Long Time Lurker. A Few Reports and Thank You!
Hello everyone,
Just returned last month from a long time trip to Bangkok. Want to say thank you for all the useful information. I've been in the hobby for many years but can't as much anymore due to SO reasons. Figure I detail out my "free" nights and some (hopefully) helpful details for some newbies. This is not my first time in Thailand, but the first time I had the ability to enjoy the hobby over there.
Let me preface this by a few things. What I look for is connection, not just "Wang, Bang, Thank you Ma'am". I get "hall passes" from the SO to go out, just as long as I don't bring back anything. I'm creeping up on 40 and in decent shape. Money is (thankfully) not something I negotiate a lot for. So understand this ahead of time as I write this out. Was in Bangkok for a month and got 2-3 hall passes, here are a few reports.
First Pass: Thursday Night. Went out to Soi Cowboy and just walked around a bit. I don't drink alcohol so I mostly stay with juices (pineapple if available) and sparkling / regular water. Dodged the "Arab" bars due to obvious reasons and decided to check out Crazy House. I've visited a few times but nothing really caught my eye in the past. This time there was a girl named "Nana", HUGE MM DD's and a VERY fit ass. She noticed me when I walked in and winked at me, pulled her right off stage and paid for a lady drink. Her English was good and we just started flirting. Took me upstairs to the second floor as it was a little quieter. Got touchy with each other and then she stopped as she said "she makes a mess". That was that! I asked how much for two shots and 1-2 hours of her time (again can't do long times), we negotiated 4,000 for two hours and 2-3 shots, if time permits.
Got to a short time hotel and took a shower (one of a 100 you end up taking daily in Bangkok) and we just went to town on each other. Went through a few acronyms before the cover came on. I'm decently sized but have the girth! She even offered to BB for an extra 1000, but I declined (if only I was single LOL). She took it all like a champ for round 1 and 2 and she wasn't lying about making a mess! We had 30 minutes left and the sheets were soaked. Went for round 3 and she did her best to keep up and finished in K9. Rested for a bit and went over our time. Took a shower and said our goodbyes. Told her I would be back in a few days or a week. I fucked up and didn't get her line info, read on to see why!
Second Pass: Friday Night. A little over a week later, went back to Soi Cowboy's Crazy House. Asked for Nana, was told she wasn't working there anymore (NOOOOOO). My disappointment was immeasurable and I thought my day was ruined. I just sat back and watched the talent. Girls one after another kept coming up and I rejected them, nothing came close to what I wanted. Then after an hour, an 8/10 walked onto the stage. Nice fit butt with some MM see's with no baby damage (can you all tell the trend of my type). Pulled her down, her name was "Arya / Aria. Some variation of it). Bought her two lady drinks this time to keep Mama-san from getting angry at them. Went upstairs yet again and told her I was actually here to see "Nana" but she doesn't work there anymore. She laughed and said that she is starting her own business or something but assured me she was a good time. Negotiated a bit for the same 2 hour block with 2-3 shots, time permitting, for 3500.
Arrived at the same short time hotel and showered up. I went straight into her ass and ate her from behind. Had her sit on my face a bit and she orgasmed (or faked it, they are Pro's LOL), wet as a baby seal! She did this P2 P slide which was nice, and had a small stint of BBFS. She asked if I wanted to continue or wanted a cover. I asked for the cover (I KNOW! Can't bring anything back with me! Entered her in mish with her legs on my shoulders. The only downside was that she was in a little pain because of the girth, but she championed through. After round 2, we had about 45 minutes left and she kept saying "I die". Thanks for the ego boost! Told her I wanted one more and she obliged but was exhausted. Went in doggy and putt a finger inside her ass. She looked back at me with the most devilish look I've ever seen and asked me if I wanted to put it inside for a little Greek. She wanted another 1000, I agreed and she lubed up. Went REALLY slow at first and then got it all in. She looked to enjoy it and she took it all in good stride. Sped up and ended round 3 inside her ass (covered). It would be another two weeks before I get another pass!
Third Pass: Wednesday afternoon. I was in RCA plaza / center enjoying the afternoon and saw an add on my phone for slightly upscale massage named Bonnie RCA. I checked the forums and couldn't find anything about them. Decided to TOFTT and visited. They don't have a website but they do have a LINE ID that you can ask for the daily Lineup. I asked to see Cherry and Ruby as they both fit my type. Neither were available that day so they brough a line up of beautiful ladies. One stood out, named Olive. Short, cute, and spoke decent English. MM small see's and a cute fit butt. Paid for a three hour window (they sell either 60 or 90 minutes) I decided for a 3 hour B2 B massage. I told her right when we entered what I wanted. Negotiated another 3 k (was a bit pricey as the massage was 2. 5 k).
She undressed me and was surprised I was already standing at attention. She was a bit shocked at the girth (she said her boyfriends / clients are usually Chinese and are significantly smaller). I undressed her and what a body! FLAT stomach with a cute little butt. Not shaved, but a VERY attractive pussy! Needless to say I DATY's for a bit, even got a bit of DATO. She lubed up a bit more and covered me up, it definitely took her a bit to adjust to me. I will say, Olive rode me like a stallion! Flat footed and bottomed out on me, kept hinting at some anal but she was not budging. I KNOW she definitely had an orgasm as I could feel the convulsions. Two rounds down and not a lot of time left, she went in for a BBBJ. I flat out asked for anal and that I would tip another 1000 if I could get it all the way in. She again said no but offered BBFS. Told her I couldn't but did a little P2 P to get me riled up. K9 again to completion and made out like teenagers after.
All in all, I had a great time! I know some fellow hobbyists are probably saying I paid too much. All good! I enjoyed everything and to be honest paying a bit more than the average doesn't bother me. If you compare prices to where I live, I had three AMAZING experiences for pretty much the same price as one / two where I live. I even snagged a few pictures / videos (with consent of course)!
Hope this helps and can't wait to come back again.
Going to dial it back a few notches.
[QUOTE=Interstella;2985004]"here's 500 baht for your troubles and there's the door. " Spoiler alert, I'm not the nicest guy you've ever met, haha. Anyway, I feel like this could work, and who knows, maybe it will all go off without a hitch![/QUOTE]So, uh, yeah, going to dial it back a few notches. Thing I came into this city with an attitude that needs to be nocked down a few pegs, and for good reason. I'll leave a short field report to explain.
So, I waltz into Thermae last night earlyish, around 9:30, and there are not suprisingly less people there than the previous weekend nights I had checked it out closer to midnight. I head to the counter to grab a coke, tip the waiter 20 baht with my change, and he's super appreciative yet once again. I'm sure the local Thai people can forgive us westerners for our tipping culture, it's too late for us at this point in that regard. Anyway I start doing the ol' clockwise loops to see what women are willing to make eye contact with me and which aren't. Of course there's a gaggle of older ones trying depserately to meet my stare as I'm searching for a bit of a younger bird than my own age. After doing multiple loops I just can't shake the feeling I get when I look at this one tiny exotic looking thing. She looks like what I imagine Melville saw when shored on the Marquesas and lived with the Tai Pi people for a few months hundreds of years ago. She smiled at me on every loop. Strangely enough, I would only rate her a 6 by universal standards, but she had a 7 face for sure, and her hair was perfect, like movie star, perfect. She also had a certain ineffable quality, let's say. The face of innnocence itself. I walk up to her like a towering dope, and sign a "4" with my hands to signal 4 K, and she just kinda looks at me and says "what?" She speaks english. Not perfect english, but she speaks english. So I said "4,000 Baht" not even Hello, just that, and she was like "okay, you want me to go with you?" I said yes, and then, again, like a dope, I introduce myself and then we both start to make our way to the door after I inform her of which hotel we are heading towards. We grab a taxi, because she's in heels, and a long dress. Dressed like a lady. In the cab we chit-chat, and it comes out that she is 28, (I thought she was 21 max), which is fine. So, she's a little closer to my maturity level, especially considering that I'm a bit stunted in that regard.
We get to the hotel, and this is where my dogshit negotiation tactic that I had set out to try that night failed HARD. She asks about a condom, and of course, being a lying little rat (I feel as if the only truth I owe a woman I will only know for a night, is if I have any diseases, which I don't) I tell her I don't have a condom, because, you know, I want to be all up in those sugar walls. Her face instantly changed, and she started talking about leaving, herself, without me, to go get condoms and that she will be right back. I pause, not really knowing what to do. She looks at me, and speaks to me, like a man would, not emotionally charged, just truth, and says "I would never have sex without a condom. " Fuck. Truth be told, I am a decent guy, and I'm not going to try and talk a woman out of a completely cogent, and well posititioned regard, that affects her health and longevity. So, because I had this dimwit idea of just strong arming the situation with money, I told her that I was deeply sorry for having waster her time, gave her 1000 baht, and said we can just part ways. Here is where things take a curious turn, because I speak "woman. ".
She seems not completely upset but obviusly annoyed. Again, she looks dead into my eyes, and speaks to me like a man, not emotionally charged, just truth. She tells me "you know you should have discussed this with me before we left the club. " I think, why is she hanging around? She could head back to the club now and have made 1000 baht in 30 minutes and not have even smudged her makeup. So, my conscience gets to me, and I decide to do "the right thing," whatever the fuck that is any given moment to a piece of meat with electricity running through it (me.) I go over and lay down another 3,000 Baht next to her purse, I again apologize for wasting her time. At this point I already know she's in my net, and I know that I'm way better looking than 90 percent of those guys in Thermae, even though suprisingly, many of those dudes are quite young by punter standards. Imagine if you were a guy that woman had paid for sex, and fuck it, let's say she's a 2, you're all hard and ready to go, and right before you stick it in, she's like "nah, actually, here's the money, you can go, no thank you. " She looks at the 4,000 Baht, and says something to the effect of "well how about I hang out for a while, I don't want you to pay without getting anything. " A woman with a sense of duty, gentlemen, a woman with a sense of duty. So I say sure, and withing 30 seconds I'm like "how's about a blowjob. " She agrees, again, looking a bit annoyed but not angry, and she disrobes and gets to it.
The blowjob, oh man. I think this woman had chemistry with me, hell I KNOW I had chemistry with her. Eye contact, intermittent and suprising deep throating, sensual. I should also note that this is AFTER she carefully inspected my dick, also noticing my vasectomy scar which I had mentioned the operation earlier, and asking me if I was clean. Anyway, she's blowing me, but I just can't fucking stand it. I have to fuck this woman. So here's where she figures out I'm a lying little rat, but she's in my web now so oh well. When she previously asked why I didn't want to use a condom I basically said "boohoo, it's because I'm old and can't keep it up. " which is a lie. Anyway I stop the blowjob, and say let's see if I can keep it up to keep the lie alive, go over and grab the thinnest condom on the market out of the side table, lube up, and honestly I'm kind of excited because I've never tried this brand before and I'm ready to go. This was like sex on date with a woman you actually like, passionate, kissing, looking into each others eyes. Even with the hat it was a great experience, and I think I learned a lot overall on how I want to conduct myself going forward.
Anyway, by the time we are all showered up and she's leaving, it's like watch a scene in a fucking sitcom where two people are actually fond of eachothers company. I'm putting lotion on her back, she's laughing, we cuddle, etc. She looks at me one last time to speak to me like a man would, and says something to the effect of "you are my type, and if we hadn't met in the cafe and under the cirucumstances maybe we could have dated. " This was unsolicited, I never say shit like that to women I pay, because my days of simpling died in my 20's. Like, she was super honest, and basically said there's obviously going to be no future now because you paid me for access to my vagina, but that she found me handsome and to be a gentleman. Actions have consequences gentlemen, and while I accept mine, I kind of left that encounter feeling alive, like I was part of the world again.
I'm not sure if this sort of report is warranted or welcomed here, but there it is. For 4,000 Baht you might just meet special woman, only to never see her again. She taught herself english. She was uttelrly unique looking. She was 41 kg. She was a 6 by your standards, and a 10 by mine. Over and out.
Looking at it another way
[QUOTE=GrapeMan;2985173]You're thinking too hard on this. 'negotiating' is really only changing like by 500 baht or something. Thermae girls are more expensive than a girl on the street, but its still reasonable price, easily negotiable for a westerner. As was brought up in another post, yes, they like asian men because they can scam them for more and its easier in the bedroom, but generally at thermae, their clients are older english / aussie / etc men who are in the mongering scene in Bangkok. Its not a big deal to negotiate there, and they arent going to say no, they want money and they want to get a client so that they can come back down and try to get another or go home for the night after their 1 and done.[/QUOTE]Having dealt with Asians in the business world my observation was they detested the idea that they were not getting a better deal than their Caucasion counterparts. They were not the least bit shy about negotiating and extending it into the wee hours of the morning until they got there. As long as they know they are getting it cheaper all is well, no need to negotiate further.
This concept of charging a Caucasion or non Asian more and having it be fairly well known that is what often happens in Thermae can only serve a hooker in there well in terms of scoring an Asian customer who won't bother to negotiate whatever amount she quotes.
An additional 500 baht or even 1000 baht to get what I want with a girl I want it with isn't going to chase me away in a place where there is already no need to buy a LD or pay a barfine. But it can mean a lot to some Asian punter to know or at least hear that is what the same girl is charging me vs them. If they ever take a girl knowing she was with me before, that is. Which is doubtful in its own regard, but a different topic.