Negotiating With Bargirls
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;3073324]
But on Bar Fines I have only ever paid the Bar Fine before leaving the venue and paid my provider in the room after services were delivered (regardless of my perceived qualities of the service provided).
Sam,
Do you [B]WIN[/B] every negotiation with a [I]Thai Prostitute[/I] that you get into and always get the lowest price or lower that is reported here in the Thailand threads?
[B]A non respected member wants to know![/B][/QUOTE]I'm with you 100% as far as paying the barfine only before leaving the bar and paying the gal separately AFTER contractual obligations have been met at a hotel or other place.
To cut to the chase, since I am (these days) an infrequent visitor. So I use numbers supplied by expat personal friends living in BKK, expat board members here, and reports by dudes who are in country a lot more than I am these days. I discount numbers posted by first timers or 1 day millionaires.
As everybody knows, I'm "old" and (accordingly) "old school". I would love to return to the days when the gals rarely asked "how much?" That will never happen again. Nor will the days when I might ask "how much? The gal would reply "up to you".
I don't look to "win" a negotiation. A "win-win" is best in my opinion. Makes for a better session.
To address how I negotiate, I let my potential target ask "how much you pay?" Since I still know enough Thai to let them know I'm not a complete idiot or newbie, I often say (in Thai) "I don't know. What do you think?" I will be quoted a price. If acceptable, I nod and say "pai duay". If not acceptable I will feint an expression of shock, smile, and say "Very expensive. Can you go for xxxx baht". At that point, a deal will be stuck or not. I won't negotiate any further. I just say "nice to meet you; maybe I'll see you again" (in Thai). I'the rather go buy a plastic bag of warm, wet chicken parts. 555 Go-go dancers, club gals, and Thermae chicks are not Nong Natt or Miss Tiffany Universe.
Sam.
The Cmdr visits an Agogo on Walking Street
I decided to actually put some hard numbers on what's happening in Pattaya Venues*. So few individuals are actually posting real information in the [B]Pattaya Reports[/B] thread.
[U]Dragon[/U]
160 LEO; 220 Lady Drink.
1500 Bar Fine; 4000 Short Time [I](2 hours)[/I]; 7000 Long Time [I](5 hours)[/I].
For a number of reasons, I didn't like the ambiance. But the line up was outstanding. Everyone knows my personal thoughts on pussy prices in Pattaya, Thailand. So, the numbers were an immediate no go. 500 THB in less than an hour. I could have gotten my dick sucked (CIM) in Lipps Lounge for that. But brother if you love after market bolt ONS and knock kneed bimbos gyrating like hoes, well this is one of your spots.
[B]The Cmdr is ballin like mother fuckin pro![/B]
*Based on an actual visit 24 hours before this report was written.
The Cmdr's View: International Trickin at Agogos
A lot of guys who go to Agogos to pick up girls are missing the point. Yes, you can go for the selection of prostitutes. But there are prostitutes all over Pattaya.
Going there to have fun is 100% guaranteed if you have the stack and have the right mindset when you spend it. Then the girl and the sex afterwards becomes a bonus.
The Cmdr has a question for the Trader of Horses
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3072888]Or perhaps you spent a lot of money on drinks for multiple girls, waitresses, and mamasans and they tried to maximize their income. If you act like you have deep pockets, they are going to dig as deep as they can.[/QUOTE]So let me get this straight. [I]Big Spending[/I] that occurs from from a individual who is a trader of horses is respected and desired. Spending from my [B]Big Black Stack[/B] is disrespected and unwanted.
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3073821]The three of us each bought lady drinks while the mamasan soaked in that we may all be big spenders.[/QUOTE]Is that what you are saying [B]Trader of Horses[/B]?
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3073821]I need pretty girl with CIP and mamasan gets good tip. Mamasan has delivered many times since then and each time she gets a good tip.[/QUOTE]Of course, I have not been living in Bangkok for 8 years. I only visit occasionally. I tell you one thing, I get treated differently when I enter a Agogo and buy one drink and sit there alone than when I buy a bottle and invite three girls to sit with me and buy them all lady drinks. Even if I only have one girl sit with me. If I'm buying her multiple lady drinks EVERYONE treats me differently. I bet if I return to Rainbow (Nana Plaza, Bangkok Thailand) within the next month, I'll be remembered.
[B]The Cmdr is ballin like a mother fucking pro![/B]
Different strokes for different folks
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;3073833]So let me get this straight. [I]Big Spending[/I] that occurs from from a individual who is a trader of horses is respected and desired. Spending from my [B]Big Black Stack[/B] is disrespected and unwanted.
Is that what you are saying [B]Trader of Horses[/B]?
Of course, I have not been living in Bangkok for 8 years. I only visit occasionally. I tell you one thing, I get treated differently when I enter a Agogo and buy one drink and sit there alone than when I buy a bottle and invite three girls to sit with me and buy them all lady drinks. Even if I only have one girl sit with me. If I'm buying her multiple lady drinks EVERYONE treats me differently. I bet if I return to Rainbow (Nana Plaza, Bangkok Thailand) within the next month, I'll be remembered.
[B]The Cmdr is ballin like a mother fucking pro![/B][/QUOTE]The difference is that I don't enjoy sitting, drinking, and chatting in a noisy bar with girls who speak limited English. I deal with the go go bars the same as I deal with a hardware store, I find what I want and quickly get out. The ongoing big tips to mamasan are an effective way to assist in finding the products that will work best for me (young, slim, pretty, CIP). I've been visiting Nana Plaza for about a decade and there was only one time that I sat with more than one buddy and one girl (3 men, 3 ladies, 2 drinks each), that was the evening that I met my favored mamasan. That evening was an anomaly for me. Normally the bar will collect about 1600 from me per evening (1000 bar fine plus 600 drinks). I'll leave another 1400 baht in the bar as tips to mamasan and my server. The girls don't know that mamasan gets 1000 baht from me. Rarely will other girls get tips or drinks from me.
There is no disrespect for those who like to sit, drink, watch, chat, feel, buy lady drinks and listen to music. I'm sure the employees treat you well, you are important to them. It's a different way to enjoy the go go bars. Spending money like that is likely to result in girls asking for top baht to join in hotel room. I never flash a lot of cash, sometimes I plea poverty to explain why no bar fine tonight. It's also OK to leave the 5000 ST offer behind and go find a different supplier on TF, a beer bar, the street, massage shop or wherever. I know many people enjoy it that way, it's just not for me.
I'm sure the bar owners prefer people that do it your way over the people who do it my way. My favored mamasan and my selected girl probably prefer my way; everybody else in the bar prefers your way.
The Cmdr thinks information from men in the arena is best!
Not comments on how others do things which is what most people are doing in the threads. Lots of comments, but very little actual shared information on having sex with girls. I am glad you are not like that [B]Trader of Hourse[/B].
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3073879]There is no disrespect for those who like to sit, drink, watch, chat, feel, buy lady drinks and listen to music. I'm sure the employees treat you well, you are important to them. It's a different way to enjoy the go go bars.[/QUOTE]Damn straight! [B]That is what I wanted to hear![/B] Respect for the ways others do things even though its isn't like the way you do them. The board needs to hear all methods of doing things from people who are actually doing them on a regular basis. One of my greatest irritations are posters who think their way is the only RIGHT way to hire a prostitute. I can give you plenty of examples but I won't name names unless they come up in here and disrespect [B]The Cmdr[/B].
FYI, I put your [U]Nana Plaza[/U] post in the Thread of Distinction. I can respect how other do things even if it is not like the way I do it. It also contained excellent information I will use during my next visit to Nana Plaza.
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3073879]Spending money like that is likely to result in girls asking for top baht to join in hotel room.[/QUOTE]As I said before that shit only happens in Bangkok. Here in Pattaya where I have been posted up for more than a minute I can behave in the same way and get quotes that are the actual [I]REAL[/I] market price right from the mother fucking get. Of course I will counter at the price I am willing to pay (3000 Short Time) next time if I actually want to take the girl out of an Agogo Bar in Nana Plaza. But I've never paid 5000 for short time and I never will. That is long time price for in my mind. And I still have plenty of regulars that will do long time for 3000.
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3073879]It's also OK to leave the 5000 ST offer behind and go find a different supplier on TF, a beer bar, the street, massage shop or wherever. [/QUOTE][B]What the fuck do you think I've been doing[/B] Even in Bangkok I have girls from [U]Thai Friendly[/U] that will do short time with me for 2000. Street roamers that will do short time with me for 2000. I can get my dick sucked for 800 THB in two different venues that specialize in that. One does not have to pay 3000 - 5000 for short time in Bangkok unless that is the market price needed to [I]find the products that will work best for you (young, slim, pretty, CIP)[/I].
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3073879]I know many people enjoy it that way, it's just not for me.[/QUOTE]I can respect that. We all do things the way that work for them. All my friends I party with would rarely pick the same girls that I do. That why we have fun together. We are never competing over the same girls in the same venue. The Cmdr has not problem spending money on myself to have fun. If a venue makes money at the same time great. If the girls quote me above market prices and lose a opportunity at my business that on them. I don't care which method is preferred. Because I do not post up in any one venue on a constant basis. But when I am there:
[B]The Cmdr is ballin like a mother fuckin pro![/B]
[I]All Prices in THB[/I]
The Cmdr Speaks! Mother fucks need to listen if they want knowledge
Farangs fuck over these Thai Prostitutes like you would not believe. Mother fucks who have wheels down clock ticking simply do not know.
Pattaya is adult amusement park. As such there is a [I]back stage[/I] and a [I]on stage[/I]. Visiting mother fucks only see on stage. I've seen back stage and once you see it you cannot unsee it. Farangs fuck over these Thai Prostitutes. Management fucks over these Thai Prostitutes. Landlords fuck over these Thai Prostitutes. Other Thai Prostitutes fuck over these Thai Prostitutes. Their own family, boyfriends and husbands fuck over these Thai Prostitues. Don't believe me. Cal me out. I'll drop stories in your eye holes!
Don't let it ruin your fun. But all [B]International Tricks[/B] that are visiting Thailand are supporting a system that is exploiting 90% of these girls. 10% get over. And that is what mother fucks like this want to talk about:
[QUOTE=JizzyB;3073900]Ah, so these are other end of the spectrum. Lonely, Failed Marriages, Divorced, Widowed. Thailand has everything for everyone. It doesn't disappoint.[/QUOTE][B]I am The Cmdr and I call it the way I see it![/B]
The Cmdr strokes it good. Thai Girls love the Big Black Dick up in them!
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;3073879]I'm sure the bar owners prefer people that do it your way over the people who do it my way.[/QUOTE]You better bruise your knees on the ground people do it my way because if everyone did it your way the bars could not stay open. Then what would you do?
Even given that, how is a visitor going to develop a relationships inside the bar unless they are frequent visitors? The best and fastest way for a visitor to get what they want in a Agogo is to spend some money. I gave an example of that. I can respect that those who are posted up do things differently. I am a very infrequent visitor to Agogos.
I much prefer the girls who bring me food and drink with me in my room then fuck me silly for a fraction of the price even you spend just in the Agogo. 1000 for mamason; 1600 Bar Bill. That is exactly what I give my regulars. 1500 Short Time; 100 Taxi. Unless they spend the night with me then I give them 3000. And with that money I have fucked. You haven't even got your dick wet yet.
But when I go out with my regulars I ball out: 6000 - 8000 for 12 - 16 hours with me and most of that is NOT spent sleeping.
[B]The Cmdr be ballin like mother fucking pro![/B]
[I]All prices in THB[/I]