[QUOTE=Finrod]Perhaps you should have thought about that before you took your low-paying position?[/QUOTE]
Alas without my 'low-paying position', Finrod, I would have no money at all!
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[QUOTE=Finrod]Perhaps you should have thought about that before you took your low-paying position?[/QUOTE]
Alas without my 'low-paying position', Finrod, I would have no money at all!
[QUOTE=Opebo]
Well, the closest thing is when it is free in a financial sense, but you pay for it in [b]time[/b] - sucking up to her, taking care of her emotional needs, spending hours keeping her company, going hither and yon with her, reaming her various apertures, etc. As a perpetually broke mo-fo this is invariably my methodology for non P4P, and let me tell you, it is far more of a pain in the ass than just paying money.[/QUOTE]
Who would ever have thought you would be prepared to do anything for the lady's enjoyment.
[QUOTE=Mick Licker]Who would ever have thought you would be prepared to do anything for the lady's enjoyment.[/QUOTE]
I really don't think 'enjoyment' is precisely the word for what the ladies get out of relationships, M.L. Words like 'reassurance' or 'fulfillment' are more apropos, or perhaps even 'crutch'.
What ever it is it certainly sucks the life out of you compared to good old P4P. Like I always say, if P4P wasn't better than the alternative, they wouldn't be trying so hard to stamp it out.
[QUOTE=Opebo]I really don't think 'enjoyment' is precisely the word for what the ladies get out of relationships, M.L. Words like 'reassurance' or 'fulfillment' are more apropos, or perhaps even 'crutch'.
What ever it is it certainly sucks the life out of you compared to good old P4P. Like I always say, if P4P wasn't better than the alternative, they wouldn't be trying so hard to stamp it out.[/QUOTE]
I agree 100 O and in some relationships its vice versa some guys get all those things out of their ole lady instead of being self-reliant.
[quote=opebo]i really don't think 'enjoyment' is precisely the word for what the ladies get out of relationships, m.l. words like 'reassurance' or 'fulfillment' are more apropos, or perhaps even 'crutch'.
what ever it is it certainly sucks the life out of you compared to good old p4p. like i always say, if p4p wasn't better than the alternative, they wouldn't be trying so hard to stamp it out.[/quote]
i am suffering serious "withdrawal" symptoms are leaving los just over 1 week ago.
yes, this weekend i thought was going to get a few sex sessions with new gik/semi-gf (not p4p but still ends up costing time and money). in the end i got only 1 round of good sex on friday evening.
late friday evening she ate prawns and got gastro and so out of action for the rest of the weekend.
having just one girl just isn't enough. several backup girls are definitely needed.
so i go back to being frustrated for the remainder of the weekend. a least a wank isn't expensive.
its hard to find a regular girl that is horny enough to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] me at least once per day, and sometimes more, but is not a psycho case.
we need a society where polygamy is the excepted norm.
why do humans fight the basic animal instinct to fuck around?
[QUOTE=Mick Licker]Why do humans fight the basic animal instinct to fuck around?[/QUOTE]- Self-preservation (ie, from knife-wielding crazy Thai gfs)
- Catholic guilt (for those of us raised in that organization)
- Worried about losing their wives / families
- General social taboo
To name a few.
Dear Mongers,
I've already stayed at Samui, Thailand for 1 month and I'm planning to stay several months more.
Mostly spend all the week working, and go out looking for girls about 2 days. (also more days, but just a beer or 2). I was thinking about finding a girl to have a "soft" relationship, and see her some days every week.
Just have fun, but also some frienship and caring.
What do you think? Good idea, not? Doable? Any advice?
Up to now I've been with several girls, but for one reason or another I've decided to not meet with them again. I liked one, but it just didn't work so I've stopped seeing her as well.
Regards,
Dardo
[QUOTE=Mick Licker]Why do humans fight the basic animal instinct to fuck around?[/QUOTE]
No doubt because of another base animal instinct - to have power over others. Women just want to control men. It is that simple.
[QUOTE=Opebo]No doubt because of another base animal instinct - to have power over others. Women just want to control men. It is that simple.[/QUOTE]So you've met my wife. :D
Too bad I'm still undomesticated.
[QUOTE=Opebo]No doubt because of another base animal instinct - to have power over others. Women just want to control men. It is that simple.[/QUOTE]
More to the point, they want to control their own future, for which a man is very useful.
Taken From Stickman's website....
Stickman's thoughts:
So you think she is different, right?! She has a modest education yet she speaks supposedly fluent English? Where did she learn, I wonder? She went home with men from a disco for money? So she already made the decision to sell her body! Even if she may have stopped quickly, she still made the initial decision which, I am sorry to say, does say something about her character. It is NOT like she has children of her own to support. You see, that is a big red flag to me. I understand and am sympathetic to a mother who turns to prostitution to support her own children. But when a young woman with no children enters the industry then you have to start asking questions about just what their motivation was.
Of course there are some positives there. If what you say is true about her being particularly clever, this is a most unusual girl. My advice at this stage would be to get an opinion about her from others. Who, I don't know. There is something that just doesn't feel right about everything. Putting you ahead of her mother, for example, is MOST unThai!
[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Taken From Stickman's website....
Stickman's thoughts:
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My reading stops here. Stickman's opinion while it might be informative to newbies is totally worthless to someone leaving here. We know better.
How can someone read the P4P's opinion of a man who does not even go to the massage adn bars? Forget stickman, his website used to be ok but now he is out of date.
[QUOTE=NicFrenchy]is totally worthless to someone leaving here. We know better.[/QUOTE]
So when are you leaving?
Sorry Nic... but I think you mean LIVING not LEAVING ;) ;)
[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]Taken From Stickman's website....
Stickman's thoughts:
So you think she is different, right?! She has a modest education yet she speaks supposedly fluent English? Where did she learn, I wonder? She went home with men from a disco for money? So she already made the decision to sell her body! Even if she may have stopped quickly, she still made the initial decision which, I am sorry to say, does say something about her character. It is NOT like she has children of her own to support. You see, that is a big red flag to me. I understand and am sympathetic to a mother who turns to prostitution to support her own children. But when a young woman with no children enters the industry then you have to start asking questions about just what their motivation was.
Of course there are some positives there. If what you say is true about her being particularly clever, this is a most unusual girl. My advice at this stage would be to get an opinion about her from others. Who, I don't know. There is something that just doesn't feel right about everything. Putting you ahead of her mother, for example, is MOST unThai![/QUOTE]
Stickman, like most of us, enjoys mongering, i.e, fucking multiple girls and paying them money for the privilege. What does that say about HIS character? IMHO, lying, cheating and stealing reveals far more about a persons character than sexual promiscuity.
Why are some guys so quick to condemn a woman for bad character simply because she’s willing to fuck for money, while they can pay for multiple encounters and still considere themselves paragons of virtue?
[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]So when are you leaving?
Sorry Nic... but I think you mean LIVING not LEAVING ;) ;)[/QUOTE]
Yes, I meant "Living". Thanks for pointing my mistake :)