Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2808549]Well of course it is possible to walk into a barbecue restaurant and pick out a couple of dishes to make up a vegetarian plate, but how many vegetarians are regularly walking into a meat house to get a vegetarian meal? If one wanted to find a needle it would make much more sense to go to the sewing aisle at Walmart than to look in a haystack.

Seeking is a haystack full of hookers. Who pays $100 to dig through hundreds of hookers in hopes of finding the 2 chicks that stumbled on the site by happenstance and are not there to sell pussy? There are not women signing up for the site that are not initially looking for what the site is advertising the same as no chick's first introduction to facebook was to sell pussy.[/QUOTE]SA has changed. I'm guessing maybe it's full of Ho's now (I know I left there with too many numbers, too many options, a year ago. And I questioned why I even posted about it here but then you & Elvis seem to be paying attention. And not all the girls I've found in Colombia were on SA. Just some of the best. They were difficult to let go.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2808595]I have done it countless times in many of the casas. Never had a problem. Just do it discretely.[/QUOTE]It depends on the girl. Some girls have very strong ties with the management of the casa and they will tell if you ask to meet them outside. I once gave a tip to a girl at Zandaly and I saw her give it to the mamasan.

Tens of thousands of young men earning western wages staying in Medellin for the long term. I think that this is not bode well for mongers. Medellin already has increased numbers of men visiting. The promotion of the digital nomad Visa I think will eventually change Medellin for the worst and drive up prices. How can I not drive up prices when you have so many westerners coming earning Western wages needing to rent and looking for girls? That is my take on the digital nomad Visa.

[QUOTE=Recondite;2808596]My point in the grander scheme and in terms of the law of averages is that if you want a girlfriend look for a normal girl that is not p4 p. Seeking is not the best way to find that. There is nothing wrong with having a sugar baby if you know what you are getting into and know what you want. Can that relationship transform? Sure. His and other people's posts are proof. But, a site like Seeking is explicitly designed to link sugar daddys to babies. Now does Seeking magically have all the most attractive girls ever on it who would never open a personal Facebook or Instagram account? I don't think so.[/QUOTE]LOL. Like so many guys here, you are literally doing the sour grapes thing. Whatever preconceived notions you have of seeking, they go out the window when you meet the women. Most of the women I put in the hooker or never want to see them again category straight up. But there are a few that are in the possible sugar baby category, and a very few move up into the SB / GF category, and the women are judging me likewise.

But you have two things way wrong. Every guy I know who uses seeking has gotten tired of the hookers and is looking for better. They do not go on the site looking for love. With men, sex comes first and then love, and it is the opposite for women.

The second thing you have way wrong is that women do not go on the site because of its name. They go on it because their friends have, and their expectations are whatever their friends got: money, Iphone, husband ETC. Yes, there have been many women who have gotten their husbands from the site.

The less important thing is every guy I know who uses seeking knows there are the hooker types on the site. And sure why wouldn't the hooker types use seeking in addition to FB or IG? Yeah, I would not be shocked if there were an 80 or 90% overlap. However, what you do not see is the beautiful women who fucked me and expected no compensation. Heck, I had one girl I gave a few hundred bucks to try to give me the money back because she wanted to be my GF. I cannot tell you the top seeking girls do not use FB or IG, but I would be surprised if they did. They do not need to.

What you do not see that I do is a guy who has his big head trying not to be envious of what this guy Davv got and a little head that is envious, and you are trying to rationalize how your dick is feeling. I know when I was married, I had all the bullshit excuses about staying married that I am sure you have.

If you are really married, then you should be happy with what you got but obviously you are not and want better. The best you can get when you are married is a SB looking mostly for money, and it does not make much sense for you to have a SB or babies unless you are in Colombia. To get a quality GF, you would have to lie and lead her on. A woman is not going to open up to a married man as compared to when you are single. I have been in both spots. I know.

Obviously, your brain is winning the battle with your dick, and that is fine. It is only when your dick wins, and I am 99% sure it will eventually, that you should even look at seeking. So it is not for you and quit the nonsensical worrying about others. They have experience with the site, and you do not.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2808892]Tens of thousands of young men earning western wages staying in Medellin for the long term. I think that this is not bode well for mongers. Medellin already has increased numbers of men visiting. The promotion of the digital nomad Visa I think will eventually change Medellin for the worst and drive up prices. How can I not drive up prices when you have so many westerners coming earning Western wages needing to rent and looking for girls? That is my take on the digital nomad Visa.[/QUOTE]A different take for you on the digital nomads of which the government is estimating there will be about 45,000 of them issued in the next year and a half. I would estimate that maybe 1/2 of the Visas will go to women, and the other 1/2 say to men, some of which are gay. Of those men, a lot of them will be "non-mongers", being younger guys, so I see little impact on mongering prices, however as you mention, as Colombia develops tourism wise, especially Medellin, it will drive prices up for everything which is no surprise. And even with increased pricing that has been going on, the Country is still a bargain. Where can you get gasoline for around $ 2 USD, and get fucked for as low as $ 10 USD short of going to India or somewhere in Africa. I have noticed a logarithmic increase in tourism since the Pandemic in Medellin. Everything changes as your aware, but it's going on all over the World with prices going up everywhere, but Colombia is still at a fraction of pricing compared to other mongering venues. We can all complain about it, but there isn't much we can do about it.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2808906] Every guy I know who uses seeking has gotten tired of the hookers and is looking for better. They do not go on the site looking for love. With men, sex comes first and then love, and it is the opposite for women...[/QUOTE]I didn't want to quote the whole thing but great post.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2808906]...But you have two things way wrong...[/QUOTE]By reading between the lines, I think what matters is the cost. If Seeking is free like Faecbook, would it make a difference? The distinction really is meaningless.

I think in your view there are two sides of Facebook, I think that is why you said top ones don't have facebook, but I think what you really are saying is that top one don't have a p4 p facebook account. That probably is something alone the line RC is looking at but he does not necessarily look for "top".

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2808892]Tens of thousands of young men earning western wages staying in Medellin for the long term. I think that this is not bode well for mongers. Medellin already has increased numbers of men visiting. The promotion of the digital nomad Visa I think will eventually change Medellin for the worst and drive up prices. How can I not drive up prices when you have so many westerners coming earning Western wages needing to rent and looking for girls? That is my take on the digital nomad Visa.[/QUOTE]So true, so many of my friends in America are planning to get it and move there. I was also considering but many folks warned me of the crime rate in Colombia. I am still considering though.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2808906]
If you are really married, then you should be happy with what you got but obviously you are not and want better. The best you can get when you are married is a SB looking mostly for money, and it does not make much sense for you to have a SB or babies unless you are in Colombia. To get a quality GF, you would have to lie and lead her on. A woman is not going to open up to a married man as compared to when you are single. I have been in both spots. I know.
.[/QUOTE]If marriage sucks, is it worth it to give everything up for a woman in Colombia. Asking for a friend. Well my marriage sucks and would do anything to get out LOL.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2808906]Whatever preconceived notions you have of seeking, they go out the window when you meet the women. Most of the women I put in the hooker or never want to see them again category straight up. But there are a few that are in the possible sugar baby category, and a very few move up into the SB / GF category, and the women are judging me likewise.[/QUOTE]Are you really going to do this? So what you are saying is that instead of giving the HOOKER 200,000 pesos whenever you meet up with her, you MOVE HER UP to sugar baby and give her 2,500,000 per month regardless. He said if you want a girlfriend, not if you want someone to financially take care of. This is worse than the guys making videos in Cartagena of how easy it is to get Colombian chicks; nevermind the chicks they are going around making videos of them exchanging numbers with are hookers. Are people really this delusional?

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2808640]Davivienda charges no transaction fee. Any fees you encounter when using their ATMs are charged by the bank that issued your card. Always decline any conversion offers. It is no more complicated than that. There is no need to post photos. They will only confuse guys further.[/QUOTE]This kind of begs the question as to if they are not charging a transaction fee they must be adjusting the exchange rate they give you so they can be compensated. What would be interesting to know is what rate your actually getting compared to other banks but I don't know how you would get that information. What's nice about Davienda is you can withdraw 2,000,000 COP per transaction versus other banks that are typically 1,000,000 COP or less per transaction.

A friend of mine made a newbie mistake by not bringing condoms to Colombia and now he is regretting for his life. He bought some local brand at an Exito but couldn't come in it. Do you guys know a good brand he can buy in Medellin?

I usually bring 32 x2 condoms to Colombia, but he missed me by a few weeks so I couldn't give him my surplus.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2808892]Tens of thousands of young men earning western wages staying in Medellin for the long term. I think that this is not bode well for mongers. Medellin already has increased numbers of men visiting. The promotion of the digital nomad Visa I think will eventually change Medellin for the worst and drive up prices. How can I not drive up prices when you have so many westerners coming earning Western wages needing to rent and looking for girls? That is my take on the digital nomad Visa.[/QUOTE]It will drive up prices in certain parts of the city but Medellin as a whole will be fine imo.

[QUOTE=DonMedellin;2808997]A friend of mine made a newbie mistake by not bringing condoms to Colombia and now he is regretting for his life. He bought some local brand at an Exito but couldn't come in it. Do you guys know a good brand he can buy in Medellin?

I usually bring 32 x2 condoms to Colombia, but he missed me by a few weeks so I couldn't give him my surplus.[/QUOTE]You can buy durex in most pharmacies or just order from rappi.

All this talk with atms and fees is such a headache. Last time I used Davidienda and banco Colombia and I got charged like a total of $30 in fees for taking out money like 3-4 times. It seems like these days it's better off to just change money at one of the malls. I think that's what I plan to do for my next trip coming up. Forget the ATM.