTE=Terry Terrier]Huh? Where is this well known? And where does the association between being sexually abused at an early age and doing anything for money come from?[/QUOTE]

(I wasn't sure which Thailand thread to post this. Maybe the "safe-sex thread" would be better, as webcam sex is relatively safe. ;))
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Research: Cybersex users show high depression rates.

"... Most concerning was the high rate of poor mental health among the sample group. We found that 27 per cent of them were moderate to severely depressed on the standard depression scales. Thirty per cent had high levels of anxiety and 35 per cent were moderately to severely stressed, which is of course extremely high. The more heavily they engaged in online sexual activity the higher their level of depression and anxiety was, he said.

It was possible these rates were high because the men were spending so much time online and not engaging with people socially."

[url]http://www.news.com.au/technology/s...5014239,00.html[/url]

So guys, throw away those webcams and the baby-oil, and get out of the house for some real-life shagging!

[QUOTE=Daddy07]The nature of existence is hierarchical, and my consciousness has been self trained to accept only reason. Were it not for a mostly freemarket system in Thailand, I repeat: you wouldn't be getting laid by its sex workers.[/QUOTE]

I certainly agree that the system is what forces working people to toil for their betters (whether literally on their knees or only metaphorically), but I find it ironic that anyone would use the adjective 'free' about it.

[QUOTE=Jungle Bluebird]however, even cleaning floors I consider better than having some dirty old dick stuck in their face.[/quote]

Seriously? I would consider the dick/face thing to be far less onerous considering the brevity of the efforts involved and the much higher rate of pay.

[quote=Uncle Bluebird]truth is, as you well know, most working girls have been victims of abuse from early on. they do anything for money.[/QUOTE]

Of course they have - they are working class people, and female. And perhaps these experiences make them more likely to disregard the social stigma incurred by prostituting. Their reasons could be 'poor self esteem' or a variety of others, but none of this changes the fact that the social stigma is, in the first place, nothing more than bigotry.

[QUOTE=Opebo] Seriously? I would consider the dick/face thing ...[/QUOTE]Opebo, would you seriously consider it? Ouch. I can deal with the mental image of you on your knees cleaning floors, but not with the image of you on your knees doing the alternative toil, even if it's less onerous, a quick job, and pays better.

[QUOTE=Piper1]Opebo, would you seriously consider it? Ouch. I can deal with the mental image of you on your knees cleaning floors, but not with the image of you on your knees doing the alternative toil, even if it's less onerous and pays better.[/QUOTE]

Haha, obviously I was putting myself in the shoes of the persons under discussion - Thai women. As for me the idea of anyone paying for my sexual services is, well, pretty laughable.

giving oral to a 55 something huge German women with facial and leg hair - which length qualifies for dental floss - possible extremely smelly, stinking of sweat from all day Bangkok excursions, who then moans and groans like a pig... all that is preferable to cleaning floors?

sorry.. i rather clean floors.

JB


[QUOTE=Opebo] Seriously? I would consider the dick/face thing to be far less onerous considering the brevity of the efforts involved and the much higher rate of pay.
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