[QUOTE=Toastmonger69;3024266] I used a website where you can hire a local to show you around and it cost like $10 an hour and I had a private tour with a 20 something year old girl. The tour was great but I also treated it like a first date and she ended up in my bed at the end of the tour. I ended up spending 3 days with her being my vacation GF and having BBFSCIM (only did it because she wasn't a working girl). She did ask me for 600 k (around $150) after I had left MDE but I didn't mind sending her cash. About 2 weeks after she asked for a mil but I told her I couldn't send it, we still chat.[/QUOTE]I have been listening to Pearl Davis on [URL]youtube.com[/URL] and she is trying to found out how many American women have done sex work. She estimates it is 20%, and I think if that is right, 60% wish they could and do not because they are uncomfortable and / or would have no demand, and then you have 20% that are truly morally opposed.
As for giving her money when you are not there, all you are doing is setting yourself up in the image of an ATM machine. Yeah, I know you are a nice guy sympathetic to helping out a poorer third world girl who has needs but as soon as she gets the money, you are forgotten. Thing is I doled out a $1000 a month to seven different women during the pandemic thinking it would yield great results, and part of it was out of sympathy as Colombians were locked in their homes at that time.
When I went down to Colombia after the pandemic was done, all the women showed up, which was not usual for Colombian women, and from a purely sexual POV, it was worth it, but I got a string of different attitudes from the women. Many wanted more for doing nothing. One thought that meant I was her BF, and even the women who were just P4 P demanded more and more so much so that I got annoyed with them and never saw them again.
If a woman really likes you, she is going to show how great she can be without asking for money. The only reason then to send money is if you want to be seen as an ATM and reserve your space in line which is pretty crazy given the choices you have once you get to Colombia.
