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Sorry if this is in the wrong section, I couldn't find a section that seemed entirely right.

Is there a post (I have looked and looked) that has 'negotiation' Thai? . In phonetic English or Thai script. How to ask for anal, for example. Having it written down might be good.

My situation is that, rather than have a lot of vanilla sex with a lot of different girls, I want to do some heavy perverted stuff with two or three on the next visit. I'm happy to pay for the privilege. I just want to know that she's alright with it before we set off from the bar / gogo. So, given the music volumes in such places, what's the best way for me to impress on the lady that this will be a 'demanding' evening, and she needs to weigh up the work with the rewards? The last thing I want to do is take a girl back and have her be upset by my requirements! I know there are a lot of premises where fetishes are served on-site, but for me choosing a bar girl / freelancer and taking her home is the whole thrill of the thing.

Again, apologies if this is in the wrong bit / has been asked 1, 000 times and I couldn't find the answer.

[QUOTE=RBDave;1424082]However, I'm married, so cannot take the risk for BBFS. Yet, I still managed to get something. My friend thought I was being a hypochondriac because the odds from getting it via BBBJ are really low, until I told him I had discharge."Oh, yeah, you got it."[/QUOTE]Yes I absolutely understand. I also cannot risk BBFS. I have GF too these days. I am only mongering a lot, as she is away right now. Its a good idea to have some emergency meds just in case something should happen like this, as can be cured pretty quick.

You don't want your partner finding the Azithromax though, unless you can come up with some other innocent problem that it can be used for. Chlamydia is the common one though. Some people have been known to self dose toward the end of a mongering trip just in case of catching symptomless Chlamydia. This is not recommended by doctors but still a practical thing. You can't always wait for the diagnosis if you suspect something. Can treat for multiple things in a hurry just in case.

A previous GF found my spare Azithromycin, and I had a difficult time explaining what it was for. I said it was old (which was true) and forgot what was treating and had to look up the internet in a hurry. Then later I "remembered" it was for previous middle ear infection.

Be aware that there also exist other things that can cause discharge that are not the standard STD diseases. You still may want to be checked to be sure what you have caught. I mean proper tests. Don't rely on Doctor's initial guess-work (wrong diagnosis). Typical doctor's guess is often little better than my own internet assisted guess. I have been tested by clinics in Thailand many times for all types of STDs and most results come back quickly. It can be handy just to get the clean bill of health for peace of mind before return to the wife.

Years ago, I used to have BBFS with a Thai girl in my home country, and with no one else. Used to see her once per week. She was only doing me and her proper BF as far as I know (which complicates things), as I did not know what her BF might get up to. At some point I a had a discharge and told her, in case I had caught something from her and she may have got it from her BF. She panicked a little too much, and after that did not provide BBFS again. My check subsequently showed is was not a typical STD disease but one of the other ones that can occur through non-sexual tranmission means. The lesson to learnt is that although I had good intentions, I should not have told her anything. If she had it too, I could deny everything, assuming it came from her. I could not have got an STD from anywhere else.

Hope this was not purely a waste of time, and maybe a useful idea in there somewhere.

[QUOTE=SuperMarckus; 1424123]Sorry if this is in the wrong section, I couldn't find a section that seemed entirely right.

Is there a post (I have looked and looked) that has 'negotiation' Thai? . In phonetic English or Thai script. How to ask for anal, for example. Having it written down might be good.

My situation is that, rather than have a lot of vanilla sex with a lot of different girls, I want to do some heavy perverted stuff with two or three on the next visit. I'm happy to pay for the privilege. I just want to know that she's alright with it before we set off from the bar / gogo. So, given the music volumes in such places, what's the best way for me to impress on the lady that this will be a 'demanding' evening, and she needs to weigh up the work with the rewards? The last thing I want to do is take a girl back and have her be upset by my requirements! I know there are a lot of premises where fetishes are served on-site, but for me choosing a bar girl / freelancer and taking her home is the whole thrill of the thing.

Again, apologies if this is in the wrong bit / has been asked 1, 000 times and I couldn't find the answer.[/QUOTE]Without getting too graphic, can you expand a bit on "heavy perverted?" Anal hardly qualifies as heavy perversion. Not sure how to help without more information.

I plan on doing a visa run to Bangkok. Also my penis feels a little off, can't really explain it. Worried I might have something but it's not showing symptoms like gonorrhea or chlamydia, which I think it might be. I looked up some STD clinics and plan to get tested for the whole gamut of STDs. How long do I need to stay if I want to also get treated in Bangkok. Basically. 1) How long to diagnose gonorrhea and chlamydia by test. 2) how long to get diagnosed with blood test like Hep / Aids.

[QUOTE=Phordphan;1424206]Without getting too graphic, can you expand a bit on "heavy perverted?" Anal hardly qualifies as heavy perversion. Not sure how to help without more information.[/QUOTE]Heavily perverted enters in to the realms of sado-masochism which is hardly a topic on a respectable board concerned with f*ck*ing.

[QUOTE=SuperMarckus; 1424123]Sorry if this is in the wrong section, I couldn't find a section that seemed entirely right.

Is there a post (I have looked and looked) that has 'negotiation' Thai? . In phonetic English or Thai script. How to ask for anal, for example. Having it written down might be good.

My situation is that, rather than have a lot of vanilla sex with a lot of different girls, I want to do some heavy perverted stuff with two or three on the next visit. I'm happy to pay for the privilege. I just want to know that she's alright with it before we set off from the bar / gogo. So, given the music volumes in such places, what's the best way for me to impress on the lady that this will be a 'demanding' evening, and she needs to weigh up the work with the rewards? The last thing I want to do is take a girl back and have her be upset by my requirements! I know there are a lot of premises where fetishes are served on-site, but for me choosing a bar girl / freelancer and taking her home is the whole thrill of the thing.

Again, apologies if this is in the wrong bit / has been asked 1, 000 times and I couldn't find the answer.[/QUOTE]I, too, forget the correct phrase, it was discussed over 5-7 years ago. Just point to her ass and say boom boom?

I find it's very interesting that the issue of bareback sex sparks so much interest. It's understandable why it does. There are so many facets and implications.

[QUOTE=RBDave; 1424082]I have a friend who does BBFS about 50% of the time. His rational is that the only thing he's worried about is HIV and if he gets infected, he's figured he's old enough and has already had a good life. And by the time it gets him, he'll be old enough to die of old age any how.

However, I'm married, so cannot take the risk for BBFS. Yet, I still managed to get something. My friend thought I was being a hypochondriac because the odds from getting it via BBBJ are really low, until I told him I had discharge."Oh, yeah, you got it."

An odd thing happened as a result. I kept the email address of the last girl I was with, so I informed her to get checked. She freaked out. She was clear, but we didn't do BBFS, so I didn't expect anything. But now, we've been talking on the phone quite often and have grown quite fond of each other. And in the end, that may be worse for me than an STD.[/QUOTE]I think many of us would conclude the problem with your friend's attitude is he is probably having sex with young girls who are not quite ready to die.

I think protected sex takes on another level of significance if you're in a 'monogamous' relationship. Putting the issue of infidelity aside for a moment, both parties should be able to assume they are not at risk of contracting an STD from their partner; and my personal opinion on infidelity is if you want to play the field, you have no business being in a relationship unless you and your partner understand it is an open relationship. For what it's worth, I did cheat; not the least bit proud of it; so I understand how and why it can happen. I know first hand, emotional ties with a woman other than your spouse can accelerate aging and create a load of problems, emotional and financial. Good luck. Be wise.

[QUOTE=Maxkwalat;1424158]This may sound silly but I think EtOH is a contributing factor to BBFS[/QUOTE]It doesn't sound the least bit silly to me. Guys have used intoxicants to get their way with women since long before our times. I think it's widely known that many of the girls in the go-go bars slam a few shots of cheap Thai whiskey to get ready for their shift and then drink heavily through the night. I don't know that the MP girls are drinking during the day, but they do drink heavily when they are out having fun at night. So I wonder if they too are accustomed to adjusting their attitude for work on a daily basis. The MPs may have a policy about drinking on the job.

[QUOTE=Duniawala;1424334]I, too, forget the correct phrase, it was discussed over 5-7 years ago. Just point to her ass and say boom boom?[/QUOTE]They understand "fuck ass". Frequently, I get the response that I should find a ladyboy.

[QUOTE=RBDave;1424367]They understand "fuck ass". Frequently, I get the response that I should find a ladyboy.[/QUOTE]LOL.

Len (falling tone) Doot would probably suffice. I wouldn't use it in "polite" society, but with a BG it'll get your point across.

Khao pra doo lang (go in the back door) , while vulgar, is a bit less crude. My pronunciation is terrible, but I think the khao is falling the the lang is rising. Fluent speakers can probably shed more light.

[QUOTE=Scorchin;1424248]Heavily perverted enters in to the realms of sado-masochism which is hardly a topic on a respectable board concerned with f*ck*ing.[/QUOTE]Don't worry, I'm not talking about anything horrible or uncivilised. Just if I wanted to tie her up and do lots of anal using lots of toys, light spanking maybe. And I'd want to know she was okay with me filming it. My concern is to find a girl whose happy with this sort of thing from the off, rather than having her be offended by my asking back at the hotel.

FYI.

The following information pertains to whether people living in Thailand on a retiree visa are subject to Thai income tax. The information at the end of this post came from this week's [I]Stickman Weekly[/I] Column.

[B]Apparently there are two issue: (1) has your income been taxed in your home country and (2) does your home country have a double taxation treaty with Thailand. If the answers to both questions are yes, then you are not required to pay income tax in Thailand. Australia, Great Britain, New Zealand and the United States have double taxation treaties with Thailand. I did not search for other countries, but had no difficulty ascertaining this in a few seconds by searching the following "name of my home country" Thailand double taxation treaty. [/B]

The following is not a plug for Sunbelt Asia Legal Advisers. I just thought this information would be helpful considering this was a topic that generated a number of posts a few days ago.

Here is the text from the Stickman column.

[I]Question 1: This is my first year on retirement stay in Thailand as a single man. No earning income activity here or abroad. Is it legal not to file an income tax here? If yes, can I obtain an official document to confirm it. Thanks.

Sunbelt Asia Legal Advisers responds: It's difficult to get too specific on the limited information but a broad answer would be that firstly it would depend on the length of your stay in Thailand. According the Revenue Code anyone who stays in Thailand for a total of 180 days a tax year are deemed a resident of Thailand for tax purposes and must file Thai taxes if they are earning income either domestically or overseas.

You will then need to consider the type of funding used to apply for your retirement visa (your savings, your gratuity or your pension). According to the Revenue Code under Section 40 funds like gratuity and pension will also be considered as income.

Has this funding been taxed at your home country prior to the transferring into Thailand? If no, then you will have to file (pay) taxes in Thailand. If yes, you will need to check to see if your home country has entered into a Double Taxation Treaty with Thailand. If you country has entered into a Double Taxation Treaty with Thailand, then you will not have to pay taxes in Thailand, but if there is no double taxation treaty, whether your source had paid tax on the transfer funds back at your home country, you would still need to file for Thai tax. [/I]

[QUOTE=SuperMarckus;1424466]Don't worry, I'm not talking about anything horrible or uncivilised. Just if I wanted to tie her up and do lots of anal using lots of toys, light spanking maybe. And I'd want to know she was okay with me filming it. My concern is to find a girl whose happy with this sort of thing from the off, rather than having her be offended by my asking back at the hotel.[/QUOTE]Good luck with that. The BGs up for that sort of thing are going to be rather scarce on the ground.

Try Demonia or Bar Bar. A lot of that sort of stuff goes on there, and my guess would be that some of the ladies might be up for outcall. However, outcall S&M probably has a lot more risk than regular P4P, for obvious reasons, so it may be tough to get them to agree to that sort of thing off the premises.

BTW, it's illegal to film porn in TH. It happens, but occasionally a guy winds up in the news after getting busted. Just sayin'

Cool. Thanks for the help everyone.

[QUOTE=Phordphan; 1424441]LOL.

Len (falling tone) Doot would probably suffice. I wouldn't use it in "polite" society, but with a BG it'll get your point across.

Khao pra doo lang (go in the back door) , while vulgar, is a bit less crude. My pronunciation is terrible, but I think the khao is falling the the lang is rising. Fluent speakers can probably shed more light.[/QUOTE]Well you got the tones right but that doesn't mean your reader will have any hope of producing them, and the girl may not understand "pradoo" (bpra-dtuu) or "doot" (dtuut) , depending on the vowel pronunciation.

I would suggest asking in simple English may be better understood, unless the reader is a reasonable Thai speaker. In the wrong place, he might be in danger. LOL.

I agree that a guy needs to go to a special place like Demonia to ask for weird stuff. Too many girls have been murdered in Hotel Rooms, e. G. The G Soi 3, for girls to be keen to go to a guy's Hotel for kinky stuff. For sure there is not going to be any trust.

[QUOTE=Paul Kausch; 1424485]FYI.

The following information pertains to whether people living in Thailand on a retiree visa are subject to Thai income tax. The information at the end of this post came from this week's [I]Stickman Weekly[/I] Column.

[B]Apparently there are two issue: (1) has your income been taxed in your home country and (2) does your home country have a double taxation treaty with Thailand. If the answers to both questions are yes, then you are not required to pay income tax in Thailand. Australia, Great Britain, New Zealand and the United States have double taxation treaties with Thailand. I did not search for other countries, but had no difficulty ascertaining this in a few seconds by searching the following "name of my home country" Thailand double taxation treaty. [/B]

The following is not a plug for Sunbelt Asia Legal Advisers. I just thought this information would be helpful considering this was a topic that generated a number of posts a few days ago.

Here is the text from the Stickman column.

[I]Question 1: This is my first year on retirement stay in Thailand as a single man. No earning income activity here or abroad. Is it legal not to file an income tax here? If yes, can I obtain an official document to confirm it. Thanks.

Sunbelt Asia Legal Advisers responds: It's difficult to get too specific on the limited information but a broad answer would be that firstly it would depend on the length of your stay in Thailand. According the Revenue Code anyone who stays in Thailand for a total of 180 days a tax year are deemed a resident of Thailand for tax purposes and must file Thai taxes if they are earning income either domestically or overseas.

You will then need to consider the type of funding used to apply for your retirement visa (your savings, your gratuity or your pension). According to the Revenue Code under Section 40 funds like gratuity and pension will also be considered as income.

Has this funding been taxed at your home country prior to the transferring into Thailand? If no, then you will have to file (pay) taxes in Thailand. If yes, you will need to check to see if your home country has entered into a Double Taxation Treaty with Thailand. If you country has entered into a Double Taxation Treaty with Thailand, then you will not have to pay taxes in Thailand, but if there is no double taxation treaty, whether your source had paid tax on the transfer funds back at your home country, you would still need to file for Thai tax. [/I][/QUOTE]Another guy that likes to cite the law and such? If you have the time to look this up then why don't you and PP get together and start a tracking agency to get us Expat to pay the taxes if you are so concern maybe there is actual money to be made. Just don't come my way because I can say with 100%

Certainty you will never be able to collect it. Sunbelt can also put this law where the sun don't shine!

LBM