[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2777556]Sounds like my kind of gal. What's her fb name? Link? I can't find her.[/QUOTE]Her FB name is Maria Estefania.
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[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2777556]Sounds like my kind of gal. What's her fb name? Link? I can't find her.[/QUOTE]Her FB name is Maria Estefania.
[QUOTE=ContinentalF;2778368]If you've never been, I would wait for things to cool down. There are a lot of positives to Medellin, but I don't think they outweigh the current situation for a first timer. Yes of course you can go and have zero issues, but when even experienced travelers and Medellin veterans are having issues, how do you think you would fare as a newcomer? Risk: reward is off right now. Whatever money you might save, ask yourself how you'd feel if you lost all of your possessions and everything in your bank account? Could you use all that money to go to a less risky place and enjoy without having to worry or be so alert? The answer is probably yes. I personally would not want to vacation with that type of worry, regardless of all the BS you'll hear about how you need to do this, do that, etc. And you'll be fine.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I think I'll wait for now. I do speak fluent Spanish which might help, but I'm weary of going so far only to have a bad experience. Thanks for the tip.
[QUOTE=Huacho;2778171]However what we who have been around a bit longer can remember is when they were twice invaded with multiple guns. One incident had obvious police complicity. Both were over ten years ago. Many of the same risk factors exist, such as being a known hangout for wealthy gringos, abundant drugs, etc. I can see why younger clueless non Spanish speakers would stay there once but the loyalty eludes me. It's a run down dump room wise.[/QUOTE]I've stayed there dozens of times over the years and continue to do so. I like speaking to other mongers between chicas and all the great restaurants in the area. Also, have you been there lately? They have 3 rooms completely remodeled in the main hotel. Those rooms have jacuzzi's and are not dumps. I do agree most rooms are old, but they are clean.
[QUOTE=Tonesz;2773101]Wound up deciding to go to Medellin after hearing so many people talking about it and having enjoyed it so I decided to do my research. I have been recently lurking in this forum for not that long trying to get information as well as lots of Youtube videos and wrote down places I should check out as it was recommended. I wound up getting my ticket for one week as a test run.
Preparation-.
A little about me, I'm in my early 30's, Latino and I am semi fluent in Spanish but I do have an accent so you can tell I'm not a local.
A month before my flight I started swiping on Tinder and trying to get a decent list of girls I could possibly meet up there. Of course a lot of people mentioned to not use Tinder, but I made sure I vetted them, spoke to them on video and made at least a small little connection with them. No talk of money, no talk of gifts, just me telling them I wana take them out to dinner and have us explore. This is just my way of how I do things. Might work for others and it might not. Throughout all the girls I spoke to on there I had at least a good 5 girls I established a meet up with when I got there..[/QUOTE]Wasn't a full member before so I didn't get the chance to attach any pictures I believe but this is what Estefania looks like for anyone that was interested. From my personal preference I think I did quite well specially for someone that's not a pro at all (from what I know) LOL.
[QUOTE=CatchMeIfUCan;2778388]Do restaurants / bars / clubs ask for ID? If so do they ask for drivers license or passport? I don't like the idea of walking around with a passport.[/QUOTE]I've never been asked for ID. It's recommended to carry a copy of your passport main page, plus the arrival stamp. Your hotel can provide that for you.
Not much to say, another Tinder date, another average encounter. I'm now swiping much more lefts than rights. If the photos are okay, it just means the girl is not good. Lesson learned.
Following the no kissing and no second shot fiasco of my first encounter, this time around I make sure I ask all I want. Some negociation back and forth, we stop on 250 k for up to 2 hours for as many shots as I can handle.
Meeting organised at Golden Suites, I mention that I will not wait if she's late. Well, she's actually 30 minutes early. A rather good sign.
The girl is. Fine. Definitely not prime quality but descent attitude.
Once in the room ( 50 k for 3 hours, we'll end up using only one), Astri sets up the TV and music. She's no new to the setup.
We get undressed, no bad surprise. A bit of standing cuddles, dance, rub, but damn, she's already had a couple of beers. I won't kiss that.
I wanted to try these sort of curved chairs, I lie on it and she gives me a solid BBBJ. Good technique, she climbs on 69 after a while and she's clean an smells fine there. I don't get too deep though.
She then turns around and climbs on me. Well, those chairs are great for being ridden. It's very enjoyable. I pretty much struggle with that position on a bed, but on that chair the angles are perfect. We go on for a good while, then I blow my first load. She stays there for a bit, it's nice.
We then get on with the cleaning. So it's a thing that these hotels just don't include soap by default. It's a bit annoying, but, well, I just need to get my own next time.
We lie down on the bed then, a little bit of fun conversation with my broken Spanish, but still descent time.
After a while we try for round 2 (which is normally a pretty easy thing for me). No issues there, but I guess I'm not that attracted to her. She's willing and energetic, but I just never get there.
In the end I say that I've had enough, and we end the meeting with another cleaning, a bit of banter, payment, and off she goes. Just above 1 HR all in all.
I'll call this one "step 2" on the Medellin learning curve. Friendly girl and I got off, but I don't think it was worth my money or time. Better than encounter #1 though.
It is with great resentment and sadness that I am about to post what I am going to post but I feel as though the information needs to be out there to help fellow mongers in medellin to avoid what happened to me.
So anyways I just recently got back to medellin after having been gone for 2 months working in the US. I had been messaging this lesbian marimacha chick that I met on a previous trip back in May while I was on my way here. It turns out she was also pregnant and I kinda have a fetish for pregnant women LOL.
Anyways so as soon as I arrived I grabbed the bus from the airport (which is now 14 mil by the way) and headed to terminal del norte. I had Yei (the pregnant lesbian chick) meet me there, and since I had my suitcase and backpack and all my belongings with me I told her I wanted to go to my apartment in santo domingo (I know big mistake, especially with a chick I've only seen one time prior). Anyways we make it back to my place, everything is in order just how I left it in November. She says she wanted a beer an įguila light, I tell her she shouldn't be drinking since she is 8 months pregnant but I guess one light beer wouldn't hurt. I then go to the local tienda in my barrio and buy 2 Aguila lights and come back. I open them both and take a swig of mine and then hop in the shower since I was all sweaty and hadn't showered since I left California. When I get out of the shower yei is in my room mopping up something on the floor and I'm like what happened and she's like oh I accidentally spilled the beers. And I'm like ok whatever. So then I go to grab my beer and low and behold the beer is more full than it had been after my first swig before I got in the shower. Upon further inspection I also noticed that it had alot more foam than it did before my shower and it had some kind of white powder on the neck of the bottle. So I questioned her about it but she denied putting anything in my beer, I however didn't believe her and I went and dumped it out. We then proceeded to have a BBFS session which actually was really good and exactly what I wanted just as good as the first time I saw her back in May. Then afterwards she started complaining that her barriga was hurting and that she didn't feel she could walk all the way down the hillsbof my barrio down to where taxis and cars pass by and that she wanted her girlfriend to come get her so we could both help her walk. I knew something fishy was going on but against my better judgment I gave her my address to give to her girlfriend to grab a taxi, but the address isn't exact because I don't know the interior number and all cars can't pass all the way up here just motos and pedestrians because the road gets too narrow. So when the girlfriend arrived I had to go down to get her. During this time when I left yei alone in my apartment she got into my backpack and took my laptop, my tablet, and a cheap Sony cybershot camera and put them into her backpack that she had brought with her. My dumbass being too trusting didn't think to double check my backpack until after the girlfriend and I helped her down the hill and into a taxi. And when I got back I checked and of course my shit was gone. Luckily everything was all cheap shit tho. The laptop was $100 on black Friday at best buy it was a Lenovo IdeaPad I1 with barebones specs, I just use it to hook up to the TV to watch movies and shows I have downloaded on hard drives. She also got my tablet which was some cheap shit from Walmart called Onn that was like $70 maybe, and she also got my Sony w800 cybershot camera also worth about $70 oh and my cell phone charger was missing as well. The stupid * actually left behind things that were more valuable than what she took, such as my 2 western digital 10 TB hard drives and an original JBL Bluetooth speaker among other things.
Anyways I have attached pictures of the lesbian chick and her girlfriend as well as her Facebook profile and pictures of the residual powder on the beer bottle (after I had dumped it out).
The marimacha goes by Yei Sanchez and the girlfriend (the fem lesbian) goes by Joanna Gomez or Reichell Gomez. They work in the Botero area and stay in a pagodiario in prado.
I guess I always learn the hard way, I know better than to bring chicas back to my place especially one's I don't really know that well, I was thinking with my dick instead of my head and after I noticed the powder on the beer I honestly don't know why I didn't throw the * out of my apartment right away. The good news is that I didn't drink the beer, I didn't pass out or even die, and while I'm out about $250 usd worth of electronics, I can always buy those things back again and it honestly wouldn't put much of a dent in my wallet at the moment.
Please be careful out there guys. This is the first time anything like this has ever happened to me in all the 5 years I've been coming to Colombia, but it seems to me that people are robbing and stealing more than they used to. A friend of mine recently had his IPhone stolen in Centro and even a vennie I know had her phone stolen as well. This for me is just a lesson to learn about not being so trusting of people which really I already knew but I guess I was just getting to confident or too comfortable, but it could have turned out much worse.
[QUOTE=NorthernLight;2778452]Her FB name is Maria Estefania.[/QUOTE]Thank you.
Is it true American snacks aren't available in medellin? Like m&ms, snickers etc?
[QUOTE=Tonesz;2778468]Wasn't a full member before so I didn't get the chance to attach any pictures I believe but this is what Estefania looks like for anyone that was interested. From my personal preference I think I did quite well specially for someone that's not a pro at all (from what I know) LOL.[/QUOTE]Congratulations!
I think that you did quite well with Estefania. Great smile, sweet look, and a nice figure. We're your other dates similar to this one?
[QUOTE=Knowledge;2778444]If I remember correctly this member had other provider difficulties during the pandemic.[/QUOTE]Hi Knowledge,
Not quite but sort of; two guys went hands-on with me in front of the ground-zero Tostao on the first DIA sin IVA during the pandemic. You were nearby. At that time I was staying with a girlfriend in Prado Centro and then moved to my first Medellin apartment, where I quickly got nailed for having too many guests and basically had to move because I was put on probation. I then moved to a great apartment in a building with porteros that love me and have been here ever since. I'll reply to another message now with details of the scope incident.
[QUOTE=PigSavinBoy;2778430]You can do that in any strip club though. Furthermore you can also see her naked and dancing before any commitment, which is the additional advantage.[/QUOTE]There is a world of difference between getting to know someone at the mansion and getting to know someone at a strip club. At least in my opinion. I'm not saying one is better than the other for you. But if you want to get to know a girl at a strip club, you're spending money. At the mansion, the majority of the girls aren't as business oriented. Won't cost you a dime. And I'm not about being cheap. But girls working in a strip club are going to be more like sharks than girls at the mansion. But to each his own. That's the beauty. One man's treasure, etc.
[QUOTE=Sauce;2778540]Congratulations!
I think that you did quite well with Estefania. Great smile, sweet look, and a nice figure. We're your other dates similar to this one?[/QUOTE]The other date I had before Estefania was with the girl Maria, the one I had all night. Unfortunately I didn't get to go on other dates with my tinder catches since I spent most and basically all of my time with Estefania so I wound up ditching the rest I planned to meet but no regrets I still had a great time and experience.
Not sure if Maria was a pro or not, I mean she didn't give me the pro vibe but she did give me the experienced vibe if you get what I mean. She did not charge me at all only asked for bus and train money to go back and forth to meet me. She definitely knew what she wanted and how to move it though. As I mentioned in my previous post I did take some pictures of her which I have attached just blurred out her face in case she's a working girl. She definitely didn't give me the shy\innocent type as Estefania did LOL.
I will be heading out there again though this Friday but this time for 2 weeks and see what I get myself in to and trying to catch up with the girls I wound up ditching the last time. I will definitely put a report because I also want to check out el centro and see what there is and just go to other local spots that I have heard about. Oh and also try out my Fase Dos girl.
[QUOTE=Lugnut;2778552]Hi Knowledge,
Not quite but sort of; two guys went hands-on with me in front of the ground-zero Tostao on the first DIA sin IVA during the pandemic. You were nearby. At that time I was staying with a girlfriend in Prado Centro and then moved to my first Medellin apartment, where I quickly got nailed for having too many guests and basically had to move because I was put on probation. I then moved to a great apartment in a building with porteros that love me and have been here ever since. I'll reply to another message now with details of the scope incident.[/QUOTE]Yes please provide details so that we may possibly avoid getting drugged and robbed of everything.
[QUOTE=FlappyGilmore0;2778449]I'm seeing that it's popular for guys to have girls cook for them or hang out for days on end. Even gringos with no Spanish. Not my thing at all. Although I can certainly understand it for veteran expats or long term travelers. We need some type of app that locks down logins for a set period of time.
On a separate note. I always forget about Mansion.
It seems like a great option. Is there a section with girls and a bar / club atmosphere?[/QUOTE]I'll give you the quick lowdown on the mansion. Disclaimer: I do like the place and at least stop in there every visit. It has plenty of haters on this board. Which is fine but I cannot figure out why they are so adamant.
Basically, think day vs night. In the morning, it's generally guests only. The staff is fantastic. They'll do anything for you. The breakfast is cooked to order. Think homemade vs a big spread. About noon, girls will start trickling in. You'll have anywhere between 5 and 15 girls there during the day at the pool. The vibe is pretty low key. There's not alot of hustle. As has been said, you'll get to know them well. Obviously, all are available to take to your room. Price is 200 K. Obviously, you can negotiate what you want. I've never had a bad session there.
At 6 PM, the pool area essentially closes. Everyone goes to the bar / club. I have never been a fan of the club, at least as far as the facilites. It's just not that nice. It is clean. But calling it a club is a bit of a stretch. Very small bar, large dance floor that's not often used. And seating along the walls. When there aren't many people there, it has a very odd feel to it. But, I will say, I've had some really good nights there. Numbers of girls vary there, but I'd say usually you'll find around 20 girls there. It's definitely livelier later.
A couple thoughts about recent reports.
1. Padding the bar bill. I've not had that happen ever. The usual bartender is Michel. She is a good person and I'd be shocked if that happened. The other bartender I know is Mafe. I've never known or suspected that. She is a sweet girl. The only thing I would say. She likes to drink with you. She'll gladly by a round for a group. On your bill. LOL but certainly with your knowledge and approval. But nothing like padding a bill. Prices are pretty much in line with what you'd expect.
2. Disclaimer, I don't spend my visits worried about what could happen. That has left me in some sticky situations but nothing too bad. Certainly never been scoped or robbed. (Actually, I was pickpocketed by two SWs in Tijuana. I can't even begin to explain what an easy target I was. Drunk, walking the streets in Zona Norte at 3 AM. Stupid!) But with regards to the Mansion, their hotel is probably as secure as you'll find. They have a locked gate all day and all night long. Now, anything can happen. Anyone can let someone in so it's not Fort Knox. But the girls are vetted. The staff is very close friends with a few police officers. (On balance, that's probably a good thing. It's not uncommon to see 1 or 2 officers there, just hanging out.) But the girls are well-known and vetted so the danger there is low. As for the bar, there is a portero. He is a very good guy. And here again the door is locked. You are buzzed in and met at the door by the portero. He's not a dude I'd want to fight. LOL big dude, but has no doubt been in a few scraps. But a great guy.
I definitely agree this place has the most value for newbies. Or English-only guys. But as many have said, vets can enjoy it too. If you're looking for a wingman, great place.
Lastly, I agree with the negative comments on the accomodations. It is probably a 3-star place. Service is phenomenal. And it is very clean. But it is far from luxury. I overlook that for all the other benefits.