Boom boom no condom works ok
[QUOTE=Interstella;2983534]So, I have to give Thermae the old college try, despite the difficulty levels I've read about here. I have a sort of specific question for you that I thought you might help with based on your post. Is "Real Sex" as translated in Thai something that will get the BBFSCIP point across? For example, in Lima, the lingo would be "Pelado or Peladito" meaning bald or bare, or "sexo VIP / VIP servicios" and also the less nuanced "Sin Condon or Sin Preservativo" meaning without a condom. Strangely "sexo natural" should get the point across in Spanish, but it's not the lingo there. I just don't want to shock the women here with some crazy translation like "I want to cum in your pussy" haha. I'm sure they've heard it all before, but just trying to keep the negotiations as light and playful as possible. I've learned even when paying for it, it's best to keep the "vibes" as positive as possible. I'm refusing the attitude of, "oh well the Koreans own the game in this venue" better to move on. They might be the dominant force, but that doesn't mean I won't show up as an emergent force. Dammit, I've got money and a medium sized dick too, they must understand, haha! I know another way to handle it is just go for it without first discussing during negotiations, but I still would love an idea of how to broach that subject. Maybe it's as simple as "Boom Boom no Condom", I dunno. ? I'm flexible on blowing a little cash in Thermae, so we'll see what's up regardless. Thanks either way.[/QUOTE]There might be more fluent Thai speakers here who can give you a recommendation. That is, if being so fluent in Thai improves one's chances of getting BBFSCIP with a P4 P girl in a first session. Some here will suggest that it does. I have my doubts about that. I have found some P4 P girls think a relative newbie who isn't quite so familiar with the language, culture, everything AND is asking for BBFSCIP in perfect Thai language has not lived here long enough and banged so many Thai hookers BB to be as riddled with disease as they "think" he might be by now. So, it depends. Maybe a good idea to know and speak the exact right Thai words for it. Or maybe it is better to appear a bit less experienced about it.
Of course, as usual, YMMV.
So I just stick with "boom boom no condom" or perhaps, if asking rather than telling, "boom boom OK mai?
And I am likely to now add "and finish inside", since I am really not interested in renegotiating a whole new feature at the point of penetrative or sometime after the 3rd stroke.
But I have also Google Translated it if necessary. I would say a good 90% plus P4P girls in Bangkok and Pattaya who go with Farangs will understand the English words I have stated so far.
You know, funny thing about that "Real Sex" term I employ for BBFSCIP, usually adding DFK and BBBJ as well. I used to get flamed here for using that term, some punters feeling insulted or bothered by the suggestion that the covered sex they accept or enjoy is somehow not "Real Sex".
However, almost any time I ever used the term "Real Sex" with a Thai girl I was first time texting with on ThaiFriendly, Tinder or whatever, they seemed to know exactly what I meant by it as opposed to "sex with condom" even if I hadn't yet broken down my definition of it as stated here. They would almost always reply, "You mean without condom"? Maybe they ran it through Google Translate. LOL. Yes, that is what I mean.
So maybe some punters don't agree with referring to BBFSCIP as "Real Sex" but an awful lot of Thai P4P girls of any age seem to know the difference between that and "sex with condom" easily enough.
My specific phrase for no condom
Eih Tooms is spot on. If the girl has usable English skills, I verbally request "boom boom sex, no condom, finish inside, much kissing with tongues". It is very clear and will not be confused. She might try to change in the room, but she knows expectations going into the room.
For girls with limited English (or deaf), I type out that same phrase in my translator app for her to read.
Much of the time you will get refused, so be ready to move to the next.
For massage places similar to Soi 24, I ask mamasan for girls that provide those services. Sometimes there are none, sometimes mama provides a lineup. Over the years I arranged this same thing with mamasans at go go bars (those mamas are hard to find, but they are worth the tips that I give).
Thanks, Gentlemen. And, a short report.
Firstly, thanks EihTooms for your answer. Also wanted to give a shout out to HorseTrader, CCRider, and Aimless for their thoughts and input as well. I need to get my membership upgraded so I can ask questions directly if needed, and I also hope to contribute to this forum when possible. Maybe after I've been to BKK ten times or so over the years I can offer more actionable advice, until then it's just opinions and experiences.
Onto my short field report. Someone mentioned Stockings Massage here recently, and it sounded like it was worth a shot. The website, the one youtube video I could find, and the reviews on the web all seem to be favorable. My experience was lackluster, but here we go. I waltzed in up the stairs around 1 PM local time to reception where I was greeted with a price sheet. I was in the mood to just kinda get in and get out, so I chose the cheapest option which was 2100 baht for 40 minutes. This might have been my first mistake. Probably should have just payed a bit extra for the 60 minutes option, and not come off as a cheap charlie right out of the gate. I'm led up some more stairs and sit on a couch for the "lineup. " I can hear the mamasan waking up / summoning some women, and I hear two distinctive utterances, and low and behold only two women saunter up the stairs. Maybe coming early was my second mistake. Here's the good news, one was a strong 6, and the other was a strong 7, both very cute with good bodies. I chose the hotter one who had zero smile on her face, as opposed to her cute friend that was desperately smiling, and asking with her eyer "please pick me. " I suppose that was my third mistake. Anyway we go into the room and shower, and I realize she's not going to even put stockings on! I'm a go with the flow kinda guy, I just ran out of giving a shit about this sort of thing years ago. She's a 7, we're naked, just go with it. She had medium dark skin, perfect be's, maybe 100 pounds, a touch over five feet, and just a looker overall. The service was pretty basic and mechanical, no kissing, and she was so gracious (yawn) to let me touch her pussy, but of course, no fingering. She does the whole basic nuru with oil bit to get me hard, with not even a hint of offering to give a BJ, at this point this sessions has a crappy vibe, so I don't even ask. I pump away, rip off the hat, and she finishes me off with a great handy. So, uh, yeah that sucked, but hell it cost less than a dash order in the states so whatever. Seems to be a theme on my trips where it either starts off great, then a lull, then great again. Or starts off a bit shitty and builds up to a hell of a time, of which I am experiencing the latter. I think this one is on me and will give it another shot.
