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And you know what? Usually the guys who have low standards, el centro rats, guys with no experience scoring hot women are the ones who are against using the scale. Because pussy is pussy. Guys who actually have good taste in women and have been successful scoring them, who don't mind putting time and effort sourcing hot women, are usually in agreement with each other when it comes to using the scale and rating girls. Check the Seeking thread, or Sao Paulo thread. Only medellin morons are the ones posting crap about how someone's 5 is someone's 10[/QUOTE]Yeah, they are intimidated of the 10's and that is why they make fun of them. I remember reading a pop fiction novel about a guy who had a hottie in the book and he said, "You know the most beautiful ones are the worst in bed", and I so wanted to believe that. LOL.
And the first 10 I had, who was a stripper, WAS lousy in bed. Still, that is what got me to understand what a 10 really was, a woman who drove both sexes crazy. This 10 just smiled at another girl's boyfriend, and his GF went nuts. The GF coaxed another guy to come beat up the 10 when I was sitting with her. She told the GF, "I am not interested in your BF and you know what? If I wanted him, I would have him", and it pissed the GF off even more but I knew it was true. She was the first woman who mentioned sugar daddy to me and how she was looking at a new one. Thing is a friend of hers told me not to do because she bled her former SD dry. It probably was a good thing then she was bad in bed because that is why I declined the SD offer.
The second 10 I met was an escort. She looked like Julie Roberts with a better body. Thing is she was smart, fun, and amazing in bed. We got along well. I asked her about dating. She went through this laundry list of what she expected from a BF. I remember thinking, "Yeah, I will just keep paying you for sex. It is less work. " But I always got the feeling she would never be loyal. Well, sure enough, some guy paid her to be his mistress. I imagine it was a pretty penny and she still reached out to me to see her. I wondered to myself if a 10 could ever be loyal.
So what the Medellin morons are really saying is they are afraid. And there is good reason to be afraid not that they would know why. If you get in a fight with a hot woman, both sexes though for different reasons are going to take her side to curry favor from her. Guys have to learn to leave versus fight with a hot woman because you could totally be in the right, and you are not going to win. The expectation is the 10 types are going to lie, leave the money making totally up to you, use sex to play with you emotionally to control you, and show no loyalty at all. As one hottie told me, who was not a 10 but close to one, "Someone as pretty as me should not have to work. " That is the rule not the exception.
When you start talking about the 4's to 8's, that is when there are tradeoffs looks wise. Maybe you prefer fat to tattoos. Great sexual performance may trump the fact that she is flat chested ETC. Chances are that you will be happier with a loyal, giving 4 to 8 type than a 10 long term. The problem with Medellin morons though is they have no experience with the 10 types and the issues that come with having one.
That last point, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is insane, and there have been scientific studies showing beauty is objective. These guys just do not want to believe it just like I wanted to believe the 10 types were lousy in bed when I read it in a book. So I get the emotion. The difference is I was a horny 18 year old who could not get a hottie versus a grown man who could if I paid enough $.
If you are truly mature, you can say, "I have been with a 10 but I have not found a 10 worthy of my time or money", and I could believe that much more easily versus than this beauty is in the eye of the beholder crap.
