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[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2924009]Yeah high mileage experienced milfs can be a turn on, but only as an occasional fetish. And I know your joking obviously. Most of them can't breed anymore
[/QUOTE]I can't believe you linked an andrew tate video, the guru of manhood, hehe.

Actually I wasnt joking. Most of my life I have had sexy young things as GFs. Girls that obsess about their looks tend to be false in my experience. I have a very cute young GF now. Why should I replicate that thru paid sex?

And I don't think experience maps with MILF. Most of my best sex encounters were with young and highly experienced.

Am not saying looks play no part for me, but they are a secondary consideration.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2924009]
Women body count matters more then men's, it's science.][/QUOTE]Q for you MT. If you had the choice of paying for an average girl that gives crazy sex, or an absolute stunner that gives average sex, which you choose?

[QUOTE=JustTK;2924136]I can't believe you linked an andrew tate video, the guru of manhood, hehe.

Actually I wasnt joking. Most of my life I have had sexy young things as GFs. Girls that obsess about their looks tend to be false in my experience. I have a very cute young GF now. Why should I replicate that thru paid sex?

And I don't think experience maps with MILF. Most of my best sex encounters were with young and highly experienced.

Am not saying looks play no part for me, but they are a secondary consideration.[/QUOTE]Sorry bro wasn't trying to start a debate or you misunderstood me.

I only said the obvious as to why most men prefer a less experience girl. Not sure how that relates to your follow up questions which are new topics. Certain statements I make, I remove my own personal experience from it and look at things more on a global and factual aspect. Now here you are speaking about your own experiences of girls obsessing with looks, highly experienced, etc which are all not the points I made. Your experiences do not translate to hard facts or majority. Maybe you chose wrong, maybe you chose girls based on superficial looks instead of natural and you skipped the humble, submissive, feminine and educated ones. But in order to detect those, one must also educate himself, and kinna hard to do when the dick is doing the thinking.

Sometimes it's best to keep a topic simple, with logic and facts. Not only about yourself and how you feel.

That said, what I mentioned remains true, and I can speak for all or most men LOL.

1 - Normal girl (nonpro GF) or low mileage semi-pro vs high mileage ho. No debates needed, I hope. I say most men will go for the normal girl or semi pro.

2 - If you want to have a child, most older milfs (ultimate high miles) are done in that area, so you must date a younger girl (hopefully a nonpro for that).

3 - The higher the body count a woman has, regardless of age, affects her mental wellbeing. Many well documents series from experts on this.

4 - Many mongers here still have side or real relationships, I'm sure those girls aint no ho.

5 - Family is everything. When your very old, no one wants to be alone and depressed, so relationships are more valuable than some mongers faking on here like they want to be players forever.

6 - Again, you want to settle and wake up everyday with a ho who fuckd 10-20 guys a day in her youth and still have cum dripping down her mouth, go ahead. But most men prefer to settle w a girl that's a bit cleaner. In this sense there's no right or wrong answer, it's a preference and no extra debates needed.

If you care only about wild sex and only want very experienced hos who swallow on first dates, then that's you. For Mongering obviously that's what we want, but that would scare the shit out of me if I get that from someone I'm trying to have a relationship with. We must always differentiate these two goals.

For nonpro women I have real dates with, I'm always hoping we don't fuck on the first night. Only cause I won't respect her enough to ever make her my real GF or trust her. Fuck no. I want a traditional woman w integrity and respects herself and make me wait till 2nd or 3rd date.

Further, when a fresh girl does not know what to do in bed I get just as exited, I don't need an instant deep throat expert as I can train her; also the pussy's tighter and smells better. You treat a normal girl right and that brings loyalty, a rare thing these days and to real men it's priceless. This is the real prize fellas, this is what most men work hard for; been that way for centuries. Knowing everyday you have a woman who commits solely to you. Of course many mongers disagree on this since most don't believe in the foundation of marriage or relationships and that's OK. Some already had that, some can't due to looks and age, and some have diff views and preferences. But it's the custom of billions and the majority, since the beginning of time.

Regardless of what you do, I always argue here to treat women w respect, hos or not. Just be a gentleman!!

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2924101]I am surprised you have to rely on a translation app in Brazil if you have working knowledge of Spanish, especially after three months of immersion. Aside from that your experience if further proof that knowledge of the local language is very helpful but not do or die. None of us are willingly going to stay in a place where we are involuntarily celibate so it stands to reason you managed to wet your wick well enough.[/QUOTE]Portuguese is difficult. I speak Spanish very well and despite spending lots of time in Brasil over the years, I still have no where near proficient in Portuguese. That doesn't stop me from having a great time.

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2924101]I am surprised you have to rely on a translation app in Brazil if you have working knowledge of Spanish, especially after three months of immersion. Aside from that your experience if further proof that knowledge of the local language is very helpful but not do or die. None of us are willingly going to stay in a place where we are involuntarily celibate so it stands to reason you managed to wet your wick well enough.[/QUOTE]When I began traveling to Brazil many moons ago, I spoke very good if not excellent spanish. It still took quite a bit of dedication and practice to get to my level now in portuguese, which is very good.

I know native spaniish speakers, who after years, still struggle with portuguese.

Getting to fluency in spanish was a b..ch because it was my first language to learn after english, learning and becoming proficient in portuguese has been fun tho.

My mind was already trained and they are very similar in structure.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2924138]Q for you MT. If you had the choice of paying for an average girl that gives crazy sex, or an absolute stunner that gives average sex, which you choose?[/QUOTE]I'll take Both!

It's why I'm in this hobby, for varieties.

Since I'm around hos 24/7 and not on a vacation I mainly deal with average normal girls, 7+ to maintain standard for daily wild sport fucking as extra cardio.

Then 4-5 times a month or weekly I'll grab a real stunner, 9+.

And gladly spend $200 which is 10 x the average $20 cpf I usually spend.

I always expect lower performance from stunners. Sometimes I get lucky with great perf and even BBFS but usually everything covered and lazy average sex. But, my dick stays extra hard and recovers imm w 9+ and no regrets. All men should experience those.

[QUOTE=Balboa;2924184]When I began traveling to Brazil many moons ago, I spoke very good if not excellent spanish. It still took quite a bit of dedication and practice to get to my level now in portuguese, which is very good.

I know native spaniish speakers, who after years, still struggle with portuguese.

Getting to fluency in spanish was a b..ch because it was my first language to learn after english, learning and becoming proficient in portuguese has been fun tho.

My mind was already trained and they are very similar in structure.[/QUOTE]May I ask how you learned Brazilian Portugese? I'm not fluent in Spanish. Hell, I'm not sure I'm fluent in English. LOL But I can carry on a decent conversation in imperfect Spanish. I did put in some effort to learn Portugese. But I struggled. I believe maybe if I was more fluent in Spanish it might have been easier.

I'm thinking about returning to Brazil next year. But the language was a challenge. I got by on my last trip but to the OP's point, speaking the language greatly improves the experience.

[QUOTE=Balboa;2924184]

I know native spaniish speakers, who after years, still struggle with portuguese.

[/QUOTE]So do I. While the structure is certainly similar, the sounds are very different.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2924165]Sorry bro wasn't trying to start a debate or you misunderstood me.
[/QUOTE]We can exchange views here without bad feeling, MT. Don't worry about that. I know some struggle to do it, but I try not to be among them myself.

I think we hit crosswires here. Seems you are mixing P4 P and regular relationships and talking about them interchangeably. Whereas I am talking here about P4 P only, which is what most guys here do. I hold a different opinion if I were looking for a LT GF, but then I wouldn't be going to a casa or strip club and looking for a sexy girl to make her my LT GF anyway.

I would love to read some of the studies you refer to. You say your view is the more common; that might be. But you also said it's what 'we all want', which is where I stepped in to confirm there are different views on this.

BTW your point 6 and onwards. It appears you have a psychological sexual hang up here. I never worry about what a girl did in her past sexual relations. For me it's just a natural desire and action that people do together. I fucked girls in the arse so I fully expect there are girls out there that have been fucked in the arse by others. It's just what we do, like kissing, holding hands, sucking balls, and swallowing cum. No difference. You say we should always respect women, but then you show you don't respect sexually experienced women. You think they are lesser in some regard. This illustrates it well: 'Normal girl (nonpro GF) or low mileage semi-pro vs high mileage ho. No debates needed, I hope. I say most men will go for the normal girl or semi pro. ' . I really don't see why you think its relevant in a LT GF context. And I strongly disagree with it in the P4 P context. Perhaps that's the opression that religion has brought upon people thru society and culture.

I am not debating you. Simply expressing a different POV.

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2924101]I am surprised you have to rely on a translation app in Brazil if you have working knowledge of Spanish, especially after three months of immersion. Aside from that your experience if further proof that knowledge of the local language is very helpful but not do or die. None of us are willingly going to stay in a place where we are involuntarily celibate so it stands to reason you managed to wet your wick well enough.[/QUOTE]Yeah man. Most places I walk in I do manage to get by. Many of them understand spanish including in stores, restaurants, etc. I'm mostly referring to wanting to spend a entire day or weekend with one with zero Eng as I normally do in Colombia. I was hanging out today in a lounge in Centro and a wg was on me dancing and we chatted a bit, started with basic porto then I mixed it w some Spanish and didn't have to pull Gtranslate at all. So I do get by thanks to Spanish for brief or club encounters. But it is my fault, I will dedicate time to learn this shit and stay even longer next time. It's worth it since women here are more friendly and very approachable, quick smiles and quickly invite to you converse. OMG BR is heaven.

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2922566]You dodged some bullets. A 300 K loss and bad headaches are lottery first prizes for what you got into.[/QUOTE]Read his TR in Lima. He thinks being stupid and risking his life is funny.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2922734]I have to agree with you, but with a caveat. What you are saying works with women that are not hookers. Never heard a woman that was not a hooker list the things she is looking for as he says is what will make a hooker do a good job. It is always a bunch of abstract stuff, nothing about being in shape or smelling good. Maybe what he says are things that hookers are looking for in tricks? It seems asinine though because you are the customer trying to impress someone you are paying. He says pay up. Then after that you have to impress her with how you look and a good time. Huh? If my plumber came over here, I would not have to give him over and above the usual amount for plumbers, have an ice cold beer waiting for him, neatly lay out all his tools, and make sure he has a soft cushion to kneel on, all in order to expect him to do a good job.

Then you have to figure these chicks are doing this shit day in and day out. After a while, if you have seen one guy in shape, and one guy smelling good, and one guy showing you a good time, then you have seen them all. You are showing her nothing new. Like the guy that was talking about getting an expensive hotel room so the hookers could be comfortable. Mf she has probably already been there so many times that her and the staff call each other by name. You are in fact casting your pearls among swine. Now for a chick that is not a hooker amd does not go out with a bunch of men, this type of treatment will get you somewhere. But with tricks doing this shit day in and day out for a hooker in addition to paying her, it has surely become mundane and is bringing nothing special out of her the way he wants to think it is.[/QUOTE]"it has surely become mundane and is bringing nothing special out of her the way he wants to think it is".

It certainly makes her SIMP radar go ballistic.

[QUOTE=Combo;2924215]So do I. While the structure is certainly similar, the sounds are very different.[/QUOTE]I'm fluent in Spanish and I spent three months in Portugal and felt pretty comfortable, had listened to some tapes for a couple of months before that, felt like I was doing well. Then I went to Brazil. What the actual fuck. Sounded like a cross between French and Spanish spoken by somebody with a cleft palate. OTOH I could still read it okay. Felt like an eejit for assuming it would sound anything like Portugal. I should have listened to some Brazilian tapes or radio the last month in Portugal, if I had it to do over again.

I am taking a friend to Aruba. I am travelling with her, has anyone had problems getting in? She is 40 so not too young.

[QUOTE=Dcrist0527;2924210]May I ask how you learned Brazilian Portugese? I did put in some effort to learn Portugese. But I struggled. I believe maybe if I was more fluent in Spanish it might have been easier.
[/QUOTE]I was a French teacher. Portuguese is my third language and I learned Spanish after that. To me, none of them are any easier or harder than another. I recommend getting Pimsleur language program, buying a first year text book, large English Portuguese dictionary, and 501 Portuguese verbs from Amazon. Then buy a bunch of index cards. The 501 will teach you how to conjugate the verbs. The text book categorizes things to make it easier to learn. For instance things in a bathroom or parts of a car. Then with the Pimsleur you learn conversation and pronunciation. Make sure you get the Brazilian Portuguese program and not the Portugal one. I have been speaking Portuguese for over 20 years and still don't know what the hell they are saying in Portugal!