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[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2817230]Why would I care what others think? Lmao.
If you really want to know what sounds gay. Is criticizing other men on the choices they make, dude who cares, let them be.[/QUOTE]Hey if you want to miss out on an actual Medellin experience by hanging out at Gustos. That is your loss my man.
[QUOTE=SouthernGent85;2817259]Thanks for the note, plan on making the rounds to both.[/QUOTE]El centro at night is not for the faint of heart. Day time is safe though.
[QUOTE=Talon;2817315]Honestly if you want to build a FB friend network this is something you should have started months before your trip. Two weeks is so little time that you're either going to have to get very lucky or you'll need a fellow monger to share his friend's list with you. But conversely any such monger has a strong incentive NOT to share their list because why would they risk you ruining their fun by overpaying their regulars or possibly infecting them with who knows what STDs?
Rather than asking for a sugar date and then trying to explain what that is just say you're visiting Medellin and that you'd like to meet or you think together you and they can have some fun together. Any pro or semi-pro will immediately agree and ask what date you arrive. She'll also probably start calling you "amor". If a girl plays dumb and asks why or what do you mean you're just talking to a regular girl and your chances of fucking her for money are considerably lower. If you talk a good game and are good-looking and charming (which let's be blunt--you're probably not if you're on this forum) you might be able to wine and dine her straight to your bed but for most of you it's not worth the effort. Move on to the next girl.[/QUOTE]Thanks. Yes months ago would have been better. Last time I was there (2019) I just used tinder and was able to wine and dine them just fine and have sex for free. I always thought if I go back to Medellin I won't need to see girls for money. However this time I am alone, and far more concerned about safety which seems to have dropped significantly since 2019 and with tinder. This is what has brought me here, as I am able to control a situation a lot more with p4 p. Not having to really do the dating / partying / flashy bit and tell them when and where to be (love motel or my secure hotel) will hopefully avoid me getting scoped.
I've not mentioned visiting on FB, and actually had my location set to Medellin too, and only chatted in Spanish. Mainly for safety (less of a target) but I might throw some caution to the wind given you say they're more likely to meet a tourist.
I may also try seeking given my short notice too. But has the downside of maybe "rich" guys being a target.
I might meet up with her but wanted to see if anyone here know her?
Which Airbnb would you recommend that has tight security (but allows sex encounters)?
[QUOTE=Mtndew704;2817369]Hey if you want to miss out on an actual Medellin experience by hanging out at Gustos. That is your loss my man.[/QUOTE]I spent most of my last recent trip in Guatape and other areas outside of Medellin. I'm pretty sure I've explored more of Colombia than most people on this forum have in the short time I've been there buddy.
I'm pretty tech savvy so wanted to share some tips. I'm not speaking from results here as I have not been on my trip yet, these are mostly things I have noticed or that came to mind while preparing that I have previous technical experience with. If something is already common knowledge I guess I just have not seen it mentioned here yet.
Facebook:
- Profiles location: I've set my location to Medellin, it's less likely to trigger facebook banning you for adding many girls from Medellin rather than some other location.
- Friend's List: If you've set your profile's location to Medellin, when looking through someone's friend's list you can filter the friend's list by "My Current City" to avoid clicking through everyone. You must be logged in on a desktop browser.
- VPN: I've noticed some mention to also VPN and set your location to Medellin. Don't for the most part unless you have a dedicated IP VPN. Paid services like NordVPN still use shared IPs that so many bots also use, your account will be way more likely to be banned as Facebook know those VPN IPs. If you insist on using a VPN, choose a newer server (higher # usually) and use the same one each time. The better option is to use a dedicated proxy or your cell off of wifi. All overkill in my opinion, your own IP should be fine.
- Aged Accounts: If you are making a new account and don't want to start slow (e. G. 5 requests a day) buy an aged account for a few dollars ([URL]https://accsmarket.com/en/catalog/facebook/fbboosted[/URL]). These are registered years ago and have some random friends populated. Aged accounts are way less likely to be banned. The better ones are usually the USA IP registered ones. You can also request it be male / female etc. Again nothing really wrong with just registering your own new facebook account fresh but I've been adding 20-30 girls / day with an aged account and no issues yet.
- Saving Posts: I have seen it suggested to save url links to girls profiles to be added later if you're limiting your friend requests. Instead if the girl's profile has at least one post on it, you can save that post from their profile within facebook to your saved posts section where you can also create categories ([URL]https://www.facebook.com/saved[/URL]). It's more streamline than having it in a document. Plus when I go to send some friend requests on the app and revisit the saved list, it even suggests removing them from the list, almost like it knows you've now added them. It's a nice way to make a queue.
- Friend Custom Lists: Once girls are friends you can create different custom friend's lists within facebook ([URL]https://www.facebook.com/friends[/URL]) primarily this might be helpful to organize girls however you want. You can also use these custom lists in your privacy settings to hide and show various parts of your profile / posts to different girls if you need for whatever reason.
Other Generic Safety Tools. I mention these here because Medellin isn't the safest, nothing beats just not putting yourself in situations to begin with but these might help if you need them:
- AI Background Check: This is not regular Tineye or Reverse Image search. With AI Facial search ([URL]https://pimeyes.com[/URL]) you can upload some photos of a person and it will go and find that exact person online, in many other places they appear in photos. It's particularly good at finding adult content, so if the girl you're searching has escort ads or webcam content up, it may find those. You can also probably find their real name / social account if they're public enough. Up to you how you use this, it is paid to visit the links but you can see the results for free. Personally if I was talking to a girl and she's acted all innocent and I find she's all over camming sites and ads, I'd prefer to know what I am going in to. It's also great to see some content as a sneak preview.
- Wifi Security Camera: Instant view into my hotel room / airbnb from my phone and records too, alerts me to movement in my room too. Many on the market, mine fits in palm of my hand and was <$50. (Wyze cam on amazon). If I travel I can just plug it in and connect it to the wifi. Can record to an SD card or to the cloud if you're wanting content off site. I read a story here that an accomplice to a scoping broke and stole a security cameras memory, so it being in the cloud already means it's already stored online and away from you physically if it get's broken or stolen. The downside here is you might not want your security camera footage going online even if it is a secured passworded location. Your call. You could even just point it right at your door to get a girls face on her way in.
- Location tracking: You might want to use Airtags to track your stuff, or share your phone's location with a friend.
- Put your money in your shoe: Yeah this one is low tech! But saved me maybe over a total of $1000 in Mexico, cops stopped me a few times and stole my money from my wallet, but they forgot my shoes! Also a throw away wallet with old cards can help.
- Door stop alarm: I don't have one of these but did consider one when I was travelling a while back. Basically a door wedge to put by your door, if someone tries to open your front door you'll know.
My first visit in Medellin did not go as expected, due to circumstances I will explain later, but I have learned lesson for future visits.
Facebook: I was banned shortly after I created account. If you are going this route start early, add friends slowly.
Tinder: Tinder's algorithm is designed to make you pay and get trash matches. I only got matches with 9's and 10's at the end of my subscription. I had some really hot regular girls asking for hookups. I have not met anyone from Tinder but it seems very easy to score if you are relatively young and fit.
Bumble: Poor results. I did not swipe at all so that's probably one of the reasons I got nearly no likes.
SA: If you are willing to pay it's the easiest and most efficient way.
Day 1: I was planning to meet with this chick from SA I've been talking with about three weeks. She texted me on the day on my flight. She was not responding so I moved onto the next one. 18 years from SA. Agreed to TLN for 400. Sent her Uber and gave her instructions to my room. She was nothing like her pictures. Pictures were her but with loads of makeup and taken at the right angle. Fairly unattractive face and deep voice probably from smoking. I was horny so I let her in anyway. Chit chat, she took shower and then to the bedroom. Make out session, she goes on top of me and starts riding. The most tight pussy I've ever been with. And she would not lube at all. She was completely dry. Friction was surreal. I flipped her over and went down on her to try to lube her up. No success. Moved onto missionary and then back to her on top of me. I blew my load inside of her. She took a translator and let me know she is not on birth control. Having a child is a no no, let alone with unattractive chick. I started googling for pharmacies that were open during the night. Anyway, I told her we are going to pharma later. She agreed. Went for a second round. To my surprise she gave a very good BJ. We ended session in doggy. Went to pharma, she ate day after pill, I sent her home with Uber. She wanted to meet a few times during my visit but I wasn't interested.
Another chick from SA texted me she is able to meet after 2 days.
Day 2: Found a chick on one of those websites. 22. Incall. Arrived to her apartment, her mother and siblings went into other room before I was allowed to pass though the living room into girls bedroom. One of the most weird meetings. Her mom and siblings hanging around in the kitchen while daughter is getting railed in a room. Chick was actually very sweet. She did not have condoms and would let me hit raw but I wasn't going to risk it with STD's so we used mine. Action was decent, went for two rounds.
Went to parque Lleras at the evening. To one of those bars where you pay chick drinks and she spends time with you. Went back to app to take a rest, alone. Although some of these chicks would be down to fuck after shift, it's a waste of time and money. For the amount of $ you are going to spend on those drinks you can get 10 from SA.
Day 3: Talked with two chicks from SA. Both were asking what I was doing tonight, letting me know they are free. Neither of them proposed to meet and neither did I. They knew I was there and if they want $ they better make some effort.
After these conversations went nowhere I went to parque Lleras. Picked up attractive chick and went to app. She asked for 200 for 1 h, I proposed 400 TLN and she accepted. Chit chat, we go to the bedroom she asks for $. That should raise some red flags but I though maybe she had some bad experience with payments so she now asks upfront. Body wise she was my ideal match. Good tits, great ass, fit and cute. And this is where the good stuff ends. Her attitude was trash. We make out, BJ, she goes on top, we switch miss and I nut in condom. Due to effect of Cialis I had 0 recovery time so I just kept going. ***** felt warmth of my nut and pulled out. Went to take a shower, came back and started dressing up. Asked her where tf is she going? That wasn't a deal. Told her to give me 200 back. She refused to. I repeated again, this time in aggressive manner. She handed over 200, then I told her to gtfo. Lesson learned. I am never picking up those working girls from the streets ever again.
Day 4: Woke up with some digestion problems. Food poisoning. It kept going on all day along so I did not leave app at all. Seemed to get better at the evening so I arranged meeting with this chick from SA who said she would be available in two days. We agreed in TLN and she told me she will have to get up at 6 AM because she has some stuff to do in the morning. I was ok with that. We set time and place. I sent her Uber. She texts me and says she won't be able to stay whole night because she of the stuff she has to do, and she will leave at 2 AM. She said she could stay whole night the day after. I canceled Uber and told her we are done.
I went to some night club. Was asked by cute chick if I want to dance with her. She also had hot friend. After a while I can feel my stomach is upset again so I return back to app.
Day 5: Didn't leave app due to food poisoning.
Day 6: I met with chick from SA. I knew she wasn't fit but. She was slightly more overweight than I though. Anyway, we talked a bit and I did not feel attraction at all so I told her I don't feel well and she should leave.
Chick from day 4 texts me if I had changed my mind and if I would want to meet with her for TLN. No, bye.
Day 7: Checked out in the morning. I had flight in the evening. And I am not leaving until I fuck at least one chick. Arranged meeting with chick from SA at 2 PM. She forgot and responded half an our later. Too late, I sealed the deal with another chick. We met in a love hotel. 19 yrs old, attractive, good tits, even better ass. Exactly the way I like them chicks. The only worthy meet on this trip. We had a great session, GFE, made her cum twice and then she went crazy and fucked my brains out. Nutted in her, she said she was on birth control. Anyway, that was a good end to my trip.
Does anyone know where I can get a legit massage and a BJ or possibly FS at the end?
[QUOTE=MikeGirobari;2817397]I might meet up with her but wanted to see if anyone here know her?
Which Airbnb would you recommend that has tight security (but allows sex encounters)?[/QUOTE]No, I really wish I could say that I know her. To stay safe I always send an Uber. I don't trust "drivers" dropping off and and hanging around.
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2817209]If you do not like the price, then do not play the game.
If guys are paying $200 for women who are midgets, pregnant, average looking, or cannot apply makeup, then yeah, guys need to stop paying that.
On the other hand, I met a seeking woman for a drink. She was smoking hot and wanted $140 for two hours, and we went at it bare three times. In fact, she was so fucking good I called her back and did her again.
Maybe I could have gotten her down some but I got the impression that she was low volume and that was the minimum she would take, and I did not want to risk negotiating.
And you are saying I paid too much and shouldn't have fucked her? I tell you what. Guys spend their money how they see fit and if you do not like the prices, use your hand.
Are you seriously telling guys what to do when some hottie is in front of them? LOL. Yeah, I am sure that is gong to work. / sarc.[/QUOTE]"Hot" women are not a rarity sir they are abundant. Let's not artificially push up prices. That's all I'm saying.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2817098]Not only you fail to understand the difference between girls, you also fail to realize the difference between BMW and Hyundai, or between any premium German car maker and mass market Korean car maker. [/QUOTE]Whoosh! What was that? That was the sound of a rebuttal concept going straight over your head.
I'm writing this report several days late. There are just too many chicas taking up my time.
I invited a new FB chica over in the early afternoon and it went very well. She has a kid but is still young so her body doesn't show many signs. She stayed for a couple hours, BBBJ, all the normal stuff. 250 k total.
Friday night I met up with a couple other BM's and we went first to Fase II. 30 k for entry. We arrived a little after 11. It was just starting to get busy. We ordered a half bottle of vodka for 220 k and sat down. There were plenty of good looking chicas walking around of all types. I have been here a couple times before but this was the best showing talent wise. Maybe because it was a Friday.
A bunch of girls came over and talked with us. Got a few dances and a couple of numbers. It was a fun couple of hours. There were definitely girls worth taking. I was quoted 330 k to go to the rooms next door. But I had an 18 year old from FB coming over early the next day and I wanted to be ready.
We decided to go to La Isla just before 2. I don't remember why and I wish that we had just stayed at Fase II. La Isla had 80 k cover charge. The party was definitely still going. There were tons of ladies there. There were a couple of groups of guys throwing money around. And the chicas kind of all sitting around them waiting for it to start raining again. There was a show going on stage with some fireworks or something going off. It was producing a lot of smoke and the smoke was burning our eyes all the way in the back by the bar.
Some of the girls were going into the room in the back rubbing their eyes. We stopped to buy a beer and you couldn't buy just one. You had to buy two for 80 k.
I think 2 girls total made eye contact with us the entire time. Apart from the girls dancing near the stage, most were sitting in chairs looking at their phones. Maybe at that time of night their phones provide more options for them. Obviously we could have gotten up to go talk to some but there were almost none that even made me want to. Overall just a disappointing time at La Isla, so we left.
[QUOTE=DonMedellin;2817432]Does anyone know where I can get a legit massage and a BJ or possibly FS at the end?[/QUOTE]Go to Rio Del Sur Mall in El Poblado. Look up Dan Spa or Zen Spa.
[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2817402]I spent most of my last recent trip in Guatape and other areas outside of Medellin. I'm pretty sure I've explored more of Colombia than most people on this forum have in the short time I've been there buddy.[/QUOTE]And yet a set up like Gustos blows your mind and appears like a solar eclipse to you.
[QUOTE=MikeGirobari;2817397]I might meet up with her but wanted to see if anyone here know her?
Which Airbnb would you recommend that has tight security (but allows sex encounters)?[/QUOTE]Use a love motel.