General Reports

[QUOTE=Dextro Sol; 1409607]Going to BKK and propably Patts in may. I will go to mp:s, SOL, Beergarden, maybe I will give Annies a try and also try some SW:s. Normally I am a jeans and t-shirt / tennis shirt person. When I have been in BKK before I usually wear nice knee long shorts or what we call pirate jeans, that is semi long jeans a little bit under knee.

Do you think the girls / women look me down wearin this style?

You guys who go here often, what do you wear normally?[/QUOTE]I have spent about a total of 80 days in Thailand in 3 trips, so I am not the expert. However, I wear shorts usually at the knee or a little above and T-shirt or nice short sleeve shirt. I have never worn long pants even though I always bring some with me. I have been in the Beergarten and NANA and other places including various massage joints and always had ladies trying to get me to take them. It's more about money than fancy clothes. I also have observed a lot of other guys and most dress in similar attire. I also have to say that I have never been to any high end night clubs, so there may be some dress codes there. Maybe some residents will post with more details. I can also say from my experience that Patts is much more casual than Bangkok.

If you have been there before, did you have issues with ladies not wanting to go with you? I don't think you need to be too concerned about your clothes, just have money and have fun.

[QUOTE=Nclpimp; 1409621]Since I can't bang 24/7 where do you guys suggest I go to buy fake purses (gifts) , fake men's designer sunglasses, toys, and iPhone cases. I will be there in 3 weeks and I was told the MBK but are there any other or better places to go?

Thanks in advance, [/QUOTE]Try Pantip Plaza or the sidewalk vendors in lower Sukhumvit.

[QUOTE=Dextro Sol; 1409607]Going to BKK and propably Patts in may. I will go to mp:s, SOL, Beergarden, maybe I will give Annies a try and also try some SW:s. Normally I am a jeans and t-shirt / tennis shirt person. When I have been in BKK before I usually wear nice knee long shorts or what we call pirate jeans, that is semi long jeans a little bit under knee.

Do you think the girls / women look me down wearin this style?

You guys who go here often, what do you wear normally?[/QUOTE]I am no expert but have flown in and out of BKK quite a lot the last 7 years and for mongering around in various bars and go go`s no dresscode is demanded as far as I know. I wear like you some pirates and a decent t-shirt walking around in BKK daytime, afternoon and early eve. I am not a big go go, mp visitor or a barfiner for that matter but I have been around enough to atleast see there isn`t such thing as a exact dresscode.

I am more familiour with the big high end nightclubs and if it is not an exact dresscode you will sure feel lonely in flip flops and a colourful bermuda. By high end nightclubs I speak of Demo, Narz, Slim&Fix, Levels (atleast a new hangout place) and so on. Here I have only seen people in cool fashion clothes and I believe that's the unwritten code. For more mongerpeople hangouts clubwice as in Climax, Shock69, Infinity and so on I see some people in rather shabby outfits and even if it is in places like this mostly freelancegirls I believe a nice casual dresscode will be to your benefit while interact with these girls (as they can choose due to the female / male rate).

As for me in nightclubs I change into new t-shirt, decent jeans and a nice pair of nice shoes. Atleast I do fine in many ways dressing like this and I also feel ok wearing nice clothes. But I guess everyone decide for themself. This is not an exact science.

[QUOTE=Nclpimp;1409621]Since I can't bang 24/7 where do you guys suggest I go to buy fake purses (gifts) , fake men's designer sunglasses, toys, and iPhone cases. I will be there in 3 weeks and I was told the MBK but are there any other or better places to go? Thanks in advance,[/QUOTE]Have you ever tried in being paid with fake money?

[QUOTE=Dextro Sol; 1409607]Going to BKK and propably Patts in may. I will go to mp:s, SOL, Beergarden, maybe I will give Annies a try and also try some SW:s. Normally I am a jeans and t-shirt / tennis shirt person. When I have been in BKK before I usually wear nice knee long shorts or what we call pirate jeans, that is semi long jeans a little bit under knee.

Do you think the girls / women look me down wearin this style?

You guys who go here often, what do you wear normally?[/QUOTE]If you want to look like a complete dick, by all means run around BKK in shorts, sandals and a too-tight "I Love Thailand" t-shirt. Extra points will be given for a backwards baseball cap.

The locals won't say anything to your face, but they do have a name for the guys who dress like this.

Look around and, generally speaking, the only locals wearing shorts in BKK are the very poorest laborers. You'll find that you will get a bit more respect (for lack of a better word) if you go around in jeans and a button-up shirt. Slacks and collared shirt at the higher end establishments are an even better idea.

The girls in the go-gos and MPs won't care much, but you won't be in them 100% of the time. Oh, and do NOT run around shirtless.

Now Pattaya is a beach city, and beach attire is the norm. You'll look really out of place in slacks and a shirt. Not unwelcome, just out of place.

[quote=phordphan;1409677]i you'll find that you will get a bit more respect (for lack of a better word) if you go around in jeans and a button-up shirt.[/quote]in reality? or just the idea in your mind that you're being respected more?

in some countries i agree it makes a big difference how you dress.

i'm not 'fully' convinced that thailand is one of those.

to me, me findings in many countries is that our attitude is the deciding factor for locals.

we may be dressed like a **** boy, but if we interact in a polite way this seems to be key.

although i accept that for some things (embassies, other official places) it's time to ditch the holiday gear.

[quote]oh, and do not run around shirtless.[/quote]agreed 100% on that. it even seems bizzare to even see it on ko samui, away from the beaches.

(also saw one russian girl wearing a bikini while walking around in tesco lotus. lol)

[QUOTE=Phordphan; 1409677]If you want to look like a complete dick, by all means run around BKK in shorts, sandals and a too-tight "I Love Thailand" t-shirt. Extra points will be given for a backwards baseball cap.

The locals won't say anything to your face, but they do have a name for the guys who dress like this.

Look around and, generally speaking, the only locals wearing shorts in BKK are the very poorest laborers. You'll find that you will get a bit more respect (for lack of a better word) if you go around in jeans and a button-up shirt. Slacks and collared shirt at the higher end establishments are an even better idea.

The girls in the go-gos and MPs won't care much, but you won't be in them 100% of the time. Oh, and do NOT run around shirtless.

Now Pattaya is a beach city, and beach attire is the norm. You'll look really out of place in slacks and a shirt. Not unwelcome, just out of place.[/QUOTE]To each their own on this, but I think you give good advice. In fact I never wear shorts in BKK. Nice jeans and a collared shirt. That is just me.

In Pats more casual with nice shorts, but always a collared shirt.

Everyone is different, but I suggest you don't wear a too tight t-shirt that has some fucked up logo on it, jean shorts, and sandals with high socks?

I see dudes with this and they wonder why girls won't go with them.

It is all about the money, but if you look like you don't have any then expect the end result. It may all sound stupid to some trying to look nice for a $17 fuck. But, I think most guys who do have better luck.
Also, my experience is that Thai girls do not like facial hair. Especially a 2 or 3 day growth. They don't like to kiss that or have it on their pussy.

Yes, we all know most of these girls are impoverished. But, they can spot what in their thinking is a loser. Use good common sense and don't look like one and be nice to them. A GFE is easier to catch this way I think.

Just my opinion.

PS: One other thing. They are hookers, but no matter where they come from they do not seem to like a dirty mouth. Swearing with them gets you nowhere.

[QUOTE=Luvpuss;1409717]Also, my experience is that Thai girls do not like facial hair.[/quote]That's true, but then their culture (and other parts Eastern Asia) seems to idolise feminine looking males in the various forms of media so it's more to do with cultural conditioning really. Infact, the same could be said of Western Culture increasingly now. In Thailand when mongering, as you say, it's all about the money anyway so it doesn't matter if we're just going to working Girls.

On one visit to Thailand I arrived with a wild Beard that was from the 10 Commandments, and other times with no facial hair, or light stubble. Observations were it didn't seem to make the slightest difference to purchasing success, prices, attitude or the age group that I ended up having sex with on those various visits. What they seem to like and remember is my overall personality first and foremost, and tend to remember things like the eyes, from my experience. Reading the eyes is something I find they do a lot.

I appreciate it certainly would matter if I was trying to date a 'civvie' so to speak, in Thailand, due to the prevailing preference in the culture but I'm not prepared to completely change my appearance in a major way just to appease Working Girl's preferences.

But that's just me.

[QUOTE=Phordphan;1409677]If you want to look like a complete dick, by all means run around BKK in shorts, sandals and a too-tight "I Love Thailand" t-shirt. Extra points will be given for a backwards baseball cap.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Luvpuss;1409717]To each their own on this, but I think you give good advice. In fact I never wear shorts in BKK. Nice jeans and a collared shirt. That is just me.[/QUOTE]Slacks, a nice looking shirt [B]with[/B] A collar, good grooming and a pleasant manner go a long way in Bangkok. All Thais, not just the SW respond positively to people who take pride in their appearance. Read a few articles on Thai culture. Thais are a very class conscious people. If you look like a "better class of person" they will treat you as such.

[QUOTE=Luvpuss;1409717]Everyone is different, but I suggest you don't wear a too tight t-shirt that has some fucked up logo on it, jean shorts, and sandals with high socks?[/QUOTE]The high socks part is more favoured by German tourists. This is a joke and not an indication of racism.

Regards,

BJ

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;1395030]That was pretty funny LP. My favorite Blonde joke.[/QUOTE]ANOTHER GOOD BLONDE JOKE.

A blind man enters a Ladies Bar by mistake.

He finds his way to a barstool and orders a drink.

After sitting there for a while, he yells to the bartender,"Hey, you want to hear a blonde joke?" The bar immediately falls absolutely quiet.

In a very deep, husky voice, the woman next to him says,"Before you tell that joke, sir, I think its fair given that you are blind, you should know five things."

1. The bartender is a blonde woman.

2. The bouncer is a blonde woman.

3. I'm a 6 feet tall. 220 lb. Blonde woman with a black belt in karate.

4. The woman sitting next to me is blonde and a professional weightlifter.

5. The lady to your right is a blonde and a professional wrestler.

Now think about it seriously, Mister. Do you still want to tell that joke?

The blind man thinks for a second, shakes his head, and declares,"Nah, not if I'm going to have to explain it five times."

[QUOTE=Luvpuss; 1409717]To each their own on this, but I think you give good advice. In fact I never wear shorts in BKK. Nice jeans and a collared shirt. That is just me.

In Pats more casual with nice shorts, but always a collared shirt.

Everyone is different, but I suggest you don't wear a too tight t-shirt that has some fucked up logo on it, jean shorts, and sandals with high socks?

I see dudes with this and they wonder why girls won't go with them.

It is all about the money, but if you look like you don't have any then expect the end result. It may all sound stupid to some trying to look nice for a $17 fuck. But, I think most guys who do have better luck.

Also, my experience is that Thai girls do not like facial hair. Especially a 2 or 3 day growth. They don't like to kiss that or have it on their pussy.

Yes, we all know most of these girls are impoverished. But, they can spot what in their thinking is a loser. Use good common sense and don't look like one and be nice to them. A GFE is easier to catch this way I think.

Just my opinion.

PS: One other thing. They are hookers, but no matter where they come from they do not seem to like a dirty mouth. Swearing with them gets you nowhere.[/QUOTE]I think your statement about long pants is not the norm for most farangs. At least from what I have seen being in the places I stated in my earlier post. I agree with the part about sandals with socks. How gross! I also agree about some ragged and filthy looking shorts and shirts. I have heard ladies talking about guys who look like filth and who stink. Even with money, not many ladies would go with them. I think what the OP described would not have any impact on his ability to get ladies who would be very happy to accompany him. At least that is what I have experienced having never worn long pants in Thailand.

Now about the beard. Have you ever been there with a full beard? You make a blanket statement that just is not the fact. I have been there with a full beard (well trimmed) and not. I agree that Thai's in general do not like facial hair, but not all. I had women from bars chasing me down the streets many times to get me to take them and sometimes I did due to their enthusiasm. Also there are some who actually like it. I know because they told me so. One lady I took said her father had a mustache and she liked facial hair. Occasionally I would get some who wouldn't want to go with me, but that was so rare that it wasn't even an issue for me. There were always many more who would. A few told me that I am very handsum man, but I would be more handsum if I shaved. Yet they still wanted to go with me. I only took one lady who played the no kissing game with me in the room, but in the bar she was DFKing me like long lost lovers. I booted her out and she gave me my BF money back before she left or I was going back to the bar with her to get it.

[quote=luvpuss; 1409499]the past 11 days were awesome.

my total was 25 fucks and 2 bbbj's (bliss and [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord901][CodeWord901][/url]'s).[/quote]25 in 11 days? like achilles, son of peleus,"i'll remember the name"

maybe it is just me but for two weeks you'll find me like a horny goat foaming at the mouth doing it every day twice or more a day, and then a week or more where everything eases off considerably. occasionally i've slept with girls during those times as a one off, but it really is a 'can take it or leave it' situation. if the 'porn' mind isn't keen on that, my wallet loves it during those 'down times'.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist2; 1409972][B] Snip [/B]

Also there are some who actually like it. I know because they told me so. One lady I took said her father had a mustache and she liked facial hair. Occasionally I would get some who wouldn't want to go with me, but that was so rare that it wasn't even an issue for me. There were always many more who would. A few told me that I am very handsum man, but I would be more handsum if I shaved. Yet they still wanted to go with me. I only took one lady who played the no kissing game with me in the room, but in the bar she was DFKing me like long lost lovers. I booted her out and she gave me my BF money back before she left or I was going back to the bar with her to get it.[/QUOTE]I just want to point out just because they say they like something doesn't mean they actually like it. I'm fat and hairy and guess what, ladies say they like that as well,"So sexy".

They are good at telling customers what they want to hear.

I have no doubt at all, though, that plenty of women will go with guys with beards. It's the money they like.

Which guys a girl will go with depends greatly on the girl's financial situation at the moment. Some really cute girls have no problems getting men, so they can be a bit more picky.

Specifically regarding facial hair, it may just limit what activities one can do with the girl. The other night, I had a 1. 5 day old growth, and after I was done, I saw the girl had a red upper lip from my stubble. While kissing her, at no time did I think I was causing her trouble, but it was obvious that there was some irritation. The same is true of DATY. I was going down on one girl, and was having fun when I rubbed her the wrong way, so to speak, and that was it. In that case, I believe it was her stubble, not mine because I had shaved recently. I think it had more to do with my technique in comparison to her girlfriend's.

[quote=coconut cream; 1409690]in reality? or just the idea in your mind that you're being respected more?

in some countries i agree it makes a big difference how you dress.

i'm not 'fully' convinced that thailand is one of those.

to me, me findings in many countries is that our attitude is the deciding factor for locals.

we may be dressed like a **** boy, but if we interact in a polite way this seems to be key.

although i accept that for some things (embassies, other official places) it's time to ditch the holiday gear.

agreed 100% on that. it even seems bizzare to even see it on ko samui, away from the beaches.

(also saw one russian girl wearing a bikini while walking around in tesco lotus. lol) [/quote]yes, in reality. it's often subtle, but it's there.

if you show up in bkk in shorts, t-shirt and flip flops you're branded a sex tourist. rightly or wrongly. as mr. k pointed out, th is a very class conscious society and a dude dressed like this is obviously low class. now if you're going to spend 100% of your time in hooker bars, you can practically run around naked.

having said all this, obviously tit, and there is always lots of "it depends." there are times in bkk when shorts are fine. i am not an expert in all the cultural nuances. i often take dress cues from my middle-class gf. we both take pains to ensure i don't look like the typical [i] farang kee nok. [/i] when traveling upcountry, she insists shorts are fine if the weather is hot. in bkk, sometimes it's ok, sometimes not.

so, not to belabor the point, but i think it's a good idea to develop a general rule. in bkk long pants and collared shirt, politeness and cleanliness, go a long way. so, unless circumstances dictate otherwise (songkran come to mind), this general rule will work well. you can generally go anywhere and do anything and not feel out of place.