Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=TheDerilious;2918988]Yeah, I zoned out after he went to a girl's family house / party and fixed their AC but was confused why the girl was into him. What did he expect? That the girl was going to introduce him, "Hey mom, here is a random guy that is paying to blow out my back out. But don't worry, it's not serious or anything, he's just using my body for a few days before he goes back to his real family. ".

This is the type of guy that hardens these girls by the time they are 25. They whisper sweet nothings into their ear, cling to the girls for a week or month at a time, get them hoping for something more, and then walk away blaming the girl for getting clingy. I've found that the best way to handle this is to be open with the girl about what you want and keep a reasonable distance to save both you catching feelings. Or date some older women because they will be wise to the game and can "generally" handle the tourist girlfriend role. The naive 19 year old is probably getting her first taste of a guy that has some money and doesn't treat her like trash, a steep departure from her regular experience.[/QUOTE]It's pretty obvious that you are a Captain Save a Ho. How has that worked out for you so far?

First, thanks to those who gave me real input. Point taken. I broke the 3-day rule, was nice / nontransactional, etc. I get it; But I have been very honest with them from the first date. I very clearly said to them all I did not want a girlfriend, wife, or anything serious; let's just have fun, and they all agreed. Granted I should not be doing BF type shit with very young girls expecting anything different. I will have just to do what needs to be done and end it. I was just hoping for a different answer, maybe something I did not know; when there was none.

[QUOTE=ElDonX;2918760]I think it's not your fault as you are an anomaly, just born that way or how they say in Colombia "malparido" You got looks, game, and probably a 30 cm cock, in other words you may have inherited all these traits from a woman with a lot of DNA that gave those qualities, or like they say in Colombia "hijodeputa".[/QUOTE]As for the author of this quote. If you are man enough, meet me face to face and say that to my face. No matter where you are, I will come to you. Drop your location in my PM, and I will show you who exactly is the son of a working girl. If you are in Colombia, we can meet today. If you are anywhere else, I will be there within 48 hours. Lets see how brave you really are. Come through clown, and hit my PM.

[QUOTE=TheDerilious;2918988]Yeah, I zoned out after he went to a girl's family house / party and fixed their AC but was confused why the girl was into him..[/QUOTE]Lmao Mr HVAC repair man thinks he's a player in Medellin but has to ask a hooker board for advice. Fucking ROTFLMAO kinda dumb shit the newbies post here now a days.

My advice to the HVAC repair man would be to stop stringing the girl along.

-Gabacho Out.

[QUOTE=KebabOperator;2919021]But I have been very honest with them from the first date. I very clearly said to them all I did not want a girlfriend, wife, or anything serious; let's just have fun, and they all agreed.[/QUOTE]Have you ever gone out with a chick and she was very honest with you and told you there would be no fucking and you agreed, but then ended up fucking anyway? Sometimes people are very clear about stuff and their actions show they changed their mind.

Do not throw the baby out with the bathwater. I tell chicks on the dating site all the time that you can not "look" for a relationship the same way you can not walk out of your house and look for people to be friends with you. All you can hope to do is meet people. Things progress and develop naturally. In your case 3 things progressed naturally at the same time, but that is not a course you wanted to take.

Hello Gents,

I was wondering if any of you would have a good way for asking a girl you have added as a "Friend" on Facebook in Medellin is down for play for play or not (she may be just a civilian)? I am aware that you can fairly easily spot out the pros, sugar babies, FB girls by their photos, friends, etc. But, some of them look "questionable" if they are FB gals down for action" and could be just normal girls not down for play 4 play.

So, I would not want to offend the questionable ones or get banned by FB by asking if they are down to go out, have some adult fun in return for some pesos. Do any of you have some sort of way to ask these questionable girls in Spanish if they are down for play for play or do I just need to be direct (while risking getting reported on FB) ? Much appreciated.

SB.

[QUOTE=Exoticspirit;2918518]I had previously asked a ton of questions here which peeved off some of the dudes here but as I said, I always give back. My review will likely help the newbies more than the veterans but at least I have current intel. Since Medellin Colombia has been one of the most popular mongering destinations in the world now, I finally took a trip down there this month for a few days. I arrived to Medellin via Panama since I was vacationing in Cayman Islands before my journey to Colombia. At the airport, I noticed that there are big banners advising travellers that sexual tourism with underage individuals is illegal and can result in big jail time. Okay this is a fair issue but I heard that the Medellin mayor has been trying to crack down on prostitution and this was his way of doing it. I agree about staying away from underage girls but this banner campaign is just too much over the top in my opinion and won't stop mongering with adult ladies who consent. Anyway, as I get to the immigration line, I was pointed to go to the line on the far left which is the unofficial line for Canadian passport holders. While the other immigration lines were cleared, only those of us in this last line remained and I saw the folks ahead of my were pulling out their credit cards. This was for the tourist tax that Colombia has slapped on Canadians at 270,000 COP which is about $100 Cad. When it was my turn in front of the immigration officer, I handed him my passport and visa card. He promptly processed the payment and then stamped my passport. He didn't even ask my any questions so it was clear that all they cared was collecting the payment. For all of you non-Canucks wondering why this happening, apparently my Canadian government slapped a visa requirement of some type for Colombians wishing to travel to Canada and this is a way for the Colombian government to get back at us..[/QUOTE]Thanks for the post, insightful and informative.

[QUOTE=StudBucket;2919164]Hello Gents,

I was wondering if any of you would have a good way for asking a girl you have added as a "Friend" on Facebook in Medellin is down for play for play or not (she may be just a civilian)? I am aware that you can fairly easily spot out the pros, sugar babies, FB girls by their photos, friends, etc. But, some of them look "questionable" if they are FB gals down for action" and could be just normal girls not down for play 4 play.

So, I would not want to offend the questionable ones or get banned by FB by asking if they are down to go out, have some adult fun in return for some pesos. Do any of you have some sort of way to ask these questionable girls in Spanish if they are down for play for play or do I just need to be direct (while risking getting reported on FB) ? Much appreciated.

SB.[/QUOTE]For a lot of girls in Colombia the line between BF and customer is one that blends into each other. While you can be 'American' and bluntly ask away; you may find more success by taking a softer approach in a more Latin friendly way, more of a gentleman and less of a monger: "Hi there beautiful, I'm going to be visiting Medellin for the first time and was wondering if you would be interested in a date with me during my visit? Of course, I'll compensate you appropriately for your time and will treat you with respect. If you aren't interested, that is perfectly fine; just thought you were very pretty and interesting. " Google Translate or ChatGPT can give that back to you in Spanish. But you get the gist. I find many girls who may not 'do this for a living' react quite positively and everyone knows what you are talking about when you mention that you are 'visiting' and will compensate her. If you are worried she may not get the hint about it being about sex, can always drop a mention about wanting to experience a fun and passionate night during your trip. Wanting a passionate time is very clear way to explain that sex is part of what you expect, though I think the girls get it when you mention you will compensate them for their time.

[QUOTE=Huacho;2919010]It's pretty obvious that you are a Captain Save a Ho. How has that worked out for you so far?[/QUOTE]Pretty well, I guess. I get to travel internationally and domestically, meet attractive women, have some fun with them and back get to my boring, well-paid middle manager job. I still have my youth so I am trying to live this part of my life to the fullest before settling down. Having grown up in poverty, I can't complain even though I didn't hit it big in crypto. I haven't had to deal with clingy girls since I don't string them along and I'm not looking to fill some sort of emotional need for a relationship. And the majority of mongering experiences have been positive for me, usually pseudo romantic, open-minded and fun. There have been some bad experiences but I'm not a checklist kinda guy so the majority are what I'm looking for and leave me satisfied. And no, I'm not here to save any "hos", I'm looking for pleasure, not a relationship. I just don't pretend it's anything different or try to take out some deep-seated frustration about women on these girls.

By the way, I booked my ticket for Medellin during the first two weeks of August so if anyone wants to hang out, reach out over PM. Would love to hang out and shoot the shit.

There is plenty of information about New Life casa on this forum and I am just adding to it. Here is a picture of the price card from a couple of weeks ago. If you are walking to New Life from Plaza Botero, I recommend you take the route I have highlighted in the attached photo of the map. This route is busy with people and has many shops along the way so it is safe and scenic.

[QUOTE=Gabacho;2919042]Lmao Mr HVAC repair man thinks he's a player in Medellin but has to ask a hooker board for advice. Fucking ROTFLMAO kinda dumb shit the newbies post here now a days.

My advice to the HVAC repair man would be to stop stringing the girl along.

-Gabacho Out.[/QUOTE]First, this "Hvac repair" man does not think shit, he Knows precisely who he is. I was just asking about people's experiences to see if it is normal for girls to go from 0 to 100 in a week and become Grade A clingers as I am new to Colombia not the hobby. I never claimed to be a player, etc. I live my life, and I do well for myself wherever I go. I was simply asking veterans for their input and experiences, but this board seems to be populated by a good number of losers behind keyboards talking shit and not offering any valuable information or advice (which is the primary purpose of the board such as this). Just hiding behind keyboards with their fake online persona.

Second, this "HVAC repair man" has more degrees and honors / awards than your entire bloodline combined, so if you are going to talk shit and be derogatory, buddy, pick someone in your own weight class and tax bracket.

Finally, for the record, just because someone understands a simple engineering scheme does not make them HVAC repairs man. Not that there is anything wrong with people doing HVAC or other blue-collar jobs. Read a book, maybe you can help your subpar IQ.

[QUOTE]Veterans, I need your input: I think I fucked up. Thus, please share your experiences with similar things.

I went the local girl route, and 3 of the girls caught feelings. One literally shows up to my place unannounced with food and shit, and I had to move APTs because of that. Don't get me wrong, these are all nice girls but I am not looking for a wife, responsibility, kids, headaches, etc. Wtf do I do to let them down easy and not cause a whole scene? I don't need heat from locals.

The other girl I got invited to her family's place for a party. While I was there, a freaking AC broke, and everyone was very upset, and I was like easy fix, that's a capacitor so I said get on your bike, take me to a shop to buy this. It's literally a 15-minute fix. There are other things that happened, but basically, this girl is legit asking for kids now. I told her I am a fucking hoe etc she does not care. Tells me its okay. She does not ask for money, cooks, and cleans my place without me asking. Literally became my DD / Taxi. I was stumbling out of a bar one time she saw me when she was out with friends, took me home, took care of me. Then I got cold as well as Deli belly because I got caught in the rain and ate some stupid street shit in the barrio. I did not answer on WhatsApp and kind of disappeared. She showed up with her sister and with groceries in tow. They deep-cleaned my place at the hospital level clean. This 21-year-old girl literally was spoon-feeding me soups watching Rick and Morty in bed with me sick for 5 days. I was helping her do her university homework in bed; every morning, I got woken up by a BJ etc. Like the whole wifey treatment. Either she is a fantastic actress or caught feelings hard and basically told me okay for an open relationship on my part, closed on her; but I still don't want to string her along. How the fuck do I get out of this as words are not getting through to her head? She does not mind me sleeping around, even hitting on her friends, drinking, or smoking as long as she gets to sleep with me at night. Not even sex, she just want to sleep with me every night. This is getting so weird. Like I go home from work and find her sitting on my steps waiting for me. To be honest, I like her the most out of the roster, but she basically dropped everything for me, and I don't want to ruin a good girl's life. The other day, I had to force her to go to University as instead, she was going to market to run errands for me because I said I needed x why z.

The third girl I met in Naufrago is some sort of celebrity or something here. She has a kid and basically wants a steady man, and I was very clear I am not that. She won't leave me alone; all day, she blows up my phone. She saw me at an event thing by Cabra Andaluz and caused a whole scene with crocodile tears, etc. , and tried to fight the girl I was with. She knows a friend of mine who is a local and blew up his wife's phone about me. The other day was sitting outside my old place crying in her car until I got a call from a neighbor. My neighbor was laughing at me so hard. What flavor of crazy is this? I don't do anything flashy, I don't even wear jewelry, I don't flash cash. I don't even have a car or speak decent Spanish, LOL. Why? Granted, I am not 65 or ulgy, but girls are going ape shit real quick from 0 to 100 in a week. All I did was invite her for a ride on a rental bike the next day, and she went off after that.

What am I doing wrong? How do I prevent this in the future? Is this normal here? Any real advice is appreciated veterans. Everyone else, you all are also welcome to laugh at my train-wreck of the current situation. [/QUOTE]

Seems like you got oneitis. Was it your 1st in medellin? Be very careful falling for these chicks, they only care about your money. I've had chicks whisper all kinds of sweet nothings, I love you, I might be pregnant with your baby, You don't have to pay me no more because we are BF / GF. If you read some of my past reports I even went to Bello to meet a chicks fam.

Seems like there playing the long game with you and your the one catching feels by how your leading them on.

These putas are very good at extracting money from us. And it's all they care about at the end of the day. Always remember that.

[QUOTE=DownLow123;2919257]Seems like you got oneitis. Was it your 1st in medellin? Be very careful falling for these chicks, they only care about your money. I've had chicks whisper all kinds of sweet nothings, I love you, I might be pregnant with your baby, You don't have to pay me no more because we are BF / GF. If you read some of my past reports I even went to Bello to meet a chicks fam.

Seems like there playing the long game with you and your the one catching feels by how your leading them on.

These putas are very good at extracting money from us. And it's all they care about at the end of the day. Always remember that.[/QUOTE]I think he was talking about 3 local girls not putas falling for him.

Money hungry / interested and the long game might still be in play.

But most relationships end up transactional anyway.

[QUOTE=DownLow123;2919257]
These putas are very good at extracting money from us. And it's all they care about at the end of the day. Always remember that.[/QUOTE]I think he said he chooses the non-paying route so he is not paying these girls. You probably know his experience better.

[QUOTE=KebabOperator;2919250]First, this "Hvac repair" man does not think shit, he Knows precisely who he is. [/QUOTE]I think you know what you are doing and you probably know why the girls react to you this way. I think you said this is your choice so you must have confidence given that you are not new to this game. You are not answering the critical piece of information that have been mentioned more than once. My immediate reaction is that you must be extremely attractive that is why you have many girls exhibiting the same behavior. It will be difficult for me to believe you don't know it if that is the case. You can't say you are a 10 because you would be mocked so I said it for you.

[QUOTE=KebabOperator;2919250]but this board seems to be populated by a good number of losers behind keyboards talking shit and not offering any valuable information or advice (which is the primary purpose of the board such as this). Just hiding behind keyboards with their fake online persona.[/QUOTE]They are quite helpful actually, but probably not in this case. Many members meet each other in person so they know others beyond keyboards . Try look at it from their perspective.

[QUOTE=KebabOperator;2919250]
Second, this "HVAC repair man" has more degrees and honors / awards than your entire bloodline combined, so if you are going to talk shit and be derogatory, buddy, pick someone in your own weight class and tax bracket.[/QUOTE]I am asking these to help out so it will be seen less like you are bragging. How many degrees do you have? What is your tax bracket?

[QUOTE=NuKamdev;2919237]There is plenty of information about New Life casa on this forum and I am just adding to it. Here is a picture of the price card from a couple of weeks ago. If you are walking to New Life from Plaza Botero, I recommend you take the route I have highlighted in the attached photo of the map. This route is busy with people and has many shops along the way so it is safe and scenic.[/QUOTE]What did you think about the quality and quantity of women there? Was there BBBJ? Was the sex covered? Affectionate? Thanks.