Google & Phnom Penh robbery.
Not sure what is the definition of "safe" here. One can google "Phnom Penh robbery" or "Bangkok robbery" to get an idea about safety level. If you can read Chinese, robbery and briberies and reported quite often in Chinese forum. Maybe the robber only target Asian with a pack or showing a phone, but who knows.
Hotel location. Does it matter?
Been looking at hotels in Cambodia for maiden trip.
So far LE Grand Palais looks promising esp due to closeness to Crycee (breakfast ok? But. Seeing cheap & safe transport is by tuk tuk my question is does it really matter as long as you stay around central market or Riverside?
Pontoon seems close too.
My wishes. Decent sized room, pool, decent Western breakfast options and quiet at night. Prefer FL or pick ups and bring home to hotel room so obviously GF. Price range 60 -80 US.
Read about delivery by Tuk tuk drivers so just wait in room and see what turns up?
Any assistance appreciated.
Hello, I am new here and live in Cambodia for 3 years.
I would like to send you my review of different spots of Phnom Penh, and then, discuss together about it.
We are now in 2018. I am a 29 years old (charming man, sorry but it is). I like to catch middle-range girls under 25 years old.
Let's discuss.
*Hostess bars.
In the dry season (no rain) and week-ends, I discovered that it's actually very difficult or even no more possible to barfine an attractive girl at a reasonable price. The most part of the lady "only drink". The salary of 100 $/ month and 1. 50 $ extra bonus (lady drinks) are enough for these girls. And, if you search enough in plenty bars, you will find someone "ok for barfine", usually a not really young and beautiful girl, at the price of: 50 $ for short time; and 100 $ for long time; "boom boom 2 times maximum" ! (passive sex).
New 2018 rule, I promise.
I feel that in the week (Monday to Thursday) and during the rainy season (August to November) it's easier to get a girl "out" and don't "over pay" because there is no one tourist customer. Only the old selfish expats:-the or at least, people not in the rush and people aware of the cost of life in Cambodia.
I meet last week-end so many tourists so frustrated in the street at around 2 AM saying things like that: " We want find girls for boom boom! It's so easy in Thailand! Here, girls only drink WTF?"
Hum, you seems right, welcome to the new Cambodia.
Something scammy is very new to me and I experiment it a lot during my last evenings there. Here the story: girls drinks with you and * do no say "no for barfine" do not say " I only drink ". Good good, I found it!
"Are you ok for long time 50 $ ?" "Humm humm, why nit why not? # drink drink ". And then! After few lady drinks paid generously and getting horny, when you want " Check bill and bar fine ". Oops, the girl no more go outside. Now changing mind. Have blood period, need to take care baby-mama, miss buffalo or other b.
Now: " I only drink sorry. Or at least 100 $ you know, Cambodia is like that ". Huch!
I am not used to this kind of cheating in Cambodia. But, my bad, I experiment more and more, time to time here:
I guess the prime minister ask the working girls to increase their prices, conspiracy, inside job.
*Massage for foreigners.
The experience it's not so sweet and colorful than in Thailand.
Here the common experience of massages in Phnom Penh:
1 - walking around the streets near the river side of Sisowath Quay, get sweat (f* hot country).
2 - putting my head behind the doors of massage parlor (usually, no body catch you outside).
3 - asking, "you have young girls for massage?? I don't like massage with grand-ma LOL LOL."
50% of massage parlors do not even understand the request and look me "confused" .
25% of parlors have only old-fat-dirty ladies available.
In the 25% left with one young girl available: many time, I order 1 girl downstairs (" you can oil massage me? You? You! OK, massage with you so " go up, get naked and then, they change me the girl by a granny and I have to / grumble-growl / to get my girl back; a young girl who cannot give decent massage and 80% of the time, do not provide any extra-special-happy-happy.
I think around 10 $ for 5 minutes working hand it's a fair deal for massage girl who earn less than 100 $ for a month of 27 days staying at work.
In Siem Reap, you can get a hand job pretty easy near the Angkor Night Market.
* Massages for Asian people in big luxurious building:
I plan to have a look at this kind of shops, but I am a shy Westerners. I need to be caught up on the street and I don't feel comfortable to go inside a big luxurious building with storefront written in Chinese only: " is it secure? They speak English? As a white skin prince charming they will try to scam me or not? Have young girls inside and if not, will be confident to say goodbye save my time and keep my money? ".
I hear about the places in Sothearos Boulevard: "Soul Golden City" ; "Elephant massage" .
Other, where?
Customers Chinese, Vietnamese, Japaneses are used to manage with that kind of place.
What about you western guys?
* KTV.
Same problem here. It's "Asian customers oriented". I guess you have to pay for room, box of drinks, rent girl (s) (100 $ burned already) and then. What? Maybe the girl do not go out?
* Darlin Darlin, Ponton:
Do we really need to pay 100 $ for a short time in Darling Darling?
Or to wait till 3 AM to meet a girl who smokes ice in Ponton?
* Brothels: Massa; shed-garage (next to the Chinese House Restaurant) ; massage parlor for "10.000 RIELS".
I have a look outside that places already and only seen fat dirty ladies who cannot speak a little word of English.
* Street: what Phnom, 51 Golden Sorya Mall.
(Promotion) you can take the risk to get HIV for 10 $ with a dirty lady without teeth anymore. She will be happy to stole everything in your home if you sleep well.
* To conclude:
I stay in this country for few time now. I really love Cambodian people, I am sweet and respectful with any of them. I am used to pay extra money for a job well done.
I understand first they miss some "ambition" : eating chicken feet everyday is enough.
I think also they have cultural mind of "lazy people". OK, they suffer of war 40 years before.
But, they are so poor. The globalisation is here right now! They don't do anything with their country, then, Chinese buy everything: open casino-brothel and put Khmers at work for a nasty salary, when they don't forget to pay them; Chinese also kill khmer motorbike drivers every weeks in the busy streets, driving so fast.
I feel so upset to see people who can potentially get 1000 $/2000 $/3000 $/ month as freelancers (like in Thailand) get scammed by other Asian people who take advantage of the political situation of Cambodia. So sad to see that Cambodians working better as slaves than they work good as entrepreneur, for their own pocket.
Thailand is a modern copy of Cambodia and the land of smile long time taken advantage of the neurotics Westerners to get so many money, building all the Issaan with our perversion.
It seems Cambodia will remain empty. A Chinese annex, like the Tibet.
Thanks for reading, hope to collect a lot of opinion here.
Changing $100 and Meet Up
Hey Everyone,
Thanks for the details on pricing. I'm not one to overpay. I will always walk away if I think I'm being treated like a sucker. I've been doing this in Asia for about 15 years, but slowed down a lot recently. Anyway, is it still a pain in the ass to change $100 bills in PP? The money changer only gave me hundreds. It was a great rate, so I didn't complain.
I'm interested in meeting friends, so if anyone wants to meet-up, please inbox me. I'll be arriving on the 14th. I'd like to do some clubbing and bar hoping.