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[QUOTE=Barba; 1275392]Starchild, you once again display what a fantasy castle you live in. I like the consequences of your fantasy world. It is respectful. Yet it is 100% pure imagination. Subjective fantasies. A bit like religion. Pure fantasies but still quite a nice outcome for the most parts. Like the Philippines as well. Nice but so f*cking distorted.

I dress well, even when I [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] the weak in the face, so gents please have my blessing to wear whatever the h*ll you wish. It is all just subjective opinions by people who grip every straw to make themselves (ourselves) fell better during this short and pathetic visit on earth. Dressing like redneck Joe will make it harder to score girls since they also live in a fantasy world, but deep inside we all know that the length of the cloth on your legs has nothing to do with anything.

Thank FSM (replace with whatever fantasy alpha male in the sky you believe in) we are more people seeing the (absence of) light every day:

[url]http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-14135523[/url]

Barba[/QUOTE]One of the most endearing talents of my good friend Barba is his ability wax philosophical over even mundane statements. I agree that, in terms of meeting of objective of scoring with multiple, nubile young things, one's dressing style probably doesn't matter. I've seen the archtypal shorts / dirty tee shirt / flip flop and beer belly types dragging around lovely young things. On the other hand, I tend to cringe when I encounter these types, since I agree that the way one dresses says something not only about his self-respect, but also about the respect he has for others. To see guys walking around in outfits I wouldn't even sleep in just turns me off and I tend to avoid venues that would attract the badly dressed. It's a personal preference, but a strong one.

GE

And have offered apology and consider this hatchet buried.

Sent PMs here in an effort to clarify but got no response so I tried DIA.

Drinks on me if anyone cares to join.

[QUOTE=Blazepontaine; 1275011]I am the person in question whom UP claims "outed" him to his gf. Please allow me to give my side of the story.

I'm not a very active member of this forum (2011 was my last login) and only learned about this when UP sent me a message on DateInAsia of all places. Last year UP, his gf and some other americans met up at ayala for my bday. After that we went for a small barhop together. UP and I are acquaintances and only met that one time. We've exchanged a dozen or so emails over the past year and a half.

Last week I ran into a buddy at Seattle's Best Coffee Ayala and he was sitting with two girls, one of the girls was UP's girlfriend. I joined them and she remembered me from last year but I didn't remember her. She said she always sees me at julianas with different girls. I've been here for 4 months and only been to julianas about 5 times, so for her to see me there all the time means she is the one there all the time. The sexy hostess at sumosam who I've liked for a year came up and talked to her. Realizing they were friends I asked to be introduced but the hostess was leaving so UP's gf and I exchanged #'s with the intent of txting me the hostess's number later.

While we were sitting together UP's gf was checking her YM, DIA, pinalove, and having an x rated discussion with a guy on facebook. UP was also Yming her and she told him she was with Blaze. UP acted like he didn't know me so I told her to message him "ISG ultrapilot". I didn't say he is a member of Internationalsexguide. Com and his screenname is ultrapilot, its a website about foreigners fucking filipinas and posting pics. I'm not stupid, I know the monger code and don't reveal sensitive information. There is no way she could know anything about ISG. Furthermore, if you do a google search for combinations of ISG, cebu, ultrapilot ultra pilot, or UP's real name, nothing at all comes up.

I realize now it was a mistake to even divulge that minimal amount of information to a filipina. And I've apologized several times to UP for this breach of protocol. However, for UP to claim that this is the reason for their breakup is a flat out lie. First of all, she told me she isn't UP's gf and she meets tons of foreigners. Her friend that was meeting my friend is a total working girl and has fucked another one of my friends since that meeting. Birds of a feather. She won't stop texting me and wants to meet one of my friends who came up to us at seattle's best. I gave her his number and he told me she texts him ten times a day wanting to meet. I have deleted her number and told her to stop texting me. She also begged me to give her 3000 and offered her iphone as collateral but I politely declined. She also claims that UP stopped paying tuition last year.

I could say a few more things but its not like I broke up a happy marriage here. UP fucks other girls and she fucks other guys. The one time I met UP he seemed like a cool guy but he definitely overreacted in this situation.

Blaze[/QUOTE]

Didn't mean to imply she was my life partner but I have been helping her in no small way to get through college.

Gather she had numerous reasons to want to be rid of me but it didn't help in the heat of our discussions to hear her mention my ISG handle.

How much of it she put together I am unsure, at the time it seemed like a biggie, in my 20/20 hindsight maybe not so.

Have extended an olive branch to Blaze and harbor no ill will.

Cheers

[QUOTE=Barba; 1272383]Take no prisoners if she is your life partner! If someone fucks with my family, I will make him or her feel my pain severely. If it is "just another girlfriend" that was affected, you should perhaps just let go of the hot coal.

Your reaction should of course relate to your loss. No protocol can explain what you need to do. Forget pride and ask yourself if he really harmed you or if he did you a favor?

B.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Col Law;1274912]Just came from the Cebu office (going for an extention) was refused entry because I was wearing shorts, sorry if this is old news or a repeat. Trousers of course can be rented 100 peso[/QUOTE]I only ever put up my episode at the immigration office in the first place so that others do not make the same mistake as I did, but others wish to pass comment on the dress code or non that some people follow, how shallow people can get is beyond my reasoning. To me the only time to worry about dress code, is if you get refused entry as I did, clothes do not maketh the man no matter what country your in. It may seem stupid the girls always say my wallet is sexy I do not know what they mean

Have access to the lounges at Radisson and Marriott so perhaps we can have a get together.

Location dependent upon the day. Mid days are best for me.

I have some champagne and lounge drinks.

Marriott on weekends has decent snacks too.

Any takers PM

[QUOTE=Barba; 1275392]Starchild, you once again display what a fantasy castle you live in. I like the consequences of your fantasy world. It is respectful. Yet it is 100% pure imagination. Subjective fantasies. A bit like religion. Pure fantasies but still quite a nice outcome for the most parts. Like the Philippines as well. Nice but so f*cking distorted.

I dress well, even when I [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] the weak in the face, so gents please have my blessing to wear whatever the h*ll you wish. It is all just subjective opinions by people who grip every straw to make themselves (ourselves) fell better during this short and pathetic visit on earth. Dressing like redneck Joe will make it harder to score girls since they also live in a fantasy world, but deep inside we all know that the length of the cloth on your legs has nothing to do with anything.

Thank FSM (replace with whatever fantasy alpha male in the sky you believe in) we are more people seeing the (absence of) light every day:

[url]http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-14135523[/url]

Barba[/QUOTE]Did I hit the nerve somewhere barba. LOL. You are making it too complicated than it has to be man. Whats wrong with dressing well and moving on with times. As GE and SA mentioned. These types have become too common in Asia now. Nothing personal.

Being from India, I came to know, South East Asians, Farangs and no one likes our curry smell. I thought its natural whats wroung with it. Spices and curries are good for health. My ego got the better of me. But my 5000 years of cultural history was wroung. I made effort to correct it and everyone was happy.

I make an effort to not smell curry at all. So that others don't get annoyed of my smell. You probably never heard people complain in Asia about the dress of farangs. Because, here people are too passive to judge or make negative comments mostly.

No matter how poor a Filipino is. He always tries to dress well and make an effort not to smell at all. Its easier this way in metro's and in malls. If there was nothing wrong it, the immigration office would not have banned shorts. I went further and in good faith. Just pointed out the obvious which never was mentioned here.

[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88; 1275596]SC2012,

I prefer to wear cargo shorts t-shirt and flip flops when running around on days when the mercury levels are elevated and the sun is high in the sky. Summer is upon us in the Philippines, shorts and stylish flip flops are a must to avoid melting in jeans or long pants. I do not wear shorts and flip flops when going anywhere official or out to dinner in the evening.

I can agree that some guys look fugly in the way they dress, but to each there own. I guess some guys are lauging at me too from time to time so what goes around comes around. The guy would look funny and stick out if he was back in the west, but he is in the Philippines where westerners can and do wear anything. Atleast I have not seen many westerners sitting outside a carinderia, with there shirt rolled up to expose there jelly-belly drinking red horse.

I also think that other westerners can look at another westener and tell if that guy has money or is travelling on a budget (generally speaking). I find the local population has a harder time. They just see a foreigner and think we are all millionaries, but we can look at another foreigner and tell with just a glance they are budget backpackers travelling on the cheap or a retired guy on SS.

I do recall a discussion on ISG years ago about some special plaid pants that made me lmao. I vote to bring back the plaid a-la Ron Burgundy style! You stay classy Cebu. *big grin smiley*[/QUOTE]I agree. Can you imagine if 100 Indians came up with that attitude in Cebu and said. To hell with it, its my money. I don't care what they think about my smell. I'm going to do whatever I feel like doing. Half of the cebu will be empty with an epidemic sign of smelly plague. Not saying all Indians are changing. But with comments from Farangs, filipinos about our smell. Most of the Indians are changing.

We in India think its ok with our curry smell as have our 5000 years of curry smelling was no issue. However, when we went out, we realized its a big problem for others. There are now big debates in India about smell and the use of deodorant in our society.

Its just an impartial observation about farangs dress and the reason, they got banned in immigration. Obviously there was some issue. I did not ever read any Indian going bonkers about smelly indian comment here. We learned and move on. I tell every Indian who ask my advice on visit to PH. To take care of our smell and bring in expensive deo's etc.

I don't want anyone to suffer because of my hygiene, if I go to any filipinos birthday party, I dress well, 'because I don't want him to feel embarrassed about me around his other friends thinking. What kind of smelly badly dressed Indian friend you have.

When in Rome.

[QUOTE=GoodEnough; 1275602]scoring with multiple, nubile young things, one's dressing style probably doesn't matter. I've seen the archtypal shorts / dirty tee shirt / flip flop and beer belly types dragging around lovely young things.

GE[/QUOTE]GE.

Are you referring to me. (why are there no smileys!) But I smell nice, speak well and look like Brad Pitt so that also helps regardless of dress code and why I drag a few lovely things around LOL.

But in some places I have been the dirty vest, unshaven and smelly westerner is not for me either. And I agree you can tell a man by his dress even if is the above

[QUOTE=Starchild2012;1275779]Did I hit the nerve somewhere barba. LOL. You are making it too complicated than it has to be man. Whats wrong with dressing well and moving on with times. As GE and SA mentioned. These types have become too common in Asia now. Nothing personal.[/QUOTE]Sure it hits a nerve, but if it I need to explain what nerve it hits, I will just let it rest for now. Blink. I just want to urge you to consider what true respect for a mans or womans freedom of choice really is. Conformity to majority? Fantasies about what to show or not to show? I know I am just agitating now, but the topic interests me. Fantasies of mankind. Burkas and long dresses. Evolution will sort them out. Religion will die.

Nothing wrong with dressing in long pants (or what you might refer to as "well"). But it just has nothing to do with respect or disrespect. Some people just likes shorts, and if that is perceived as disrespectful, it is just in the head of the viewer. If a smell is bad, it will require isolation the one that smells bad and can be considered disrespectful, even thought it most likely is just thoughtless. Koreans fart in my elevator all the time. Or burp. Or both. Clothes will not require distance to avoid an immediate discomfort.

I normally wear shorts only when I am in water. Most days I dress for business, but this is since I travel light and must carry these clothes anyway. It also attracts pussy, because females are lazy and shallow. It is like a signboard saying "choose me, I have money that you can get without working anything but your little beaver". When I am an old, fat alcoholic I will also dress in shorts and shirts with flowers that match my red and swollen face. And I will sit next to you, Starchild and smell your curry, while we discuss all the pianys we liked and loved. LOL.

Barba

[QUOTE=Ultra Pilot;1275714]Have extended an olive branch to Blaze and harbor no ill will.[/QUOTE]Bros before hoes.

B.

BTW Where can I buy Cialis / Maca in Philippines? Specifically in Manila.

Thank you.

[QUOTE=Fralalala; 1277997]BTW Where can I buy Cialis / Maca in Philippines? Specifically in Manila.

Thank you.[/QUOTE]This is the Cebu section, please post your question in the Manila section. If you can't find the Manila section don't worry, just ask the immigration officer upon landing at NAIA or MCIA if they have any Cialis for sale. If you get no reply, ask the customs officer and they will provide you with [b][i]SOMETHING[/i][/b]. *wink smiley*

In Cebu fake Vitamin C and V can be bought from touts around fuente osmena. Up to you to make a deal on price. The only time I bought from the street was back in 2009 and it did NOT work. You can buy the real thing from mercury drugs or some other pharmacy but it will be more expensive. Try the mercury drug location on the corner of fuente circle and Mango.

Enjoy the Philippines.

Frenzy, just wanted to thank you here in public for an enjoyable evening. I learned a lot. Enjoyed seeing how you pulled it all off. Also the neiborhoods. The girl who walked me out would not even let me buy her a pop. She is everything you said. I can say it is not the life I would want. But it was good for me to see it. Thanks again. I stayed pretty much with the same girl the whole time there. Went out one night alone to Mango sq. And went to Qeensland in Guadalupe for an hour. Then went to the old silver dolllar and went to Q, again for about two hours. Two girls. Mamasan at the old silver dollar seemed straight up and honest. I have found asking their advice and following thier recomendations have workded out well for me in the RP scene.

Missed You David and WR. Would have loved to buy you guys whatever.

Rented a car. In cebu this is a hard thing to do. Drove up the coast in the north. Went to Coco palms in Danao for two nights. They are adding 25 new rooms and the ocean is clean there. Then went up to Bogo and San Regim for three nights. Nice hotel out in the middle of nowhere. And drove back down the west coast and across the mountians to cebu. Lots of construction on the west coast road. Saw the country side and know that is not for me. I am a city boy. Went to my A / A meetings at the redemporist church. Keep me grounded and went to mass their on Sunday also.

Well, I have been burned out before and am sure I will fall back into my old desirers again. But I did a lot of thinking and site seeing this last trip. And feel different about RP. It is one dirt poor country. The hospital system is a mess. But have been told a few of the private are good. Wish you could own land and house. I guess I would allways be a renter. So would not build a tool shed or stuff to do in my old age. Knowing I could not leave it to my kids. I am still on this journey called life. Want to find happiness. But know it is fleeting. Thanks for all the input from you guys over the years. Sorry but the girl would not allow pictures. I did try. She cryed and so I gave up. Would not even allow me to use the butt plugs I brought. So no anal. But she does seem to like to suck dick, Just not CIM. Makes you wonder what you are paying for. You all know the steady ones cost less than wifes but more than bar girls, RIGHT. God bless. RED

Hello again gentlemen,

I propose this question to those who live in cebu and ajoining area. Are there any hotels that offer club membership? I think there are a few golf clubs but I not play golf but would join is it gave me access to their facilities, for example, when there was a cebu plaza I bought a sports club membership. Nothing to do with staying at the hotel. I could come use their swimming pools anytime. Discount at their mini golf, and shooting range. I stayed in an apartelle near cebu plaza and could walk to the "old" cebu plaza to enjoy the day. A club membership is worth it if one visits cebu often. I go back to the days where there was one bridge connecting mactan to cebu proper. I miss the old magellan hotel that had a nice pool.

I miss the "balls" club that was own by the ruieller family. The pawnshop king. My spelling is off. French name. The only things that have really changed is more people and higher prices but cebu still better than manila every day of the week.

[QUOTE=MangoBob68; 1278711]Hello again gentlemen,

I propose this question to those who live in cebu and ajoining area. Are there any hotels that offer club membership? I think there are a few golf clubs but I not play golf but would join is it gave me access to their facilities, for example, when there was a cebu plaza I bought a sports club membership. Nothing to do with staying at the hotel. I could come use their swimming pools anytime. Discount at their mini golf, and shooting range. I stayed in an apartelle near cebu plaza and could walk to the "old" cebu plaza to enjoy the day. A club membership is worth it if one visits cebu often. I go back to the days where there was one bridge connecting mactan to cebu proper. I miss the old magellan hotel that had a nice pool.[/QUOTE]The only place I know that's located right in Cebu City is the Cebu City Golf and Country Club. I think you can get a social membership or non-golf membership but it will be very pricy. They have a pool, tennis courts and a barber. I posted about it on the "Cebu Golf Courses" thread if you want to read the info.

[quote]I miss the "balls" club that was own by the ruieller family. The pawnshop king. My spelling is off. French name. The only things that have really changed is more people and higher prices but cebu still better than manila every day of the week.[/QUOTE]I don't know anything about the "balls club" as you put it, LOL first time I have heard the name. Not sure if its an old twist on a 'teabag' theme or it was a sports related place.

The clan that owns all the pawnshops is the L'huillier family. The head of the family has a big mansion up on Monterrazas de Cebu sub-division over looking Parklane. It has an elevator built in along with other plunder and riches. LOL.