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[QUOTE=Pokler;3073645]I'm trying to tie this question into the bar fine. Is the BF I paid good to have the girl just for 90 minutes or a few hours or can she stay longer if she is good with the extra BHT I offer?[/QUOTE]I'm even older than you and my last 2 pop ST session was about 2 years ago. In my younger years, I would sometimes get multiple pops without additional money. Very rarely did the girl say she needed to hurry back to the bar.
I seldom do LT, but will do another pop in the morning without additional financial consideration. I'm so old that the morning pop limits my ability to do an evening pop. For me, there is little reason to do LT or pay extra for an extended ST.
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[QUOTE=Dinosaur9;3073617]Man, I'm researching to visit Thailand in August but paying the equivalent of around 150 for girls seems crazy to me.
That's more than Medellin where you're paying the equivalent of 30-50 usd for the most beautiful women you'd ever seen. And 100-150 for women who would be in music videos. All from women who treat sex like an Olympic sport.
I might stick mostly to BJ bars.[/QUOTE]You're going to have a bad surprise.
They don't look good in the BJ bars, and they are not all expert at sucking dicks. And it's going to cost at least 800 baht in Bkk.
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[QUOTE=Pokler;3073645]I like you would want to get a girl and leave ASAP since at 71 I'm not big on partying with loud music. But unlike you I like to do 2-3 pops but only if the girl turns out to ring all my bells. So for the extra pops should I just offering her more BHT in the room after round one? I'm trying to tie this question into the bar fine. Is the BF I paid good to have the girl just for 90 minutes or a few hours or can she stay longer if she is good with the extra BHT I offer?[/QUOTE]These recent posts remind me that descriptors like "first rate" mean different things to different people. For many of us, there are particular services or ways of delivering those services that make one guys gem another guys dud.
Some time ago I came to the epiphany that no matter where or who, I would negotiate not just based on price, but also on service. Gogo, Thai Friendly, Thermae, street walker, beer bar or wherever. When I meet a girl, I make sure she will do the key services that I want at a price point that I can live with. So whether you want to cum inside, get multiple pops, have the girl stay for more than 60 minutes, take it up the pooper, DFK, etc, make sure that your provider understands that you are willing to pay XXX (her expectation), but you expect YYY service (your expectation). Asking other guys what they got with some rando girl at some rando bar is meaningless. Even if a guy says he got service ABCDEFG from a specific girl at a specific bar for a specific price, it never guarantees that the same girl will give you the same service at the same price with the same attitude or feeling. It is up to the monger to [U]negotiate[/U] to ensure he is getting what he wants. Just my view, but failure to align is a good recipe for disappointment down the road. Enjoy, AR.
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[QUOTE=AsianRain;3073701]These recent posts remind me that descriptors like "first rate" mean different things to different people. For many of us, there are particular services or ways of delivering those services that make one guys gem another guys dud.
Some time ago I came to the epiphany that no matter where or who, I would negotiate not just based on price, but also on service. Gogo, Thai Friendly, Thermae, street walker, beer bar or wherever. When I meet a girl, I make sure she will do the key services that I want at a price point that I can live with. So whether you want to cum inside, get multiple pops, have the girl stay for more than 60 minutes, take it up the pooper, DFK, etc, make sure that your provider understands that you are willing to pay XXX (her expectation), but you expect YYY service (your expectation). Asking other guys what they got with some rando girl at some rando bar is meaningless. Even if a guy says he got service ABCDEFG from a specific girl at a specific bar for a specific price, it never guarantees that the same girl will give you the same service at the same price with the same attitude or feeling. It is up to the monger to [U]negotiate[/U] to ensure he is getting what he wants. Just my view, but failure to align is a good recipe for disappointment down the road. Enjoy, AR.[/QUOTE]In addition, the monger himself comes with variables that can affect pricing. If two mongers approach a girl wanting to cornhole her, the first is slim and packing six inches with the girth of a #2 pencil; the second monger is heavyset and packing nine inches with the girth of a Coke can. The slim fella is mild mannered and looks like a soft stroker. Meanwhile, the heavyset fella is more aggressive and looks like an ass pounder. The girl knows that the second monger is likely to leave her cornhole out of commission for a day or two, so she factors that into her pricing and charges him more. Two mongers, same hooker, different prices.
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First time to Thailand
Hi, all. Next month I have a work trip to Bangkok for a week. I'm arriving a few days early to give myself the weekend there. I'm excited about this trip and want to experience everything LOL! I've been on Thai Friendly and have gotten a lot of responses. Probably 80% come right out and tell me they are FL so then I request rates. Almost all are 3000st /6000 LT. Some a little more (4000/10000) and some less (2500/6000). Is it expected to negotiate this rate if it's a person on TF? Aside from that, there are some few beautiful ladies who have said they are interested to meet but not alluding to being a FL. For those, are they generally going to be DTF if they realize I'm willing to "help them out", or are these ladies genuinely looking for long term relationships and want to date first?
So, aside from TF I plan to have some Nana Plaza experiences and my hotel is close to there. From reviewing this site I don't have any questions about that, but pointers are always welcome! I'm just excited to see / experience it. I'll also take a trip through Thermae for that experience. Same comment about pointers there.
Lastly I want to go to a top quality massage place. I've never had soapy, nuru or really any kind of erotic massage experience. If you all could pick one place with the hottest girl / best service combination, where would you go? I'm looking for two girls for a couple of hours and anything goes (condom for sex is fine). Suggestions appreciated.
Any experiences I'm missing that shouldn't be missed? Also, if anyone knows girls there that I should consider please let me know. I'm working on getting a membership here so I can PM.
Thanks everyone!
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[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;3073749]In addition, the monger himself comes with variables that can affect pricing. If two mongers approach a girl wanting to cornhole her, the first is slim and packing six inches with the girth of a #2 pencil; the second monger is heavyset and packing nine inches with the girth of a Coke can. The slim fella is mild mannered and looks like a soft stroker. Meanwhile, the heavyset fella is more aggressive and looks like an ass pounder. The girl knows that the second monger is likely to leave her cornhole out of commission for a day or two, so she factors that into her pricing and charges him more. Two mongers, same hooker, different prices.[/QUOTE]Old man, small boom boom, big money. Young man too much boom boom.
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[QUOTE=EihTooms;3073666]That's not to say you walk into any gogo bar and start throwing money at the mamasan. Then again, I can't say from experience that wouldn't work out well for my purposes too. LOL. I've never done it that way. I do at least vet the mamasan first by having her sit with me, perhaps buy her a drink, introduce myself and tell her what I want with some among her girls who are up for it with me, specifically the BBFSCIP part. If she recoils in horror at the very idea of such a thing and there will be some who do, I thank her for her time and move on. That mamasan is less than useless for my purposes. But every now and then a mamasan will take the assignment seriously and will hook you up royally with the 3-4 girls in bar she knows can and will make a special customer happy in that way. Those are the mamasans who earn their money and the girls who get my business, often repeat repeat and repeat business.
[/QUOTE]In the case of my favored mamasan, I first met her in early 2022 and was actually introduced to her by a fellow punter while a 3rd punter was with us. The three of us each bought lady drinks while the mamasan soaked in that we may all be big spenders. Since then, that mamasan has worked at 4 Nana Plaza bars and she recently sent me a Line message that said she is changing back to her second bar, which is valuable information for me. It took about 4 visits before we saw eye-to-eye: I need pretty girl with CIP and mamasan gets good tip. Mamasan has delivered many times since then and each time she gets a good tip.
Regarding a mamasan who "recoils in horror at the very idea of such a thing", sometimes they change their tune. In March I asked a mamasan which girls do BBFS and she cringed and said "none". A few minutes later she came back and said she had a few who would do no condom, but they would insist that I finish outside. In another few minutes she said I could ask the girls if they would allow CIP. Her available BBFS girls were not to my liking, but I gave that mamasan a decent tip (200?) for future reference. It takes time to effectively court a mamasan.
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[QUOTE=AsianRain;3073701]These recent posts remind me that descriptors like "first rate" mean different things to different people. For many of us, there are particular services or ways of delivering those services that make one guys gem another guys dud.
Some time ago I came to the epiphany that no matter where or who, I would negotiate not just based on price, but also on service. Gogo, Thai Friendly, Thermae, street walker, beer bar or wherever. When I meet a girl, I make sure she will do the key services that I want at a price point that I can live with. So whether you want to cum inside, get multiple pops, have the girl stay for more than 60 minutes, take it up the pooper, DFK, etc, make sure that your provider understands that you are willing to pay XXX (her expectation), but you expect YYY service (your expectation). Asking other guys what they got with some rando girl at some rando bar is meaningless. Even if a guy says he got service ABCDEFG from a specific girl at a specific bar for a specific price, it never guarantees that the same girl will give you the same service at the same price with the same attitude or feeling. It is up to the monger to [U]negotiate[/U] to ensure he is getting what he wants. Just my view, but failure to align is a good recipe for disappointment down the road. Enjoy, AR.[/QUOTE]Good common sense advice thanks. Any thought on arranging a threesome? Let the girl I'm negotiating with pick the other girl? Of maybe have 2 from TF I find independent of each other come to my hotel?
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[QUOTE=Pokler;3073851]Good common sense advice thanks. Any thought on arranging a threesome? Let the girl I'm negotiating with pick the other girl? Of maybe have 2 from TF I find independent of each other come to my hotel?[/QUOTE]I've never done it myself, but I think the general consensus here is, that when you want a threesome it is best to let girl number one pick girl number two. Because she will pick a girl that she knows and is comfortable with.
Asking 2 girls from TF who don't know each other to come to your hotel, can work out just fine or be a total disaster. It's not recommended, I think.
Also: tell the girls in advance what you expect from them, and be very specific. For example:
Do you want a BJ from one girl, and FS from the other one? Or do you want a BJ and FS from both of them?
Do you want them both in your bed, or is it OK that one of them is 'hiding' in the bath room while the other one is in bed with you?
Do you want them to do lesbian stuff with each other?
And be aware by the way, that most hotels will charge a fee if you want to bring more than one visitor to your room. Usually something like 1000 baht.
Only in high end four and five star hotels you will not have this problem.
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[QUOTE=Pokler;3073851]Good common sense advice thanks. Any thought on arranging a threesome? Let the girl I'm negotiating with pick the other girl? Of maybe have 2 from TF I find independent of each other come to my hotel?[/QUOTE]Almost no experience with threesomes. They just don't work well for me. Mogwai's advice sounds very sensible.
One post I read before on this subject resonated with me. The poster, who expects the girls to fully interact with him AND each other said something like "I tell the girls right there in the bar to DFK each other. If they can't do that, they are disqualified from barfine for threesome. " Enjoy, AR.
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[QUOTE=Pokler;3073851]Good common sense advice thanks. Any thought on arranging a threesome? Let the girl I'm negotiating with pick the other girl? Of maybe have 2 from TF I find independent of each other come to my hotel?[/QUOTE]I'd recommend Filipino duo from Mass Rep, they'll bring their box of sex toys and everything. They are hot too better than their photos. Excellent English too. Proper Pro's.
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[QUOTE=AsianRain;3073909]Almost no experience with threesomes. They just don't work well for me. Mogwai's advice sounds very sensible.
One post I read before on this subject resonated with me. The poster, who expects the girls to fully interact with him AND each other said something like "I tell the girls right there in the bar to DFK each other. If they can't do that, they are disqualified from barfine for threesome. " Enjoy, AR.[/QUOTE]In all the years that I have punted in LOS, I have never had a full on bisexual 3-way. It has always been 2 girls on me with one girl either blowing me or shagging me cowgirl while I make out with the other girl or have the other girl sit on my face: so very little interaction between the girls. I consider this form of a 3-way fun, but definitely 2nd tier. Oh well, that's Thailand!
Then during covid when I was locked out of Thailand, I went to Brazil for the 1st time and guess what? I started receiving real, full on 3-ways IE 2 girls blowing me at the same time while making out with each other down below and one girl and myself simultaneously going down on the 2nd girl and vice a versa. There is just no comparison between this real form of 3-way and the 2nd tier 3-way that I described above.
Incidentally, there is a 3rd tier of 3-way prevalent in the PI where I have had sex with one girl while the 2nd girl waits on the balcony or in the bathroom for her turn. Obviously, this is not a real ménage a trois, but it's the best I have gotten in AC and in Makati the best I have had is tier 2 ménage a trois.
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[QUOTE=AxelHeyst;3073935]In all the years that I have punted in LOS, I have never had a full on bisexual 3-way. It has always been 2 girls on me with one girl either blowing me or shagging me cowgirl while I make out with the other girl or have the other girl sit on my face: so very little interaction between the girls. I consider this form of a 3-way fun, but definitely 2nd tier. Oh well, that's Thailand!...[/QUOTE]Ditto. I don't think a girl on girl thingy would do anything for me. In 50 years of mongering, only had 2 3-somes. Once from Soi 7 Beergarten and once from Voodoo in Nana Plaza. In both cases, the broads were friends. In both cases, one sucking my dick and the other sucking / licking my balls. Beergarten chicks took turns using my camera to video some sucking and fucking action provided by her friend.
Sam.
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[QUOTE=AxelHeyst;3073935]In all the years that I have punted in LOS, I have never had a full on bisexual 3-way. It has always been 2 girls on me with one girl either blowing me or shagging me cowgirl while I make out with the other girl or have the other girl sit on my face: so very little interaction between the girls. I consider this form of a 3-way fun, but definitely 2nd tier. Oh well, that's Thailand!
Then during covid when I was locked out of Thailand, I went to Brazil for the 1st time and guess what? I started receiving real, full on 3-ways IE 2 girls blowing me at the same time while making out with each other down below and one girl and myself simultaneously going down on the 2nd girl and vice a versa. There is just no comparison between this real form of 3-way and the 2nd tier 3-way that I described above.
Incidentally, there is a 3rd tier of 3-way prevalent in the PI where I have had sex with one girl while the 2nd girl waits on the balcony or in the bathroom for her turn. Obviously, this is not a real mnage a trois, but it's the best I have gotten in AC and in Makati the best I have had is tier 2 mnage a trois.[/QUOTE]I have done quite a few threesomes here in New York and the fast vast majority there's very little interaction between the girls. Here in New York and the vast majority there's very little interaction between the girls. But I don't mind since in New York is very expensive at least $600 per hour for two girls so in that time I want to maximize the service given to me. On all cases I have one give me a blow job or the other one lick at my ass. Double blowjobs are very common. And of course one sitting on my face while I cowgirl the other one. But pretty much there is DFK three-way DFK. But that's extent of the girls playing with each other pretty much. But when I go to Thailand since all this is just a small fraction of the cost that I'm used to I want to do multi hours so a good part of that time will be the girls playing with each other.
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Threesomes
Having your first choice choose the second girl is the safest way, I've heard some horror stories when the girls didn't get along. However, I always insist on choosing both and haven't had a problem, but maybe I've been lucky. I'll also look for girls in the bar that have the appearance of being friends. Some girls in my stream appear twice, usually with a different tag team partner. The other rule I follow is no girl-on-girl, because I want to exclusively be the center of attention. If you can't make up your mind between two girls, then take them both. Cheers.
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