Thanks for sharing this word of caution bro. I don't hesitate in sharing what ever contacts I have along with my reference all the times.
On numerous occasions I had volunteered if someone is not able to get through, I will jump in to finalize the deal.
This really is a shocker, I will be very cautious going forward.
But then only one question remains in my mind how desperate people are to have sex that they ignore the basic Instinct of homo sapiens and behave like neanderthals.
[QUOTE=Mechie78;2361229]Hello fellows,
(I posted this 2 days back. Still not published. So posting again).
Keeping the spirit of forum and advice of seniors, I have been very liberal in sharing the contacts with anyone who had requested me.
Few days, someone (not disclosing his identity) approached an ISG famous Indie (not disclosing her name) with my reference. She refused to meet him for whatever reasons best known to her.
This guy literally threatened her to ruin her business, putting at risk her identity as well as mine and may be many other ISG members. He might be doing it casually with her. But still not acceptable.
Even, our king Rahul bhai raised the same issue few weeks back.
I have no intention of revealing the identity of the person involved, as I genuinely respect everyone's privacy.
But at the same time I humbly request everyone, not to resort to such tactics. Please don't use my reference or give the reference further to friends without taking me into confidence. This applies to every ISGian. We all need to be very sensitive while giving references of others.
This is very discouraging for all who don't mind sharing contacts. People including me even start thinking of quitting ISG.
Such incidents literally dampen the spirit of sharing in the forum.
I'm sharing this to make everyone aware and be little more careful, wise, sensitive while sharing contacts and references.
Just a sincere request to everyone to be a bit more responsible.
Be safe brothers.[/QUOTE]
