Hello Tinder, bye bye Facebook
95% of this thread is just chit chat so here's some boots on the ground reporting.
While preparing for my trip to MDE, I've felt that FB chica matching has gone off a cliff. I hadn't updated my FB roster for 2 years since I didn't go to MDE for two years. But one month of FB chica hunting hasn't produced much of value before my trip. I got maybe 2 new adds during the entire month. Most girls don't respond, lock profiles, or are not good looking enough to consider. It's showing way more men (probably you guys) than it used to. It also limits your number of new chats per 24 hrs.
After one other board member suggested Tinder, I gave it a try. Yes I was absolutely hesitant about Tinder and other dating apps since most guys who got drugged in MDE seemed to have started out on dating apps. But Tinder has a verified feature where I suppose the girl must match a selfie with their profile photos. Also promised myself not to put anything but water from the tap into my mouth while the girl is in my apartment. So hopefully this isn't my final post on ISG.
Bought myself Tinder Gold. The benefit of Gold is the incognito mode where only the girls I'm interested in can see my profile. You also get unlimited likes which comes from the lower Plus tier. Also if you read my earlier posts, I only do BBFS. The range I've set for myself is 350-400 because I already have a roster of pretty hot girls who would come for 400.
My first day, I created a very brief profile, stating that I'm just looking for mutually beneficial relationships. I used some pictures of myself dressed cleanly, travel pics, nothing special. I set my preference for "short term fun". Somehow I did not get any matches the first night, maybe because it was late or because I didn't verify my photos. Next day, the app asked me to verify my photos and once I did that the matches started rolling in. For me, the girls are about the same as FB-level. Mostly GNDs, a few that I would consider to be hot. Purposely swiped left on the girls with travel pics to Europe, holding iPhone 17's Pros (maybe it's borrowed but I don't care), implants. Once the chat started, I just asked if they're OK with a mutually beneficial relationship and if so, let's move onto WhatsApp. Everyone gets the picture.
On WhatsApp, I propose BBFS and give my offer. I get rejected right off the bat maybe 50% of the time. For the remaining half, half of that ask for too much, so about a quarter will take BBFS in between the 350 to 400 range for an hour. I stick to 350 including transportation. If she asks for transportation and I really want to see her, I'll pay for their return trip. One girl was quite hot and I gave her 400. With the exchange rate as it is, anything beyond 400 is not worth it and I would go elsewhere either for better / similar quality for the same price or lower prices.
I already sessioned twice with Tinder girls with two more scheduled for the upcoming days. It's way easier than FB's current limitations, but probably more risky since there's no established profile, so just make sure you guys protect yourself. Most importantly, do not drink with the girl, ever, even after you've met her once or twice. I might have avoided a scope queen when she asked if I've been to Meddy before and I said yes and she went silent.