[QUOTE=ShyAndRough;2370974]So I got to know about this forum from my friend who happens to stay in Bangalore and frequently uses this society to acquire different sort of services. I read a lot about New Delhi section (since I live in Greater Noida) 700 pages to be precise, and just at the age of 25 when I was sexually frustrated because of the 0 sex I was getting in life (I am still a virgin) I found this heaven.
Please bear with me as this is my first post and albeit this may be a strange place to do what I am about to do, I think the amiable people here may be able to help me with the same.
I am 25 , Virgin (because I used to believe in sex after love, and nobody fell in love with me, LOL) just joined a govt job in clerical cadre. According to my parents, life is all set and pressuring me to get married. After reading those 700 pages, I realized that I am missing a lot in life and much needs to be explored.
But the primary question is about money. The FR endeavors seem expensive and my job wouldn't be able to give me such monetary exposure.
My question to all seniors (viz Rahul Bhai et al) remains. What they do? What is their occupation? What can I do to be in a position like that?
The questions may seem naive but I would be happy if someone replies to this. I am stuck in this 9 to 5 rut and the boredom is killing me. There is no thrill in the job, no money and no appreciation.
P.S. This career guidance seeking post is influenced greatly by money and money.
ShyAndRough.[/QUOTE]Dude,
Feel for you as I can tell you from personal guidance that mongering is not a cheap option. I have spent upwards of 25-30 k in some months (also included some mongering outside India as well) but all I can say from experience is that if you are a virgin, it is not difficult to score sex. There are so many apps out there where you can find women who are also looking for a fling and not all involve money. I haven't been able to score that way but I know people who are not Greek gods have scored in that arena. Going by the your report, you do have a good grasp of communicating your idea which is A LOT in todays online dating, picking up chicks scene. Obviously you will fumble maybe 10,50,100 times but once you have picked up, there will be no turning back.
Coming to your question, just go for couple of sessions in a month or just start with one. Maybe you will not like the experience at all and get turned off completely. Maybe its the fantasy of doing something that is beyond your reach excites you right now.
Also don't look for thrill in mongering. You will only get thrill the first couple of months and then it becomes a new normal for you. Look for other passion outside work. Fitness, writing, reading, traveling, etc. In the end, all of us have our own journey to complete. Don't compare yours with others.
Cheers, stay safe!
