Pretty much agree with everything
[QUOTE=MySecretLife;2407807]It's been two years since I joined this forum. With out any hesitation I accept that I couldn't score / hunt any indie till now on my own. We still have noble souls in forum who help only based on mutual trust with out any anticipation / reciprocation. I would like to sincerely thank all the fellow forum members, seniors and super seniors who helped a naive like me. I'm not quoting their forum handles to protect their privacy and inbox. In the past one year, I've met few of my forum acquaintances in real life.
Through this post, I would like to document my lessons-learned / observations. I don't take even an iota of credit to the below points. It's all my learning from forum and Senior / Super-Senior members. I'm just trying to collate and distill the information. I'm open for a healthy discussion.
1. In this era, Privacy is a Myth.
2. If it is too good to be true, give it a pass. I've lost around 10 K in May with a fraud SP. Once bitten, twice shy.
3. Remember social engineering is real. During mongering visits, be it to MP or SP or Indie, don't wear any apparel or carry any backpack / bags denoting your current or past employer..[/QUOTE]Probably quality is its worse and price is almost at its peak now.
Recently I went out for beer with two of my mongering friends (they are in ISG as well).
Came to know that one married monger with kids was emotionally attached to a NE spa girl whom he met in some spa in kora.
She was claiming that she is exclusively only for him and started milking money from him and started demanding more and more by giving him sob stories like parents unwell and they need money for their treatment.
Things went out of hand and she started blackmailing him and he came out of this mess clean but end up spending a bomb.
Moral of the story is never emotionally get attached to any WG.
Great Guidance. Additional points
[QUOTE=MySecretLife;2407807]It's been two years since I joined this forum. With out any hesitation I accept that I couldn't score / hunt any indie till now on my own. We still have noble souls in forum who help only based on mutual trust with out any anticipation / reciprocation. I would like to sincerely thank all the fellow forum members, seniors and super seniors who helped a naive like me. I'm not quoting their forum handles to protect their privacy and inbox. In the past one year, I've met few of my forum acquaintances in real life.
Through this post, I would like to document my lessons-learned / observations. I don't take even an iota of credit to the below points. It's all my learning from forum and Senior / Super-Senior members. I'm just trying to collate and distill the information. I'm open for a healthy discussion.
1. In this era, Privacy is a Myth.
2. If it is too good to be true, give it a pass. I've lost around 10 K in May with a fraud SP. Once bitten, twice shy.
3. Remember social engineering is real. During mongering visits, be it to MP or SP or Indie, don't wear any apparel or carry any backpack / bags denoting your current or past employer.
4. Create an alias and social networking profile for mongering. In the privacy settings of our original social networking profile, better to opt for a setting which excludes our profile from search engines. Don't use any telephone number to register with a social networking websites.
5. I don't prefer to have my record / profile on Truecaller. One can login into Truecaller portal and get the number untagged.
6. Never do any online transfers like PayTM, PhonePe, GPay or NEFT or IMPS or RTGS. It is better not to swipe Credit-Card or Debit-Card at MPs where our name would be printed on the merchant copy.
7. Don't use main-stream regular number for mongering. It is always better to use separate sim and phone for mongering purpose or use Parallel-Space and turn off the mongering sim GSM line when not in use. I personally don't keep any pictures or history in my mongering phone. Also, update WA settings so that no-one can add our number to a WA group with out our permission, only via invite. Some of us remember the WA group fiasco created by Ms. J.
8. One can open a Bank account online through Minimal KYC. It is better to use separate account for mongering purposes so that not much audit trail left in main-stream bank accounts. However, it will still have traces of funds transfer from main-stream account to mongering-account.
9. Don't get emotionally attached to any girl and / or lending money. If lending, ensure that amount is not big enough and be prepared to lose it. It is better to avoid electronic transfer in such instances.
10. I'm more of an MP guy. Below tips might be useful for people visiting MPs.
I. Don't sound desperate with a therapist for extras. It would be good to wait for therapist to make the first move.
II. Don' t scoot away after taking service from a therapist without extras payment. Not only you're cheating and breaking the trust, but you're also making tough for others. I'm surprised to learn from few therapists that how people use creativity to run away after extras without payment.
III. Till you build a rapport with the therapist, be polite and respectful in demeanor, don't consider therapist as a piece of meat to gorge-in.
IV. Negotiate counter charges as much as possible. I've walked away from multiple MPs after the receptionists didn't agree for negotiation..[/QUOTE]Awesome Guidance. Couple of additional point to add if I may:
- Treat all ladies with respect. Whether it is a MP, Indie or SP provided. While there are some bad apples, most of the ladies are decent.
- PROTECTION: All of us are adults here and each has a difference tolerance level of risk. Don't wish to get into a discussion on which activity is risky and which is not. That is not the point. You can make a decision on what risk you wish to take.
ALWAYS CARRY PROTECTION. Even if you are visiting a MP. It is possible that the lady might be OK to take it to the next level based on your negotiation.
Avoid exchanging bodily fluids. These activities result in exchange of bodily fluids: BBBJ. The lady might not have cleaned her mouth properly after an encounter with a previous monger who might have an infection in his genital area; BBFS. This is obvious; BB Greek. This is also obvious and more risky.
- Carry an amount that is a just a little bit more than the agreed price or the amount you wish to spend. Otherwise your little head below gets carried away instead of you big head on the top thinking rationally.
- Be clean and wash your private parts thoroughly. If the lady is put off by your stink or lack of hygiene, she will not put 100% of her focus in the session and will try to end it quickly. It will be your loss.
- Groom yourself. Cut your nails, shave your hair in the private parts, etc. Etc.
- Beforehand insist that the lady should not use / touch her cellphone during the session. From the time you meet till the time you separate. It has happened where the lady has taken a photograph / video of the person during the act and used it for blackmailing.
- Compliment on her looks in a decent casual way. Start with her sexy dress and her perfume. And you can surely advance as the session progresses. Compliment her figure, lips, boobs and even her pussy. But do it in a nice way.
- Take it slow and do your part in the foreplay. Try to get her excited. Will make the session more enjoyable. Even though we know that most of the time they are faking it since they are treating this as a profession to make money.
- Some ladies might like it rough. Ensure that you discuss this before you initiate it. Don't discuss anything over the phone. The best time to bring up your fetishes and requests is during foreplay after she understands that you are genuine and respectful. Stop means STOP. Don't force anything.
Pure Gold! Couldn't have put it better!
[QUOTE=MySecretLife;2407807]It's been two years since I joined this forum. With out any hesitation I accept that I couldn't score / hunt any indie till now on my own. We still have noble souls in forum who help only based on mutual trust with out any anticipation / reciprocation. I would like to sincerely thank all the fellow forum members, seniors and super seniors who helped a naive like me. I'm not quoting their forum handles to protect their privacy and inbox. In the past one year, I've met few of my forum acquaintances in real life.
Through this post, I would like to document my lessons-learned / observations. I don't take even an iota of credit to the below points. It's all my learning from forum and Senior / Super-Senior members. I'm just trying to collate and distill the information. I'm open for a healthy discussion..[/QUOTE]Pure Gold Bro! Your advice is extensive and very very valid! For instance, going repeatedly to one therapist. I've had the same experience. Service levels plummet. And their keen to "finish" you off and send you packing.
Do add one more to you gem filled treatise! Do not take a package unless you're going there often and keep a track of start and finish dates of the same. I've had 3 places cheat me on this.
Cheers!