Bangkok slightly better, still not what I want
It's been getting slightly better (the city is way more of an adjustment than what I'm used to in Europe or the Americas). As Steve mentioned, we hit the gogos and did it properly this time, checking out each and every one for a few seconds before sitting. There were a few good looking girls, but, as a previous poster said, you really have to dig for them. Red Dragon stood out because it was fully staffed early in the night and I'm an early sleeper.
ThaiFriendly also got better. I landed an English speaking college girl who's finishing up her studies and going back to her hometown next week. Great conversation, Thai culture is truly unique in the world. But otherwise visually unimpressive. Most surprising was that the sex as well was mediocre and a bit staged despite the solid conversation and warmup. We did however talk about the water hose attached to the toilet, which is apparently the best way to clean up and toilet paper should only be used to dry (news for me).
Anyhow, my impression remains that finding any kind of connection here is unlikely. And that's unlikely in most Asian countries, for cultural reasons. The cultural homogeneity and racial differences lead people to see themselves as "different" from caucasians. It takes more education and world experience to realize that we're all the same. The one exception in the area (I hope) might be the Philippines, which will be my next destination. I'm betting the overwhelming friendliness of the people there, the Spanish and American influences, will make it easier to find non-transactional experiences in the Asian world.
I appreciate the suggestions and help from you guys. It's been very helpful. Thank you.
Great First Full Day - 2 Shots
So after my fun but somewhat mediocre sex night right after I landed, the next 48 hours were top notch. Here's how my first full day went down.
Started the day with a one hour foot massage for a whopping $10 USD. So good! And a foot massage here is not just feet. You get solid calf and some thigh work and about ten minutes at the end of neck and shoulders. And then onto the debauchery.
Someone had recently posted about 10 Ten massage which used to be called 7 Seven massage (and still on Google as that) so I decided to check it out, especially since it's close to my hotel. They have a good Line presence (WhatsApp for Asia) and post the girls and pricing there.
The shop itself is not really as nice as the Google pics. Def a bit more run down and cramped. That said, I had a GREAT time. They show you the girls on an iPad and the good thing about that is it lists natural or fake tits and more importantly extra services! Like some girls do CIM for 300 baht. And one girl does bareback and CIP for 1000 baht more!
In addition to the iPad, he pulled all the girls for a lineup. I chose Daw who is super cute with natural tits and CIM available. It was 3500 for a 90 minute Nuru for any of them.
The rooms upstairs are a bit dingy and tiny. Only room for a twin size Nuru mattress. This is typical at this price point, but lame compared to Fin69 see recent report. The shower water never got hot so that wasn't awesome either.
All that said, I had an AMAZING time with Daw. The massage itself started like all Nuru with you on your stomach. And the Nuru to start was very lame. Not enough Nuru gel and none on the mat to grind your dick against. But when she got to the part where she spreads your legs and slides her hand under and is getting sloppy with your asshole, taint and balls it starts getting good. Very good.
That part is really good but the flip is even better. After the flip, she is doing the full body slide with those natural tits but most amazing is that she is sliding my dick near her pussy almost like sumata and it seems always about to slip inside. It is so sexy that I threaten to blow my load right there, 20 minutes in! I have to lift her off me to prevent an early exit!!
We get back to the slip and slide and do some quite good BJ as well mixed in with slippery hand on balls work. Nice! But now it's time to transition to the bed.
On the bed the fucking is great. Doggie and mish are both great. But no the Steve because the bed is too low. I am doing so much bareback these days that I'm not going to get a shot off in the condom. So after prob 20 minutes of fucking, I ask her to move back to the mat. I also tell her that I want to CIM and she says fine but doesn't mention the upcharge. We do more body slide and that skin to dick slide is soooo good.
Still not going to get there having fucked less than 12 hours ago, so I put her back on BJ. Her BJ is solid. The integration of slippery hand and solid shaft work is working and I blast a load CIM. Lovely.
We clean up and I give her 500 baht and she is very surprised. Of course the 300 baht is for the CIM, per her profile, but I guess she forgot and wasn't going to charge me. Awww. Love that. I say it's for the CIM and she is thrilled. I love that $15 USD can make a girls day here!
So a solid recommend on 10 Ten massage and Daw. But having gone to Fin69 the next day, I would recommend it more highly.
The day kinda flies by when you start at 10 and get a foot massage and a fuck. And before long I'm having dinner with Ted Ferguson! Really nice guy and easy company. We have some Michelin starred Thai and it's lovely. And then of course it's time for Nana Plaza!
See the post below called "Quick Update" for the summary of the gogos Ted and I hit. At some point I wore Ted out and he rocked on while I continued the pursuit of pussy! I just love the gogos to an unhealthy degree 😝.
I actually make a great find later that night. When you are at Red Dragon and you come out there are alot of pretty girls in sparkling uniforms. I was wondering what they are doing there and for what club. It turns out they are the eye candy for Mandarin.
Once you go into Mandarin, they take you upstairs. And here is the surprise. There are fifteen girls in a big tub and they are FULLY NUDE. Pussy waving out free and clear. No suds no nothing! It's totally unique in Nana.
I just sit and watch the spectacle. After maybe 20 minutes there is a shift change and the girls who are sitting around the club in black dresses all shed their dress and get in the tub. And the tub girls all pull on a single piece black dress, no panties.
The girls who exited the tub all cruise the club looking for takers. I actually have a Teams meeting at 11 PM, so I am not inclined to grab a girl right now. But when a cute one comes by and is quite persistent in a nice way I tell her to sit.
She lights up like fireworks and sits on my lap. She's very bubbly and light grinding and of course asks for a drink. I never begrudge a pretty lady a $6 drink so grab her one and she gets a whole lot friendlier physically.
Next thing I know she hikes up her dress and starts grinding her bare pussy on me, beautiful ass exposed. I grab her hips and grind back. Niceee! Well it gets better. She then pulls down her top to expose a nice pair of soft Bee cups. And puts my hands on them.
Like most girls, she loves the circular motion and reminds me from time to time by driving my hands in circles. Basically a fully nude lap dance with a bit of cloth around her waist! I reward her with a second drink tho she isn't pushy about it. But then I got to go to my meeting, else I woulda bar fined her.
I'm able to wrap my meeting in a half hour and head back to Nana. I am thinking I am going to bar fine the Mandarin hottie but don't want to short change the Nana experience. So I poke around a bit before settling into Billboard prob my favorite club for hanging out.
It is absolutely packed at midnight. The waitress seats me at the rotating stage which I actually love. Yes I get a crick in my neck looking up at the girls. So worth it. There are 25 girls packed on there and all pretty in their own way. The parade of camel toe and stripper heels is just amazing. The inventor of the rotating stage deserves a fucking medal. It should be required at all gogos. A new Thai law!
After maybe 30 minutes of ogling, a stone cold hottie joins the stage. Huge eyes and thick lips. Slim and toned abs and bringing some real heat beyond the Bangkok shuffle. I let her go around a couple times to check the entire package. But she's great in eye contact with me and other guys and I know she's going to get pulled soon, so I pull her.
Very sexy and good chemistry and good English. But when I go to bar fine her, I tell the mama that I will pay the bar fine now but pay the girl after. But the girl is having none of that and turns into an ice cold *****, like a switch was flipped. We argue a bit but neither is budging so she stomps off. Boo. But prob dodged a bullet.
But the gods smile upon me for my professional girl-enthusiast discussion with the hottie and sticking to my guns. I pay my bill and go to leave but the central aisle is blocked, so I detour by the soapy tub and BAM I am struck by lightning. A petite hottie with an electric smile, perfect AB naturals and some banging dance moves catches my eye. Wow.
Well I'm not going to let her get away, so I call her down right away. And get her a drink. She's bubbly and fun. It's not super handsy but has my arms wrapped around her. Such a sweet pixie!
I decide I don't want to kill the vibe so rather than having the money-after discussion I decide to pay up front if she answers my question right. So I key in that I want to take it slow like BFGF and kissing and no condom for BJ. She clarifies condom for sex but otherwise nods enthusiastically and is thrilled I'm going to bar fine her. Oddly bar fine for first girl was going to be 1000 and this girl 700. Plus 4000 to the girl.
The in room experience was super with her very submissive and willing to please. After some very solid BJ I decide to DATY her like a real BF. Super clean and lovely and the tiniest little pussy on the planet. And it's super satisfying. I work her tits first then tease the fuck out of her licking and kissing my way down and around her pussy but not diving in. Eventually I do dive in and she is sloppy wet from the lead up.
Now I know she's a pro and therefore going to be a challenge but I am up for it. She starts out a bit indifferent. Maybe ten minutes of eyes closed but not much response. But then I can tell I've got her when she starts working her tits and tweaking the nipples. Then starts to grind and moan. It's a labor of love maybe 20 minutes but she has a crashing O, with her knees flying up around her ears and bucking like a bronco.
Well this obviously broke the ice because she's super service oriented from there out. Some amazing fucking in all the positions. Such a petite girl I actually bottom out in mish and she cries out. First time ever! But doggie and the Steve both let me go balls deep without hurting her. Really good. A lot more BJ. And a final lovely shot with her on BLS.
As we wrap I ask for a pic as I do with all my girls but she says she would rather not, as her family and friends don't know she does this. Fair enough but I tell it's just for me and says ok and a get a pic of her thousand watt smile before she bids me adieu. Wow. Great time. What an amazing pixie hottie. Thailand rules!